Meatholes and the like are the REASON I hate porn now. I worked in the adult business during the 90's and up through about a year ago. I have watched porn go from something that was hot and sexy to virtual rape. Now I know that even "love sex" can be rough...but it is from someone you would let/want to control you. I have so many things to say about Khan but will keep them to myself. Since I was in the business, I only played in the business…so I have spent much time listening to these girls cry about what they went through. These girls are so afraid that their work will slow because someone like Pimp English will cut down booking them for shoots, that they don’t speak up, not even to other girls…and some don’t feel bad for a long time after....after they get clean. There is a BIG difference in simulated rape and the shit Khan and such puts out. Simulated rape fantasy videos pull punches a bit, they use tricks to make it appear it’s real. Meatholes is real, 100%. I FIRMLY believe that these girls don’t realize it is real until they are deep in the scene. They assume that it is simulated, a camera trick or a “special way” of doing it. Bondage shoots (most) don’t go as far as this stuff.
Here’s my opinion on why the industry has gotten so hardcore. Most of the big producers and directors these days are former male talent. Male talent that worked a lot back a few years ago, some even way back, before Viagra and other fake wood tools. These guys had to put themselves in very dark places during these scenes to keep their edge…a lot was riding on them. Now these same guys who were carrying the scenes weren’t making much $ for the responsibility they carried. So what's the most likely path for them to make the kind of money they should have been making when they were talent? You guessed it, producers and directors. Now we have a whole industry of VERY Jaded “power people” who now live this stuff as their reality…it’s all they know now. I bet they would feel much different if it were their Mothers/Sisters in those scenes. Maybe not…the industry jaded me……..for life.

-He put it a lot better then I could. That is true that a lot of these new productions are some male """"talent""""", who is getting off on abusing a girl. If two consenting adults are into that, that's awesome, have at it. But a girl shouldn't be sigining up for rape when she signs up to fuck for money. I also do not want to sound sanctimonious, it just seems this is a real problem. Would appreciate some of the players in the game to justify this reality, hopefully explain to an outsider how it ""really"" works.

-Doyle

Edited by - DOYLE on Feb 7 2006

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