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| Gamelover New Member 3 Posts 5/01 |  Posted - May 8 2001 : 4:31AMHey everyone, this is my first post here! You all seem like a good bunch of folks so I thought I'd ask you all something. Where did those of you who are not single meet your significant others? I ask this not only because I think it would make interesting conversation material, but because I'm slightly worried about myself due to the fact I seem to attract very "nice" girls that think pornography is evil and any kind of kinky sex is dirty. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong (finding someone sexually diverse and openminded is very important to me), so I'd really like to hear from all of you out there that did something right! How and where did you meet your someone, was it love at first sight or were you friends first? Lets hear all the juicy details! :) Thanks a lot! ---===Only boring people get bored===--- [Link] |
| Drew Black broken crankshaft 8009 Posts 9/99 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 10:03AM Edited by - Drew Black on May 8 2001 [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 10:25AM I don't think you're doing anything 'wrong', but it may help if you got to know a woman before dating her. Then you'd know her cultural biases, comfort with herself, willingness to try new things, etc. [Link] |
| Trunks Member 89 Posts 4/01 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 10:35AM I swear to God it's true folks. And yet I've never been layed or had sex of any kind. People tell me those girls were attracted to me (I was attracted to them), but I'm like a schmuck when it comes to that sort of thing (mostly cause of my "puritancial" upbringing). Nothing ever works out :( All these experiences came out of just being friends/acquantainces. No loves at first sight. [Link] |
| Jameson Member Wisconsin! 33 Posts 12/99 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 12:13PM * she quit and found another summer job when school was done ( i didn't want to deal w/ a work relationship and didn't think it was fair to others ) * she broke up w/ her boyfriend. this was long overdue and in some ways made her realize who she was with was not good ( no, we didn't cheat, we were just good friends ) I would have never guessed she'd be as sexual as she is. At work she'd always get 'grossed out' or red-faced when someone would make racy jokes, etc. Boy was I wrong!!!! :) she's pretty open for new things and is in no way shy about her sexuality. I guess my only advice for meeting people that are open sexually is that right from the start you have to be open w/ her and communicate. talk about anything and everything. when you have a relationship w/ good communication, you'll probably find out right away whether she's sexually open or not ~j [Link] |
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| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 2:45PM Now from a different angle, I am very shy and no one would guess when they meet me how kinky and depraved I like to be, So I guess I'd say take it slow...vanilla sex isn't so awful, lol, let it grow from there and don't be too anxious to find someone, we can sense that and it's a real turn off. Be cool, -lunacy- [Link] |
| Gamelover New Member 3 Posts 5/01 | Posted - May 8 2001 : 3:54PM [Link] |
| TigerDragon Member 108 Posts 11/00 | Posted - May 12 2001 : 11:21AM Any other couples out there can share? TigerDragon [Link] |
astroknight  Questionable Moderator Tastes so good... 4187 Posts 11/99 | Posted - May 14 2001 : 9:03AM [Link] |
| Darkmage Member State of Denial 328 Posts 11/99 | Posted - May 28 2001 : 9:00PM Friends first, sex later. You get better relationships and better sex because of it. "There's a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find. " [Link] |
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with the right person Drew spoke a huge truth when he said a womyn has to be comfortable and trust you enough before exploring her sexuality with you.