We have 2 vibes, a rabbit, a couple scarves that work as ties and or blindfolds, a proper blindfold, a pair of handcuffs, some body markers, sparkly gel, lube in assorted flavors, pop rocks, a string of pussy/anal beads and a drawer full of lingere.
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DenverDon Benevolent
Firmly Embedded in Depravity 5914 Posts 7/02
Posted - Apr 18 2003 : 9:31PM
A latex Wanker wanking glove coated with teflon and lube.
Let me see...buttplug (1 big, 1 small), big bottle lube, 5 various sized vibrators, some flavored lube, condoms, 2 cock rings, 3 small drawers full of lingerie.
Butt plugs, vibrators, waterproof vibes, rabbit-type vibes, lubes, lingerie, Liberator Shapes sex pillows, whip, crop, massage table, menthol 'climax gel' (a gift from a friend), cock rings, bullet vibes, anal sleeves for vibes and bullets, velcro bondage cuffs and straps, a love leash, anal beads, ben-wa balls (came free with a sex toy order), dildoes (sent to me for review), and nipple clamps (can't wear - too small).
We don't usually use toys! We haul one out every now and then for variety. Favorites - probably butt plugs, bondage gear, pillows, and whip.
About a dozen dildos in assorted sizes and made of assorted materials (including GLASS - well, Pyrex, actually) - ranging from about 6-inches in length and about 1-inch in diameter to about 8~9-inches in length and 1.75-inches in diameter
Half a dozen or so butt plugs in assorted sizes and materials - all in "reasonable" sizes
A dozen or so vibrators ranging from a battery operated egg to a pair of battery-operated vibrating nipple clamps to battery-powered, vibrating dildos & butt plugs to the AC-powered Equalizer Pro EQ-700
A FleshLight 2
A variety of cloth, rubber, leather, & metal cock rings and restraints including a leather (with snaps) 5-band gates-of-hell with an incorporated balls spreader
A set of 3-inch width, leather wrist and ankle restraints with buckles & D-rings
A 1-inch width, leather collar with buckles & D-rings
A full leather body harness (interconnected straps over the shoulders, around the chest, around the waist, and through the crotch with an incorporated metal cock ring and butt plug harness)
A padded leather blindfold
A leather web sling with ankle supports
A folding, leather-padded massage table with a cut-out for the genital area
A sturdy 3.5-inch wide, 15-inch long, flexible leather paddle
A variety of lengths of rope & chains plus some clips to link and bind the above gear
Several feathers, a couple of silk scarves, an assortment of creams, lotions, oils, lubes, et cetera, and ice (oh, & condoms)
Oops - I forgot something: 1 pair of official DC Police Force handcuffs (left by a real DC cop who wanted to be used & abused in the rear of his patrol car one evening about 20 years ago)
Welcome to my parlor said the spider to the fly....
Loads of lubes - the only ones we regularly use are ID millenium and Maximus.
Funky Bondage tape - a roll of plastic tape that sticks to itself but not skin.
Handcuffs - little used
Anal beads - the all plastic type rather than the strung ones
Doc Johnson Anal Probe - great toy for the price, a classic.
3 Buttplugs - 2 older ones I should really bin and our new acrylic 'uranus' (as seen on tv).
Various standard vibrators of different sizes
Double penetrator style vibrator (watreproof)
Vibrating Ben-wa Balls (never used)
One of those, all singing all dancing, wiggling bead filled clit vibrating supervibes (hardly used )
'Triple stimulator' a dildo with a ring above you stick you penis through and a little bullet vibe above that to turn you into a one-man vibrating DP machine! (hardly used except the bullet vibe on its own used all the time)
One double dildo: • Dagger-shaped Crystal Fantasy (acrylic)
Two bottles of lube: • 4 oz. Slippery Stuff Gel (almost empty) • 1.7 oz. Maximus (my preference for travel)
Assorted goodies/supplies: • Trojan non-lubricated condoms • Six mini hair clips (for use as nipple and vulva clamps) • A box of emergency candles (for hot wax play) • A box of sandalwood incense and matches (for romance)
I'm pretty particular about what goes into my toy box, which is a handwoven rectangular basket with a lid. All of the above toys are in use. At the top of my current wish list: an inflatable butt plug and a reversible fur/leather paddle.
A plethora of lingerie role play outfits: scrubs and exam gowns baby doll outfits with ruffled anklets 2 pair of marabou pumps numerous pairs of "fuck-me" shoes
deep throat gel 2 tubes of good head gel "Pop Rocks" cock rings gummi candy cock rings cock ring with clit tickler cum cup numerous bottles flavored "wet"
Next on our list also, is a sex swing.
Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before. (Mae West)
Okay, I didn't list stuff like candles and condoms and finger cots and outfits, but mostly I forgot to mention my strap-on, because we haven't tried that yet.
I have a few butt plugs, a nice big dildo for those occasions when I need a big filler, and a pretty good acrylic dildo..
Chillin..
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Moscow 1313 Posts 1/03
Posted - Apr 20 2003 : 1:49AM
Apart from lube and condoms, I once had an artificial pussy. I tried it once before resorting to ordering escort girls regularely. It landed on the rubbish heap years ago. And I hope nobody ever found and took it home from there...
And I'm not kidding when I say we don't usually use any toys. Even when we plan to use something, and we set it out on the nightstand with paper towels and stuff, we get busy and we forget, or we don't want to stop and lube something up.
We set things out, fondly remembering the fun we had last time we used it, but usually, once we are stroking and flipping each other over and locking eyes, neither of us wants to break it up and grab lube and a vibrating cock ring and fuss with it.
On the other hand, I might be in a giggly mood and throw a toy into the mix, and that works too. Maybe once a week we manage to latch onto a sex pillow and a butt plug, or something. Lotsa fun. But the majority of the time, fingers, dick, lips, skin, and spit work wonders! You can do just about everything with those. Don't need no stinkin' toys.
If I was gonna get only one thing, it would be soft bondage cuffs. Second choice, ramp pillow. ---------------------------------------------------------
lindi is right: I've got all that leather stuff and none of it has seen light of day in well over a year. In truth, the idea of it being there is essentially as powerful as using it. It will come up in conversation - which leads to play - which leads to the leather being totally forgotten and not missed at all.
And sadly, the massage table gets used as a work table way too often. It is currently covered with the aftermath of taxes! Portable table space is a premium commodity!
Finally, took inventory of the toy boxes and came up with this abreviated list:
Handcuffs Leg Shackles Wrist restrainhts (leather) Leg Restraints (leather) variety of collars leather hood blindfolds Elk Hide Flogger Bukll Hide Flogger Doe Skin Flogger Cow Hide Flogger Latigo Flogger 4 ft. single tail snake whip 6 ft. single tail whip rope braided cat (flogger) horse hair flogger Matched pair of calf skin floggers for double flogging Folsom box and way too many attachments Tens Unit Violet Wand and atachments vibrating urethreal sound variety of stainless sounds over 100 medical clamps and forceps bazillions of clothespins plexi ball vise ball stocks dozens of CBT toys (Leather and rubber) lots of disposable needles and assorted medical supplies for piercings Duct tape ( lots of uses) Leather paddles Wood Paddles Plexi Paddles lube vibrators (internal and external) lots of latex supplies, gloves and condoms leather gloves
And... most of the time when I am in the dungeon or bedroomI end up using my hands and my imagination. Why so many toys? Well sometimes they just look like something that would be fun, sometimes they are for specific people who I play with and sometimes just because I love new gadgets!
Now the dungeon inventory will have to wait till later.
Okay, I have a question about one of the items that's been mentioned a couple of times. But, before I can ask (my own self-imposed rule) I have to first answer the question myself.
2 vibrators (one big, one small), a big dildo, a small dildo/butt plug, and lube. The toys don't see much use.
Right, now I can ask my question. <grin>
I know the theory behind cock rings, but do they actually work and are they enjoyable for the man? (It's interesting that I've never seen one in a movie before - either I'm just hopelessly naive given the *relatively* (in comparison to most others here I'm sure) small number I've seen, or, for some reason, studios don't think they'd "sell" very well. Which is odd, since I don't see how they could distract all that much, particularly with the right genre, and, assuming they work as advertised, could only help out the male actors.)
The general idea is that one installs a cock ring before he has an erection, such that once erection commences, the cock ring restricts blood flow, causing the erection to be both harder and longer lasting.
My personal experience is that the mere act of installing a cock ring causes me to have a partial (or complete) erection, resulting in the cock ring not being tight enough to accomplish its intended purpose. The few times I have succeeded in getting into one of the contraptions, by the time I got erect, it hurt and I was forced to remove it, with a corresponding loss of interest in the impetus that motivated me to put it on in the first place.
So much for cock rings.
That having been said, cock rings are very popular in the gay subculture, especially among the leather crowd.
Before? Wouldn't that make it harder for blood to flow to it? I would have thought that you would do this after making it harder for blood to flow away from it... (I'm talking about the ones that are flexible in diameter, like the straps - of course the fixed width ones would have to be put on prior to an erection. Perhaps, then, it's the fixed width ones that are a problem and the adjustable strap versions would work better / be more comfortable.)
The problem with the strap-on types is that, once you are already hard, they don't restrict much of anything - you can't get them tight enough. Blood flow into the penis is not a problem - even "restricted" by a cock ring. The point of the cock ring is that as the penis becomes tumescent, blood flow is cut off, preventing egress of the blood and corresponding loss of erection.
SueR wrote:The content of my wife's toybox is exactly like SueR's, except that my wife's vibe is almond-colored. The big difference is that my wife uses her toy-of-choice in a merely mortal and sadly secretive way (occasionally in conjunction with a copy of Penthouse Variations that she has secretly lifted from my toybox -- although I would gladly share all of my issues with her openly and/or read them with her, as I've offered many a time). I bought this vibrator for her, and all of its predecessors, at her request, because she did not want to purchase it herself either online, through a mail-order catalogue, or (with or without my presence) at one of the several couples-friendly and/or women-owned-and-operated sex-toy stores located in Los Angeles.
My toxbox (which my wife doesn't want to look inside) might appear at a glance (and correctly so) to be the result of several shopping sprees at Gamelink.com; Hustler Hollywood, and The Pleasure Chest:
"Platinum Wet" lube, numerous dildos and butt plugs of varying sizes, colors, and shapes for anal self-play (silicone ones from Vixen creations are among my favorites), cock rings of various diameters and materials, a corona ring, two masturbation sleeves, a penis pump, and a variety of nipple clamps and small nipple-suction devices (the "snake-bite kit" kind).
Although I've tried all of this stuff out and enjoyed it, I rarely use most of it. Thinking about sex toys and looking at them really turns me on, but on a day-to-day basis I generally stick with "Rosie Palm" and lube.
Our shared marital toy chest once contained a handful of insertion toys, a couple of bondage-lite items, and a few sexy bits of lingerie (her "leopard skin" bra and panties were my favorites), but my wife cast out all of that stuff long ago. What remains is just a lonely squeeze bottle of "Platinum Wet" lube that gets little use.
Oh, and there's also a padded, black-leather blindfold that I now use only to help me enjoy an occasional afternoon nap on the weekends. I like it so much for that purpose that I've even had the black elastic strap replaced by a tailor on two occasions, despite the odd looks he shot in my direction both times I brought the "sleep mask" in for repair.
Afterward : Consider the above as being akin to "novelistic writing" (not to overstate it's relative quality or value, but to gauge it's relative veracity). It channels a sad, frustrated feeling that I had when I wrote it, but it's not a full, fair, or truly accurate representation of my wife, the dynamics of our marriage, or "my part" in creating the contents of her toy box or our marital toy box. What it expresses, really, is just one aspect of my own emotions, which can be mercurial.
On the cock ring thing, I can tell you from experience they should not be too tight. They are meant to be pleasurable not painful, unless of course they are being used as a punishment or torture for a friend...
For more on the subjecct I would suggest the book, "Family Jewels" from Greenery Press. Everything you ever wanted to know about cock rings and more.
Kurt Hardy (my nom-de-porn. Author of Family Jewels, but it's a secret)
I can't WAIT to hear Kurt's dungeon inventory. I'm not sure what some of the things are in his other toybox either, but I can tell you that Kurt is actually a heck of a nice guy who apparently shoots some great lesbian porn. Go figure!
Since I must consider myself still a newbie, I'll have to chime in!
In my toybox, I have 2 bottles of ID Millenium lube, a 7" dildo w/ balls, a jelly dildo w/ flared mid-section and a good sized butt plug (I don't know the exact dimensions, maybe 3" at its widest?). I hope to get some anal beada one day, but I am trying to figure what is the best kind to purchase... :)
Cobalt60's Famous Fantasy Cards : Mdom, Fdom scenarios to act out! Roll the dice and read the card! There are wardrobes, suggested dialogue, etc. I got the idea from a real novelty item I saw once, and took it from there. We used to do role-play stuff a lot, it was great fun.
Hands-free Hummingbird : a "jelly" thing with a clit-tickling beak, a 3" shaft midway down, and a curled in tail supposedly for anal stimulation (if you're under 5' tall, and then only maybe ), with straps that go around the waist and thighs, and a variable speed dial. I strap it on Mrs. 60 and do some analingus, or she gives me head, while I vary the speed of the vibrations occasionally and press the thing against her or grind it in circles. When she gets close, I MASH it against her sex and THRUST DEEP -- I come while she's coming and everything's right with the world for a few minutes....Ahhhhhhhhhh.....
Barney : a purple dildo that's pretty much my "twin". DIY DPs! Woo-hoo!
Lubes, silicone cock-rings with "pleasure nubs" on them, a curved G-spot vibrator that's VERY intense (makes my hand numb using it!), handcuffs, scarves, some lingerie -- thigh high black leather boots and biker hat being my favorites , ummmm....there's more in there, but that's all that ever really gets used.
Then, there's the hard copies of the stories I've written that I used to read aloud to my wife while getting warmed up...
LOVE the lube that heats up when you blow on it! One of these days, I want a TongueJoy. If anyone beats me to it, or has one already, please let us know what you think!
This is a good topic, thanks for the bump, lindi! I wish I could say I have added more toys to my fun box, but sadly no. I still have yet to get some anal beads. The ones I have seen on the shelves in the adult stores seem so... tiny. I think if I am at the point where I can take a 7" dildo or a 3" wide butt plug in my ass then I need some anal beads with a bit more meat! :)
Platinum Body Massager (My wife absolutely LOVES it) Small Butt Plug Waterproof G-spot Vibrator Cheap Vibrator Wireless egg Flavored Condoms A satin whip that my wife made (as a birthday present!) Lube
Lots of toys have passed through but get thrown out quite quickly. The only one that's been a keeper is a Venus 2000 - but that cost more than all the other toys put together.
Also, in the box at the moment is a Fleshlight I bought recently - which I tried once, for a minute or so, and just haven't gotten around to throwing away yet.
Oh - an edit, to say I also have some Aneros plugs, which arrived in February and have never been unwrapped. I like to kid myself I will try them out one day, but they're just way too scary for me.
Pink Transparent Vibrator, a dychronic phallix dildo with handle, and a phallix swirling color vibrator (I got this one for looks since the glass is so thick that it doesn't vibrate very well).
cock ring - rubber (goes over cock and balls) cock ring - metal (just goes over balls) pussy pump cock pump nipple pumps large latex dildo black inflatable dildo - very cool - gets used vaginally and anally silver balls - large pussy clip nipple rings (non piercing variety) nipple chain (non piercing too)
it all gets used from time to time. the pussy pump is a problem though. it is not very flexible and it is hard to get a seal for suction!