I like seeing a woman have an orgasm, so I don't understand why, when a woman cums in a scene, she apologizes. Has she done something she wasn't supposed to do? What do you think?
I think there are a number of different reasons. I once watched a movie about a hooker in a brothel where the madam told her to try not to have an orgasm because it might lead to an emotional attachment and make her job more complicated. Some girls in porn might have this same mentality. Some girls just want the sex to be strictly business and an orgasm might be seen as making it something else. A pornstar who used to post here admitted she didn't want to have orgasms while shooting because she wanted to save her orgasms for her boyfriend. I'm pretty sure some girls don't want to have orgasms during a shoot because their spouse may get jealous. It might be hard for a girl to explain why she's having an orgasm at her job when she might not be able to have one with her man.
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JackSparrow Deactivated User
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Posted - Nov 26 2014 : 1:26PM
^ then i wonder why do porn at all ,if you want that shared with the guy their think they love.
I've never seen this in a scene. Maybe I haven't watched enough scenes though? I don't know, while obviously I like genuine orgasms the fact that some are faked doesn't really phase me. They are performers after all, giving a performance. So long as it is done convincingly I have no complaints.
For the money I'd imagine. I'm sure there are lots of girls who have that thing or things they don't do shooting a scene with a guy that they save for the guy in their private life. The most obvious one is the girls who don't kiss or want to kiss the guys they film with. I can't remember the scenes but there's been at least a couple of times on BTS footage I've seen girls in the middle of their sex scenes complain to the guy to stop fucking her like she's his girlfriend or like he's making love to her. There are probably other things that girls don't do with porn guys that they save for their guy that we don't know about. I' always thought porn performers were able to view their performances on screen as just sex or their job and not get emotional about it but that's not always the case. During one interview a girl was asked who her fav guys to work with were and she said she'd rather not name them because sometimes their girlfriends get jealous when they get named by a girl and won't let them shoot with that guy again. There was a porn guy who said he lived with/dated another pornstar and when he got home and told her about his day on set he mentioned the girl he was working with by her real name and his girlfriend freaked out, got jealous and started accussing him of having a thing for her....just because he didn't refer to the girl by her porn name. And of course we've heard the stories of white boyfriends not wanting their girl to shoot with black guys and even black boyfriends who don't want their white girlfriend to shoot with other black guys. There's all sorts of weird emotional drama going on with pornstars, so it doesn't seem all that strange that there are girls who don't want to have an orgasm on screen.
MacKenzee Pierce. In her thread I asked her about my theory that most girls don't want to have an orgasm while shooting scenes because of a BTS scene I'd seen where the girl was very annoyed/embarrassed with herself because she came during a scene. And because so many girls who say they don't orgasm during shooting say it like they're actually proud of it.
If a guy cums in the middle of the scene, then he can lose his erection and his interest in having sex for a while. That's why it can be a bad thing. It works in a similar way for women. Women don't need to have a clitoral erection for having sex. But women can still lose interest and desire to have sex, after they orgasm. And this is something the viewers might see. That's why it can be a bad thing, when it happens in the middle of the scene. But guys always cum at the end of the scene. And it would make sense for women to orgasm at the end of the scene too. It's just that there is so much sexism in porn that most porn-makers care about showing only male orgasm and not female orgasm.
^ It was Cherokee (white pornstar). In the BTS of "BIG BOOTY REVENGE 3" Cherokee is interviewed and is embarassed and annoyed with herself that she came while shooting with Nat Turnher. I guess it threw off her game because at one point during the sex she asked the camera man to back off so she could enjoy herself with Nate. She was so embarassed that she was so into it was actually sort of cute.
I'm sure that happens. Maybe a lot. The actresses I've seen cum during their scenes, though, apologized to the director ... like they'd done something unprofessional. I think Dan's right: after she cums--just like a man--she's satisfied. So she doesn't want to have sex anymore. And the viewer may notice it.
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A-ten Deactivated User
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Posted - Nov 29 2014 : 10:41AM
Women do tend to feel more emotionally attached to someone that makes them cum in my experience. It's nearly the exact opposite for a male. He likes a girl that gets him hard. Once he gets off, he wants to go back to watching football or something.
Dan may be be absolutely right...but it seems kinda strange though...First of all there are gils who cum during scenes and it doesn't seem to be a problem for anyone. Viewers want to see a real orgasm, so the girl having one should be something a director would want. Also, just because a woman has an orgasm that doesn't mean she doessn't want the sex to continue. Even if some girls are done after cumming it shouldn't make much difference because they're "performing" anyway. The guy is doing most of the heavy lifting and the girl just basically has be present and not look like she doesn't want to be there. For most girls I'd think that's something they have to do from time to time anyway. With the Cherokee example I mentioned she was annoyed with herself for cumming but the director (I think she was talking to the director) didn't seem to mind it and thought it waas funny. In that situation the director had reason to be annoyed with her because she got so into the sex she asked the cameraman to go away for a bit so she could enjoy the sex more. But I don't know if that's common thing or not. There's a lot of starting and stopping during a scene...perhaps that may be one of the reasons for stopping.
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Posted - Nov 26 2014 : 8:23AM
Which girl was it who was annoyed/embarrassed with herself for having an orgasm in the BTS scene you saw?
