I find that I'm most happy when I can have a good hour to an hour and a half to masturbate. When I watch my wife masturbate it seems as if she's rushing.
I like the build up to a really powerful orgasm with a great deal of cum. I really like seeing how much "pre-cum" I can produce before I get to the point that I can't hold back.
Let me know what masturbation time is ideal for you.
My ideal time is roughly forty seconds longer than it takes the girl watching me to finish herself off. Usually by then, she's regained control of her higher brain functions. :)
Seriously, I think my ideal time is about twenty minutes. That's usually good for two good scenes on a VCA disc.
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An hour to an hour and a half? TWENTY MINUTES? Oh my gosh, if it takes more than 2 or 3 minutes I give up and go find something else to do. Ideal time - less than a minute. After all, if it takes very long, I must not be into it - right?
Okay, I answered a similar question in another topic.
but...
It depends on how into I am, if I watch a porn that gets me up, then I gotta beat it back down, lol.
Really, my usual time is 15 minutes to 45, truly depends on what I'm watching or how tired I am.
The longest I've ever masturbated would be something like 3 hours, with three pops. (I didn't touch my tool for about a day after that.) I can cum several times within a relatively short amount of time (1 hour). But again, I really have to be into it, and plenty of lube helps.
---Funny how everything was roses when we held onto the guns. Just because you're winnin', don't mean you're the lucky ones---
" After all, if it takes very long, I must not be into it - right?"
Not necessarily, but I can see you're a girl that likes to get right down to it. Sometimes I just want get off too, and usually can in about 90 seconds, but other times I like to take my time, try to hold out as long as I can, and just enjoy feeling sexually excited.
When I'm with someone, or even home alone, I love taking a bath then putting on something silky. The feeling of my hair falling down my back tickles my skin and sends shivers up my spine. That's nothing compared to how aroused I get from the spaghetti straps falling down off my shoulders. I just love that. I know it must sound weird - it's not that I look at myself in a mirror, it's tactile in nature. I love watching a man masturbate even more..I can't last very long then.
"Don't knock masturbation...it's sex with someone I love" ~ Woody Allen
When I masturbate it's because I want to have an orgasm, why wait for what I want longer than I have to? It doesn't feel better if I wait longer, actually, most of the time if I have to wait longer it doesn't feel as good - I get numb really fast, and sore almost as fast. If it takes too long it's hard to concentrate, too. I have to stay really focused in order to have an orgasm - it's hard to stay REALLY focused for more than a few minutes at a time (unless it's something a LOT more interesting than masturbating). And that whole thing where you get almost there and then stop and start again - forget it. If I get almost there and stop - the whole thing goes away. Then I'm just frustrated and annoyed. It doesn't "build" it gets less and less pleasurable. (I've been with partners who used this technique and ended up telling them to just quit it and get on to something else.)
Maybe I'm just not as good at this masturbating thing as everyone else... but hey, *I* like it my way, and I'm the only one I have to please :)
solo w/o lube 10-20 mins solo w/ lube 5-7 mins solo w/ porn on 4-6 mins solo w/ toy (juli Ashton ass) 5-15 mins bj from girlfriend 2-3 mins sex from girlfriend 3-5 mins
2-3 hours +. Now let me please explain. My horniness is at the level that if I wanted to, i could go from flacid to ejaculation in less than a minute. However, when I take my time to use the stop-and-go method, the feeling from the buildup is so good that it feels like endorphins have been released that go from my head to toe. Plus, the climax you have from such a buildup is explosive, literally, and hard to describe in words.
I like to do it every night before I go to sleep. In this case, I usually want to finish as quickly as possible. Maybe 20 seconds long. If I am watching a good porno, I may want to sustain it for as long as possible. I have been known to stroke it for 5, 6 hours and I must say that when you do wait hours the orgasm is a hell of a lot better than when its a quickie before night-night.
To answer your question, no, she doesn't know about it. I don't think she knows that I enjoy watching the occasional porn flick. I've thought about getting her into watching a movie with me, but I don't think she'll get into it.
That's what I'm talking about. Nothing in the world like a long session. I remember stroking for a few hours in a Toronto hotel room a few years back. I must have shot six or seven streams of cum ten feet or more. Let's just say they could probably clone a twin of me with the amount of DNA I left in that room.
If I'm watching porn I like to finish when the scene finishes (10-18 minutes)-usually in sync with the facial cumshot given to the girl. I used to take an average of 3-4 minutes as a teenager ...but learning the stop-go technique ended that.
This technique has enhanced sex for me in general and also enhanced enjoyment of viewing porn. I was watching the clip of Jenna Haze in trained teens 2 a few weeks ago and kept holding back until the end and it was very intense...like a dam bursting.
Here's the challenge. Try holding back (assuming you have time) until the last cum shot of the DVD. That is an experience you'll want to have again and again.
I drag it out to at least an hour. Usually between 1.5 and 2 hours. Once I was able to buy adult magazines that was what I used to get aroused with an occasional movie, so I would kick back with a stack of magazines and "do my work", now it is all porn video/DVDs. I'm not even thinking about letting my load go at anything under 45 minutes unless I'm on a quickie. Just one spurt per session. Once I cum, the game is over.
I realized in Chicago recently that it's much easier to sustain the masturbation session with a video, no lube, and no masturbating device. I was using a Buttman magazine some Astroglide and the greatest male masturbation device known to mankind....."The Elephant Trunk". That's my name for it. What it is is a five inch silicone tube with little massaging "nipples" on the inside. With this device you really don't need any media at all. For instance:
- You can think about that white woman with the unusually plump booty....begin stroking and there she is going down on you - That freaky looking waitress at the TGI Fridays with the Camel Toe....Bang....your sliding into her ass.
With this thing you can hold off, but what I find is that your imagination runs very wild very fast and you have to have a good deal more will power than you would with just your hand and a video. I held off for about 35 minutes.
As long as possible ... the longer I can hold out, the bigger the nut I pop. I think the longest I've gone is almost four hours ... watching "The Fashionistas" and trying to make it to the end. Man, talk about release ... aaahhh!
Nah man...its like, you can control it. If I want to do it really quick I can, and if I wanna take 4 hours I can. I mean, there is no use for lube or nothin, you can just do it like speed racer. When im having sex, there are no problems with premature ejac. Especially if I have to wear a damn condom.
Man, the orgasm feels great. Its just a routine release that I do before I go to sleep to let out all the sexual energy of watching fine ass girls in college all day.
I'm sure it would be better if you chose one of the girls, and then fucked her in your mind whilst masturbating. I've been doing this recently and it gives me really powerful orgasms. It gives you a while to get into it, plus your mind is your best sexual organ.
Future of Porn may actually be demonstrating the predictive powers his name hints at and showing us the Future of Orgasm
Imagine the porn star of the future shooting throughout the scene at 20 second intervals in a super-ongoing spunkfest. Or how about travelling through a wormhole power-jizzing on major historical characters before they have time to order the guards?
Well, youve never been able to do it right? So, obviously, this is something that you know absolutely nothing about. Im sorry, but Im done explaining this.
Here is the definition for perpetual: Lasting for eternity. Continuing or lasting for an indefinitely long time.
So you see a perpetual cumshot would be one which doesn't stop. This was a reply to Sir Noel Plums post discussing the future of porn. I thought the idea of perpetual cumshot was funny so I added it. It wasn't supposed to sound like a personal attack.