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Posted - Oct 2 2002 : 4:08PM
maybe because there are so many vibrators and dildos that look like colorful fun toys. but most of the items for guys look like torn off appendages - there's an element of horror to a disembodied vagina.
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Posted - Oct 2 2002 : 4:16PM
StephIIIEEEE!!!! You spoiled the plot of the screenplay I´m trying to sell to Extreme Ass.!
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From a moral perspective it should be no different. If you think it is wrong for a man to get off by an object then you should feel the same for women. If you morally accept women using vibrators then I see no reason why you would find moral opposition to men using sex toys. That being said any differences in opinions on the matter should not be from a moral perspective, rather you may say preferences.
From the perspective of the same sex:
Men may be against it because of a belief in conquest. We should be able to obtain women. Masturbation is more acceptable because we all have nights alone and we can't blame others for meeting the ideal because we all do it. But actually purchasing Jewel De'nyle's fake vagina is making a commitment to nights without the real thing.
Women, on the other hand, understand that using a man to get off bears some consequences, especially the possibility of pregnancy. So, I would think they would be more understanding of a subsititute for the real think.
From the perspective of the opposite sex:
I believe that men in general are more turned on by the visual. We love to see an unobstructed view of a woman in pleasure. Seeing a woman with a vibrator is great.
Women on the other hand are less turned on by the visual. But think about it, even when a woman is turned on by what she sees with her eyes, what is she really seeing? The male sex toy will obstruct her view of the cock. A vibrator does not really obstruct a man's view of the pussy.
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Awww damn... that sure made it sound attractive now. Next time I'm in the adult store I'll be sure to look at one of them and see if they actually look like a "torn off appendage" but somehow I think you might be right on this one...
Damn though... that sure does sound rough about the description though.
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Posted - Oct 3 2002 : 9:44AM
sorry for the horrorific description - i was just kidding. in all seriousness the biggest difference is that female "massagers" can be sold at mainstream stores like amazon (who has featured the candida royalle vibes on their health and beauty homepage a few times.) mainstream stores can't get away with selling masturbators for me - what are they going to do, call the fleshlight a flashlight with a twist?
once in the adult shopping realm, i don't think there is a double standard at all.
Yes, I suppose thats true. Kind of hard to mask the male "massagers" as anything else, while the generic female ones can be sold as "Neck & Back massagers".
I just went to Big Als on Broadway in San Francisco and took a look at some of the fake vagina/stroker(s) and it was hard not to keep from laughing. They did indeed look like some kind of strange apendage or a disembodied vagina.
However ... I did actually see one of those "Read Dolls" that they sell over the internet for $5000 a pop.
Damn -- I hear that there are guys that swear by them.
I should be more clear in the future, I didn't mean to say that is what you meant to say. I meant to mean that what I meant to mean when I said that is that I meant that is the general feeling. get what I mean?
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Posted - Oct 4 2002 : 3:08AM
In the immortal words of Daffy... "This means war!"
You just start dating a girl, she invites you up to her place and shows you that she owns several dildos/vibrators, etc. What do you think?
'Woah, I have a sexually liberated, kinky girl who is gonna be fun!'
Now imagine this-
A woman starts dating you, you invite her up to your place and you show her your hustler cyberskin Cybersuck or your Eager Virgin Masturbator. What does she think?
"Woah, I have a loser who can't get laid and masturbates with goofy jello lumps, this is gonna be fun...'
I think women who own their own sex toys would be more openminded about a man owning the same. For instance I own a vibrator so I don't think I'd be all that disgusted if a guy owned a vagina/stroker or any equivalent thing. But if a guy has a whole collection of blow up dolls and inflatable sheep, that I would find weird. But then, my roomate would be totally appalled if any guy she knew owned such a thing and she wouldn't even dream of buying a vibrator. It's just a matter of how open you are to toys.