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I recognize that handheld video cameras and the decentralized distribution that the Internet has made possible have greatly expanded the opportunities for women who, in the past, might not have been able or willing to travel to Los Angeles to enter porn. But, as I make my daily trek through the web's porn sites, I'm still struck by the sheer number of women who have chosen not only to have sex with someone they just met, but to have a permanent, commercially available record made of their activities. From BRCC to ECG to GDP to NVG, for every girl who uses the site as a springboard or waystation to at least a temporary career in porn, there seems to be at least one, and maybe more, who are never seen again. Not to mention the one-and-doners at other sites. Perhaps the biggest source of wonderment for me is Dancing Bear. Two or three times a month, this sites gets together several tens of women. It seems like the girls who actually get fucked are usually performers with a few scenes already under their belts or newbies whose porn career is beginning. But a large percentage of the women in each video will yank the stripper's crank and/or suck the dick of at least one of the strippers, and quite a few will take a facial. The number boggles the mind. When you add in the number of women who'll do only a scene or two for the other South Florida porn companies before vanishing, sometimes it seems like that part of the U.S. is like Japan, where it seems that every young woman does a porn video as a rite of passage. Can there be that many women who either don't care about having their appearances noted by family, friends, future employers, and classmates; or who think that they can do a porn video and believe that no one will ever know? All it takes is one spiteful rival for a guy's attention, a disgruntled ex, or someone who just wants to share some dirt about someone he went to high school with. Obviously, the answer is yes. Sometimes, the clothes come off, the tattoos are revealed, and I think she's probably either a stripper or an escort, or she's probably already been around the block a few hundred times. (I'm old-fashioned about tattoos and what they connote.) And some of the women probably couldn't give blowjobs away for free. But especially when I see the pretty ones whose bodies are unadorned by ink, I have to scratch my big head with one hand while rubbing the little one with the other. South Florida, Arizona, and the West Coast obviously have a near endless supply of young women willing to do porn. At the same time I'm trying to wrap my head around that fact, I can't help but wonder whether such productions would be possible in my home state, in particular Dallas and Houston, where many strip clubs are already little more than brothels. Maybe there's something in the water in those places ...
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Posted - Jun 10 2011 : 12:05PM
I have to admit I find this fascinating as well and what's equally frustrating is there seems to be so few of them here in the bible belt where I live.
@ Pete Zaface A great post. I have often wondered about that. I am not in the USA, but western girls are much more free these days. I am an older guy, but know a few young girls, and sex is nothing to them. In my younger days, getting a blow job was an amazing achievement, nowadays it seem they all suck dick. They also watch porn, so don't see too much wrong with it. But as you say, it may come back to bite them in the future. I have often asked if anyone has bought a porn video that had their daughter in it (unknowingly) but no one has replied.
My experience is they really aren't concerned. They have had a different set of experiences than you have and they have different interests and concerns. They're more interested in what porn has to offer that they really look forward to enjoying, and much less about those things that concern you.
"Concerns" isn't the appropriate word; it's more like "fascination" couple with "incredulity." Actually, it's more than that, because I've been fapping to pretty women having sex on film and video for a long time. What's brought me to this point is the explosion in their number that the internet has made possible, coupled with the fact that so many obviously eschew the idea of porn as a career and choose to limit themselves to a handful of scenes. I'm used to dealing with some strippers who dance in clubs an hour from their homes to keep friends and family from finding out, and many escorts who blur or don't show their faces in their online ads -- in other words adult entertainers who try to maintain some degree of discretion. Look, I recognize that the original post was, in essence, a rant, without the vitriol. I just felt like a little pubic head-scratching (and if you don't share the interest, I encourage you to post on a thread that does interest you).
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Posted - Jun 15 2011 : 2:49PM
1) I think with so much porn out there it's easy for a girl to disappear in the flood and be anonymous. We complain that there are no stars any more, but the flip side is a girl can make a few bucks and not be permanently tarred for it. 2) Where do they come from? Have you looked at the economy lately?
Maybe now more so, but this really started happening years and years ago before the economy crashed. I remember one of the big networks doing a show on porn years ago with models literally lined-up outside Jim South's office door. It was crazy! I suspect money has something to do with you. More the ability to make a thousand or two in one day. I also suspect Jenna Jameson type fame encourages some also. Some appear to want to do it simply for the sex and different sexual experiences. Still I'm surprised at how many seem so willing to get inside a business that isn't always looked on kindly from the outside. I get the feeling some are simply naive as to what they are really getting into. I'm not complaining though, since it's their own free choice. More hot chicks for me to look at.
My experience is they never leave the shoot without the $$, but they do the shoot for other reasons. I've only done amateur shoots, and yes they like the $$, but they almost always do it for other reasons. There's just not that much in amateur porn.
^ reasons vary, but typically it's bucket list type stuff....always wanted to/fantasy/something new sexually to experience. I also get lots of girls that get off knowing others will watch them and get off, or just that I'm there and that gets them off.
Yeah girls are more sensual than guys and their sexual pleasure is more psychological than mens (which is more physical), in my opinion. So I get the feeling that a lot of girls get a rush just out of the concept that they're having sex in front of people, whilst being filmed even. I think this is also one reason for some girls loving anal, because of the rush of how dirty and taboo it is. So imagine the kind of rush some girls must get from taking it up their ass whilst being filmed. And man it gives me a rush watching it... to the extent that sometimes I think I'd like to star in an erotic picture... again, for the rush the excitement.
This discussion seems to reappear every year. Always interesting. I believe money to be the primary motivation. I also firmly believe that our "celebrity culture" is an equal motivator. There is a scene where Kurt Lockwood is really putting the steam to some young newbie. At one point she looked hesitant to go harder, Kurt says, "you wanna be just like Jenna".
As I said, the original post was more of a rant without the vitriol. Obviously, there are more than enough women willing to do porn. That there are is just something I'm trying to wrap my head around. I can't believe that anyone who wants to remain anonymous can seriously expect to do so. All it takes is one careless or malevolent friend, relative, schoolmate, ex, or rival. And, like a friend of mine says, you can build a thousand bridges and suck one cock, and no one will ever call you a bridge-builder. I'm assuming that most of these girls respond to ads, are referred, or are recruited in titty/nude bars. I also assume that some of them had never thought about doing porn until they saw the ad or someone mentioned it to them. I wonder how far you'd get with any of them if you just approached them in the mall and made them an offer to appear in a video -- and then I wonder what their response would be if you inquired about an hour of private time.
I disagree. They all want the money and I've never had anyone leave without the money (they leave the studio without their IDs, or clothing, or various personal items, but they always leave with the cash in their hands), but it is NEVER the primary motivation. They're making the video because they want that experience. They enjoy it! I occasionally get some that are only there for the $$....I try to weed them out early.....but I can tell you they ARE VERY RARE!!!
I have wondered the same thing. I marvel at the college sex scenes. Girls doing it in front of dozens of guys and girls looking on. Some of the guys are shouting vulgar obscenities. But the girls smile and keep on going. I love it.
I think women are sexual beings by nature and lots of them had been giving in to society's rules of what's appropriate but as more and more avenues open up to let them express themselves they're taking advantage of them. As these things become more common they also realise that less and less people actually see these acts as the horrible thing they used to. Think about how HALLOWEEN has become the excuse for adult women to dress sexy. Think about how many women take nude/sexy pics of themselves to send to others over the phone. More and more women making making home sex tapes. The quality looks of strippers/dances has been steadily going up. More and more women trying to get into porn. More and more women wearing sexier clothes in general. I think what we're seeing these days is a more accurate depiction of women than it's been in the past because less and less of them feel obligated to downplay their sexuality as they once were for society's sake. Many of the role models for women these days are sexy women. While some parts of the media still tries to bash women for expressing their sexuality it's very clear that people are very interested in it and don't judge it as harshly. And really...isn't it kinda silly to get all bent out of shape over this stuff? Most people have sex and everyone has a body. The fact that so many people still get riled up over the thought of a person showing their body or having sex is jut ridiculous from a logical standpoint. But we've been programmed to think it's this dirty disgusting thing and happily go along with it. As time passes and the programming we've been fed continues to be ignored little by little we'll see even more of this type of behavior as time goes on. Just look back over history and you'll clearly see women embracing their sexuality and expressing it more and more as time goes on.
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Posted - Jun 19 2011 : 12:32PM
Quite frankly I guess the time is long over when talent scouts had to criss cross the country to find fresh faces to do porn.Today the babes themselves come sniffing the moment they get scent of it. Not all of them come for the money but none of them comes for whatever reason so strong that they would do it on camera without the money. Sure money may not always be top priority but it is never the last either. I would day that the porn jungle is getting so thick and dense that females feel it is worth taking the risk coz unless they're plain unlucky they would harldy get exposed. But then that is for the tramps and hustlers who have already been doing it any which way long before they walk onto a set. So the only thing that is new for them is the camera capturing what they have been doing time and again. It's almost like Russian Roulette you keep pushing your luck further and further till one day the bullet hits the brain and wham everything spills across the cealing. "The Only Religion I Follow Is SEX & I Am Willing To Die For It With A Smile!!!"
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Posted - Jun 19 2011 : 1:36PM
I think the main reason there are so many girls doing porn is first to make money and second for the interest. In a similar way it is why prostitution can be found the world over and is so common in Third world nations where there are few opportunities to make money. And you make a good point, it is not the actual sex that is a problem, it is the sex recorded on tape and then gets distributed and is permanently on file, easily accessible from any home, soon anywhere in the world. A spiteful person can find this material years into the future and wreak havoc on someone's personal life. Most of these girls just do not think that far down the line when they will get married or will be raising children. Would these girls regret doing porn when their daughters, sons or ex husbands get a copy of their scenes from years ago? Only they will have to answer that.
I can tell you from experience many of them are making adult videos with their husbands. I worked with a married couple with two young kids. She had done some porn before she met him. They decided to make some porn together because they wanted to share that experience as a couple. He knew about the earlier work she had done and this was now his time to share that with her. They both were working and were happy to get paid for making the video, but they were really there for the experience.....and they had a great time doing it. Actually, they eventually shot three videos together. I've seen this scenario play out over and over.
Is being exposed really that big a deal these days? Unless the girl is trying to get a job in government or with really high exposure I don't think people finding out she did porn is going to ruin her. Family members always find out at some point and it doesn't always destroy their relationship. Having a few random people who know their past doesn't always mean they're scarred for life and can't move on.
^ well, they're not including it in their Christmas letters, but they're not hiding it either. It's just part of what they're doing and if others find out, they're find with that.
Depends on what she wants to do with her life after doing a porn video, and where she chooses to do it. I know some people, especially some Californians, will find this hard to believe, but there are still plenty of places where, even years later, an appearance in a porn flick will get a woman fired and her kids shunned, and plenty of guys who'd prefer not to think of their spouses going airtight with half the California prison system. There are more than a few tales out there -- not as many as I'd think, I'll grant you, but enough -- of college students getting outted and either being embarrassed or transferring, teachers getting fired, etc. to make me think that being exposed is, for many, still a big deal. Now, if you intend to dance in strip clubs into your thirties or escort into your forties ... that's another matter.
The psychology of pornstars have longed intrigue me. I read a study that about 50% of startlets came from abuse or dysfunction whether be sexual,physical or verbal abuse,and they came from unstable homes. The therapist say this leads to detachment from intimacy and a detachment from society. This is why prostitutes and porn stars could sleep with someone who looks likes ron jeremy and not want to throw up like the average girl. and if you come from a place where dysfunction is normal,and having a normal life does not seem like an option for you,then doing a porn that might jeopardize your future life is not that big of a deal. The same reason why in the ghettos of America being a drug dealer is a honest profession to a lot of people. and then, you may have girls from stable,but some what poor homes,that did not get enough attention as a child which leads to promiscuity add a bad financial situation,you have someone who may do porn. The socio-economic part is that southern california and south florida attract alot of people from poor/and or dysfuntional backgrounds from middle america and the south. alot of these people come here without a plan and when the economics dont make since for you. you will resort to unorthodox thing like the drug dealing example I gave before,and then in california you have people coming there to live the dream anyway. There are psychologically healthy girls who just have a high sex drive and want to explore their sexuality and its not about the money,but I would say they are the minority. I would say its a combination of two states attracting poor and dysfuntional girls. Edited by - tbetts12 on 6/19/2011 7:32:11 PM
I'm not saying there aren't places that will have a problem with it, I'm just saying those I work with are not concerned. Not that maybe they shouldn't be, but they aren't.
I'm bumping this thread to mention something I didn't include in the earlier rant/observation. Over the last 15 years or so, I've spent time with more than 50 friends-for-an-hour. Actually, some were friends-for-a-half-hour, but I digress. There are or were a couple of handjob-only places in Houston where I never failed to think to myself, "Oh my goodness, who are YOU?" when I was greeted at the door. Aside from those encounters, I can count on one hand the number of women who I think most of us would agree would be considered hot. And I do a fair amount of research before renting a friend, because my opportunities to do so are fairly limited. Most have been okay in the looks department -- if you passed one in the grocery store, you might think, "Yeah, I guess I'd fuck her," but you also wouldn't turn your head after she passed. And most of us probably wouldn't rent or buy a video if she were in the box cover. The point of further mystification is that I would think that there would be a much greater number of women who would be willing to spend some quality time with a generous gentleman behind closed doors, working anonymously and maintaining discretion and deniability, than there would be willing to have commercially available records of their activities available for all the world to see forever. I know that many porn performers are escorts on the side, or that many escorts are porn performers on the side. The point is that I'd think that the universe of really hot escorts would be substantially greater than the world of porn performers, but that doesn't seem to be the case.
Porn performers have to look sufficiently attractive/cute/sexy that some guy will pay them money and turn on his camera. He's not going to do that unless he thinks other guys will find her attractive/interesting enough to spend money to see her. For escorts, there is no "gatekeeper". They just have to have a good enough game to convince you they can get you off. For most guys, that's not a difficult challenge.
Escorts range in quality just like porn performers. You may be more selective in porn because the cost of the good ones isn't that much more than the bad ones. You can buy a Tori Black dvd for about the same price as a dvd with a lower quality performer. Tori's dvd will sell more copies and therefore make more money. There are quality escorts, they just cost more than the Houston HJ variety. If you want to know where to find them, ask Charlie. He can also tell you how much they cost. Personally, I'm only interested in the memorable ones because it's too easy to jerk off to waste time and $$ with anything else.
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Posted - Jul 3 2011 : 6:24PM
I disagree, you likely don't have a mean bone in your body but there are vicious people out there who take pleasure in destroying people if they can find a way. Just look at the American media that spends countless hours trying to destroy candidates running for office. I worked at a Fortune 500 company and the IT department found that people all over were surfing porn on company computers during work time. Imagine if someone found out that someone working there had done porn, it would spread all over. People are malicious and take pleasure in causing others harm. It's just the way it is and a sign of the times.
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Posted - Jul 4 2011 : 2:33AM
Let me assure you that is a global myth regarding pornstars. Like any other star, model or t.v artiste what you see on the screen is not always what you get when you're lucky to take them home. With quite a few exceptions most common pornstars look like something the cat dragged home when they are minus make-up and when they appear as hot sex-goddesses it's all thanks to the magic of the make-up artiste and how they transform them before they're ready to face the camera and start heavy duty banging. You maybe surprised to learn that quite a few make-over artistes are paid more per hour than a porn actress is per scene. But then when you fuck an escort you know what you see is what you get but when you have a pornstar cum escort consent to bang you more often than not you're gladly compenseted that you're fucking a star who has an image imprinted on your mind...So even if she is worse than your wife in bed you feel u've got true VFM just having greased a pornstar's tunnel!!! SEX Is The Only Religion I Pursue Furiously & Am Willing To Die For It..Wid A Smile!!!"
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Posted - Jul 4 2011 : 9:57AM
That's only partially true though. One only need some of the posts on various threads here to know that once a porn star always a porn star. Examples would be: The Judy Star fans who feel that someone should contact her family to find out if she's actually dead or not. The guy who just happend to follow his favorite star to the local pancake house and approached her table while she's sitting there with her father. Whether this one was actually true or not, who knows, but there have been other stories here about people with no tact or class approaching stars while they are out with the family. It was revealed here that Toni James worked real estate office after she left porn and fans started showing up at her office.
I'd wager that any of the multitude of porn performers that I've fapped to is, even with the minimal makeup deemed essential by most women to appear in public, or perhaps even with no makeup at all, would easily rank in my Top 10 Hot Escorts I've Seen list. (Also, it's not like escorts have makeup artists available.) Makeup also can't hide sagging tits, bulging tummies and cellulite, attributes all too common in the rent-a-friend industry. And, lastly, youth has a beauty all its own; while some guys will swear that older (say, 2 and up) women are better in bed, there's something to be said for being able to snag a hot chick the likes of which you'd never have dreamed of asking out in high school or college. In short, while I'm sure that your average porn star is made better looking by makeup prior to filming, I'm still equally sure that most are, on the average, better looking than the escorts that guys many guys rate as 10s in their reviews.
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Posted - Jul 4 2011 : 4:25PM
I completely disagree. Perfect example would be Jenna Jameson. She was featured on a "E" Channel special set during the Cannes Film Festival several years ago. The camera went into her bathroom and filmed her taking a shower, had they not told you it was her, you'd have never known it. She then showed her tackle box sized makeup case and went to work. She then showed the finished product and she looked completely different. Never underestimate the power of makeup and hair/makeup artists. One only needs to look at the National Enquirer's features on celebs without makeup to know the before and after shots are two way different things. Give some hair and makeup people an hour to work on me and I'm sure I'd look like George Clooney also.
Nice thread, with lots of interesting opinions. I think that a combination of what everyone has said here is true. That is, money and the thrill of the experience are the main motivators for performers. Money is a factor due to the times we are in but as always been a lure. Experience, like Rod has stated, has to be a high factor for many of these performers also, as that, I would think, is the main explanation so many of them don't plan ahead for their careers, ie. how to market themselves, whom to work for, etc. I also agree that the fear of being caught is not as big a stigma as it once was. True, many careers could/would be ruined still today, what with the corporate attitudes out there, but that mindset is evolving too. It'll take decades before it diminishes mostly but many performers are not working for a corporate company presently which would fire them if they found out (yes, I'm sure there are exceptions). So with that, performers don't fear the risk of loss. True, they could have that loss later in life by not finding a job within a field of their liking but that one, may not happen, and two, most performers probably aren't taking that into consideration. Most people, and maybe it's a fault, live life in the present mostly. On the escort/pornstar aspect, I've seen escorts who are better looking than top grade pornstars and some who aren't even remotely in their class. I do agree that in porn, the talent is cuter, but that's because mainly it's on film and that's what producers choose to film. In the grand scheme of things, it's a numbers game-I'm sure there are far more escorts than pornstars out there, not counting the ones that cross between the two. So with that, by numbers alone, you're going to have hotter talent in porn probably. Just my opinions but I think most posters have nailed things on the head.
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Posted - Jul 5 2011 : 1:56PM
Do you really believe that it's the clients who write the escort reviews and actually rate them? U gotta be kidding if you actually believe that and the onlything that can possibly be worse than this myth is a sucker who would possibly book and bed an escort on the basis of her profile pics (that are straight out of their portfolio which is out of their youth) or the escort rating that is flashed. U maybe a sucker to pick up sluts on the basis of what you hear about them or what the promise to do maybe once but to make it a habit reflects on your intellegence or rather lack of it!!! SEX Is The Only Religion I Pursue Furiously & Am Willing To Die For It..Wid A Smile!!!"
I think it's a convergence of several factors: to begin with, the social stigma attached to working in heterosexual porn, while still present, has relaxed considerably over the last few decades. Secondly, the compensation is much better than it used to be. Lastly, sexual mores in general have changed significantly--many young women today are comfortably sexually active, whether in or out of the porn industry. The result is that a lot of the women have done a personal cost/benefit analysis, and concluded that the pros outweigh the cons. The standard argument that most women in the sex industry are psychologically "damaged" by abuse/broken homes/etc. is speculative at best. There really isn't any conclusive evidence that women working in the sex industry are more likely to have experienced traumatic or stressful upbringings than have women in the general population. This argument panders to the radical feminist notion that female porn performers are either too stupid or too emotionally unstable to recognize their own "exploitation" within the industry. This is both inaccurate, and highly offensive to those women who have made an informed and rational decision to work in the sex industry.