Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00
Posted - May 15 2011 : 3:28AM
With. For me it feels the same with and without, and there are too many nasties out there to take risks, and condoms are not expensive. The only reason I wouldn't wear one would be for conception, but it's not on the agenda.
Really? What's your secret? Do you use a special type condom? I can't imaging wanting to go back to using one! That doesn't mean I don't under certain situations, but never by choice. I'd rather wear one than not get any. I'm happy it works for you, but it doesn't for me.
Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00
Posted - May 15 2011 : 10:48AM
I suspect for most people it's all in their head. If you think it feels better bareback then it feels that way. Porn may also have a subliminal influence as most of it is condomless, at least in the US. Or maybe people have different sensations, have you tried putting a thin condom on your finger and see what you can feel? Also it may feel different if you're circumsized or uncut. I'm uncut.
If you're getting nervous about using a condom 'cause trust me, you will have to use one if you want to have casual sex in your life, just masturbate with one every now and then. You might find you actually like certain kinds and you can at least ensure that you won't go limp because it's too new of an experience.
As a woman who's been treated for cervical cancer due to HPV I say for general sex use a condom. If you're involved in a long standing monog relationship and you have no reason to worry, then skip it. Although they can be fun to play with different ones from time to time. I mean think about how you would feel if you had random sex without condoms and you later got into a serious relationship and later you marry that person only to find out your wife cant have kids because you were too lazy or selfish to put on a condom. You made her sick and she's sterile now. There are so many other things out there that may not kill you but make you miserable none the less. Of course Joey is going to be more sensitive because he's uncut. And in my opinion as long as he has good hygiene he's going to be more fun to play with. *wink wink*
^Joey's gonna like you I sense but seriously you do have some very good points especially when making "your wife sterile" point you made. For me that would be a living nightmare and a good enough reason for condoms until you know you are both safe not to.
Well I think male circumcision is just as wrong as female circumcision. I also think it's ironic that we do this to baby boys everyday and no one blinks but if it's done to a girl it's "genital mutilation" and illegal. *does her best Mr. Rodger's impression* Can you say double standard? I knew you could. I think most people here will find that I'm a pretty straight forward person. I dont beat around the bush and I always give my honest opinion whether it's what you want to hear or not. But I have been with cut and uncut men and it is different with uncut men. I can make the comaparison but that's another topic. I was lucky enough to catch my cervical cancer before it was too late. However I do have a 23 year old cousin that saved herself for marriage and her husband(who was married once before) gave her HPV and now she cannot ever have kids because of the problems it caused. Her husband is probably the most loving man and he's perfect for her. He's also my age and lets face it, in the 80's we didn't know about this stuff. Hell back then we didnt even worry about AIDS because in the 80's they were telling us that only gay men, IV drug users and the occassional bad blood mix up. Now we know better. There is no excuse. If anything, protect YOURSELF!
I'm working on getting a vasectomy so I can avoid having to use rubbers because I hate them so much, but it still saves for diseases. Then again, sex will always be dangerous on some level.
My boyfriends always say it feels the same for them . It does not matter with or without condom. Ultra thin condoms are good. My boyfriend always said when he masturbates with condom it feels the same as without condom and also oralsex with condom is intensive and no problems with orgasm ... We used " No. i don't wanna commercial here" SORRY! Try what makes u feel good! Therea are ultra thin condoms that are 0,04mm thick ! Wit them he felt like wearin ' no condom But there are also thinner condoms 0,02mm or 0,01mm . The 00,1mm condoms are from japan I guess! I met guys that loved oralsex with condom , too. They asked me to put a condom on them for oralsex and I was like " Oh . Do you feel anything with them " and they said " Yes. Everything okay with them ...just feels like nothin 'on " My opinion is that the most guys do not try ...!? If a girl puts a condom on your thick with mouth it is also unforgetable intensive
+2 for without condoms. She hates condoms because se gets dry and it starts hurting. For him, because of the loss of erection. Condoms are a no-go!!! Deal breaker!
Without - even with super thin ones, it's like I can only feel 50% of what's going on down there, to the extent that I can have trouble maintaining erections sometimes. I understand the health risks - but having sex wearing a condom is like trying to eat a sandwich wrapped in cellophane - pointlesss.
I'd hate to be young and tryin to get laid nowadays, the thought of 'having' to use damned condoms all the time would do my head in, I hated 'em, found they killed the moment all the time. Being married, and had a Vascectomy, has its benefits, and Ive not touched a Condom for perhaps 20yrs. Sure, if I was 19 again, it would be a nessessity.
So..... 1. I didnt get a dose that left me with an embarrasing trip to a clinic..... 2. I didnt catch HIV......... 3. I didnt accidentally get some girl pregnant and ruin my next 10years or more......... Enough reasons ? Sure, if you're 19 and in a long relationship, things would be different, but for casual sex........got to be a must.
i seriously cannot feel a thing with condoms, including the super thin ones. i dont have a very sensitive penis so sex with a condom is a waste of my time. would rather sort myself out. not bragging ..far from it, but ive had sex without condoms with hundreds of women over the years and never ever had any form of std...which i get tested for regularly