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nguyenvantu77
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Posted - Oct 3 2017 : 12:16PM
I got married six years ago and I had two children. Now, I am 39 and my wife is 31 year old. However, I didn't really feel sexually attracted to her. Why? Help me please!
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A_Fan
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9/16
Posted - Oct 3 2017 : 1:41PM
^Nobody here can answer that for you. You can get 1000 different possibilities as to what it may be. Only you know why.
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SamanthaRone
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Posted - Oct 3 2017 : 2:58PM
Take the lock and key theory to heart.
Mental
Physical
Emotional
Most people are a combination. For me personally I'm a mix between physical and mental. That means if Im physically getting off I happy and if they mentally simulate me Im getting off 1 hex fold! Some people are very different, You just have to find that person that fits you Key. Sure you can try a ton of locks but you need to find that one. You may not need to be physically attracted to that person maybe you fell in love with this person because you loved their emotional side or the mental side. Not everything is SEX based.
Hope this helps xx
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Edited by - Flash on 10/13/2017 9:27:23 PM
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cormac
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Posted - Oct 7 2017 : 6:44AM
Samantha - " You just have to find that person that fits you". You're not telling this guy to have an affair are you?! Did I misread?
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Bigfan123
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Posted - Oct 7 2017 : 12:10PM
Attraction is an elusive thing,,, try this ,,
start to think of sex as fun,,, think of what porn scenes you like to watch and then do those things with your wife.
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Pieps
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9233 Posts
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Posted - Oct 12 2017 : 11:46AM
Are you thinking of her as a mommy, instead of as a wife?
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CaptainLegal
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10 Posts
10/17
Posted - Oct 22 2017 : 9:45AM
Maybe the reason is that her body changed from the day you got married,maybe she got loose down there after childbirth and doesn't feel too exciting(not enough tight)when you have sex.The best way to fix your problem ist to speak with her,communication is the most important thing in a relationship.Maybe she feels the same way about you.Maybe it's time to try new things,after six years of marriage,doing the same things again and again,of course someone of you,would be tired.Just talk to her,don't keep her in the shadows,it's unfair for her to not tell her the truth.
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CaptainLegal
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Posted - Oct 22 2017 : 9:46AM
There is always a solution to a problem.
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