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Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Oct 20 2008 : 11:31PM
Does sex feel different to you after you've had children? I mean physically. I mean, specifically, does your 'downstairs' feel the same to you (not to your partner). Are the sensations the same? Do the muscles work the same? Same moisture levels as previously? Orgasm the same?
If it's different, what's different? Would you rather it was the way it was, or do you like it better now or is it not better or worse, just different?
It's not a poll. I can't answer the question myself with my own experience. Given the nature of my past, I don't know how it felt before.
(Guys, this question is really not for you. If your wife wants to answer in her own words through you, that's cool, but I'm not asking about your experience with how her body feels. If one of you would like to start a topic about differences you've noticed between a woman's body that has not had children and a woman's body that has, go for it.)

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Pagoda
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Posted - Oct 21 2008 : 4:24AM
Kimi, my physical response to sex changed drastically after the birth of my son, for the better. I was 32 when I had him, so I was accustomed to my body behaving one way for a long time. I always climaxed very easily and frequently, but only clitorally. The sensations were (in retrospect) localized.
After my labor and C-section, things changed. Suddenly my entire reproductive system got in on the act. My clitoral orgasms were chain reactions that set off intensely pleasurable uterine contractions. I also started experiencing G-Spot orgasms, and occasional squirting. Sometimes I experience all this at the same time.
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Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Oct 21 2008 : 11:01PM
Is your orgasm all that changed? Does your 'gina still feel the same? I mean, like, do sensations feel the same to it? Not the result of sensation (orgasm), but the sensations themselves?
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Pagoda
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Posted - Oct 22 2008 : 3:16AM
Yes, my vaginal sensitivity has increased. Pre-baby, intercourse was pleasant, but not what did it for me. Now I can have intercourse without foreplay, and love it. And I can climax without clitoral stimulation. I think it might be due in part moisture levels. I used to get drenchingly wet, almost so much that my husband and I couldn't feel much of anything, due to the lack of friction. I'm drier now, the moisture level more normal for a woman my age.
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Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Oct 23 2008 : 11:14AM
Do you think the dryness is a result of aging or child-bearing?
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Pagoda
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Posted - Oct 25 2008 : 2:58AM
It started immediately after I had my son, and I only had marginal increases in moisture over the first year. Then it leveled off. It's probably a combination of both childbearing and aging.
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Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Oct 25 2008 : 9:20AM
Thank you for taking the time to reply and for taking my question seriously.
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Cowgirl
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Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 11:20PM

Edited by - lindi on 11/26/2008 6:56:53 PM
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ma meeshka
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Posted - Nov 23 2008 : 11:57PM
ban.
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stinkfist
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Subterfuge......
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Posted - Nov 24 2008 : 7:22PM
As long as it's not in the window cleaners arse.
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Cowgirl
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Posted - Nov 26 2008 : 7:57AM

Edited by - lindi on 11/26/2008 6:56:15 PM
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Cowgirl
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Posted - Dec 1 2008 : 4:04PM

Edited by - lindi on 12/1/2008 6:43:34 PM
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ma meeshka
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Posted - Dec 1 2008 : 8:32PM
hmm...
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