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kristinarose
Member

797 Posts
2/08
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 1:22PM
Since I've been on ADT, I've seen a lot of retarded etiquette when it comes to ADTers and how they speak about/towards porn chicks. It's really annoying.
Saying things like
"Taylor Von Bailey wrote:
I'm glad it's not going to be Kristina."
"RedDevil87 wrote: Dana is cool. Would have preferred Phoenix but I'm sure Dana will produce a great scene too."
Who the fuck do you think you are?!
Where the fuck are your manners?
What's the point in comments like this?
Why not just say "Hey bitches, I'm an asshole with terrible etiquette and I'm trying to insult you, muuaaahhaaaahaaa"
So I've decided that there should be a place on here for all the porn stars to freely be assholes to all the assholes on ADT.
Since you can talk shit about us and make backhanded comments and compliments and try to verbally manipulate us into doing things we're not into to fulfill your fetishes all while safely tucked behind your computer screens, I figure it's only fair for us to have an outlet here on ADT so we can complain about those fan assholes that are probably stealing our porn anyways.
I mean.. us porn girls have opinions about you too. Some of you we like and some of you we could really do without. This is our little nook on ADT to to speak freely about you the same way you speak freely about us on every other forum and thread.

Edited by - kristinarose on Aug 26 2011

7_and_a_quarter
Member

163 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:03PM
Can I at least say that I appreciate that you even read the forums? You are easily one of my favorites, Kristina and know you could be doing many other things with your time than reading our posts. I thank you for taking the time!
oldguy
Senior Member

1270 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:11PM
Kristinarose, you are sure right on with your remarks here, hopefully the moderators will initiate a special section of the forum just for such a thing and I also second the gratitude that us members have for a lady that does take time to read this forum, that also shows great class and good manners.
Gunzo
Senior Member

1377 Posts
2/05
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:31PM
Seems to me ADT is probably the most respectful porn forum there is. And for every foul comment I bet there's a hundred positive ones.
celluloidferox
Senior Member

@EmperorCorndog
1438 Posts
1/10
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:47PM
I agree that the porn performers on ADT should have a place to return the favor of reading insulting comments. I'm sure I've got quite a few lashes coming my way if all the porn stars on here did use this thread. However, I don't see how sharing an honest opinion is lacking manners. I don't see what's wrong with RedDevil87's comment, and I'm a huge fan of both Dana and Phoenix. It sounds pretty fair to me. I can't defend the other comment, especially since I don't know what it's referring to.
I think honesty is more important than trying to always play nice so nobody's feelings get hurt. As long as it's not meant in a hurtful way, an honest negative comment should be fair game.
ADT is where fans have a voice, some folks will make insults, some will kiss ass, and some will be honest. Without it, none of the people in porn would know how we feel; and none of the fans would think the people in the industry give a shit.
 
Peoples Temple
Member

People tell lies my friend. Some people like publicity. I don't like publicity.
674 Posts
5/11
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:58PM
Very well put, I see far too much ass kissing on here which really turns me off. I usually will not post on a thread when people heap on the disingenuous praise. I suppose we all are irritated at some time or another.
LubeNLuv
Senior Member

1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 3:20PM
In fact, if a non-porn insider here (aka Fans and ordinary Joes) makes a derogatory comment specifically about a porn star, its usually a pretty quick trip to deactivation.
Conversely, porn insiders are VIP's here and you can pretty much say whatever you want. So to the OP....load up and say what you will with impunity.
The forum rules here (Under Etiquette) are pretty clear about this:
We are lucky to have industry participants, and they are paying attention to your constructive criticism. Insults will get you nowhere and lead to the deactivation of your forum account.
LCF All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

Non Prevalebunt!
10364 Posts
1/05
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 3:38PM
I was pointing my fingers to what KR said about some assholes around here with bad or no manners at all since the day I joined here.
And now at least nobody is referring to porn performers as "slut" "whore" "bitch" and so on, which was very common back then.
It is civil behaviour not to say to a woman that another one is better than her or that she's not that cute.
not even when it is the truth.
There are many stars I can't really stand , but I never ever say who they are , there are many who hate some of the star i love , it is a matter of personal feelings and tastes.
If we are talking about a role in a featured movie than I can argue that for example Kristina is more or less suited for the role , for example I might argue Zoe Voss (one of my favourite) can't play the role of Supergirl , she is too slim for this , but you know what? She actually played the role of a superwoman from Krypton in a Superman Parody and she was great in there.
Anyway a discussion on a particular role could be legitimate , but to take down a performer cannot be tolerated.
back on topic whreas I agree with the meaning of OP topic I have to disagree with the idea , such topic will lead to flames
Ashlii
Member

809 Posts
8/11
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 4:01PM
first of all im star struck just seeing you post here kristina and maybe having you reply to me but i disagree with what your saying. why do all people who post here have to suck up to the performers?
LCF All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

Non Prevalebunt!
10364 Posts
1/05
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 4:20PM
^ this place has been made to interact with performers other than people , which means and it is VERY common sense that if people continues to insult or being mean with them they'll leave and the reason of this place will end which mean you don't have to suck up porn performers you (and me and anyone else) have to behave as a regular human being rather than a monkey.
regular behaving means no insult , no harshness , no harassment on porn performers , nor anybody else
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 4:42PM
Friends -
This thread is a dumb idea, can't possibly lead to anything constructive or good for anyone, and unless I miss my guess, probably won't last long. It's just dumb.
And while the original post at the top of the thread might contain many truths and might be born from a justified sense of frustration and hurt, still it reflects the immaturity of the OP and the lack of her understanding of all that it means to be a professional in her chosen field.
When you choose a high profile public profession, especially one like this where the most personal and intimate details of your life are on constant display and under constant critique, part of your professional development is figuring out how you're gonna handle the stupidity that comes with that. You learn that you can't always control your environment, you can't manage things and opinions beyond your control, and you definitely can't internalize or respond to all the mean and hurtful things said about you without losing your health, or your sanity, or both. And you can't petulantly lash back at the public stupidity cuz that is a fight YOU CAN'T WIN. The professionals figure this out and decide how they are going to manage their public interactions, while the unfinished come up with ideas like this.
Fan interaction and all that the internet has brought us IS a double edged sword, and those performers that spend too much time with it or have an alarm that goes off every time some yahoo in cyberspace says something rude or dumb are probably gonna wind up feeling just how this OP feels. The world is never gonna be rid of insensitive people with internet connections and performers trying to match them tit for tat is a losing proposition.
The moderators of this forum have made it an objective to make performers as comfortable as possible here, and they do a better job than most at shielding them from true assholes.
Let's hope the moderators now don't have to protect us unwashed heathen from the performers.
BSD
Edited by - BSD on 8/26/2011 4:46:36 PM
dexington steele
Member

816 Posts
12/07
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 5:11PM
^Great post, BSD. You nailed it, brother!
Edited by - dexington steele on 8/26/2011 5:11:30 PM
Ramsey
Senior Member

Trina Michaels fan
10332 Posts
10/02
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 5:25PM
What's wrong with this quote?
And I don't understand the topic starter. I mean perhaps 99% of her topics are very positive since she got a lof of SFB's yet she highlights the 1% that might be negative in a way.
pringles All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

1351 Posts
2/08
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 5:35PM
I'd rather see fifty regular members deactivated before Kristina or Dana would decide to leave ADT. I'm here because of them and other industry participants.
The girls of this industry deserve all the praise they get IMO. If you like Kristina, pour it on. Let her know she's appreciated. If you don't like it, there are other forums where you can disrespect her all you want. ADT isn't one of them. Thanks to Steph and the moderators for that.
Kristina - the Next deactivated member thread in the Polls forum exists to bring assholes to the attention of Steph and the moderators. It can take awhile sometimes but they do a good job of taking out the trash. It's a better course of action than behaving like they do.
Schmse
Senior Member

I'm not here, this isn't happening!
2571 Posts
6/04
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 5:38PM
What BSD said!
This thread is just stupid! Kindergarden level.
 
astroknight All-Star Supporter
Questionable Moderator

Tastes so good...
4187 Posts
11/99
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:17PM
Two thoughts:
Sucking up and being decent and respectful are two different things.
Some porn stars have VERY thin skins. (And this is NOT directed at Kristina but there are a few who do come to mind.)
"I do not as a rule seek advice about food from thin people..." - Jeffrey Steingarten
His Dudeness
All Business

Shut the fuck up, Donny!!
2793 Posts
4/10
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:18PM
^ +1
MorganKane
Senior Member

6037 Posts
10/10
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:20PM
I find myself agreeing completely with what BSD said and I can't say I understand what was so wrong about what RedDevils87 said regarding Dana.
And I will never understand why performers, who have thousands of fans giving them praise, only give attention to that one asshole. Just ignore the assholes.
Edited by - MorganKane on 8/26/2011 7:21:37 PM
shalalin
Senior Member

1741 Posts
11/07
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:29PM
His comment has been deemed "wrong" strictly because Dana decided to take umbrage with it for some reason. Incidentally, the comment wasn't even posted in a star thread, just the catch-all thread for Elegant Angel releases.
Edited by - shalalin on 8/26/2011 7:30:27 PM
backdoorman
Senior Member

Shake for me girl... I wanna be your backdoorman !
2776 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:34PM
I post from the USA and it's still [relatively speaking]a free country. Sometimes my posts even when meant completely innocently and innocuously have been taken completely out of context by performers. That's their right too I suppose. Everything you hear in life isn't going to be positive and everyone isn't going to kiss your ass. If you want that then you're in for a very big disappointment. I suppose someone hit a nerve for KR but we can't always wear our heart on our sleeve without it getting bruised occasionally.
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

^Lucy Pinder
18635 Posts
4/08
Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:35PM
I'm sorry that you are frustrated Kristina, and you know that I am polite to you and often say friendly things to you on twitter so please don't take this to be anything other than it is. I have to shut this thread down because it doesn't jive with the ADT forum etiquette, in particular this sentence:
If what someone has posted angers you, wait until you calm down before you respond or simply don't respond.
Just because others may have violated the forum etiquette in the past, it doesn't mean it's a good idea to violate it again.
As someone mentioned above, if you or anyone else feels that someone is crossing the line, please report them to a moderator by clicking on the "Message Moderator" button at the bottom of any thread, or posting about their behaviour in the Next deactivated member thread.



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