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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Jun 29 2001 : 11:26PM
Okay.. we've all seen the posts and have beat it to near death.
This question is inspired from blondy's review of the Sybian.

This question is for both the Ladies and the Gentlemen.

Its about perception of penis size.
To you what is small, large and big?

feel free to use a ruler to say number if you wish.

I wonder how the answers from the ladies/men will differ on what is perceived as "big"

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Posted - Jun 29 2001 : 11:40PM
I've always looked at it this way: Anything bigger than me is too big.
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Jun 29 2001 : 11:49PM
If I can't feel it, it is too small. Considering that I can feel a single finger (even a pinky finger)... <shrug> I would say that if it hurts, it is too big, but the truth is that some men who are average sized are still so rough or inexperienced or <whatever> that they manage to hurt, and some fellas who are above average have managed to learn NOT to do those things that might hurt a gal.
There is a reason that there is an average size - there isn't much advantage to having a penis bigger than a vagina - and since the length of the vagina has been dictated by the success of the birthing process, well the male instrument must adapt. :) Last I knew the average penis size was between 5 and 6 inches worldwide. I'd say the average vaginal length is probably REAL similar.(although I can't say I've actually seen any stats on that one) Biologically speaking, the vaginal walls are supposed to have VERY few nerve endings beyond the first inch or so and the cervix isn't wired for pleasure. Whether a woman finds pleasure in the sensation of "fullness" or not would seem to be completely subjective.

I think anything smaller than 4 inches long is ""small"
between 4 and 6 is "normal"
6 and up "large"

Kimi

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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 12:17AM
Who hoo!
I'm LARGE!
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 1:00AM
Well thank you Kimi I guess that makes me hung like a Redwood,lol.
 
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 9:37AM
why is it always big vs small? why doesn't anyone ever ask what's the perfect radius for the curve? how about what's a good nob size for the head?

for me it's about shape not size. some fit just right, some hurt, some cause me to question whether or not something is inside me.

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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 11:12AM
Cause, since the early days of our lives (a.k.a. puberty, pimples and pankin' da monkey), we were presented to a series of magic pumps and exercises and watchamacallits advertised as penis ENLARGERS.

But no one ever told us that a curved penis could be better to reach the G-Spot, or something like that. There we no "penis twisters" available.

In short: porn magazines lied to us!

Evil_Rip
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 11:36AM
Steph:

Go ahead Please Eloborate. This is all about perception and what not.

So is a huge mushroom head to your liking?

tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 9:10PM
I also really look at shape. Not curved to the side is nice. I also REALLY like a mushroom tip (not too extreme, but pretty!).

For inches, I don't like em too big. What's too big? Well, like Kimi, I'd say that a guy who has bigger measurements may be able to control better, and a guy who's smaller may know better angles and positions.

For length, I'd go with (for me):
small - under 5"
average - 5 - 7"
too big - over 8"

Width is REALLY important!!! Especially since I'm so into anal, I like something wider than a Sharpie marker, but less wide than a ... oh hell, I don't know!

Oneloa
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 9:16PM
Straight is best? Does the curve to the side hurt? Or is it best to curve in a different direction?

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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 10:01PM
Mmmm... that Washington obelisk?
tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 11:09PM
I like mostly straight (although a slight curve upward can stimulate a girl's g-spot).

OK, less wide than a baseball bat handle.

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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 11:20PM
Hey Tricia, let's talk business.

I'm developing a pump that not only enlarges the penis, but CURVES it as well.

But I need a name to stick on it and help boost sales.

So, what about you and me put the TRICIA DEVERAUX' PENIS ANGLER on the market? We gunna get rich!

Oneloa
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Posted - Jul 1 2001 : 12:02AM
Do the other type of curves hurt?

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Posted - Jul 1 2001 : 5:12PM
I wouldn't say they hurt at all.
But it may make some of the more common positions a little less comfortalbe depending on the extent of the curve. Curving a lot down might throw a little hitch into missionary position. Or curving a lot to the side might require a little adjustment with body positions.

I was just thinking about how much I like doggy style with the guy right behind me holding both of my hips and pulling him into me.
A perfect example of curved to the side is Christoph Clark. He does a position that's a combinition of spoon/doggy-style for a good angle.

So no matter what the circumstance is - smaller, bigger, unique shape, it takes practice to find what makes you and the gal comfy.
Practice is good!

 
SwashBuckler
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Posted - Jul 2 2001 : 9:07PM
Hmmmm....when limp, I am very very very very small. When erect, it's a good 6". That's just the way mine works, I guess. LOL Mine is not about lengthening...it thickens....inflates, if you will. LMAO And to quote a girlfriend from back in college: "Long and thin may get a guy in, but short and thick does the trick."

LOL So, it was perfect for her. And that's what matters, I guess.

*shrug*

thenextnorth
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Posted - Jul 6 2001 : 5:08PM
I guess I'd be "large" and "too-big" according to some of the stats given here. I'm also very wide--I can just about wrap my hand around it (and I don't have small hands-->my GF does and she definitely can't)

My GF loves my width, but it is a problem sometimes because she has to be VERY RELAXED in order to fit me in. I've told her that add the 3rd entry might alleviate some problems:), but she has repeatidly said that nothing that big will ever get near her asshole (doh!). Plus she said she love oral so much... I also have to be careful with my thrusting, as just over half of my penis will fit in. She loves being on top, but again, has to be careful.

I think I'm too big, I'd love to be able to thrust all the way. I don't like it that she has to be careful when she is on top or risk getting hurt. Sex and love are not about bad pain, they are about good pain. My GF loves me in tight pants, but for many it might be quite obscene. She says that i'm really big but not too big, except for the anal. But she has confessed and I know that she has been injured a few times during our sessions, and she does gag alot during oral sex.

But I am as straight as an arrow (with a slight but noticable upward curve). I also have a slight mushroom tip that my GF love to lick. And I keep my area well trimmed and shaved, as does my GF.

So I say I'm too big, but my girlfriend says I'm "just right". Ah, such is life.

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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 1:30AM
Sounds as if thenextnorth is ready to take his place in the annuls of porn stardom. I'm no competition - I'm about 7-1/4" long and about 4-3/4" in circumference.

Being gay, I've seen at least my fair share of erect "penii." One of the gals (Trish, I beleive) defined small as under 5, average as 5~7 and large as anything over 7 (with over 8 being "too big"). Based on what I've seen, I'd say she is pretty much on the mark.

I just have a major problem with how many male porn stars measure. Admittedly, some of them are quite large; but some of their numbers are quite imaginary, too.

Twenty-plus years ago, I used to do publicity photos for a place in DC called "The Follies" - a porn theater with live shows featuring popular porn stars of the day. I met most of the male stars who got top billing back in the late 70's and early 80's (I quit doing it about mid-1984). With many of them, subtract anywhere from 1-1/2 to 2 inches from their claims and you would be in a pretty close to the truth.

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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 1:42AM
Holy crap! That's a lot of cock!
I fell humiliated with my humble 6 1/3 mini-dick.

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thenextnorth
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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 1:15PM
Even though I believe I can do anything I put my mind to, alas, porn stardom is not for me. I would imaging that there are many other attributes required other than a just a big dick, but watching some of the male talent makes me and my GF wonder sometimes:) It used to appeal to me before I met my GF, and hell ,she calls me her pornstar -- but there is no desire for me be one. With my GF, though, it is a different story. We've been meaning to bring a camera into our bed, but we both have our insecurities. For the time being I think we'll be fine just watching porn and doing our own thing.

Just for posterity, how would one go about correctly measuring their penis size?

tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 4:45PM
I'm cracking up with visuals of guys feverishly masturbating and then grabbing a ruler so they can boast an extra 1/4 inch!
GaySatyr
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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 5:50PM
Use a ruler or tape measure along the top from base to tip (you know how to play fair an only you will know if you cheat) for the length. For girth, excluding the head, itself, use the tape measure around the shaft at its widest point. Then if the head is significantly different (i.e., larger), measure its circumference separately.

An alternate method that gives the illusion of greater length is to measure along the underside from tip to beginning of ball sac but this method is cheating.

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Posted - Jul 7 2001 : 6:01PM
When I was 15, yes, and looking back on it, it is very comical. Hadn't done it since I was a teenager until soon after I met my present significant other who wanted a contest. I called it a draw as I beat him by a small fraction in length and he beat me by a small fraction in girth.

As long as it works (& isn't so big that the only thing I could do with it is throw it over my shoulder and burp it), I really don't give a hoot about cock size. I just want a warm muscular body to cuddle up against and awaken in the middle of the night 10 or 12 times a week licking his lollypop or occasionally with a sneak rear attack! (Or he is welcome to do the same to me. After all, turnabout is fair play.)

On second thought, thenextnorth, I'll be glad to volunteer to measure you! I'm sure that among my BF & your GF & me, we can cum up with a number to please everyone! (& resolve your BJ issue, too!) Yummy!

~ GaySatyr

Edited by - GaySatyr on Jul 7 2001

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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 4:09AM
technically

you measure from the tip of the cock to the pubic bone. YOu'll have to press it against it.. otherwise.. your body fat will hide the true length.

Girth is measured around the fatest part of your cock
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Okay gentlemen. The ladies have given out numbers on what THEY thought was big,medium, small, and i see that made a LOT of you very Pround.

TheNextNorth gave his dimensions.. LOL...
but.. men.. what do YOU consider large, medium, small and so on. What did you PERCEIVE these sizes to be?

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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 4:19AM
Gee. I always measured mine from the tip of me gregory pecker to the coccix bone. And added the size of the balls to the sum.

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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 1:36PM
A few months ago, my friend sent me a great article from the campus newspaper at the University of Missouri. A guy wrote about the proper way to measure your erection. He said that the key is measure along the bottom and start at the back. He personally had decided to start WAY back, at the top of his ass crack, and last time he checked, he could honestly say he was packing 14 inches. It did wonders for his self-esteem!
joeblow69
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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 1:56PM
Hey! Mine slightly curves upward! I wonder how I would be at finding a woman's g-spot?? I guess we'll never know...
tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 7:13PM
Sigh!... Another guy I'll never have a chance at.
Are you ABSOLUTELY sure there's no chance I could turn you bi? It sounds like we have LOTS in common!
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Posted - Jul 8 2001 : 11:25PM
quote: "Sigh!... Another guy I'll never have a chance at. Are you ABSOLUTELY sure there's no chance I could turn you bi? It sounds like we have LOTS in common! "

Well, I don't think anyone would be able to turn Joe bi - however, he DOES seem to display a certain curiosity and maybe a willingness to give it a go. I'm afraid the results would be similar to many who have tried to go against their natural bent. "It was O.K., but just not my thing". Then, he'd have the problem of the chick who's now in love with him. Could get messy.

As for size, anything 6" or bigger, I classify as 'Large'. 4"-5" is perfect for me. As a matter of fact, the sybian people just shipped me THIS new attachment. I just wish I could find a guy who had these measurements!

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Posted - Jul 9 2001 : 12:19AM
Hate to break it to you DB but there is a guy out there that fits your description. His name is Ed Powers.

Evil - to answer your question I would have to say anything above 7" is large and anything below 6" is small length wise. Width wise I have no idea.

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Posted - Jul 9 2001 : 3:09AM
There's also Jerry Butler and Blake Palmer.

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Posted - Jul 9 2001 : 9:37AM
quote: "Hate to break it to you DB but there is a guy out there that fits your description. His name is Ed Powers."

Actually, I think Ed would be way too big. I keep hearing what a small dick he has, but he's probably 7" or 8", not that I've spent much time wondering, anyway. He only looks smaller by comparison to those huge monster dicks. Ed's got plenty to bag on, but let's give a dick it's due. It's "Be Nice To Ed Powers Day."

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