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rayder
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1 Posts
3/04
Posted - Mar 21 2004 : 9:17PM
I am a "healthy" 30 year old male with a pretty consistent sex life. This issue is more of settling my curiosity, rather than a problem I can't live with... see if I can explain.

I have no problems achieving full erection with my partner, one night stands, or occasional bootie calls. With my girlfriend, a few minutes of just hugging and I am fully erect.

For some reason, I have never been able to achieve erection from prostitutes, or any type of sex that involved payment. These aren't girls on the street mind you. Usually upper class type girls... if that makes any sense.

On my 21st birthday my friends pitched in and got me 3 girls. All rather beautiful... but for the life of me i could not bring myself to erection. I figured it was because i was nervous because it was 3 girls.. so i shrugged it off.

I have had girls (one on one) from Japan, Brazil, Taiwan, and USA. NONE of them could ever get me erect... so I kind of gave up on the whole thing. It's not something I can't live without.. but I guess it's just one experience I wanted to have in this lifetime.

So is it psychological? Nervousness? Lack of the "chase"? Are there any types of medication that can guarantee erection?

Is there anyone else that have experieced this issue?

Thanks in advance.

lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Mar 21 2004 : 10:08PM
Looks like you only think that you want sex with a prostitute. Yes, it's psychological, and perfectly healthy. I'd say let it go. It doesn't seem to be right for you.
GaySatyr
Senior Member

Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat!
1684 Posts
10/00
Posted - Mar 21 2004 : 11:29PM
I agree with lindi's assessment: I've heard of it happening in the gay world, too. ~ GS
TheLoneGunman
Member

400 Posts
10/03
Posted - Mar 22 2004 : 12:24PM
It's just nerves...performance anxiety, if you will. The reason you don't have a problem with your girlfriend is because you have a sense of comfort with her - even the first time with her was probably after you had gotten to know each other relatively well, correct? No such chance with an escort - plus you know you're on the clock when she arrives...there's almost a "beat the clock" thing going on - knowing you only have an hour or two.




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