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The_A_Man Member 12 Posts 5/12	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 11:14AM Don't know whether this would be considered a poll or not. I couldn't find another recent thread like this through the search facility, and didn't want to search too far back in case I found one and would then have SexShopGrl hunt me down for bumping such an old thread. Having read comments from one Joey Starr (Moderator) in a couple of threads at least, I get the distinct feeling that he's suffering due to not having someone with whom he can release some tension. If that's the case, I feel for him. So to make him feel better, and without knowing the length of time he's suffered through this already, I think he might feel a little better if he found out how long "between drinks" it has been for some others. Hey, if you can't cheer others up by letting them know how bad you've got it, then what's the point? (I hope this doesn't turn into a Four Yorkshireman skit) Edited by - The_A_Man on Sep 10 2012 [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 11:49AM I went 30 days once. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 3:43PM Are we talking orgasm or sex? I can go a long time without sex. I think the longest I ever went without sex was about a year. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 11:35PM Wow a thread about me! If it's sex excluding masturbation, could be several months when I was a teenager or in my early 20s (I had sex for the first time at 18), including masturbation I would say a month or so, but it was a very rare occurence. Joey "Confessions" Starr [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 11:35PM An yes it might have been a poll but I'm leaving this in sex talk for the time being. Joey "Is this a poll" Starr [Link]

trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10	Posted - Sep 9 2012 : 11:44PM ^Joey "joe cool" Starr I think it should be moved to Polls...better chance of getting more hits. Trout "on a short dry spell myself" Bum [Link]
The_A_Man Member 12 Posts 5/12	Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 5:40AM In reply to SexShopGrl: I was thinking "sex", only because it usually includes orgasm, but I guess it could be reworded as "anything you weren't doing on your own to yourself". I didn't want to string out a list of includes and excludes. That's not to say that being on your own and working on yourself isn't a great way to relieve tension. In reply to wahine: Even though I'm firmly in favour of masturbation myself, I was thinking of anything you weren't doing on your own. The point being, someone else being involved and included. In reply to Joey Starr: Hope I haven't caused any offense or embarrassment. You were honest enough to allude to your situation, and I feel for you bro. Move the thread, or not, as you see fit. In reply to trout bum: I feel for you too, and hope the dry spell ends as soon as you'd like it to. To throw my stats out there, the longest time between sessions for me was around 3 years (give or take a month), and the time since last time is almost 13 years (Hey, I haven't had sex this millenium yet!). Thank goodness for self-pleasuring/self-abuse. I hope that makes you feel a bit better about your situation. Edited by - The_A_Man on 9/10/2012 8:14:31 AM Edited by - The_A_Man on 9/10/2012 11:04:25 AM [Link]
trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10	Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 9:40AM ^In reply to trout bum: I feel for you too, and hope the dry spell ends as soon as you'd like it to. Not to worry about me man, just doing a solo road trip for a few more days. My day will be coming...I predict by Wednesday. Trout "my luck is about to change" Bum [Link]
menowaa Member 47 Posts 4/10	Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 7:23PM So here's a long story for you... The longest I have been between sessions is 2 years. I got with this amazing girl who I knew was a Christian. She was a gorgeous, natural beauty, with the best personality and a heart of gold, who happened to be really horny and at the time I thought she was a bit of a tease. This kept things really interesting and eventually over time our sexual relationship took another step closer to sex. We started off just plain old fashioned kissing, then finger/hand playing (both pussy and anal for her) then oral (again both pussy and anal for her). We'd both been very open about what we like and she said she enjoyed everything and masturbated both her holes and enjoyed it a lot. I had always been told by her friends and mine she was hardcore christian and would never have sex before marriage, fair enough, but after our experiences I though this was bullshit. A christian enjoying all this foreplay and sodomy... She will definitely have sex with me! How naive was I! After being with her for 3 months I had fallen in love with this girl and she with me. I had tried to hint at it but never had an exact response, it was always suggestive or passive until she eventually came clean and said it would take marriage. I never though this was a serious answer because I knew she was tempted but at the same time I respected her beliefs and never pushed. I'd suggested anal sex which she was very up for...if she was wed. She said she would definitely try it but would never take a cock in her ass before her pussy. Again this made things seem like eventually she would crack. Anyway, after 2 years together there was no sex and over this time she became even closer to god and we saw things in different lights, wanted different things, so we ended our relationship. It was heart breaking. This sexually open minded beauty who I'd fallen crazy in love with just didn't work. Should she have been a non-believer, I would have hit the jackpot but as the saying goes "love is blind." Truely. That with a mixture of being young and falling into a trap of naivety just didn't help, however I have no regrets. At least I still had sexual release, just never truly. Sorry to bore you folks [Link]
Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10	Posted - Sep 10 2012 : 8:19PM After the first few years you lose track. If it wasn't for porn and masturbating, the equipment would never get used. [Link]
SunShowers Member 333 Posts 4/08	Posted - Sep 12 2012 : 8:56AM One year and 32 days for me. [Link]
Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10	Posted - Sep 15 2012 : 7:44AM A little over one year for me. It was a self-imposed period of celibacy, so to speak. I did indulge in self-pleasure when the blue balls would start. I needed to put my sexuality in its proper prospective in my life. I was thinking WAY too much with my little head which was effecting my emotional choices and even putting my job at risk ( I was a man in uniform with authority...its true, some women are EXTREMELY attracted to this) I needed to prove to myself that rational thinking CAN override the desire for pussy. In my case it worked. I became a better person because of it. [Link]
The_A_Man Member 12 Posts 5/12	Posted - Sep 15 2012 : 8:06AM Well Joey. If your situation hasn't changed, I hope you're at least feeling a little better about it. I think it's safe to say that you're in good company. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 17 2012 : 3:15AM Actually, it got better. Thanks for your concern. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 17 2012 : 3:16AM Which I do hope is totally non-gay LOL. [Link]

Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Sep 18 2012 : 3:09AM about a year for me, my first divorce was fucked up and after that I thought women were plotting against me. [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - Sep 19 2012 : 7:36PM Nearly 2 months... [Link]
RIP MJ 1992-Present Member 8 Posts 9/12	Posted - Sep 21 2012 : 1:18PM Joey Starr wrote: An yes it might have been a poll but I'm leaving this in sex talk for the time being. Joey "Is this a poll" Starr Click to expand Qu'est ce que Joey Starr viendrait foutre dans un forum porno et à visage découvert ? Mdr #Mauvaise_blague [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 21 2012 : 3:16PM Cherches un peu et tu trouveras. [Link]
mharris127 Senior Member 1844 Posts 8/09	Posted - Sep 22 2012 : 12:13PM 21 years and maybe some months. I lost my virginity at 21. [Link]
SunShowers Member 333 Posts 4/08	Posted - Sep 22 2012 : 9:35PM It's about time for me to get laid soon. I go through patterns. I have it plenty for a month or two, then nothing for months and months. I'm so ready for it that I've actually started dreaming about it, which is rare for me. Hoping I can wrangle a new mate before Christmas! [Link]
trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10	Posted - Sep 22 2012 : 10:13PM Four years ago I had to go without for a solid month when wifey made a solo trip to New Zealand. Last time I'll make that mistake. Now anytime she goes on a trip longer then two weeks, I go as a stowaway. Edited by - trout bum on 9/23/2012 12:43:44 AM [Link]
The_A_Man Member 12 Posts 5/12	Posted - Sep 24 2012 : 11:09AM mharris127 wrote: 21 years and maybe some months. I lost my virginity at 21. Click to expand Not really what I meant. Either the period of time since the last time, or between one session and the next. [Link]
The_A_Man Member 12 Posts 5/12	Posted - Sep 24 2012 : 11:11AM Joey Starr wrote: Which I do hope is totally non-gay LOL. Click to expand Not totally. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Sep 24 2012 : 1:13PM Got a crush on me? [Link]

His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10	Posted - Sep 24 2012 : 9:13PM SunShowers wrote: One year and 32 days for me. Click to expand Wow now that's a stretch! My longest is probably 3 months. [Link]
oldguy Senior Member 1270 Posts 3/06	Posted - Oct 3 2012 : 2:49PM Zero days unless I am ill, otherwise I believe we all of both sexes should masturbate daily, it is simply healthy for us to do so. [Link]
Blossom Member 132 Posts 12/09	Posted - Dec 8 2012 : 5:36AM Longest time without sex is 6 months & recently it's been 5 months with no sex. [Link]
trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10	Posted - Dec 8 2012 : 12:00PM ^Calling all male ADTers!...Blossom needs you. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Dec 8 2012 : 2:15PM Can she fly to Berlin? [Link]
TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09	Posted - Dec 9 2012 : 12:34PM I lost my virginity at 15. We had sex a handful of times. Then we had a pregnancy scare. I broke up with her immediately and didn't have any relationships or sex for 4 more years! (Back then I still had big dreams and didn't want a baby fucking them all up). After I broke up with my college girlfriend I was really questioning the value of relationships beyond sex. Plus I was enjoying the freedom of being a single guy with a solid income and very few responsibilities. I didn't have sex again for 2.5 years. [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Dec 12 2012 : 12:34AM I've sworn off sex with other people. I often go a couple of weeks without masturbating. [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Dec 13 2012 : 1:22AM ^ I was trying to post a response to this early yesterday morning and I got a spinner. Nothing happened and suddenly, ADT went down. I think I killed ADT with my masturbation story. Now I don't remember exactly what I was gonna say. [Link]
mharris127 Senior Member 1844 Posts 8/09	Posted - Dec 13 2012 : 2:49AM TedtheBellhop wrote: I lost my virginity at 15. We had sex a handful of times. Then we had a pregnancy scare. I broke up with her immediately and didn't have any relationships or sex for 4 more years! (Back then I still had big dreams and didn't want a baby fucking them all up). After I broke up with my college girlfriend I was really questioning the value of relationships beyond sex. Plus I was enjoying the freedom of being a single guy with a solid income and very few responsibilities. I didn't have sex again for 2.5 years. Click to expand It has been a while since I have had sex with anyone as well. I do masturbate at least weekly but that and your solid income doesn't fill the hole that will develop in your heart if you don't find that special someone at least by your 50's. Even in retirement I don't want any children (my six year old niece reminds me of why almost daily) but I do regret not marrying even though I had several opportunities over the years. I suppose I could try to find a woman with only adult children. [Link]
Cody McLarge Senior Member 2668 Posts 8/10	Posted - Dec 13 2012 : 5:09AM A year. After a year, I go a little pussy crazy and throw caution to the wind. I just try to fuck, no matter who, no matter what. As for masturbation, I jerk off too much, some weeks multiple times a day, others only once the whole week. I think the longest I've gone is two weeks, and those balls were about to burst. [Link]

TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09	Posted - Dec 15 2012 : 2:10PM a former member wrote: "I was enjoying the freedom of being a single guy with a solid income and very few responsibilities." "I didn't have sex again for 2.5 years." These principles are antithetical. In fact, they negate each other. ;-) Click to expand Haha! Right. I should have clarified. I'm a "nice" and chubby guy. The kind women want to marry, not fuck. After the 2.5 years off I convinced myself I could get a FWB. I tried with a few women, but they all "caught feelings". Which leads into: mharris127 wrote: ...I do masturbate at least weekly but that and your solid income doesn't fill the hole that will develop in your heart if you don't find that special someone at least by your 50's. Even in retirement I don't want any children (my six year old niece reminds me of why almost daily) but I do regret not marrying even though I had several opportunities over the years. I suppose I could try to find a woman with only adult children. Click to expand Along came my (now) wife. She was still wrapping up an old relationship when we first started banging, so she wanted to be FWB at first. Eventually we wed. While I've found a lot of the canned sayings about marriage to be true, it's definitely better than the alternative. Also, over time my job with the "solid income" got unbearable. As the economy slid, more and more people were looking for work. This gave my employer the opportunity to remind us daily how replaceable we were, and to treat us worse and worse. I spent a couple years taking on debt trying to start my own business. I've since found a job that I really enjoy where the income is more sturdy than solid, I suppose. A tradeoff well worth it!... Quite a tangent... [Link]
mharris127 Senior Member 1844 Posts 8/09	Posted - Dec 15 2012 : 9:26PM ^ That debt can really sneak up on you. I tend to go the other way with debt -- don't have much of it (even my house is paid for). Oh well, at least you enjoy your job and have a piece of ass every night. I kinds like my current job right now as well -- retirement (although it had to grow on me -- I would take a job directing/producing at Kink for the right salary, though and from looking at their schedule they may need a Training of O director as their January shoots are marked Director TBA). [Link]
GoldTopSlinger Member 18 Posts 9/11	Posted - Dec 20 2012 : 6:03PM I was engaged way too young, and when she broke it off (and I found out some unpleasant things about what she was doing while we were together), I decided I was done with women. That'd be great if I were gay or at least sexually unmotivated, but I'm neither of those things. I went almost 8 months that time, which was when I was 19. Then, ten years later, I found myself at the end of a six year live-in relationship and ended up a single father in the process. For the first three years of her life I didn't even pay attention to women, at least not in the "God, I want this woman" kind of way, because I was so focused on taking care of my child. So that's definitely the longest. I met my wife then, and we've been together almost 20 years and still can't keep our hands off each other. Funny thing is I remember that eight month drought as being much more difficult to survive than the three year one. I think having that much responsibility kept my mind off sex. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Dec 23 2012 : 2:15AM Breeze wrote: about a year for me, my first divorce was fucked up and after that I thought women were plotting against me. Click to expand But Breeze, we are. :) [Link]

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