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jaynaoso_stalker Member 53 Posts 7/06	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 11:49AM I seem to be opening topics and every time I see some dumbass bashing someone else with some type of comment: 'your weird for watching...', 'what is the obsession with anal', 'dp's are so gay', 'why do you like circus acts of girls swallowing cum, there should only be one pop at a time', 'people who like slapping/spitting must beat their wives/girlfriend'... type of stuff. Get over it. People like what people like. Nobody on here cares what you personally dislike in porn. There are so many genre's out there that the average porn viewer probably dislikes 75% of them. Just shut up already unless someone specifically starts a topic asking about your likes/dislikes. It's getting annoying when people are asking other fans of a genre to point them to some more movies to their liking, then some Captain Buzz Kill joins the discussion and starts with the flaming. [Link]
preid2 Member 12 Posts 11/07	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:01PM I used to wonder that too until I discovered on another forum that a vast majority of those people were autistic the minority are just self absorbed assholes but there are plenty of autistic people with bad social skills on these forums who can't help it believe it or not. [Link]
wraithlead Member 264 Posts 12/08	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:27PM jaynaoso_stalker wrote: I seem to be opening topics and every time I see some dumbass bashing someone else with some type of comment: 'your weird for watching...', 'what is the obsession with anal', 'dp's are so gay', 'why do you like circus acts of girls swallowing cum, there should only be one pop at a time', 'people who like slapping/spitting must beat their wives/girlfriend'... type of stuff. Click to expand isn't 'having a fetish' inherently weird? while i agree that sometimes it goes over the line toward insults, i think you're a little over the line too. some stuff is 'weird' for people to like. Not in a bad way, but it kinda IS weird if the majority of people on the planet don't want to watch something like it. And for these, 'what is the obsession with anal', 'dp's are so gay', 'why do you like circus acts of girls swallowing cum, there should only be one pop at a time' i haven't read all the threads you referenced, but the double anal thread was very interesting to me. a lot of actual thought out stuff was there so even random stupid poster didn't make it a bad thread. Get over it. People say what people say. Nobody on here cares what you personally dislike in forum talk. There are so many threads out there that the average forum viewer probably dislikes 75% of them. Just shut up already unless someone specifically starts a topic asking about your likes/dislikes. It's getting annoying when people are asking other fans of a genre to point them to some more movies to their liking, then some Captain Buzz Kill joins the discussion and starts with the flaming. Click to expand while i understand the slight difference between your point and my small changes to your quote above, you can't deny the irony in going online and telling other people not to say stuff about other people saying stuff. i'm not sayin...i'm just sayin... Edited by - wraithlead on 4/19/2009 12:28:39 PM [Link]
john lyons Senior Member Co-founder of Vinegar Syndrome 1188 Posts 1/08	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:31PM jaynaoso_stalker, I'll grant you that there's absolutely no reason for just about every thread for every fetish turning into a thread about why that particular fetish is either stupid or gross. At the same time though, posters have just as much the right to say they like something as they do to say they dislike something. That's discussion! If everyone agreed, there would be nothing to discuss. However, when people start making personal attacks against others for their taste, that's not OK. [Link]
jaynaoso_stalker Member 53 Posts 7/06	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:35PM I think your completely losing the point of this topic. I really don't want to hinder what other people's opinions on porn are. If you have an opinion or a like or dislike, just put it in the right place, that's all. The double anal topic was a perfect example of where to put your opinion. But people who join a topic to deliberatly bring it off topic are called 'trolls'. If you enjoy people who troll the forums, that all fine. But as you pointed out... what the 'majority' likes is an intelligent discussion. If someone starts a specific topic to ask for 'such and such' porn, then someone purposely joins a topic knowing full well they dislike 'such and such' porn, just to let everyone in that topic know they dislike that 'such and such' porn... its highly annoying. [Link]

ninja1 Senior Member 2939 Posts 1/08	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:36PM jaynaoso_stalker wrote: Get over it. People like what people like. Nobody on here cares what you personally dislike in porn. There are so many genre's out there that the average porn viewer probably dislikes 75% of them. Click to expand It's more like 90%+. Those "other people" who like "weird stuff" are responsible for the lack of availability of "good stuff". And this is one of the few places where such sentiments can be voiced, amongst those who understand. Just ignore the buzzkill posts. Or jump into the fray. [Link]
jaynaoso_stalker Member 53 Posts 7/06	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:39PM john lyons wrote: jaynaoso_stalker, I'll grant you that there's absolutely no reason for just about every thread for every fetish turning into a thread about why that particular fetish is either stupid or gross. At the same time though, posters have just as much the right to say they like something as they do to say they dislike something. That's discussion! If everyone agreed, there would be nothing to discuss. However, when people start making personal attacks against others for their taste, that's not OK. Click to expand Just to elaborate on what I'm talking about, here is an example.... Original topic starter: Where can I find more movies of Sandra Romain doing double anal? Troll's response to the topic: Double Anal is so gay. You must be gay to like to see guys rub their penises together. This is an example responses that are completely random, off-topic, and annoying. I'm not talking about the posts where the orinigal starters asks, 'who else like double anal?' or 'why isn't there more double anal', etc... I'm mainly talking about off-topic trolling where your opinion is not wanted by the original post starter. Edited by - jaynaoso_stalker on 4/19/2009 12:42:00 PM [Link]
john lyons Senior Member Co-founder of Vinegar Syndrome 1188 Posts 1/08	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 12:44PM jaynaoso_stalker wrote: Just to elaborate on what I'm talking about, here is an example.... Original topic starter: Where can I find more movies of Sandra Romain doing double anal? Troll's response to the topic: Double Anal is so gay. You must be gay to like to see guys rub their penises together. This is an example responses that are completely random, off-topic, and annoying. Click to expand I completely agree that that sort of thing is not OK. [Link]
Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 5:10PM There's a topic in Star Crossed about Mya Nichole's scene in Deep Anal Abyss 2. I'd actually seen it, so I posted my reaction, which was revulsion. A few posts later, I tried to find out why people liked it. I'm naturally curious, and I simply wanted somebody to explain the turn-on. Even if the answer was, "I don't know, I just like it," I would have been satisfied. But nobody seemed to want to talk about it, to try to get me to see their point of view. That lack of discussion, on the part of the OP who was an enthusiast, disappointed me. [Link]
Bluto Deactivated User 511 Posts 3/09	Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 5:39PM It was explained to you. What do you want to hear? Cute? Perky? Pink? Attractive? Tight? You will just keep on asking why. [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 5:34PM TY jaynaoso_stalker, here here. Precisely my point on the "Drugs...." thread (https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=1/topic_id=119226/forum_id=1/cat_id=1/119226.htm) the point wasn't about free speech (cough dean cough) it was simply: You'd think on a porno forum you could get a little more "live and let live" than in fundamentalist christian forum lol. Edited by - seedfeeder on 4/20/2009 5:35:07 PM [Link]
Festus Member Don't let me stop ya. I just likes ta watch. Heh...heh...heh. 95 Posts 6/07	Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 6:30PM I don't judge at all. I has my tastes and find filthyness to be a matter of opinion. As long as you an adult and dont hurt no one (that don't want a hurtings hee hee) everythings a go. "Live. Let nothing be lost on you. Be afraid of nothing." [Link]
wraithlead Member 264 Posts 12/08	Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 12:20AM i agree to some extent jaynaoso_stalker and seedfeeder (see my post about unintentional irony, why some 'wierdness' is okay, and how insults aren't cool...) but, and i'm not trying to start a fight with the mods, or long term members...but doesn't some of the 'slightly off-topic but related' chatter trace back to people getting threads shut down, comments from mods and posters about 'we've seen this before', and sarcastic posts about 'search newb!!11!1!"? [mod edit: wraithlead, you'll notice I removed your two posts below. I've emailed you about this, please reply to my email if you have questions.] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 4/21/2009 2:17:29 AM [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 2:05AM preid2 wrote: I used to wonder that too until I discovered on another forum that a vast majority of those people were autistic the minority are just self absorbed assholes but there are plenty of autistic people with bad social skills on these forums who can't help it believe it or not. Click to expand You realize how insulting your post is to autistic people? Not to mention nearly incomprehensible because of the shitty grammar? Ironic for someone calling other people autistic. [o\\|] Edited by - BlackSix on 4/21/2009 2:10:28 AM [Link]
warrenwest67 Member Thanks for the mammaries. 966 Posts 1/07	Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 11:55AM I think its a reflection of most discusions these days. Rail about tolerance but then bash those who disagree. I don't know if things were different years ago but many don't like to listen to dissenting points of view. Politics have really lead the way on this. [Link]

Dan Senior Member 2056 Posts 6/07	Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 12:42PM jaynaoso_stalker wrote: I seem to be opening topics and every time I see some dumbass bashing someone else with some type of comment: 'your weird for watching...', 'what is the obsession with anal', 'dp's are so gay', 'why do you like circus acts of girls swallowing cum, there should only be one pop at a time', 'people who like slapping/spitting must beat their wives/girlfriend'... type of stuff. .... Click to expand Perhaps selfishness is at the root of it all. The aim of such criticism is usually to increase the amount of porn the critic enjoys watching. A guy who bashes anals and DPs hopes to see more pussy-only sex for his favorite porn-stars. Because that's the kind of sex he enjoys watching the most. He has something to gain from his criticism. And that's why he does it. But there is a flip-side to such selfishness. There are plenty of guys in this forum who criticize the lack of anals and DPs in some porn films. And some porn-fans, including myself, have urged in the past some non-anal ladies such as Natasha Nice, Gianna Michaels and others to spread their nice asses for the guys and have anal sex them. Because that's the kind of sex some porn fans, including myself, like to see. That's what you get when the porn lady is very popular and every porn-fan wants to see her banged his way. Perhaps this is similar to sports-fans rooting for opposing teams. It's pussy-fans against the anal-fans trash-talking the pussy-studs versus the no-holes-barred studs. [Link]
Stud_Rob Member 703 Posts 4/09	Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 12:56PM Sometimes people just aren't very nice. [Link]

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