Hey folks, I'm coming out of posting retirement to show you something. I just received an interesting yet depressing message on my Allie Sin fans Yahoo Group (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AllieSin/).
This is from a poster claiming to be Allie Sin:
"ok look this is allie. my boyfriend has been a member of this group for some time monitoring it and frankly im tired of this . who ever the fuck you are "stalking" me at my work you need to stop i quit doing porn for a reason i want nothing to do with you "fans" or people that like me. i dont care, all i want is a normal life i dont need people posting days when i work or how much a dance is, half of the information you have posted on your facts of allie section is wrong you are portraying false information about me , so please get off of your obsession and move on with your life.
"not to mention the photos and videos you have listed here have been stolen i have signed model releases to the companies that produced them , i did not give you permission to use them and if this site is not down in the next 2 days i will be contacting yahoo to have it removed .
"so please move on go find a girl that likes the attention, id like to be able to go to work and not have my schedule posted on the internet or what i was wearing or if i have a new tattoo. . . .let me live my life and get on with yours PLEASE!"
And this appeared a little later on another Yahoo Group by Allie's former management:
"she knows she has a lot of fans but is not inteterested that is past her and wants to keep her pron career in the past and move on. She is happy where she is right now and is very unhappy with the yahoo group that is up about her and if i knew who posted it i would ask them to remove it for her."
The person claiming to be Allie posted under the e-mail address of a guy named Jeremiah Ruff. He's the singer of a now defunct Tampa, Florida hardcore band called The Calm. So there's a good chance that really is Allie.
I believe what set her off is that I posted information about Mons Venus, the strip club where Allie currently works as a lapdancer. Obviously, she doesn't like the idea of members of the group going to the club to see her.
Let me admit that she's right about the pics and videos. Me and the group's members (now over 1900) got a little crazy posting free stuff. It's no big deal to me to take all that down. But it's clear she's uncomfortable with the group, period.
I have to say I'm disappointed to learn she's so unhappy with her porn past and would like to disown it completely. I understand and sympathize that she may regret the things she's done. But I also think that she chose to do those things. She knew what she was getting into by doing porn. She has to live with it now.
On the other hand, there have been a few messages to the group that bother me. People just begging for copyrighted material, someone asking for personal stuff like her high school yearbook photo.
What do you think? Should I respect Allie's wishes, shut it all down? I don't even know if I can watch her stuff in the same way, knowing that she's now so ashamed of it.
That's one of the NASTIEST dives in Florida, which is saying a LOT. I spent SO much money in that place. If she's working there, she might as well be doing porn (or "pron" as the note charmingly has it), since the joint is about a hair's-breadth away from being a prostitution front. Ain't saying it IS, but I am saying that the girls are already naked when you walk in the door, and the $20 lap dances are full-ON!
Man, I better get down to Tampa sometime!
Whoo-hoo!
Maybe it's not regret, though. Just a need for privacy and a "been there, done that, doing something else" attitude. Her BF must be a stone pimp though if he encourages her to work at that place.
If that's all it is, I don't think she'd be so vehement about shutting down the whole shebang. She makes it pretty clear she doesn't want to have anything to do with porn (although lapdancing is apparently okay?) She posted the same message to another Yahoo Group devoted to her that has made no mention of her employment at Mons Venus. She'd like to see that one closed as well, apparently.
I never thought Allie was enjoying her scenes in the least. She always had that dead-behind-the-eyes look that wierded me out. Her half-sister Astrid is MUCH hotter in my opinion.
Allie certainly has a right to her privacy, but anyone that fucks on film has got to know that it's going to draw lots of attention their way - especially if the actress does lots of nasty scenes with lots of fucking and cum. I mean, if I were anywhere near Tampa, I'd swing by the Mons for sure. Although I must say, I've been there before, and it's not the greatest. Much better clubs in Miami IMHO.
i agree. although i really like allie's look and body, she never gave a performance where she seemed to be enjoying herself. i am surprised to hear that she works at the mons. not exactly keeping a low profile by working there. not exactly my favorite strip club in the u.s., but it sure gets a lot of business and i am sure that even without the yahoo group alot of guys have probably heard that she works there.
That's one of the things I don't get. How could she think people wouldn't find out she works there? If she really doesn't want anything to do with porn, why isn't she slinging coffee at a Starbucks or whatever?
Also, I'd like to hear some opinions re: should I close the group like she wants?
whether or not you want to continue the yahoo group site is entirely up to you. Some of those files may have to be removed if the original owners take action of course.
It's entirely a judgment call....if you want to respect her wishes than shutting it down is the logical option. Keeping it running is really an act of spite at this point if all her "regret" is genuine.
A lot of fan groups on yahoo are run by the str themself. The fact that there are fans supposedly "stalking her at work" and asking for personal stuff like high school photos would be more than enough reason for her to shut it down if she were running it.
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Posted - Mar 27 2005 : 9:15PM
If she doesn't want it up, and you're already uncomfortable about it, why not take it down? There are plenty of porn stars that curry their fans favor and even drop into their forums. Allie is obviously miserable about this. Cut her a break.
Well, if it stays up and Allie complains, Yahoo could well close it, but if Allie's done making movies, it's gonna peter out within a few months anyway. What will there be to talk about?
I see quite a few groups that generate 1000 or more members but there's nothing really happening and if the stars don't p[articipate it just sort of sits there. I signed up for a bunch when I first discovered them, but actually find them to be pretty boring. No offense to your efforts, Ricky.
As a member of your yahoo group, I have to say you did a good job running it. But it's not worth the drama to keep it going. Time to move on to a new porn star. The great thing about porn, there is always a fresh piece of ass on the scene.
I have to say this developed strangely though. First she/he/they? offered "quite a bit of info" on allie, then turned around and demanded the group be taken down.
I think the tipping point was when that guy was talking about going to school with her, knowing her real name, trying to get in touch w/ her...then somebody else challenged him to divulge that info and post high school pics...You did the right thing and put a stop to it, but you ended the message with that line about the club.
That's one of the NASTIEST dives in Florida, which is saying a LOT. I spent SO much money in that place. If she's working there, she might as well be doing porn (or "pron" as the note charmingly has it), since the joint is about a hair's-breadth away from being a prostitution front. Ain't saying it IS, but I am saying that the girls are already naked when you walk in the door, and the $20 lap dances are full-ON!
Ditto, Skronker! that's one of the nastiest dives ever- not just Fl. One of the most hands on clubs I've ever dropped cash at. Woo hoo! Mons Venus!
I understand they cooled it down with the last mayoral election. One of the ones after 2000 anyways. Some candidate running on a morals thing, the police started enforcing distance between customer and stripper. I haven't talked to my friends in the area, so maybe things are back to the way they were.
I originally intended the group to be a tribute to Allie. Preserving the porn immortality that Soul Sphere mentions. It's not really a discussion place, it's more an info center. It's the only place on the web with Allie's complete filmography & webography, plus hundreds of organized links & pics. I even made a folder detailing her various tattoos.
The reason a lot of other pornstar Yahoo Groups are boring is because they get overrun with spam and the owners don't keep them up to date.
I liked the idea that if anyone was interested in Allie's porn career, they would have everything they needed to know at my group. Hell, I found out about that crummy issue of Naughty Neighbors magazine in which she appears wearing lame-o novelty underwear and ugly hair extensions!
But the whole deal is tainted now that I know she hates the attention. All her work seems so less hot knowing that she's disowned it. What's the point of a tribute if the star herself says fuck off?
Ah, too bad, Ricky. Is there anyone else you like?
Yeah, man -- the Mons Venus! I went there for a bachelor party. Holy shit! I'd never been to "that type" of strip club before. I spent every last dollar in my pocket ($200) in about an hour. They had to pry the girls off of me, 'cos we'd get stuck! One of the girls pretty much told me she was smoking crack on her breaks. They were selling Ak-47s out of a car trunk in the parking lot. Fuck!
It is a tough call XrickyromaX. I would want to be a 1000% sure that the post was from Allie before I did anything and then I guess shut the crab's site down. I will be watching good luck!
Sure, Desert Rose. Last I heard, she's working at Red Lobster somewhere in Cali. Maybe I can find out her hours and get her to hate me too, haw haw!
No seriously, this whole thing is putting the final kibosh on my passion for porn, which was admittedly already under the microscope as of late.
I feel like whenever I watch something now, I'm gonna worry about whether or not the girl on the screen is cool with what she's done.
When I think on it, I realize that most of my faves have long quit, some bitterly: Desert, Ryan Star, Maggie Star, August... Well, August is still pretty gung ho and doesn't seem the worse for wear.
I like Brittany James, a.k.a. Stephie Stiles. But in a few months, will she disappear like the rest, tearfully wondering what she was thinking when she let all those strange cocks fuck her?
Are the annals (anals?) of porn fueled by a tragic litany of young women's regrets?
(cue swelling melodrama) Can I still enjoy porn and consider myself a good person?!
Didn't you read "her" post? Mention one word of her porn career and she'll probably sic the bouncers on ya. "It's one of my fanboy stalkers!"
Incidentally,
Marge: "I don't want you stalking people tonight." Homer: "All right, fine. I'll be right back. I'm just going outside... to... 'STALK'... Lenny and Carl, heh heh heh. (pause) D'oh!"
There are lots of girls who seem to have a good time at it. But admittedly it's not always the best line of work for anyone with emotional issues, which nearly every teenage girl has in abundance. Also, if your taste runs to young-looking girls rather than some of the more experienced porn stars, you will find a pretty high percentage of short-timers who get in, do some nasty scenes, freak out, and bail out.
I mean, if you're a Melissa Lauren fan you are probably in the clear.
Ricky, I'd shut it down if I knew she was so against it. I'd move on, there are so many new girls getting in the biz every day. I live 3 hours away from Mons Venus. It used to be like Skronker said it was. Although I heard some politicians put a stop to alot of the fun in Tampa strip clubs. Now South Florida strip clubs(Miami,Fort Lauderdale,West Palm Beach)are the touchy, feely ,place to enjoy yourself .
Stephie/Brittany is a total cutie. Recently read that she was done too. The Florida girls don't seem to last very long, but they are tasty as hell.
It sounds like are thinking way too much, it's just porn man.
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Posted - Mar 28 2005 : 1:07AM
I would shut it down and NOT start another group.
Don't you realize that Allie's contempt for her fans is probably shared by a lot of porn stars? This is why it is best to not try to get involved & learn more about them.
Enjoy their performances in videos and let it stay a fantasy. That has been my motto from day one and you can find earlier posts by me on this board alluding to that. Don't dote over pornstars that post here. Do not ask them personal questions and expect honest answers. Keep it professonial .. "when is this vid coming out...", etc.. Not : "what kind of sex do you like at home?".
I mean what did you really expect to gain from running a Yahoo Group? Did you think she was suddenly going to appear and want to be your friend (and perhaps more) because you started this group for her? She made it very clear: you are a weirdo to her. You are obssessed, and need to get a life.
I hope no one on this board really thinks they have a chance of getting to know a porn star personally if they are "fans". Trust me, to them its a business relationship. Even if its escorting.
Jeezus, condescend much? You must be as fun as a bag of broken glass at parties.
I started the group because I was turned on by her, not because I wanted a wife. If I were so desperate to make puppy love with her I would have said more at the club instead of just forking her bills. I also piss on your assumption that I need to get a life and other hackneyed cliches. You are extraordinarily bitter. Did mommy hug you enough?
Awww, really? Where'd you read that? Her first boxcover just came out last week! Eh, I guess I knew she wouldn't last long. Everything I've seen her in, she seems stoned out of her gourd. Must be something in the Florida water that casts 19-year-old girls into the throes of some sort of sexual cognitive dissonance.
I love Stephie Stiles a.k.a. Brittany James. Unfortunately, she recently quit the industry. Stephie only lasted about a month making movies in LA. She went back to Florida and is pursuing other interests.
Xricky, do you know if this girl is using the name Allie Sin at the Mons Venus (since most girls trend on their porn work to increase their market value as feature dancers), or is she using a different moniker? One would think that Allie could find a more upscale place to dance than the Mons in Florida--given her resume and physical attributes. Unless she is deliberately going incognito there.
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Posted - Mar 28 2005 : 6:44AM
NO, that's what *she* said. I"m just saying that whether it is fair (or true) at all, the fans are all "losers" in her eyes.
The mind boggles at the thought of a stripper who doesn't want the free advertising that come with porn videos.
It's premature to take down a group due to one bizarre message whose sender authenticity can't verified. Especially since even if the note is true she's just barely outside the industry - it's not like she wants to leave the adult industry, just porn video video performances.
And, after all, she may well do a few porn shoots later. It's no small stretch to suspect she may eventually realize that name recognition means dollars when stripping...
Within 3 seconds of stepping in the door I was pinned to a arm chair, had a pair of titties jammed into my face and a wet tongue fuel-injecting my earhole with fresh saliva, furtive fingers groped my swelling prawn as the insistent pelvic thrusting began. When I cried out, those fingers flew to my mouth and firmly quelled by quaking tongue!
Wickedness. Fornication. Lust! Sin! All the evil that lives in the flesh, the poisoning of the mind, these carnal desires, rob you of your human potential and your spirit is draws ever further from the embrace of your heavenly Father that is the Lord Our God. I will pray for thee.
She doesn't go by Allie Sin at Mons Venus. She's not even a stage dancer, she just works the floor. Like she said in her post, she doesn't want anything to do with porn fans, she doesn't want any truck off her porn career. She just wants to be one pair in a sea of anonymous titties.
Basically, every young woman of legal age in Clearwater is a stripper.
The place across from the Mons was said to be even nastier. There was an upstairs room under a roof designed to look like a spaceship where you could buy blowjobs from serious blown-out floozies.
I demurred but I know some folks who threw down for the gum job.
I'm not saying you should. I'm just saying that's what I would do. It would hurt me to know that by keeping a group I started active, I was hurting the very person I was trying to exalt.
"ok once again im telling you this is allie. im erked beyond belief at this point. . . im trying to get in touch with jimmy over aim to have him post a convorsation i will have with him. if any of you seem to think this is still my boyfriend "jeremiah" you are wrong, im gathering all my model releases right now and making a package to send to yahoo i have contacted them already and have been told to send copies of my ID's and the model releases. which i am sending out tomorrow so you can do one of two take the site down on your own or yahoo will and your accounts will all be closed because i am informing them that you also have sites up for other adult actors we have not given you permission to use our videos, photos, or released any information to you , so its up to you to make the wise decision at this point.
good luck."
I'm not going to include it, but she ends the post with her real name. Why? No frickin' idea. After all this talk of privacy. I even went out of my way to shush posters looking for that kind of personal info.
Also, she confuses my group with another Allie Sin Yahoo Group that she wants taken down.
Well, she got her wish. jennymoondog closed her group this morning, and I followed suit around noon.
I figure, why make her miserable. She's probably got enough to worry about. You're right, MLyons, there's no point in hurting her.
Jimmy Lifestyles talked with her through AIM. He wrote to me that she found the group amusing at first. What really upset her were the posts about Mons Venus and then the ones about personal info and so on. She didn't like the idea of people coming out to see Allie Sin.
Well, Allie sounds like a confused young lady but it's her life/her choice to proceed with what makes her comfortable. Maybe she had a bad experience in the past. Unfortunately, there are fans who cross the line unbidden.
Of course, it doesn't matter what name she uses. Those tattoos are a total giveaway (even in a small pic on the Mons website).
Wish her well, Ricky, and move on to a new obsession .
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Posted - Mar 28 2005 : 2:34PM
Oh yes! 2001: A Sex Odyssee. My father used to fix the cash registers in both those places going back to the 70s. Good times.
Thanks, skronker. Yeah, I bear her no grudge. She do how she do, yo. It sounds like she has her own stuff to deal with, and who am I to add to the burden?
Yes, that place was called "2001", and there is a place even trashier than that called "Seven Seas" , if it's still around. Ahhhh....strip club memories.
A BJ sounds nice, but how many of these ladies have diseases or aids?
I didn't partake in the BJ's, or any sex, but as Skronker said these strip clubs in Tampa were notoriously sleazy. I'd never heard of a lapdance until 1989, and I went to Tampa. I didn't think you could touch strippers up until this point. Then I went into Mons Venus, and girls were grabbing my crotch, and shoving their tits in my mouth.Needless to say I left plenty of money behind in Tampa.