And for a girl has to do anal to become a big pornstar. Jenna Jameson proved that to be very wrong. Same with Penny Flame,Katie Morgan, Jesse Jane and LOTS of others. (though Im still hoping that one day Penny does do anal) However. Anal is a bargaining chip for porn in a way. Its a step to make you become bigger. Unless you can do that without anal. I personally think the best way to do this is to come in ebing a anal starlet.(worked wonders with Bree Olsen) I'm sure every fetish could be picked on in a why do you like______?
To be clear its not about the pain. Never do I personally (nor do I suspect most anal fans), ever enjoy seeing the female in any undue form of discomfort, infact not even the so called "pain that supposedly feels good", but rather it's the idea that the female is always aware and alert, if not closely monitoring, exactly whats being done, and with all due respect to our fellow female porn fans, that she's doing it, in her unswerving effort to please our vicarious cock. This is often confirmed by the male performers always asking her to "say" where the dick is going,"in my ass" the idea once again, that everything taking place is for the rewarding purpose of pleasing him, and in effect us, the audience. Now before somebody replies to this with an accusation that all us anal fans are now chauvinistic, self serving pricks, its not necessarily in some sadistic effort to neglect the female of her own enjoyment (not that having paid to watch we should really give a flying fuck, infact my ideal fantasy, entertains an entire harem with such sexual subserviance), but rather the notion that she isn't merely drifting off into a personal state of clitoral semi-conscious euphoria, with absolute zero cognitive sense, that there's an army of fans, beating off to her at every given instance. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Without trying to sound like a complete doofus... I don't understand what you are trying to say. I can imagine what a cock up my ass would feel like? I'm not so sure I can.. I can not imagine what a cock in my non-existing pussy would be like but I can not understand why that would lead to a psychological disconnect with a girl either. My guess is that it boils down to the "taboo" factor, and the "hardcore" "pushing limits" factors, which some guys are turned on by. I can understand it to a certain degree, but I prefer pussy by a good margin, and I haven't seen many anal scenes that turn me on.
The idea of this thread, and I may be wrong, is to highlight one poster's exasperation about how adamant fans who enjoy anal as part of their voyeuristic experience are in their opinions of what constitues a true "star". I believe everyone has a strong opinion about what they find to be the "best" erotic content, but it is always deeply personal and subjective and is generally never shared with anyone. Having a forum in which to unburden what is 99.999% totally private may have an effect on how strongly we claim this or that to be true in a personal and/or pejorative sense.
You'll find that this exasperation is shared by many of us. We all have our own preferences or fetishes. I am personally a big legs & ass man. I love long, shapely legs and thick juicy asses. I also love watching sloppy blowjobs. But I've never declared a girl "unfit" to do porn because she didn't have MY favorite body type or didn't give enthusiastic blowjobs. With many anal fans, there is this narcissistic notion that their kink is the gold standard of porn. That somehow ALL men want anal and any girls who doesn't comply should get out of the business. It's becoming pretty damn annoying and it's about time the rest of us spoke up and gave these people a reality check.
To me it seems like a bit of a no brainer that in the porno industry girls with set limits who refuse to do certain acts (be they anal, non-condom scenes, cum-swallowning, whatever)are always going to be a source of frustration for those who want to see them do EVERYTHING. To me porn is fantasy where ideally girls are willing to do anything with no limits (unlike real-life). That doesn't mean girls who will only perform certain acts have no place in the industry - if they can make a living then they will do - but it's inevitable that fans of more hardcore material will keep saying - "Oh yes, Performer X is really beatutiful - but I wish she took it up the ass as well". By all means let performers make vaginal-only films if there is a paying audience for this stuff, but I don't see how a performer having no-go areas can ever be considered a positive thing to have. Edited by - loz on 11/18/2007 11:37:52 AM
You should always keep in mind the first two words in that sentence. Because the rest of us may feel differently. Some may actually be put off by watching acts such as A2M or rimming. The logical thing for one to do, is to find the girls who are willing to engage in our favorite activities, and stop worrying about or bashing the ones who aren't. With the number of girls and the various genres of porn available, that has never been easier to do.
That's the heart of the matter. Pick and choose - there is enough variety to suit everyone. New girls are cumming all the time, and the one everyone is hot for this month is generally on the back burner before long. There is simply too much volume for any reasonable complaint about this star ruining a genre/series or that star is worthless because she doesn't do gang-bangs or whatever... The industry has an insane amount of product in a plethora of genres and an inexhaustible, if not oversaturated, supply of girls to do the work. Have an opinion, but don't make insupportable generalizations or judgements. That is my OPINION about OPINIONS about others' OPINIONS.
I love conquistador & wana fuck him in his ass 70 Posts 12/07
Posted - Dec 23 2007 : 7:57PM
i think anal wrecks a porno, i also think guys like seeing girls in pain and hurting them in a dominatrix sort of way giving power over them , and from my experience not many girls are into it in the real world(there is life outside porn) and guy's secretly want it done to them esp conquistador
Ive been lucky enough to be alive during the development years of porn to its present state (whatever that is) Anal was always considered the last taboo, so it was bound to make its way into the limelights of depravity What's next? there's nothing left...(unless those crazy Japanese have something up their sleeves)
Let those who don't want none cherish the memories of not gettin' any! 46 Posts 11/07
Posted - Dec 24 2007 : 10:40PM
Also let us not forget that the asshole is situated between two nice, beautiful, rounded cheeks with a nice long thick cleft between them and those cheeks, with proper agitation, tend to jiggle and bounce, thus accelerating the pulse of any red-blooded man who has one. To be stuck all the way up a woman's ass is to be enclosed and pleasantly imprisoned by all that soft, smooth, beautiful, gorgeous, caressing flesh. Is this not desirable in sex with a woman? "Be like Robin Hood. Steal from the rich and keep it!"
If Im watching a hot porn and they start doing anal it just turns me off. If u wanna fuck ass then go fuck a guys ass. I love watching good cocksucking and hot wet pussies and I love creampies. I love a girl to scream in pleasure because shes loving her pussy getting rammed. Anyway anal is everywhere now, in nearly every film - its hardly taboo or anything is it? Whats the point?
Does a thing necessarily have to be taboo in order to be a turn on? And why the hell do you have to be gay in order to like ass according to some people? I'll never understand that. Are you gay if you like blowjobs? I could say if you want to fuck a mouth, go fuck a guy's mouth and it would make about as much sense as the bolded statement from your post. Gay people give and get blowjobs too. Does that make a blowjob gay?
I'm perfectly ok with people fantasizing about anal, and doing it as long as both partners really want to. Once in a while, in a very few scenes, it is a turnon for me as well. But mostly I don't get it. The ass is just not meant to be fucked with a penis. Sure you can say the same thing about oral, but at least there is the tongue to add sensation both for the giver and receiver, and there might be more enjoyment for both involved. With anal it is just a tight hole that muscle wise is poorly constructed when it comes to handle fucking. I imagine the taboo is the number one factor in the current obsession with it.
Still searching for the ultimate DP Slut 1367 Posts 11/07
Posted - Dec 25 2007 : 11:53PM
I really disagree with these statements that if you enjoy seeing a woman getting fucked in the ass. That is the first step down the path of being gay. That is such bull, I am not gay but, I do enjoy seeing a woman getting fucked in the ass. Perhaps the reason why its such a huge fetish in the porn game is the fact that most men won't ever fuck a woman in the ass. For me its the slut factor, everyday we see woman is a respectable perspective. Work environment etc, to see women engaged such slutty acts its just enjoyable. Don't more out of it!!!
Mod: RP: your post makes too much sense. It may not be understood. Bigbadwho: Please stop posting such ridiculous things. Aside from your racist comment in the other thread, I've now looked through your posts and see you tend to refer to women as "bitches" a bit. You can cut that out as well. I strongly suggest you read the forum ettiquette before you post again. - scipio
Hmm sorry I didnt realise I said bitches. My bad. And apologies to Random Precision, It wasnt meant to be a homophobe comment. Just dont like anal. My apologies to anyone who was offended.