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cross
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Posted - Apr 5 2009 : 11:26PM
I've just read an article in a magazine. You know the usual how to make yourself appealing to the opposite sex type and one of the paragraphs was titled "Be Kind To Yourself"
It went on to state the women can spot a guy who jerks off often by the look of him i.e he's tired, bags under his eyes etc. A once a weeker isn't that noticable but a once a dayer gives it away and woman steer clear of chronic masturbators.
The paragraph was pretty short and it's mostly a curiosity thing but does anyone think theres some substance to this?
Dubious_Leftovers
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And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 12:35AM
Sounds total bullshit.
If anything, ejaculation (jerking off or real the real-deal with a partner) eases you up and gives a testosterone release.
It's the agitated, pent-up guys that you need to watch out for...
Bobcat
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 1:21AM
I think there's some truth in this. I'd say that women are attracted by confidence and positivity, maybe it's part of evolution that they are looking for a "winner" to raise a family with?
Now if you're happy jerking off without getting any sex, then I don't think it's going to show, but I have male friends who don't have partners and I know for a fact they aren't getting sex anywhere else and even a dumb-ass guy like me can spot this in there down-beat attitude and negativity.
Dubious_Leftovers
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And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 1:35AM
^Don't think that's anything really to do with wanking, more the vibes you give off as a result of general negativity. It's the fact that jerking-off carries a social stigma that it's somehow bad, when in fact it's a healthy thing to do.
If you carry yourself in a downbeat manner, it's going to be picked-up upon. Regardless of how often you play with yourself.
cross
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I Love Beef Curtains!
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 4:57AM
Dunno if stigma is the issue. The article seemed to lean more to the guy being tired looking and possibly depressed because he's jerking off and wanting pussy but not able to get it.
I doubt it's a sixth sense or anything like that but I thought it was interesting.
After months of being single earlier this year I cut down to once a week and had got a girlfriend about 2 weeks later....
 
Dubious_Leftovers
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And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
1423 Posts
3/09
Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 12:17PM
^Well that's a persona issue. A person can give out loser vibes whether they regularly wank-off or not.
I think in a lot of people's minds there's an inextricable link, but it's probably more of a secondary effect. You can tell if somebody is lacking lustre due to posture, general body language, personal hygiene and dress sense. If these traits lack you're not going to be getting much real action, so you'd be wanking opposed to fucking anyway. It's a product of cause and effect.
It's odd that I've got so much to say on this...
LubeNLuv
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 3:49PM
Pretty sure only a wanker would worry about whether or not a woman can tell if he's wanking. Most guys just seek better company than their hand and get on with enjoying life.
BigBobxxx
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2681 Posts
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 8:01PM
Does the magazine consider that all men masturbate?
There are two types of men:
Guys who masturbate, and guys who lie about not masturbating.
jayo All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 10:27PM
Must be true, then.
cross
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I Love Beef Curtains!
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Posted - Apr 6 2009 : 11:21PM
I was just looking for opinions, y'know get a discussion going, like what one would do in a forum for instance.
BigBobxxx
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Posted - Apr 7 2009 : 9:38AM
Sorry, we were busy masturbating
jayo All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Apr 7 2009 : 10:55PM
Fair enough. I suppose it's residual irritation for the 100th version of "does cock size matter" threads. That and I know people IRL who think that if it got printed in a newspaper or magazine, it must be true, no matter how obviously bullshit it might be.
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Apr 8 2009 : 12:13AM
If true, that would explain a whole lot. Most men are chronic masturbators. You'd think someone who can tell a person is a chronic masturbator just by looking at them could figure out that chronic masturbation is an inherent trait of the human male.
Breeze
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Posted - Apr 8 2009 : 12:34AM
"The paragraph was pretty short and it's mostly a curiosity thing but does anyone think theres some substance to this?"
No I don't think there is any substance to this article. A wanker? Sometimes people confuse jacking off with not able to get pussy. I can tell you straight up I can make myself cum harder by myself than a woman can make me cum. I enjoy jerking off. I don't do it out of "necessity."
Some women think their pussy is to die for, and it's not. Or they say they give the best head ever and they don't. I'd rather jerk off sometimes. Sex to me is more of a mental thing than a physical thing though. I really like to make a woman cum.

Clam Digger
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Posted - Apr 8 2009 : 1:41PM
I think bouts of tennis elbow is a sure tip off for non-tennis playing guys.
 
jim2
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Posted - Apr 18 2009 : 9:59PM
If women choose to avoid guys that jerk off, they would have to avoid most all guys. Just knowing the guy is single should tell them right away that he jerks off at least occasionally. If the guy is 50 or older his testosterone might have dropped off so he might only do it once a week, but if a guy is in his 20's or 30's there's a 99% chance he is a chronic masturbator. Also a fair number of women use vibrators to please themselves, so those shouldn't care if the guy jerks off.
EthanConner
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Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 9:09PM
a girl's ego ALWAYS makes them think they have super powers and an "extra" sense. They always say stuff like, "we can see right through that shit!" and "Girls have a six sense about these things!" "I have a vagina, that's like having 6 brains." etc...
So there'll always be articles that say stuff like "women can tell" and all the other bullshit they talk about.
Guys would go crazy and insane if they keep on trying to live to the PERFECTION of a girl's fantasy.
seedfeeder
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My balls are full, who's hungry?
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Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:34AM
She'll only spot you if you forget to wash your hands after :)
Hell, I've jerked off in the middle of dates before. I've also not shot for weeks before a date...
Clearly there are 2 schools of thought:
1/The "Something about Mary" argument: You'll be more relaxed, jerk off or "clean the pipes".
2/She'll sense your balls are full of ripe sperm and on an animalistic level find this arousing. So don't jerk off, have balls full of procreative matter.
I don't think it matters much. Now yes, if you stayed up for 6 hours stroking your cock watching 15 movies last night, I think you'll look like a crack head and struggle to deal in the real world the next day regardless of how you look. Demeanor is everything and jerking off can affect this, just like everything else, just don't overdo it.



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