I don't know what happened in the move. I know that both of you had made posts in this thread.

Normally when we make a move, all the responses (if there are any) go along with it.

It didn't in this case and I'll report it to steph.

Sorry.

DenverDon

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I said something about a pussy being nothing but a clam with a fright wig (with an additional apology to Cal) ... and RH suggested that I stay away from fish ... to which I responded, "But I love seafood - especially when he is wearing a cracker jacks uniform!"

I guess you had to be there....

~ GaySatyr

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OK ladies, why do you like boy/boy scenes when you watch bi or gay porn?

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I read them before I moved it.

I have sent steph a message, and it is fairly important not to lose subsequent posts when we move them.

DenverDon

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...A long weekend without AdultDVDTalk

But to answer the question, I occasionally watch man on man action, not boy/boy, because I prefer muscle-bound, older, more mature looking guys delivering hard fucking in gay porn, and I really can't explain why.

- - - B-I-G-m-i-k-e, over & out! - - -

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(1) The action is hotter (more hardcore and to the point).
(2) The men are more attractive.
(3) It lets us peek at what goes unexplored in our own boudoirs.
(4) The performers are on more of an equal playing field.
(5) The camera focus is on the men, not women.

Of those points, I agree with #2 and strongly agree with #3 and #5.

I think #1 is off base (the hetero gonzo I've seen is every bit as hardcore and to the point). I'm not quite sure what Corwell means by #4; if she's referring to versatile men who meet each other as equals and trade top/bottom positions, I do enjoy that. (I also like dom/sub scenarios, however, in both straight and gay porn.)

But ultimately, I suppose I really can't explain why, either. Men turn me on. Seeing men together turns me on, too.

It irks me a little that this thread has to be in the gay forum, while the companion thread "Why do you watch girl/girl?" is in the main forum. (And that's not a criticism of DenverDon's moderating; I recognize that's just how our society classifies things.) It's a double standard that I've grown to despise.

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(1) Yummy. Gino Gultier and Toni Rio together works for me.

(2) And most important. To validate my own bisexuality. Hey, I'm a happily married man in a monogamous heterosexual relationship. But my fantasy life doesn't stop there. Which is why I write stories. Which is why I go to bi group meetings. Which is why I post here.

I almost sent a P.S. on my email to Steph and DenverDon protesting the move of this thread (I toned down the email too). I didn't save the original text, but it went something like this:

Bisexual women are celebrated in straight porn. Bisexual men aren't even thought of in straight porn. If they are thought of at all, they are only thought of as second class citizens.

As an edit:
I'm grinning like the Cheshire cat to repost the question asking ladies only. That can't get moved to Gay DVD Talk.

Edited by - RobHammer on 6/11/2003 2:04:13 AM

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Sorry about that.

I am glad that you re-posted under the "ladies only" heading. It should be interesting reading.

What really irks me is that the g/g thread really ought to have been in this forum also. It is grossly unfair that g/g porn is accepted by blue-collared, red-necked bigots and b/b porn is grounds for a police raid.

Oh well, I'm used to it by now.

~ GaySatyr

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...Billy

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General Porn Talk (Informational):
I thought this was great. Where do I find more.
I thought this was bad. How do I avoid it.

Polls Forum (Objective):
Who likes or hates this.

Sex Forum (Subjective):
Why do you like/hate this - when it pertains to something that is associated with a sexual preference.

I hope Bob doesn't think this is too reductionist. My reference is with respect to this particular type of topic.

The way this board is structured and the way most porn is marketed (and society in general), anything of an all-male nature will always get posted to the Gay DVD Forum, however:

If it's a sexuality issue, it should always get posted to Sex Talk, regardless of orientation.

That's just my opinion as a member. I'm not a moderator.

I only posted the boy/boy to General Porn Talk because the girl/girl question was there. Well, maybe there are other underlying issues here (like I just couldn't help myself).

Edited by - RobHammer on 6/13/2003 2:04:41 AM

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I agree with #4 somewhat. I like seeing versatile men or men who switch in a d/s situation, but I also like it when the roleplay is well defined.

Edited by - malkira on 6/22/2003 5:06:52 PM

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