Why is the cumshot facial so exciting?

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fanman44 Deactivated User 474 Posts 1/13	Posted - May 13 2014 : 8:15PM It really shouldn't do anything for me as a straight male. Despite that, it's my favorite part of the scene. I think I'm attracted to the unpredictability of it, when every position and line is rehearsed. Also, the location of the cumshot is unpredictable too. Could hit the eyes, nose, tongue, or hair. Any place is equally exiting. I know people call the cumshot redundant, but I wouldn't give it up for anything in porn,. [Link]
mrhector Senior Member 5084 Posts 3/06	Posted - May 13 2014 : 8:25PM A visual reinforcement of the orgasm that leaves the male viewer with a feeling of satisfaction, a feeling of successful completion. A visual reward of the process. Like hitting the jackpot on a slot machine. [Link]
MV007 Member 69 Posts 3/13	Posted - May 17 2014 : 5:03PM I think it's very simple. It's like a dog marking his territory. It's about possession. It puts the femaile in a very submissive position. And that's hot. [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 18 2014 : 2:51AM Must admit, I'm obsessed with facials/bukkake. It just never gets old for me. One thing I've always wondered, though: do I want to cum on a girl's face because porn gave me the idea or is it a desire that men just innately have, therefore it's shown in porn? Did guys dish out facials before the existence of porn? I guess there's no way to know for sure. Edited by - N00dlesDaddy on 5/18/2014 2:53:12 AM [Link]
Mass Facialties Deactivated User "Facialized Vol. 7" 2021 AVN Awards Winner: Best Oral Movie 9308 Posts 9/13	Posted - May 18 2014 : 4:37AM ^ Good question, because now that I think of it, I don't think I ever fantasized about cumming on a girl's face before I started watching hardcore porn (I was 18 when I first saw it). [Link]

Gunzo Senior Member 1377 Posts 2/05	Posted - May 18 2014 : 5:17AM To me it's that the woman enjoys being submissive. [Link]
pat362 Senior Member 10083 Posts 3/10	Posted - May 18 2014 : 11:05AM One thing I've always wondered, though: do I want to cum on a girl's face because porn gave me the idea or is it a desire that men just innately have, therefore it's shown in porn? Did guys dish out facials before the existence of porn? I guess there's no way to know for sure. Edited by - N00dlesDaddy on 5/18/2014 2:53:12 AM Click to expand I can't speak as to whether porn gave you the idea but if it did then it's because you have been watching porn made in the last 15 years. Prior to that facials were on the rare side. I'm not saying that they didn't exist but the vast majority of cum shots back then were usually based on the position the performers were in at the time of the cum shot. If they were in doggy then the cum shot was on the back or on her ass and if they were in missionary then it was the stomach or vagina. Sometimes you got a cum shot on the girls breasts but I honestly can't remember seeing any actual facials from any scene not involving the girl giving the guy a BJ. [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 18 2014 : 2:59PM ^ That's true. How tame are belly/back cumshots, though? They're almost quaint when you watch the old movies now. Breasts and arses are less so (I actually love tit & ass cumshots) but, without doubt, facials are the nastiest of the bunch. Probably just a consequence of porn getting harder. I once saw a film (one of the Red Light District 'Gangbang' series, I think) where Vince Voyeur berated a guy for jizzing on a girl's tits, claiming "It's not 1983 anymore". [Link]
jim2 Member 232 Posts 7/06	Posted - May 18 2014 : 9:05PM In porn I think it's exciting because the girl looks like she enjoys it. In real life many women are not into it. Some flat out refuse, while others only do it to please their husband/boyfriend. Very few seem to actually enjoy a facial. [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 19 2014 : 1:54AM ^ And why would you enjoy it? It's not really a 'natural' act. I almost feel sorry for women, being coerced into accepting a facial so her bf/husband can replicate what he's seen in porn. Note I said 'almost'. [Link]
Imperator Member 117 Posts 4/11	Posted - May 19 2014 : 8:54AM The big question is why is the boring and artificial facial (particularly since in 99% of cases it requires the guy to beat off like a demented monkey to get there) so prevalent, while a very popular real life sex act is almost never shown in porn. I refer to finishing inside a closed mouth, or rather having the woman finish you off inside her closed mouth. Are there any men who don't find that really hot? Go to any escort review site and check the reviews. Most punters care about cim and (comparatively) very rarely about facials, although they are also listed as available services. The appeal there is much the same as the facial: the submissive-dominant relationship and the message of total acceptance, plus (if you've ever done it in real life) the memory of the tactile delight of the real life act. Seriously, who when given the chance would prefer to go about spraying their population paste all over the shop when they could have their lady do it for them inside her mouth? I know, I know, there are SOME videos that show the act, but they're almost always in the fetish fringe, and often amateur. When the occasional real pro porn model does it (e.g. Allie Haze seems to do so more often than others), it's always a surprise; a pleasant one, but still, it should be more regular. I don't for a moment buy that the models won't do it. So many of them will happily perform totally artificial and unsexy "dirty" acts like A2M, that a mouthful of sperm doesn't seem so bad by comparison. Then there are the million "oral" and "swallow" movies, which 99% of the time involve the chappie beating off like mad again while the girl patiently waits with her mouth open like a baby bird. I'm sure this has to do with the obsession of making everything visible, and the precious cumshot most of all. But even that is not so much of an obstacle since so many of the closed oral cumshots always show some (or a lot) of "splashback" coming from the sides of the woman's mouth. It's just logistics anyway - I'm sure if more people asked for such finishes, producers would figure out a way. But they don't. Or more likely, porn producers don't even bother asking. As always porn goes off in a bizarre direction that has little to do with people's real sex lives, and worse, real sex fantasies. I would honestly advise them to not listen to me, or any other person in a porn forum, and go and check what people who pay for sex (i.e. punters) ask from prostitutes. They have certainly put their money where their dick is. Imp. Edited by - Imperator on 5/19/2014 8:59:27 AM [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 19 2014 : 9:08AM ^ I think you've hit the nail on the head, Imp - porn is such a visual medium that the viewer wants to see the cumshot. I want to see the cumshot. It's as simple as that. Obviously, in real life I'd be more than happy to blow my stack inside the girl (mouth and arsehole being my orifices of choice). Does anyone know, by the way, if you can give a hooker a facial or would that get you shown the door? It's just that women seem generally happier to accept something (sexually) they're getting paid for. Edited by - N00dlesDaddy on 5/19/2014 9:10:34 AM [Link]
Imperator Member 117 Posts 4/11	Posted - May 19 2014 : 9:32AM N00dlesDaddy wrote: ^ I think you've hit the nail on the head, Imp - porn is such a visual medium that the viewer wants to see the cumshot. I want to see the cumshot. It's as simple as that. Obviously, in real life I'd be more than happy to blow my stack inside the girl (mouth and arsehole being my orifices of choice). Does anyone know, by the way, if you can give a hooker a facial or would that get you shown the door? It's just that women seem generally happier to accept something (sexually) they're getting paid for. Edited by - N00dlesDaddy on 5/19/2014 9:10:34 AM Click to expand As I said, go to any escort site and check for yourself. Cim/cof is a very frequently requested (and provided) service. As for being shown the door, you always negotiate the repertoire in advance, either explicitly with the girl or by tacitly accepting the services offered on the site when you book her. As for porn being visual medium and all that, I don't disagree (though it's mostly a visual medium of showing MEN these days, which is baffling), but I dispute that the 1970s conventions of the external cumshot as it is is the only way to provide visual feedback to the viewer. And certainly not by having the guy beating off like a mad chimp. It breaks the flow of the action and looks idiotic. Anyway, since I like the oral cumshot act a lot (the real one, not the stupid dripping into the baby bird's mouth), I have gathered pretty much every scene of the sort that exists out there. It's mostly amateur or pro-am, with the odd exception. In the huge majority of cases there is "splashback", generally by the girl allowing the sperm to come out of the sides of her mouth. Everything is still very visible, and this way you would avoid all the endless complaints by facial fans that the guy missed his mark or that (to quote an actual RK website complaint) "he has a disappointing cumshot" - presumably in volume. Imp. [Link]
Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10	Posted - May 19 2014 : 9:33AM ^ Since many prostitutes are quickly moving on to their next client, or back onto the street, the "golden rule" was always don't mess up her hair and/or makeup. So, I'm thinking a porn-style facial is fairly high on the "no" list. Maybe if you pay extra? [Link]
Imperator Member 117 Posts 4/11	Posted - May 19 2014 : 9:42AM ^Depends on the type (and price range) of escort. I wouldn't know about streetwalkers or massage parlours, not my type. But it's not an issue with call-girls. Since there is always a shower involved (two actually, one in advance and one at the end) any accidents can be sorted out (and that includes any unfortunate residue for anal, although real pros schedule their meals according to their bookings). More importantly, since men who book escorts rarely ask to jerk off themselves (they can do that at home and save the money) the little bird is in her hands when it starts to sing, so to speak. Since most people (and I don't just speak for myself here, but for almost every single escort review I've ever read) like to finish inside the mouth, she controls you with lips and (if she's not that technically proficient) her hand. I imagine, not having done so myself, that if you request a facial she can point the hose to the bits away from her hair. I can't imagine you'd like to to the pointing yourself (as I said, you could have done so more cheaply at home), but I'm sure everything can be negotiated. I know, I know, off-topic. Imp. [Link]

N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 19 2014 : 10:15AM Goldstein wrote: I'm thinking a porn-style facial is fairly high on the "no" list. Click to expand How many different 'styles' of facials are there? Can't say the 'careful' type, where you deliberately try to make as little mess as possible, would be much fun for me. And, while I'm fine with the girl finishing me off (love it, in fact), am I alone in actually enjoying jerking myself off on a woman? Giving a living, breathing chick a facial is hardly the same thing as masturbating by oneself, Imp. [Link]
pat362 Senior Member 10083 Posts 3/10	Posted - May 19 2014 : 10:38AM ^I can't be sure but I suspect that Imperator meant that a porn style facial is when the guy is fucking the girl and all of a sudden he will stop, get up, walk in front of the woman who is now keeling and jerk off on her face. That is your standard porn style facial. About the only way to have a natural facial requires that the guy be in front of the woman while he is pleasuring himself or she is doing it. Anything else makes it look fake. [Link]
Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10	Posted - May 19 2014 : 10:58AM It becomes apparent to me that you guys want to fight and argue over absolute petty nonsense, far more than you actually posture as "discussing" something. Anything [o\\|] Slicing, dicing, mincing and twisting ad nauseum. Re-stating things, with single-line quotes, like the poster didn't already address it in the context of their full post. (I hear Sean Hannity is hiring...) Now we have to argue over what "porn-style facial" means? Really? (Thanks for the "How many different 'styles' of facials are there?" umbrage, NOOdles) So, here, some porn-style facials (not the limp-dick dribbles you guys seem to be so familiar with). [Link]
Imperator Member 117 Posts 4/11	Posted - May 19 2014 : 11:16AM N00dlesDaddy wrote: And, while I'm fine with the girl finishing me off (love it, in fact), am I alone in actually enjoying jerking myself off on a woman? Giving a living, breathing chick a facial is hardly the same thing as masturbating by oneself, Imp. Click to expand Certainly, but I find that ejaculation in the presence of a woman is better when there's a "Look Ma, no hands!" context. As for the chappie who took issue with our slicing dicing and mincing, I guess he will be happier if we go back to compiling lists of outlandish acts, which is what 99% of "discussion" in this place seems to be these days. "What are the 20 hottest prolapse scenes? Film at 11." Imp. [Link]
fanman44 Deactivated User 474 Posts 1/13	Posted - May 19 2014 : 2:11PM This stuff imperator is bringing up is retarded. This guy must be terrible in social situations, going off on a tangent that was not the aim of the original topic [Link]
Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10	Posted - May 19 2014 : 2:25PM ^ I realize you just can't help yourself, but... Facial cumshots is an excellent topic (and potential discussion). Quibbling (i.e. "slicing, dicing, mincing and twisting ad nauseum") over the meaning of what a "porn-style facial" is, is not. In fact, what I complained about here is worse than the "compiling lists of outlandish acts" nonsense you throw-up as a straw argument, because facial cumshots should be a worthwhile topic. Anyway, now that we've derailed another one, I don't care anymore. Discuss... [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - May 19 2014 : 3:21PM Goldstein, seriously, get over yourself. I meant no ill will, or sarcasm, whatsoever in my response to your post; I read the phrase "porn-style facial" and it made me chuckle, that's all. No need for that scathing tirade, old bean. My point was that, to me, a facial is a facial, whether it's done as the climax to a fuck or not. "Don't bother to argue anything on the Internet. And I mean, ANYTHING...The most innocuous, innocent, harmless, basic topics will be misconstrued by people trying to deconstruct things down to the sub-atomic level and entirely miss the point...Seriously. Keep peeling the onion and you get no onion." Vera Nazarian [Link]
Dan Senior Member 2056 Posts 6/07	Posted - May 23 2014 : 8:00AM jim2 wrote: In porn I think it's exciting because the girl looks like she enjoys it. In real life many women are not into it. Some flat out refuse, while others only do it to please their husband/boyfriend. Very few seem to actually enjoy a facial. Click to expand Perhaps I'm an exception in this, but I never got to like facial cumshots in porn, despite seeing many of them. Seeing cum on the lady's face even turns me off a little. Because it makes her face look less attractive to me for kissing. Not many guys would want to kiss the pretty lady's face, when she is wearing cum on her face. I'd rather see the guy make a mess on the lady's stomach or back and then go back inside for another ride. Even cumming on her tits would turn me off a little, because this makes her tits less attractive for sucking, which I like to do. Any place on the lady, where I want to put my face and mouth, I don't want to see any cum. Edited by - Dan on 5/23/2014 8:02:58 AM [Link]
heyclammy Member 242 Posts 3/05	Posted - May 23 2014 : 8:39AM facials and cum swallowing are the ultimate form of acceptance. [Link]
Not MrAlalas (Fake Account) Deactivated User 77 Posts 7/14	Posted - Jul 18 2014 : 10:21AM Coz it's cool to see your load landing on a pretty face and girls like it too. As a black man I love popping my nigga cum on pretty white slutty faces. And I love when my cumshot reaches the hair of the girl. She'll feel the sticky or dry thing when she touches her hair and think "this is Alalas cum" [Link]

vollenweider Member 110 Posts 9/12	Posted - Jul 18 2014 : 12:48PM I hate em, much rather see the girl swallow or take an anal creampie, or better yet, eat an anal creampie. [Link]
Not MrAlalas (Fake Account) Deactivated User 77 Posts 7/14	Posted - Jul 20 2014 : 9:45AM Yeah, I love pussy and ass creampies too but in facials your cum turns into natural makeup for the girls [Link]
Mass Facialties Deactivated User "Facialized Vol. 7" 2021 AVN Awards Winner: Best Oral Movie 9308 Posts 9/13	Posted - Jul 21 2014 : 9:10AM In viewing porn, I've never found a creampie to be visually stimulating at all. I know that if you, yourself, are having sex and do a creampie it feels great, but I've never understood the appeal of watching it in porn. [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - Jul 21 2014 : 4:11PM MrAlalas wrote: As a black man I love popping my nigga cum on pretty white slutty faces. Click to expand [Link]
KantellYu Member 20 Posts 5/13	Posted - Jul 26 2014 : 10:17AM I agree with the postings on why seeing facial is arousing (territory marking, total acceptance, etc.). I know my thoughts on facial and women swallowing cum may seem off the wall but I hope you find it creative instead. I think there could be an evolutionary basis for women to take facial and swallow cum. Long, long time ago at some primitive evolutionary stage of human, food could be scarce at times or even often. Malnutrition would make women less fit to bear children, give birth and raise them with their partners or community, particularly if survival conditions were extremely difficult, e.g. draught etc. In fact, conditions were so tough that getting pregnant even made women more prone to death from pregnancy complications, stress and escape from predators, etc. So, by happenstance or early human’s animal instinct of knowing what food is nutritious, those women who routinely swallow cum got water, protein etc. from semen. This led to their enhanced survival and had more survival fitness over women who didn’t. Those who did lived long enough to bear children when conditions improved. Over time the good old Darwin’s survival of the fitness and natural selection won out and the cum swallowing trait got passed onto to the newer generations. As human evolved and became more efficient in getting food, the selective advantage of these genes became less relevant and taking semen in vagina would lead to more offsprings and perpetuate their genes. Hence women became less likely to swallow cum. In real life, I believe more men like to cum in a woman’s closed mouth than on her face because between physical and visual pleasure, physical wins out. Male porn stars do facial instead of in closed mouth because the audience can only get visual pleasure from watching. Darwin’s natural selection also applies to why men enjoy watching porn. When a man sees another man passing on his genes, he wants to compete and pass on his as well or first, particularly with the same woman. In closing, porn fans, next time when you want your women to swallow your cum, tell them it is nutritious, low calorie, low cholesterol, rich in protein and anti-oxidants, has a long significant evolutionary history and survival value that they should embrace and practice. And, if they are dumb enough (am being facetious) to totally believe you and swallow cum every time, then they won’t get pregnant and their dumb genes would not get pass on. Long live Darwin’s natural selection. :-) [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - Jul 27 2014 : 2:39PM KantellYu wrote: when you want your women to swallow your cum, tell them it is nutritious, low calorie, low cholesterol, rich in protein and anti-oxidants, has a long significant evolutionary history and survival value that they should embrace and practice. Click to expand ...and tastes disgusting, according to Mrs. N - which is fine by me, as I prefer to blow it in her face, anyway (I think she buys the old yarn about it being 'good for the complexion'). [Link]
Bob Cobb Deactivated User 220 Posts 6/14	Posted - Jul 27 2014 : 7:12PM ^ Maybe the wife should wipe the cum off and wipe it on your face! Give you a little taste of your own medicine. (literally) [Link]
SP_Love Senior Member "Freaky Deakies Need Love Too" 1181 Posts 2/11	Posted - Jul 27 2014 : 7:24PM Gunzo wrote: To me it's that the woman enjoys being submissive. Click to expand ^^^ The most honest thing anyone has ever said in this forum. "It takes courage to enjoy it: the hardcore and gentle...Big Time Sensuality!" [Link]
N00dlesDaddy Senior Member Layla...got me on my knees... 1793 Posts 7/13	Posted - Jul 29 2014 : 4:17PM Semen makes women happier & more affectionate - apparently! [Link]
Nardack Member 51 Posts 8/17	Posted - Aug 16 2017 : 5:24PM Honestly, I always hated how, even in really old films like Debbie Does Dallas, facials were far too prevalent. I get that most actresses back then didn't trust birth control methods, but it always looked silly and humiliating to me. Of course nowadays porn films have to have the facial as an integral part of the picture, even though birth control is more trusted... [Link]