Anal sex is a turn on for me as long as it's filmed right! For example, if it starts out with rump shaking, ass teasing, and ass worship, and eventual anal penetration, then it's all good for me. Jules Jordan has filmed some excellent one-on-one anal scenes in his past.
Anal scenes that I don't like are ones that start with anal penetration right off the bat. Gonzo is well know for this.
I love that. What you do is wriggle a fingertip in there while you're kissing her, without touching any other part of her body first. It's naughty . You should try it. I think I will. Real life is sometimes known for this, too.
Am I belligerent again? FUCK! I really should be in bed.
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Posted - Sep 2 2004 : 12:50AM
Here is a quick Anal 101 for you to pass onto your wife...
Anal can be an excellent experience to add to your sexual play but you need to remember that it takes time and patience. It's not like you can just shove your cock in like you see in movies! (In movies the girls are usually "warmed up" before hand...some using butt plugs to relax and get used to something being there + we are trained professionals, hee hee) It takes being comfortable with your partner, the situation, being relaxed and unlike the movies, a lot of forplay. Start with tongues, fingers, small smooth toys - don't go for broke the first time, maybe you will need to just do finger play for a couple times then work your way up from there. Use a lot of lube too.
The way I learned was to use dildos on myself as part of my masturbation (I highly recommend this for women who want to explore anal play); since I was alone, I wasn't as nervous and afraid of pain, or disappointing my partner. Also, occasionally natural 'accidents' happen; should they happen, don't get all oogy and grossed out, that could cause embarrassment and make her not want to try. Just be understanding and calm. As they say - shit happens. It also washes off. Try, try again.
Some couples have had success with a warm bath and a glass of wine to relax. Take all the time in the world and your patience, and hers, will be rewarded tenfold!
This next part will give most guys the heebie-jeebies but honestly, before you start pushing her to take your cock up her ass, sometime just try slipping a finger in your own...and you will realize what you are up against, what nerves will do and that it is no where as easy as it looks!
Trust me, the best orgasm I ever had was from anal sex, it left me shaking, weak, giggling and nearly hallucinating...I can't even describe it.
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Posted - Sep 2 2004 : 1:10AM
As a guy, I love fucking my ass with all sorts of things. dildos, fingers, tounges, whatever is around. I think ALL guys should experience the wonderfullness of pleasuring the PROSTATE while jerking off.
anal doesnt hurt if you use lube!! LUBE YOUR TUBE before YOU DO ANAL =)
It looks good! Nothing better than seeing a rump fucked and a nice sweet glistening pussy right there for all the world to see. Yum.
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Posted - Sep 2 2004 : 5:31AM
And also when people are filming, aren't those anal smells a total erection killer?
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Here is the one I was referring to in my former post....
...baffles the mind, really.
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I was not saying that becuase I'm ignorant or I have hygiene problems. I was going by what various discussions on anal by porn producers in the past. Like here for example.
That's true from a religious standpoint because people use the bible as a reference point. But in reality the creator (whatever that means to you) never issued a handbook with dos and don'ts on the human body.
People are free to jam whatever they want in any of their orifices or stick their appendages wherever they have permission. Nature has it's own form of prosecution if you go sticking them places you shouldn't (injury, infection, death, etc.)
As for the backdoor smells, some people need a shower to properly clean up, especially if it's spontaneous. And if that's the case the smells are not limited to anal sex.
In the industry I can see you not experiencing "the waft" or "accidents" because of regulations and/or consideration, unless you have a scene with Ron Jeremy of course.
This seems as good a time as any to check out what what current Jewish law says about anal and oral sex. From what I found at this site (http://www.mechon-mamre.org/jewfaq/sex.htm), run by a board of rabbis in Israel, they say the following (though they are referring to sex between a married couple, it still relevant):
"...Sexual relations are not necessarily limited to those that can lead to pregnancy, either: anal and oral relations are permitted, if enjoyable to both marital partners, though Jewish men have a separate commandment to reproduce, and should generally end up having normal vaginal intercourse."
Even the rabbis say there should be variety, not a big emphasis on anal and oral.
Don't miss the following, a few paragraphs down the page: "Sex is the woman's right, not the man's. A man has a duty to give his wife sex regularly and to ensure that sex is pleasurable for her. He is also obligated to watch for signs that his wife wants sex, and to offer it to her without her asking for it. The woman's right to sexual intercourse is referred to as onah, and is one of a wife's three basic rights (the others are food and clothing), which a husband may not reduce."
As far as my tastes go. I like a little bit of anal. I am not a huge fan of anal only movies. I like a little bit of vag and anal. If I had to choose between the two I would go with vag. The ATM doesn't do much for me.
that was certainly interesting but those laws speak strictly from marriage perspective. If I am not mistaken, any sexual activitity outside marriage in plain evil.
Check this out:
"The Torah forbids all sexual contact short of intercourse outside of the context of marriage, recognizing that such contact is likely lead to intercourse and is damaging in and of itself. Jews are rabbinically forbidden to even engage in sexual fantasy, let alone masturbation alone or mutual masturbation outside of marriage."
Reverends, Ministers, Vicars, Cardinals, Clergy, Chaplains, Pastors... whoever... they seem to think young boys are hotter than porn stars. wrong! WRONG!
I really don't think so! What is great about anal? Well, there is a really tight hole and this results in a very special feeling for the guy as well as the woman. It gives more variety to the sex. Two holes are just better than one. And I think for the guy it has something "ultimative". I can't explain that more but for me it's definitely not about domination. I could not enjoy anal if the girl does not.
Just don't attribute that hateful shit to me; I rather wish sometimes I didn't think such things, much less say them out loud.
Why, why, why??? Because it can feel very good for both partners (if the shuddering orgasms are any indication), is very visual (thus making it a good choice for a visual medium) and ... um ... because hair doesn't grow on ice cream.
it was very interesting what you quoted about Jewish laws about sexuality. I'm currently reading a book from Uta Ranke-Heinemann about sexuality in Catholicism called Eunuchen für das Himmelreich. She was the first female professor of theology in Germany.
By the catholic laws lust is always a sin. But in few exceptions this sin is tolerable. If the lust is for reproduction or if it is to prevent a greater sin.
A greater sin than lust in marriage would be extramarital sex. That's why a wife has to always fulfill the sexual needs of her husband. Even if she risk her life because she is seriously sick. Because her death would be a lesser damage than extramarital sex of her husband.
Lust without the the purpose of reproduction is a deadly sin: Masturbation, oral or anal sex or homosexuality. The worst are contraception and abortion.
Children are born through an act of lust (sin). That's why they are sinful by birth. If a child dies before it gets baptized it will end up in hell forever.
son Buch will ich nicht mal geschenkt das geilste am Katholizismus ist das man pompös in einer Kirche heiraten kann, danach muss man ja nicht wieder rein. Und man kann trotzdem 'christlich' handeln.
Well, I just decided these 'catholic laws' don't apply to me. Seems like Christian-bashing is a popular indoor sport. I don't think any 'modern christian' takes these rules as given, I for once just smile about them, what else could i do, btw Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus. Even if I am much to egocentric to even remotely reach these ideals, they still make sense to me, and I keep trying harder to do better. My Life is my message and my message is Love.
I watch porn strictly for the anal because I find it visually more exciting. There's just something very attractive about a girl's round butt getting penetrated.
I always thought guys that only like vag or oral were lucky. There's always a group of girls in porn who won't do anal and they tend to be very hot. Plus nearly all scenes--even in anal themed movies--contain tons of oral/vag so you guys are always taken care of. If anyone should be complaining it's anal fans who are tricked into buying movies like this which could be more accurately titled "Not Just Anal Sex".
Do they really do the inverse? Spring anal on you in, say, a blowjob movie? That would be surprising since anal costs more.
Oddly, I don't really care for it in real life--too much work and very few women are comfortable with it. And visual stimulation takes a far less important role in real life so the one reason I like it in porn just isn't there.
I'm 43 years old and started to have sex 30 years ago. I always liked anal. In the meantime I fucked hundreds of girls in the ass. Mainly in porn (since 1997) but over hundred in my private live. It is so much easier now, than when I was younger because I've got experience now.
It needs the right technique to get a girl relaxed and make her loose up. Than she will enjoy it and most girls tell me that their orgasm during anal are much more intense than in vag.
Just curious regarding anal orgasm, normally do the grils need additional stimulation (like rubbing the ciltories) in order reach orgasm? Or just penetration alone?
I remember when it was the rarest thing in porn....so, change the channel or something.
The industry certainly does copy each other and everything else. Every once in a while someone new and different will come along. Think of the Dark Bros, Ninn, Blake, Jordan, etc. Inovation is waiting to happen every day.
Until then, I go for anal.
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Ren Galskap Deactivated User
35 Posts 9/04
Posted - Oct 12 2004 : 12:51AM
You're quoting Willy Dixon. Normally, I wouldn't bother correcting you, but if I can't be anal on an anal porn thread, what's the point?
I find A2M the most erotic act in porn...Having sex with a hot girl in the ass is one thing..but when she sucks on your cock right after its been up her ass, man, nothing get my cock harder for some reason.....It seems lotsa directors know this and this act has quite a following it seems....A2M and hard anal is probably the deepest of my sexual desires and psyche(or perversions if some of you think)
Having regular sex is one thing...but fucking a hot girl up her ass,,I dont know, theres just something about it that makes me hard as a rock...I dont know why...maybe cause the anus is tighter than the vagina and provides more stimulus?
Theres just something about it that cant be explained....
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Ivor Biggun Deactivated User
99 Posts 6/04
Posted - Oct 12 2004 : 1:15AM
Mason, I'm not so sure Oren is being narrow minded so much as realistic. Your and your friend's views on anal sex are great, but you and your friends are NOT the average woman!
Gosh, I never want to speak for all women. And I certainly would never argue that my friends and I respresent the average woman. What I hoped to explain was that those who feel porn is simply bought "to watch things that you can not do with your wife or girlfriend" don't account for the women out there who watch porn for their own pleasure. I only offered my perspective as a way to refute Oren's take on porn, not because I thought it was the rule.
I hope that didn't sound too bitchy, Ivor, it's late and I haven't gotten laid today!
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Ivor Biggun Deactivated User
99 Posts 6/04
Posted - Oct 12 2004 : 4:48AM
Oren did make a big generalization, and you certainly do prove an exception to his rule. All I'm saying is that men are the majority buyers of porn, and in the the most cases, Oren's assertion that we buy it "to watch things that you can not do with your wife or girlfriend" is probably true.Not at all... Just a shame I can't help you with that really
I would like to ask you as a very experienced man, if you have found out some technique or rather some kind of symbols, inicials or some fluidum that comes from the girl and that can the girl reveal to be "anal friendly"?
I mean obviously not all the women will do anal even if you use special training technique to make penetration easy.
To make the question even more simple, do you think that it is able to find out that a girl is/will be anal friendly ?(likes anal, or will like anal when she start to do it)
Bottom line: I have made my little personal research on it and I found that there quite little girls who really like anal and that there are also girls that you can ask or overspeak to do anal but they will not like it (not anal friendly :-)))
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As far as anal, its always bee the forbidden fruit so to speak. I have found that girls actually like it when they are not rushed or pushed. I also find it interesting that in this business, girls who are new to the business do not do anal but they "are working on it" or "practicing for it". Their price goes up when they do it so allot of them will do it after a while if they want to continue working. They may not enjoy it for a while but they do it because that is what most producers are asking for! It does make things more interesting if the girl is into it and enjoys what she does. The pure enjoyment in sex always comes through on film and those girls rise to the top!
I'm not really much interested in watching anal either but there are times that I find myself fascinated by it.
There is something amazing in seeing a huge cock buried balls deep inside a woman e.g. Lex's 10 inches in Jewel. For Lex to go balls deep vaginally would be impossible - 6 inches is the average length of the vagina.
Second reason is amazement that beautiful women like Jewel or Lea de Mae could submit to such treatment even for a lot of dollars. I guess this logic also applies to facials, swallowing, cum dripping, snowballing etc. Lea de Mae, Michelle Wild, Jewel (and many like them) are beautiful enough that they do not need to do porn at all, never mind submit to anal. It's intriguing.
I agree john, that such a beatiful woman would wanna do such a tabbo act, but girls nowadays are attacted to the bad and undeground more today i think.... when you think of it beautiful women really are dime a dozen nowadays, so theres always gonna be a few golden sticks in the bunch, no matter what they look like...I think also lotsa guys dont know what to do and where to start as far as initiating a girl for anal, it takes a really careful and correct technique, lotsa regular guys just wanna shove it up there right away and start pumping, no wonder its painful for alot of girls...
Welcome to the darkside....we have cookies. 598 Posts 11/03
Posted - Oct 12 2004 : 7:28PM
You make it sound as if we only do it for money or cause the adult industry commands it! SUBMIT such treatment? SUBMIT to anal? Has it occurred to you that many women ENJOY these acts? That perhaps, like with anal, it feels good and that many of us have much more intense orgasms while having anal sex...
With facials, and swallowing, etc. many women like the taste of cum (have you ever watched Zana lick up every drop? She's not doing that for the camera, she just digs cum)and it is a huge turn on for them.
Women like myself and Jewel are in this business because we want to be and we do the things we do because we enjoy them...no other reason than that. I personally get off having sex in front of the camera, I don't escort, nor do I swing, so I guess that's just my kink. No one forces us (nor bribes us) to do anal, participate in rough sex, or take a facial. The women are in charge and we can, and do, say no to things we just don't want to do.
It sounds like perhaps you should look at the other side of the coin, what's good for the gander may also be good for the goose!
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