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FrankSld
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60 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jan 21 2005 : 1:33PM
We've been married 5 years. We started watching porn together fairly often (once a week or two) after a year. I guess her Catholic guilt caught up with her and she doesn't want to watch it anymore. (this seems magnified after the birth of our first child)

I don't need porn to get aroused- I'm horny by nature- but it does (did?) a good job of getting her wet. (yes, I know, I should be the one getting her wet)

Is this typical of other married folks on ADT? Any suggestions?


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oatmeal
Meat Popsicle

Seeking Beauty
1738 Posts
8/04
Posted - Jan 21 2005 : 2:00PM
Is she losing interest as a result of her pregnancy? Is it medical, chemical or psychological? Have you talked about it?

If you are in a rut there are plenty of other things to try other than porn videos like erotic stories. You can also try one of Laura Corn's books (101 great nights of sex, etc) to force one or the other to take control for a night.

nietzsche
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5470 Posts
8/03
Posted - Jan 21 2005 : 2:00PM
It's the baby, dude, not her religion.
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Your other left
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Posted - Jan 21 2005 : 2:15PM
I'm thinking this belongs in Sex Talk. If not, don't worry, it'll bounce back.
Recoil Therapy
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Deep in flyover country
194 Posts
10/04
Posted - Jan 21 2005 : 8:50PM
How long ago was the child born? If it was fairly recently that might be the problem right there. It took until our youngest was about 4 before we watched anything together again with any sort of regularity.

What kind of (mainstream) movies does she like to watch? You could try renting (over time) a bunch of the more erotic/suggestive ones in that genre. Keeping with that same theme then work your way back into the soft core or feature type of porn.

RT

 
croy
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Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jan 22 2005 : 5:25AM
I think nietzche is right.
In addition, is your baby a girl?

Has your wife lost the pregnancy weight? I, for one, would hate to have my body compared to Eric Everhard's and I imagine if my body went through pregnancy the comparisson suffers more.

FrankSld
Member

60 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jan 22 2005 : 9:18AM
Baby boy- about 12 months.

Actually last night- after I posted my dilemma- she suggested watching a flick for the first time in 3 months. I put on Crack Her Jack (#2, I think). Isn't the first scene the one where Dana Vespoli gets HIV? If so, it was a bit freaky to watch. I didn't mention that to her.

Afterwards, she climaxed much faster than normal.

I've rented stuff like Island Fever before, and she prefers harder stuff. Not at all into anal, but she doesn't seem to mind series like Hot Bods Tail Pipe. The scene with Nikita Denise/Melissa Milano and the silver Ferrari is HOT!

-lunacy-
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1081 Posts
4/00
Posted - Jan 23 2005 : 6:28PM
I was just reading an novel where the author made an insightful note.

When you get pregnant you suddenly become hyperaware of all those bad habits you have (and will potentially pass on) from the little ones like licking the peanut butter off the knife to things like porn.

(and yes, before anyone flames me, that is of course stated while subscribing to idea that porn is a bad habit.)




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