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Biggdiesal
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Posted - Jun 20 2007 : 4:23PM
If that's the case how come Hollywood actresses and soap stars kiss all the time. Because I have heard on many occasion female porn stars saying it's only a job and we are just acting, well act like you are kissing.

Edited by - hardware on 6/21/2007 12:31:05 AM

Biggdiesal
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Posted - Jun 20 2007 : 4:26PM
Tyler is there any girls you have kissed or girls you would have liked to kiss during a scene?

Edited by - hardware on 6/21/2007 12:31:37 AM

Tyler Knight
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Posted - Jun 20 2007 : 5:36PM
Lauren Phoenix, Marie Luv, Sinnamon Love, Katja Kassin, Lexi Bardot, Jada Fire, Lola...There are a lot more, but thats off the top of my head.
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jun 20 2007 : 6:21PM
Not everyone sees it that way. And of those who do, certainly, it doesn't have to be. Kissing can be pure lust. Desire. I've certainly had a few deep kissing sessions with girls I wasn't in love with. And they weren't in love with me, either. It was 100% lust.
Some people get confused when things can have more than one meaning or purpose.
 
KatjaKassin
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Posted - Jun 20 2007 : 6:31PM
I'm sucking the guys dick out of my ass so why shouldn't I be kissing? I don't get girls who let their male co worker choke them out and slap them across the room but they won't kiss...
Biggdiesal
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 4:59PM
That is exactly what I am talking about Katja, some girls do all this other stuff but will not kiss no one. And I am not saying you have to kiss everyone you are with in a scene but is the chemistry is right do it. Vanessa Del Rio did it a lot and some of the guys she was working with were just average looking, just shows you how much of a freak she was.

Edited by - hardware on 6/21/2007 9:09:57 PM

terri summers
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 8:02PM
tyler and william, i totally agree...
hollywood actors only kiss, mostly without tongue.. so the rest of their body will be for their partners..
and i do think its a difference to kiss brad pitt, then to kiss someone who just had their dick in your ass...
christian, i honestly admit that i prefer not kiss on a set, maybe im weird for that, maybe im not. i just find it very personal, very in your face, i dont know, i guess tyler and william explained it better!!
however.. i have almost( you know some people are just really impossible to kiss )never turned my head away. If the guy is into it, then i can enjoy it to, but i wouldnt start it. but plenty of my scenes have kissing in it, cos as much as i prefer not to, it somehow happens more then not?

P3-2A
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 8:15PM
Boo hoo christian.
conquistador
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 8:35PM
christianx was mentioning an actual realistic situation and valid point.
Why mock him?
Christian XXX
Are you a porn star, too? What Movies?
EDIT: Added link.
Edited by - conquistador on 6/21/2007 8:40:30 PM
P3-2A
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 9:35PM
I'm a fan of him. He's cool and I'm sure he wouldn't make a big deal out of a little fun like some.
Edited by - P3-2A on 6/21/2007 9:36:51 PM
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
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Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 9:42PM
I agree. I just didn't realize you knew. Sorry about that. No worries.
HarryWild
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ragingbull
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 2:04AM
i have to say i find it amazing that for me in my personal life i usually become friends with a girl for awhile the after we have established a relationship, kissing petting then sex, but in porn it is to fucking they don't even pertend to be lovers its amazing, the girls have detached, blow six dicks...no problemo
KatjaKassin
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 3:27AM
sorry if that amazes you but porn is nothing like real life...
 
deepudicks
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 9:08AM
Now I find that truly amazing n funny too.Kissing is being placed on a bonus peg.Something like incentive or a perk for which the producer shells out more...If u start compartmentalising you'll eventually end up with the stars being paid only to hold hands, smile and say hi and bye...For everything else an additional tag shall be attached.
The very idea is absured...Your'e making a porn film not assembling a customised car.Where apart from the kit,four wheels and the body, anything else u want you pay extra.
deepudicks
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 9:22AM
Hey Terri,
Seems u've not being seeing too many Hollywood movies for a long long time...From wherever did you gather the impression that Hollywood films don't have deep throat french kissing...Wonder which versions u watch maybe those for the Gulf & Pan Islamic regions.
Do enlighten me what's the difference between kissing Brad Pitt or Eric Everhard.Shane Diesel or Nicholas Cage they may not have their cock in ur ass before the deep throat kissing but who knows whom they have been milking and reaming on the casting couch in hteir make-up room or their vanity van before the smooch scene.Atleast in porn everything is done right in ur face..U never know whom the Bollywood star had between shots before getting intimate with the heroine.
If you can lick the cum of a guys dick that has just been inside somebody elses hole then kissing them after they have eaten pussy yours or anybody elses shud not be soo nauseating... So the bottom line is that it's not done or tactically avoided for person reasons and little else.
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 2:27PM
Well, that's why porn exists. for some folks, real relationships are problematic...at best. Porn is fantasy so anything can happen. The girls don't have to mean it when they kiss a guy....just like it doesn't mean anything in a Hollywood flick. Just as long as it appears authentic.
Well, that's one of the things that I think brings porn down and prevents a lot of people from enjoying it. Sure. The "fuck buddies" thing is coos sometimes but there needs to at least be some pretense of reality. It's not happening in a parallel universe where everything is backwards.
Huh?
SinnamonLove
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 3:58PM
Mmm... And I do LOVE kissing you Tyler. :-) Your lips are just so... perfect! And of course it helps that you know HOW to kiss. 2 points. ;-)
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terri summers
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 7:32PM
deepudicks: i didnt say no one kisses with tongue, i said in most movies they dont really kiss with tongue..
and like i explained before, it is personal for me.
and i had plenty very hot and very amazing kisses with erik everhard, so i guess he is not the right example..:)
you are right you never know which ass brad pitt has been in, so i guess he is out of the question to!
again, i find it very personal, something i loved doing when i was single, but now more something i like to share with just my partner
brewski
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Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 9:33PM
There is no incentive to kiss, because for every person who likes it, 10 dislike it.
Basic porn rule - keep guy face out of porn.

Anadin
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 9:10AM
Well there's a rule that nobody seems to follow!
spitty
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 11:08AM
I partly agree brewski. I am not so sure about your 10 to 1 ratio .... but I definately agree that the guy's face should not be shown too much.
I would much rather see the girls kissing each other. Seeing a guy and a girl kissing does absolutely NOTHING for me. lesbian kissing is what turns me on more than anything.
puffin
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 11:44AM
As a female, I would like to see more kissing.
Infidel
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 2:32AM
kissing in porn can be so fucking hot. they should do it more, but do it well.
 
wet 007
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 3:07AM
mod: per the Forum Etiquette - incessantly harping on an issue/person will lead to the deactivation of your account.

Edited by - hardware on 6/27/2007 11:19:15 AM

rockee
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Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 12:57AM
I am for the kissing . Done well its hot. whats the name of
a vid with a lot of kissin and fucking and i will buy it right now. Understandable not all performers will do it. Still hot
none the less, I like foreplay .kissing is apart of that.
Producers give us a vid called french kiss with hot stars,
lots of kissing ,foreplay and sex and i guarantee it will
be a sucessfull venture. You stars out there give a performance with kissing ,foreplay and hot sex and you will
become a sought after star by the public.Movie stars in the main stream do it what not porn.A little romance with our
porn can make it only better. kissing someone is not going
to make me stop buying your vids but the other way around
it would entice me to buy.
Brooklyn Blair
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Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 1:42AM
as mentioned somewhere above, kissing is so personal.
Sex can be just sex - cut and dry, no intimacy, no passion, nothing. But to kiss someone; it's so meaningful. It is sheer passion. Sex can be primal...not kissing.
That being said, I barely kiss people in my personal life, and I don't intend to star once I begin filming.
But if it is necessary for a scene, I can take one for the team lol
HarryWild
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 1:44AM
Love to see 5 minutes of staight kissing during sexual foreplay, follow by intercourse follow by cumshot with a 2 to 1 grouping; two gals to one guy! At the end; the girls kiss each other for 5 minutes straight!
I know it will never happen but it would be cool to see it in a video!
StingingVelvet
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 5:16AM
Kissing definately makes a scene hotter and I appreciate it when it's there... that said I understand that, for whatever reason, it's one of the more personal sex acts there is, and so some women won't do it.
Think of it this way, if all the girls did it it might not be as hot when one does.
Rich_John_Loaded
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 10:21AM
I'm a fan of kissing -- but if there's no passion behind it, it's just boring. To watch and to do!
Jack Remington
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 10:28AM
Some of the hottest deepest kissing in a scene lately was between Sasha Grey and Bree Olson. I might be mistaken, but I think Sasha really liked Bree! I think it was a video called "Boundaries".
Edited by - Jack Remington on 9/20/2007 10:29:46 AM
KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 6:24PM
I can only kiss guys that I am attracted to...and you can tell the difference in my scenes when I am told to kiss the guy vs. it happening naturally because we are both into the scene...However I can kiss pretty much any girl I shoot with.
It's almost stupid to say that kissing is too personal but at least when I am fucking someone I am not that attracted to, I can pretend they are someone else...but when you kiss...you know exactly who you are kissing because they are right on your face! I love kissing...but a bad kiss can be a big turn off...Just like a good kisser can have my pussy wet for hours!
My cheap two cents...lol...
XOXO
Katarina Kat
Dr. Nasty
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Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 6:52PM
**Dr. Nasty Licks his lips**
caroline-NL
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Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 1:12PM
Thats one of the main reasons, that I still watch
dutch and scandinavian porn. I can remember only
very few movies WITHOUT kissing, and they were
made in Sweden. Sex without kissing is like an ice age
of emotion. Emotions, compassion, kissing ... are very important ingredients of a good porn movie.
 
maccer
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Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 5:22PM
There's a scene starring Lexi Belle (the hottest I've ever seen her look thus far) in Penthouse's Boss' daughter where she attempts a couple times to french kiss the idiot she's doing and he just ignores her. When you see how hot she is in this particular video, you realize how stupid he is. Scene would've been much hotter if the guy had a clue.
StingingVelvet
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Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 6:14PM
Yeah, Lexi Belle likes to kiss in all her scenes it seems... that's prett hot, that guy needs a clue.
ashten
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Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 2:25AM
I love it when they kiss during their scene and guys don't be a pussy kiss the girl after you cum on her face.
Aplus
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Posted - Sep 29 2007 : 4:41AM
This is a very interesting thread. I do know their are some female and even male performers who have a strict no-kissing rule. I guess I'm ok with it, although it goes help if I know it beforehand. I have noticed that my favorite female performers generally have no adversion to kissing, and in fact, generally seem to relish or initiate it. Can't say that I need to see it, but do think scenes that have it tend to be a lot hotter. That's based on it being wanted though by the performers. Watching people kiss that don't want to, can be almost painful to watch...and it does happen quite a bit. Fucking to me, is generally about passion, or at the very least, people having fun. When those happen, the kisses usually flow pretty easily.
I do agree with Tyler that some scenes simply just don't call for it though, and people can assume too much because of it sometimes. Now if they are portraying a loving and happy couple that doesn't want to kiss, then I think the issue is very real.
cyberspacepornjunkie
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Posted - Oct 29 2007 : 2:07PM
The problem with porn movies is the missing of realism.
To me, without foreplay, or kissing or some other means for the two lovers become arroused by each other, it just becomes a flat out boring sex film. Just another penetration, one night stand etc. Which I guess is ok for those into that, but when most of the industry is promoting this as the norm, it does leave me cold. As an actor, I look for believeability, if it be a rape scene, I want it real. If it is a passionate love scene, I want it real too. So, the kissing is a plus. But as others have written, if it is forced, no chemistry, then it is better left undone.
This is the director's/casting director's job; to set these two, or three, aside and make sure some kind of chemistry is there.
The kiss shows the audience that these two people care about each other in a way more than being just a hole and a pole. Kissing evolved from mother's passing chewed up food to their babies before utensils were invented or Gerber baby food was around. Hence, it became a sign of nuturance, and quite erotic as well. It is now kinda hard-wired into us humans, and the female of today requires kissing to gain a more intimate bond with her future mate and progenitor of her offspring.
I can see why women don't want the kissing to mess with her emotions wilst servicing several males at the porn shoot. It could cloud her emotions and make her fall in-love with her male performer. Happens all the time in Hollywood and elsewhere on stage!
absynth
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Posted - Oct 29 2007 : 5:04PM
Perhaps, "Pretty Woman," came out during the formative years of many would-be starlets.
Actually, my best guess is that kissing has been replaced with open mouth spitting. Isn't evolution great!
sam46
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Posted - Oct 29 2007 : 5:14PM
You don't kiss people with STDs, no where, no way, no matter what.
Loraine
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Dirty ATM's?
sam46
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Posted - Oct 29 2007 : 9:32PM
Poop is actually rich in the anti viral agent oxolin, explaining the popularity of A2M vs kissing.
CLAUDIA DOWNS
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Posted - Oct 31 2007 : 2:12AM
With me when im performing..it depends on the guy..if i feel kissing chemistry thn im gonna kiss him...if you dont feel that chemistry it just wont look right..you know i guess it depend on how good the pair match up's are but i definatly think kissing is sexy and passionate..andd yes more performers should..
Gentlehard
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Posted - Oct 31 2007 : 6:37AM
So are there ANY great kissing scenes between a man and a woman in recent DVDs?
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+1
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Posted - Nov 1 2007 : 12:54PM
This is an interesting thread because I didn't even realize this until one day when I was watching one of my favourite porno's. (black girls get nasty too)There is a scene with Sydnee Capri and Justin Slayer. There is a few times in the scene where they start kissing and all of sudden "wham!". It hit me. I was like "wait a second. They just kissed. I can't remember the last porno I saw with a kissing scene. I think it was probably from the 80's".
Just kind of interesting how kissing and become almost non-existent in porn.
fatalbert
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Posted - Nov 1 2007 : 2:22PM
Kissing increases the strokeability factor in every shot and position (where it's possible, of course -- not gonna see it much in piledriver).
One of the hottest things I see in porn is not even hardcore. It's during foreplay when they're kissing and she's fondling/stroking his equipment. Hot indeed.
Of course they usually ruin the effect by going to either/or closeups.
studioline
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Posted - Dec 26 2007 : 3:07AM
I remember this scene from 'Pretty Woman' with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere where as a prostitute she gives him a bj but refuses to kiss his lips because it's too personal. I don't know if this film started this whole sharade or whether it had existed before.
Yes, I also find it ironical when sex-workers whether escorts or porn-girls refuse to french kiss a handsome male but gladly rim some sleazy man's anus.
In porn, a french kiss makes the scene more emotional and more personal. Nowadays porn producers and performers seriously avoid scenes which will have any of the above and prefer to deliver a more animalistic and mechanical type of sexual performance.
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Posted - Dec 26 2007 : 5:12AM
mono... it's rampant
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