A genre of dorky guys getting laid? Stuff like that gives me hope, even though it's fantasy and acting, but I think there is a decent market for beta males like me out there that would stop at nothing to lift my spirits. Then again, false hope is worse than no hope :(
There is plenty of this stuff out there. Try the sites midnightprowl.com and fuckteamfive.com, or the DVD Bangin' Average Joe. I'm sure there's other stuff like this too. That's just what I thought of off the top of my head.
Brazzers had one on this theme recently... (by Shyla Stylez as a cheerleader whose football player boyfriend cheats on her... she goes and gets some dork action... then the football player boyfriend gets involved, too)
I mean literally dorks. Not some stud dude wearing a pen pocket protector and glasses. Soemthing that can give failures with women like me some false hope.
Well, when I watch JM Prods and Rodnievision I'm thinking that stuff is a bit dorky and of course Ed Powers is the dork cahuna. What I believe separates them from typical dorkiness is that once the camera is on they are highly aggressive performers to the edge of being brutish and mean(except Rodney for the most part). I'm thinking Coffee Ron, Mark Wood, Dirty Harry and even L.T. come off dorky in some scenes. The Gapeman series seems to be a celebration of a type of muscle-bound dorkiness. There's a new white dude who calls himself Pauly Harker and he's seriously dorky. Check him out.
For me, porn is about the girls not the dudes so for the main question, I wouldn't think it would do especially well. But it's out there so I guess there is the market.
Oh I forgot, there's also the new BangBros site Can He Score? which is basically a porn version of the show Blind Date, where they send a super hot porn star out on a blind date with some normal dude, and see what happens. Of course, it's a bit different from Blind Date, because even if the guy doesn't manage to impress the girl, he still gets laid in the end. [edit: oh and if you check out that site, be sure to watch the preview for the episode with Sativa Rose, it's hilarious!] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 3/1/2009 5:06:35 PM
So you want the fantasy to match the reality... Hmmm... how about the old "World's Biggest Gang Bang" type stuff -- plenty of dorky guys there who are very likely dorks in real life... That (and some of the suggestions made above by others) is about all I can think of... I guess that it would be an okay niche in general...though probably not the most popular one...
Doesn't Shane's World have a theme running with their [ invalid url ]? Also, what kind of dorks are we talking about? I mean, I know most porn isn't for girls or people who like attractive men, but I do like my guys to look at least a little attractive. I don't want no Evan Stone, Romancenovel-cover/Chippendales dudes, but nor do I want to watch Napoleon Dynamite or Erkel goin' at it. Give me cute geeks- slightly built boys with no muscles and no asses, longish, slightly-greasy hair, definitely with glasses and a shy demeanor. Especially the glasses . . . I have such a thing for boys in glasses.
^ I am talking complete failure with women beta male types, guys who would never get laid in real life. I think su ch a genre would give losers like me some sort of hope, and I think betas would flock to buy this genre. I think there would be some serious money in it. My friend's cousin (completely hot chick) wants to start making porn, but for her fetish, which is Asian. I wanna run the dork idea by her. [mod edit: removed quote] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 3/1/2009 9:05:06 PM
Something about 50 guys banging one chick does NOTHING for me. But yeah, I'm sure you have plenty of dorks in those gangbang. That's not the false hope I'm looking for. Looking for more like 1 dork meets one hottie and gets laid. [mod edit: please only take the part of the quote that you need and snip the rest.] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 3/1/2009 9:04:18 PM
The early Boygirbang.com stuff was great and funny and the host was funny as hell and I imagine her to be hot but we never see her on camera just her voice. Remember Tubby Bob? They did 3 scenes with him plus launched a whole new web site with him as the feature. The fun didn't last though, we got awkward dorky guys for a few months and then it was right back to the generic ripped studs. Some of the FTF stuff is brutal though and also brandibelle.com can be vicious. They're not usually so nice to guys who can't perform or isn't hung like a stud horse.
Some of us don't want to go to jail and then have a roommate named bubba. Also, think about it from a beta perspective, if I have to pay for it, that's a pretty sad state of affairs. I would probably jump off a bridge or something.
I would argue that jerking off to another beta having sex with a hottie is worse than doing the deed yourself. I don't think you'll consider having sex with a high class escort a "sad state of affairs" once you're actually doing it. Yeah and having prostitution illegal is pretty ridiculous, I wish I could help but I can't.
Jail's not worth it, plus I could lose my career as well. Oh well, I envy you people that actually get to have sex. Been 1.5 years for me. At least I have all my fingers and toes and my health.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 8:14PM
Wouldn't there be an inherent humiliating aspect behind this type of porn in regards to the nerdy guy? I mean as far as "lifting sprits" as betamale put it, wouldn't this just revel in the nerdy guy's shortcomings? Especially in the none-to-complimentary wy that porn is mostly marketed. It could have the adverse effect, and make you feel worse. It's just a thought. You may enjoy it the scenarios, but I wouldn't hold out any personal, spiritually uplifting hopes in this sort of thing.
Well, we already know our shortcomings, and know we don't get laid, so I see no harm. It doesn't have to be humiliating, which I've seen on the internet before, where it's some fat dorky guy who cums in 2 seconds, nothing like that. Just guys who are getting women way out of their league.
Wow, something like that I guess. I can't really tell how dorky he is. I mean, some guy who would repell women by just speaking to them, like me, though I would never want to be in these movies of course.. But I guess that's sorta onto it.
That was disgusting. I don't know how that can turn anyone on. It's beyond that he's hideous, what's with the good? I just want dorks getting laid. They don't have to be fat. I'm not fat and I'm a complete dork.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 8:59PM
"Okay, now i'm a in major depression. I'm thinkint this genre will only make me jealous. yikes" (sorry not quite sure how to properly quote yet - betamale said it anyway). Damn! That was quick... I think I may've been right after all. Personally, I think forget about the geek thing - porn is straight fantasy; take yourself out of the equation. Forget yourself, sit back and admire the ladies. Whilst watching this stuff, you're too aware of the guy and how he compares to you and your situation to fully lose yourself within a scene.
Personally I need some hope at this stage of my life. I was more angry that that fat, hairy guy was getting laid. But if it were fellow dork, having normal sex, I don't know if I'd get angry... The fantasy would be me having to forget she's only there because she's making money doing it.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 9:47PM
Personally, I think forget about the geek thing - porn is straight fantasy; take yourself out of the equation. Forget yourself, sit back and admire the ladies. Whilst watching this stuff, you're too aware of the guy and how he compares to you and your situation to fully lose yourself within a scene. Personally I need some hope at this stage of my life. I was more angry that that fat, hairy guy was getting laid. But if it were fellow dork, having normal sex, I don't know if I'd get angry... The fantasy would be me having to forget she's only there because she's making money doing it. ----------- It's a tricky set of circumstances you have, and VERY specific. Y'see you define "dork" as someone very similar to yourself, who can't be too fat (or hairy), having regular sex without the girl mentioning or alluding to, anything being different than if she were, for example, getting boned by Manuel Ferrera? Anything other than these precise set of circumstances seems to cause an adverse reaction. Shit, you even said that you don't mind getting angry, as long as the fantasy's there that she's not just doing it for money. That's a hell of an ask, and I'm not sure that there's a market for EXACTLY that sort of thing. I think the closest you'd get is what's already been listed or linked to. As I said, ultimately I think for your own sense of mental self worth and self image, you really ned to move your fantasies along. Personally, I sure as hell don't want to watch porn angry or jealous all the time.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 9:59PM
^^Nah dude! Porn is for all, as long as you've got a sex drive, feel free to wank away! Just relax, and don't put your hopes and dreams into it. It shouldn't be aspirational, it should be fun.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 10:20PM
^^I can tell it goes deeper than that m'man. It's not really a porn thing it's a whole worldview thing, and how you see yourself. The type of porn your going for, exacerbates the problem so in that sense I agree, it's not the sort of thing you should be looking at. You need escapism period. You seem to see yourself in a pretty negative way, which is immediately obvious even in the name "betamale" - Which, even on an anonymous internet forum radiates negative waves of your own sense of self worth. If you tried styling it, become reborn as "ALPHA-male", you might gradually ease up on yourself. Unfortunately, what you say in terms of your viewing habits, is the porn watcher's worse case scenario. It really isn't designed to make you alienated and depressed, and if it is, changes need to happen!
Well, the regular porn I see makes me think I'll never be able to compete, or even act remotely like they do. Perhaps seeing someone like myself might be better?
What age are you beta,there is plenty of time for everyone out there to find love/sex,as for comparing your sex life to what you see in movies that is a bit crazy.
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Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 10:33PM
^^Maybe. Maybe not... Ultimately, I don't know. My overall point is that you shouldn't feel the need to compete you should just enjoy. But, if you really think that this type of thing would appeal and be beneficial to you, than by all means go ahead! I'm far from an expert in this genre... it's not one that appeals to me. As I said on another forum, if you're willing to put the work in, almost every niche or genre is catered for in some way; there may very well be something that fulfills your needs. I wish you luck on finding something that you like. Cheers.
^^^I am not the one to give advice out as i have a poor sex life myself.I have not dated anyone in years and as for sex i have had my moments through one night stands etc.I think your confidence is low,don't beat yourself up too much and start feeling positive about yourself pick parts of you that you like or used to and reclaim the person that you were in the past.
I'm the same age as you and I haven't touched a woman since my last gf, spring 2006. I haven't given up hope (though some days I come close), so neither should you. I don't have any answers, but I know one of these days something's gonna work out for me. Think of it this way: you may be a 'betamale', but at least you're not the 'omegamale'. (Sorry, total dork joke.) [edit: oh and as for the porn, I think my earlier suggestions of the DVD Bangin' Average Joe and the site Can He Score? might be the closest to what you're looking for.] Edited by - killbillvol69 on 3/2/2009 11:31:14 PM
^ Man, I just told you that I haven't been laid in twice as long as you. What more can I say to convince you that some people are doing worse than you are?