Hi from France everyone, I noticed that several pornstars actually post here and I wanted to ask them a question, if I may: I like to watch porn with my girlfriend and we get a lot of pleasure from it, we especially like the 'harder stuff' like dp (double penetration) as this is an act that does not (at least to my knowledge) occur much in everyday life, but I was wondering, do the girls in these scenes actually enjoy this or are they just acting? Some seem to like it and others seem to be in discomfort, so I have always been curious. Most girls who do it say they like it, but it would be bad for business to say otherwise and also many girls stop performing such scenes when they become more popular (of course this could be for other reasons like: it might alienate a more mainstream market or perhaps they just get better money to perform more 'normal' acts as this is what the more mainstream market want to see). Also the pay is generally greater for this which again implies that people might be less willing to do it. So what I want to know is: do some girls actually enjoy dp or are they just doing it for the money? Is it the kind of thing girls do off camera as well? Also, as a man I find it hard to imagine how it would feel, so I was wondering if any female porn actress who posts here could tell me what it feels like? On the one hand I think that all the stimulation could feel very pleasurable, but on the other, I wonder if it would just feel too tight and like your skin is being torn. Any replies are welcome, but I am hoping to here in particular from male and female porn actors especially as they will have first hand experience with it. Sorry for the long post and my poor english and thanks in advance for any help. Peace and love, Tainted Love
I don't think there is a one size fits all answer to this question. The girls who appear to be uncomfortable most likely are. And the girls who appear to be enjoying it may or may not actually be having fun. I'm sure some percentage of them are actually having a good time, but it can be hard to tell exactly which ones it is.
Thanks for the reply, I agree with your logic. A girl would have no reason to pretend not to like it if she liked it and every reason to pretend that she does like it. I just wondered if some girls genuinely derive pleasure from it. From my personal life, I'm pretty sure some girls like anal (and some hate it), so it shouldn't be a huge stretch (no pun intended) for a girl to like dp, but this is why I was hoping some of the pornstars would respond because they would know first hand what is said and done behind the scenes.
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You've already laid out the reasons why the performers would be less than candid if they didn't really enjoy themselves, so you just have to trust your eyes a bit. It's hard to fake anal enjoyment if a woman feels like she's being ripped apart. On the other hand, if she's rocking her hips and trying to fit more in, then maybe she really likes it. DP's would be doubly intense, but for a woman that already is comfortable with anal, possibly the ultimate sensation. I think the women that stick around the longest are generally the ones most in tune with the program.
If you look at the AIM website Nina Hartley and Dr. Mitch talk about how girls shouldn't do anything on film they wouldn't do in real life, and I've stuck to that in my short career so far. I like DPs, even if it's just a dildo in my pussy when my man fucks my ass, and I've done them in my regular life with more than one guy. The first scene I was ever offered in LA was a DP, and by most accounts, it's the best scene I've shot to date, so hey. For me, it's not so much a "stretched" feeling as a "full" feeling. You get both going at once and it really pushes into the G-spot (for me at least) and the whole mind-fuck aspect of it (holy shit! I'm getting fucked by two dudes!) goes a long way into why I enjoy it... Just my two cents
Hi, thanks for the reply. It's good to hear from someone with first hand experience. Wow, first shoot, were you nervous about it all? I suppose a lot can depend on the guys you are working with aswell? Have you heard anything from other performers about what they think about it too? It's good to hear that you are enjoying yourself on camera and I hope you have a great career ahead of you ;p.
Thanks :) Yeah, I was nervous, but Billy Watson is awesome to work for, and Sean Michaels was especially great about it, so it was fun. I'd been doing a lot of nude modeling before that, and I actually still do more of that than porn, so the only question for me really was whether or not I could handle Sean's size :)
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I thought it would only be right to do some research for myself and so last night me and my girlfriend checked out your movie. All I can say is 'wow!' That was hot stuff! You have two new fans. Are you planning to shoot more scenes in the future? I hope so.
:) Thanks! I'd love to, but it all depends on the folks sitting in the director chair casting me. I did just shoot a couple scenes for Brandon Longwood, so hopefully we'll see those soon, but sadly no one's asked me to do a DP scene in a while. I was ready for it with my Public Disgrace scene too, but it just didn't happen. Fingers crossed someone calls me to set something up :P