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Dan
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Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 11:00PM
In almost all porn scenes I've seen, horny guys always intentionally present their dick to the lady for handling and for sucking.
It's as if the pretty lady is too much of a lady to grab a passing guy's cock of her own free will and initiate sexual interaction with him. It's always the guy who has to initiate the sexual interaction with the lady in some way.
I suppose, there is nothing wrong with horny guys initiating their sexual interaction with a pretty lady. But having it happen almost every time seems to me a little too rigid, too traditional, and too tame for porn.
Sure, it looks outrageous for a sexy lady to grab a guy's cock and play around with it, when the guy clearly wasn't expecting it from her. Because it makes the lady look like a real slut, who is asking for it and not just passively waiting for the horny guy to show some initiative. But I thought that a pretty lady behaving like a slut this way is a good thing to have in a porn movie.
Slutty behavior like this from the pretty lady justifies the hard fuck she gets from her guy. When the lady is passive and lady-like in her behavior, then her hard sex with the guys makes her look almost like an unwilling victim rather than a willing participant. But when the lady initiates at least some of her sex with the guys, then this makes her look like an equal and willing participant in the sex. A passive lady makes the sex look one-sided, where only the guys are enjoying it. Whereas a slutty lady who initiates at least some of her sex with the guys, makes it look like she is enjoying the sex as much as the guys are.
Edited by - Dan on Jul 4 2012
Peoples Temple
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Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 12:25AM
The director calls for the guy to take the lead role and be the initiator in most films, it is not spontaneous behavior or real life. This is acting which is why the adult performers are referred to as actresses or actors.
The directors call the shots.
Back in the 70s and early 80s during the "Golden Age of Porn" you had some interesting and real creativity by film makers but today, due to many reasons, you have directors who have the creativity of a Tree Stump.
Dan
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Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 12:34AM
^
So, it's the film directors who are rigid, traditional, and tame in their fantasies.
But identifying who is responsible doesn't really answer the question, why do porn movies have to be so limited and unimaginative?
Film directors can easily direct the lady to grab the guy's cock. And film directors can tell the guy to act and respond as if he didn't expect it.
Edited by - Dan on 7/5/2012 12:35:04 AM
Xenomorph
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Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 2:32AM
Cookie cutter porn. If it makes money run it til the bottom falls out, move on.
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Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 12:02PM
It's porn.
We ALL expect it
 
Dan
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Posted - Jul 6 2012 : 6:36AM
I would've thought that competition between porn-makers for money in the porn market would motivate porn-makers to experiment and to do something different from what others do.
Perhaps there isn't enough competition in the porn market to produce this kind of variety.
Dan
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Posted - Jul 6 2012 : 6:46AM
There are many possible ways for a sexually-interested lady to grab her guy's cock, when he isn't expecting it.
For example, when a guy approaches the lady to penetrate her pussy or ass. The lady can suddenly reach out, grab the guy's cock with her hand, give it a few good strokes to make the cock harder, and then let the guy penetrate her.
Such bold sex-action from the pretty lady would do much to show to the viewer her willingness and her desire to fuck. And this the viewer doesn't get to see, when the lady stays passive and just lets the guy do whatever he wants.
Another good example is when the pretty lady is with several guys, and she 'selects' the guy to fuck her pussy or ass next by grabbing the guy's cock and giving it a quick play with her hand.
Such active selection by the pretty lady would turn her gang-bang into more of a wild orgy, with her being an equal participant in it. It would be a gang-bang with a different flavor, a flavor many viewers might enjoy watching.
Draxxx
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Posted - Jul 7 2012 : 10:18AM
I think it's the polite thing for a guy to do. It's being a gentleman. Like opening a car door for a lady. Besides, if the girl is nice enough to blow a guy the least the guy could do is unwrap in and present it to her instead of having her have to unbuckle, unbotton, zip down, fish around for it, and if she finds it she can finally start the blowjob process. Notice what it's called..."blowjob" many women feel there already enough work involved without the added task of retreiving the penis. here's a little discussed statistic for you: 6% of women who had to get the penis themselves decided after the amount of work involved discovered they weren't in the mood to blow the guy anymore and just left the guys hanging.
Research has shown that not only do women want to be presented with he penis, they'd like it presented in creative ways. Many of the women in the survey said they enjoy such presentations as the penis in the hotdog bun presentation, the surprise penis through the pizza box, the penis at the bottom of the popcorn box, and the somewhat traditional "Dick in a box" gift wrapped for her birthday.
By presenting your penis to a woman you're giving the woman the message of "Here, I'm giving you this because you're special...". when a guy makes the woman get it themselves it basically say "Yeah, I've got a penis but if you want it you need to get off your lazy ass and go get it yourself!".
Just a liitle something to be aware of.
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fevrinnn
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Posted - Jul 7 2012 : 12:31PM
Quite. Draxxx summed it up nicely.
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Dan
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Posted - Jul 8 2012 : 8:13AM
I have nothing against the guy presenting his cock to the lady. But there is such a thing as too much of a good thing.
When you present your cock to the lady, then you risk rejection from her. This can be a tense moment for guys in real-life situations. A guy can even lose his erection as a result of feeling uncertain like this.
That's why many horny guys fantasize about meeting a real slut who grabs them by their cock and makes them fuck. All uncertainty and fear of rejection is eliminated for the horny guy, when it's the woman who grabs his cock and plays around with it to make him fuck.
Fear of rejection is a real and a common fear among guys in the real world. And that's why many sex fantasies of guys involve meeting an attractive female sex-maniac who grabs them by their dicks and makes them fuck. There is no chance of rejection in such a situation for the horny guy.
And of course, another type of sex-fantasy to deal with men's fear of rejection is for a guy to meet such a slut that she never says 'no' to any guy. This is the most common type of sex-fantasy in porn movies. But there is no good reason why it needs to be the only fantasy to deal with the fear of rejection. Meeting an attractive female sex-maniac who makes you fuck is a pretty good way to overcome the fear of rejection too.
Edited by - Dan on 7/8/2012 8:17:39 AM
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