A pink Fleshlight with a smooth interior (one of the early ones before they began texturing the innards)

Two or three bullet vibes that came with various toys that are no longer with me

About 1/4 left in various tubes of lubes I've accumulated

Used to have more stuff but I threw out a lot of stuff I knew I'd never use again.

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Seems when it's about women owning toys, it's the most normal thing in the world.

What do you think?

BTW I bought a fake pussy the other day. In all honesty the day I opened the box I actually left like the biggest loser in the world. Then I got it over with and think it's kind of fun to own such a thing.

It's Devon's UR3 Pussy+Anus.

Make me cringe just admitting that I own such a thing.

Other than this I don't own any toys, no lube, no condoms, no nothing.

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Juli Ashton Ultra Realistic Pussy and Ass
Juli Ashton Ultra Realistic Vibrating Pussy with Anus.
Various lubes and condoms, of course.

So, no, tmd5, you are not alone. Never used the toys tho, as they are autographed by the Goddess.

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But for men it's typically considered sad, because it's seen (rightly or wrongly) as a sign of not being able to get the real thing.

And I have and had similar feelings about my P&A. But I look at it as "you do what ya gotta do."

Among men that I know who have these, I'd say about 25% use them as a suppliment to sex with other people, and 75% use it as their sole outlet. (Just my informal tally. I'm not a researcher).

BTW: what do you think of the Devon? I'm pleased with the Cassidey. Not much prep (other than warming it up), easy to clean and store (mine fits nicely in a shoebox), and it stays put.

Edited by - jayo on 11/26/2004 11:56:24 PM

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Can you believe the only thing in my toybox (that I USE, that is) is my pocket rocket? As far as stuff I use with my er...partner, all we need is some lingerie, some outfits, and some liquor.

DVSX. com - Free pics, free clips, NO pop ups, simply the BEST adult studio webs

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If I could find it!

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The wife doesn't wear lingerie?? Any reason why?

I've ALWAYS wondered what it was like for a guy to own toys. I mean, I've often wished I had a unit myself so I could check out the pussy and ass toys. How do they feel? (If anyone cares to indulge my curiosity, that is.)

Edited by - sunchen on 12/21/2004 12:15:29 AM

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As for toys... wish I could say, I have yet to try any of those pussy/ass combos! I guess if my sex life with the wife continues its downward spiral, then I might look into it...

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The newer ones are far better. The jelly ones I don't care for--they're a lot like the latex ones IMO. I had one that had used a carriage bolt as a mold for its "sleeve," which was supposed make it ribbed for your pleasure. With lube: no friction. Without (enough) lube it felt like humping sandpaper.

The new stuff, like the UR3 and whatever the Fleshlight is made of, are quite nice. The feeling is much closer to skin and flesh--there's a nice give to it, and there's a little texture to the surface, and some have little nodules or ribs for friction, but won't tear your dick off. My main complaint with them now is that they're cold. At room temperature, anything feels cold against your unit, so you have to soak them in hot water for awhile or wrap it in an electric blanket or a heating pad. Usually I don't plan that far in advance...

P&A's a great--the one I have is fairly heavy and has a flat bottom surface so you can put it on a pillow or a table top and it'll stay put. Great for when you're watching videos or talking on the phone or chatting on the internet. But you're also very aware that it's only one part of your body that's getting stimulated--with a P&A there's only that pussy--there's nothing else attached to fondle or kiss or suck on or whatever. And no response. So on one level it works. On an emotional level it's very empty.

Most guys I know usually drop sharply from 100% to 0% interest in sex about 3 seconds after orgasm. Which is why I think a lot of guys look down at this gooey mess of a lump of rubber they've just fucked and said, "what am I doing???"

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Despite the lack of emotions aspect, I've always joked that men must like toys because you don't have to deal with the cuddling afterwards, and you don't have to worry about getting the clap like you would if you were visiting a lady of the night.

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No fighting over the covers. And none of those huge, overstuffed comforters on the bed that I JUST CAN'T STAND!!!

I can keep the room temperature whatever the hell I want.

Cassidey doesn't complain if I want to sit on the La-Z-Boy and watch the race in the middle of a glorious afternoon.

I can drink milk right out of the bottle.

I can leave the toilet seat up.

I don't have to go to church and pray for two hours if a condom breaks.

No unpleasant conversations with the doctor...

And---it won't complain if I get tired of it and bring home something else.

So you're right. There are certain upsides to it.

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Reading the rest of your post though...my, my...Bitter? Table for One? Just kidding. I'm known to have misogynistic inclinations and I AM a girl.

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Edited by - Hurrab on 12/6/2004 10:23:43 AM

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With the attachment it cost just as much as the P&A I bought and it's easier to hide. It's somewhat goofy that it's designed like a flashlight. NOBODY would REALLY think that was a flashlight. It even says "Fleshlight" on it. The thing is HUGE too. The uro3 P&A is probably more durable. Cleaning might be harder for the fleshlight. You use mild soap and you're screwed pretty much. Doesn't ruin it but close.

In my book the fleshlight +ultra tight addon is like a 10/10 by far.

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My Fleshlight sits in the back corner of a storage area with a lot of other junk, so it looks like it could be an old flashlight. And I make sure there's a working flashlight nearby that someone would grab first if they needed it. And it doesn't actually say Fleshlight on it anywhere. But I have an old one--maybe they changed the design.

But my P&A lives in a shoebox under my bed. If anyone opens up the shoebox for any reason, there's no denying what it is...

This one's for sunchen, from a query earlier in the thread:

The one that looked like a bicycle handle grip was the worst. Smooth inside so no friction whatsoever, smelled like those plastic inflatable pool toys. It was the worst (and also the cheapest).

The one that looked like an old bagette--more interesting. It had nodules inside but they were very pronounced and stiff, so if you had a lot of lube you rode ride over them, if not enough then it felt like your skin was going to be torn off. The fun thing was that it had two built in buzzer vibe--one on each end. THey had independent controls, and if you set them right you could get really interesting interference patterns. I didn't find it erotic but it was a fun running the waves up and down.

Then there was the one that looked like a giant worm. On the outside it had concentric rings and you'd think it would be nice to hump--you'd get some internal sensation but not enough to feel like you were humping a hairbrush. But no--inside there were bladders because there was a pump and it squeezed for tightness. Okay, fine--but they ran lengthwise! The thing wasn't too bad if you twisted it, but that's easier said than done for more than a minute. In my crazier moments I thought of lashing it to a rock tumbler, but that thankfully never came about.

The last one that looked like jello was suuuuuper stretchy, and it had a hole that was the diameter of a pencil (probably to make me feel good out myself). You could put your thumbs in it and stretch it way the hell out to fit over your unit. Great! Now do it with lube. And remember that the sides are perfectly smooth--it looks kind of like those cranberry sauces that come from cans. So there's nothing to dig into when your hands are slippery. The inside had ribs (concentrically) and it was like the bagette--too much lube and you didn't feel anything, too little and you felt like you were fucking sandpaper.

The most interesting thing was that it snapped back to its original shape. The first time I finally got the thing impaled, it squirted out of my hands again and launched itself like a rocket. This turned out to be far more fun than its intended use. If you want some frivolity around the holidays, it's very comical to see.

Edited by - jayo on 12/21/2004 1:55:13 PM

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4 Different sized Dildos ( for fucking,sucking and slapping if your kinky lol)

Tons of different things that go BUZzZzZz of course like
the all mighty EGG vibrator, the Hitatchi wand, and pocket rockets...Yum Yum..

Then there are always the hand cuffs,ball gags, and the scented candles are a staple if your feeling a little passionate instead...gotta have it all coverd!!

but hey if you dont have any toys..just pull my hair, talk dirty and fuck me that works too!! hehehe

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