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| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 |  Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 4:19AMI don't get it. A while back, I contact Dana Dearmond through her Myspace and make her a very generous offer to "see" her in person. Now, I've done this with a number of pornstars, and almost always, my offer is accepted (by that I mean, about 80-90% of the time). With Dana, however, this was not the case. I asked her why she declined, and she says that she doesn't see people outside of porn. I say, what do you mean - there is NO difference to doing a thing on camera and doing it off camera. It is the SAME exact act, I will offer you the same amount you are offered (or even more). In fact, it is safer (because I will use protection) and it is less degrading (I'm not going to make you do A2M, for instance). Sadly, still no. Another reason she gives - "In porn I choose who I work with". By this point I'm really pissed. You CHOOSE? No, dear, the *director* chooses. You have done almost EVERY single black man in the entire business, and you say you are choosey? So, Dana, what is the real reason? What kind of person would turn down such a generous offer? I just don't get it.  [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 4:33AM There's so many goddamn things wrong with this proposition and your reasoning. I doubt the whole 80-90% bit is true, unless the stars were working as escorts at the time. And how does Dana know you're not some sort of creep that will kill her or something? She'd have to be pretty fucked in the head to accept that offer as any adult film star would be. Please tell me this whole thing is a joke....if not, you need serious help. Edited by - dukenukem4eva on 12/9/2008 4:34:03 AM  [Link] |
| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 4:37AM [Link] |
| scissorme Member 145 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 4:45AM Just...no. [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 4:55AM She fucks people in the industry because they are PROFESSIONALS and it is done on a professional level. I certainly can't speak for Dana herself, but if she doesn't want to go out and fuck some random nobody for cash like a common street hooker then who on earth can blame her? In fact, if she accepted your offer my respect for her would plummet significantly as from what I've seen of her, I wouldn't expect her to lower herself to that level. I would never dream in a trillion+ years of doing what you're trying to do. If it worked before, then good for you....and shame on the starlets that accepted your offer. I'm pretty well of financially, and it never ever occurred to me to message say, Bree Olson over myspace and offer a X amount of money for an encounter. Even if I thought it would work out, it's just not something I'd do out of respect for the woman. Oh, and did I mention that what you're doing is ILLEGAL? Try backing that one up....you can't. You are soliciting prostitution and that, my friend, is a crime. And you are incredibly naive to be posting such incriminating information on a public forum. Just when I thought I had seen it all..... I just realized that this topic is called "What's wrong with Dana Dearmond".....seriously, Davez621, what's wrong with YOU? [Link] |
| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:01AM [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:08AM It doesn't exactly take a degree in the studies of law to know that prostitution is ILLEGAL. In fact, I was surprised that my 5th grade cousin didn't know.... And don't even start with the whole pornography equaling or not equaling prostitution bit, that's a pretty sorry excuse for justifying such a sleazy act. And FYI, I'm a 21 year old college student who has never been in a relationship with anyone EVER, because I'm too damn shy and socially inept....yet I still understand the way things work better than you. [Link] |
| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:13AM [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:33AM However Dana lives in the US, and from the wording of your original post, it was VERY clear as to what your intentions were. Do you think Dana is stupid? You really think she thought you wanted to meet her for merely dinner and a movie? Or perhaps just for an intellectual conversation? Don't kid yourself here. And about the whole escort thing: Dana- at least to my knowledge- does not do escorting. So sorry for bursting your bubble. You had no reason to get pissed at her for her refusing you. It's not like she's obligated to take such offers. Like I said, she's not an escort. If she was, and had a profile/advertisement, it might be different. But you can't get bent out of shape because she won't fuck random people for money. It's 100% her choice and her body and she has every right to chose her partners. Even in porn, I'm sure some performers have refused to work with others; while the directors do make the choices, it's not like they are physically FORCED to participate. And I'm not talking about the whole race thing, if for some reason a girl didn't want Manuel Ferrera as a partner on screen, then she would just not sign the contract....it's that simple. Even then, they can't get Manuel to rape her if she backs out. Of course she'll then suffer the consequences of not getting hired easily, etc... But most stars know what they are getting into, and that doesn't include having people outside of the industry. Edited by - dukenukem4eva on 12/9/2008 5:34:42 AM [Link] |
| Shagdog Member Houston 626 Posts 1/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:36AM Prostitutes have the right of refusal. Women will always have a right to say NO. Their billions of women in the world, move on and find one that will accept your offer. [Link] |
HeyNow  Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:37AM [Link] |
| killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18631 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:47AM Why have you not started identical threads about them? Answer: because you're full of shit. You don't really believe the things you are typing. This is disingenuous posting and you're not fooling anyone. I don't know if you're just having a fun drunk post, or trolling, or if you're an XPTer who's posting our reactions to your big practical joke over there as we speak, but whatever it is, cut it out. [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:48AM You thought we'd all agree with you and start bashing Dana, questioning her character? You thought that the truth would come out and Dana would forever be branded as the most bitchy and arrogant pornstar ever? How could you possibly think anyone would side with you? Please.... [Link] |
| DukeNukem4Eva Deactivated User 41 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:49AM And I always meant to ask this, but what is XPT? Sorry for the n00b question.... Edited by - dukenukem4eva on 12/9/2008 5:51:49 AM [Link] |
| killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18631 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 5:52AM [edit: wrote "thread" but I meant to write "forum".] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 12/9/2008 5:53:32 AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:02AM What a complete fucking bullshiter!  [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:08AM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:09AM top notch douchebaggery perpetrated by the op. [Link] |
| porndude Member 88 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:13AM [Link] |
| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:59AM KillBill - you ask me "Why have you not started identical threads about them?" (other pornstars who declined). Well, I know for a fact that Dana Dearmond posts here, for one. Some of the others gave me better reasons why they were unable to do it (such as other commitments, etc), which I completely understand. Some just didn't respond at all (leaving me unsure whether the message was even received or not). Some lived in different parts of the country and only worked in LA while filming. Whereas I believe Dana lives in LA, or at least CA. (but if you really want names - I'll name one (seeing as she said no, I can't see how it's incriminating in any way): Barbara Summer. I offered to pay her airfare and cover all costs, but she said no, that she was doing her own thing in Prague and she didn't have the time, but then she says if I'm ever over there, we could "talk" and that security would be a must. About 9-12 months later I re-contacted her to see if perhaps she changed her mind, and she said no, she would not even see me if I went there! I mentioned that previously she said she would, and she said - "Oh, did I say that?!" and still no! (Shakes head). WAY hotter girl than Dana Dearmond, by the way. I contacted her before Dana.) Also, I made the comment about black guys not because I'm racist but she seems to do a disproportionately high number of IR flicks (12 out of 37 in 2008, not counting les scenes, according to IAFD). That's 1/3 of her titles in 2008. Also, IR is seen as more 'taboo' and hence dirtier in a way. Edited by - Davez621 on 12/9/2008 7:44:13 AM Edited by - Davez621 on 12/9/2008 7:53:41 AM Edited by - Davez621 on 12/9/2008 8:04:31 AM [Link] |
| mark59 Member always took candy from strangers 31 Posts 10/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 7:14AM [Link] |
| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 7:36AM [Link] |
| love_that_porn Member 246 Posts 9/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 8:31AM And as to the rest of your boo-hoo... just drop it. [Link] |
| buckaroo Member 283 Posts 10/08 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 8:48AM [Link] |
| BigBobxxx Senior Member 2681 Posts 5/04 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 8:48AM Seems to me that Dana Dearmond was wise to avoid this drama. [Link] |
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| Davez621 Deactivated User 8 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 9:01AM [Link] |
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