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Gambio
Member


35 Posts
7/03
Posted - Aug 24 2003 : 9:25AM
For about three weeks I have inserted my finger into my girls ass, and she loves it. We have bought a small butt plug (just a little bit larger than my finger), and intend to, later on, buy a larger one. After that we will try it with my dick. My question is, how much practice does it take before she can take on my dick without it hurting?
DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Aug 24 2003 : 12:03PM
Depends on how big your dick is, and how often you practice.

But you have the right idea, working up to it slowly and gently, keeping it pleasurable.

DenverDon

mookiemeister
Super Cool Dude

181 Posts
7/02
Posted - Aug 25 2003 : 4:13AM
Use a lot of lubes!

"The lover knows much more about absolute good and universal beauty than any logician or theologian, unless the latter, too, be lovers in disguise." - George Santayana

SaitamaLoki
Member

Japan/East Coast USA
24 Posts
7/03
Posted - Aug 25 2003 : 10:32AM
If you do anal right, it's not supposed to hurt at all. My advice is to keep on doing what you are now-get your girl really horny and worked up, and use LOTS of high-quality lube, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, keep your communication open! Hearing what she's feeling and whether she wants things slower/faster is a MUST! Anal can (and should) be a lot of fun for BOTH people, and as long as you remember that it's all about getting HER off better, and listening to what she says, you'll have no problems.

Mind, I've never actually stuck my dick up my girl's rear end, we're working up to that (being separated by 6000 miles is not helping) but even sticking fingers and other things in her butt, I can say the above is golden advice. Listen to your partner all the way. If you're all hot and heavy, and a gentle pressure with a well-lubed finger on her ass produces moans of pleasure, and sticking a finger or two IN produces more, consider going farther, with lots of lube.

Also, as far as anal goes, consider fingering her rear end or using a plug on her while performing oral on her...not only does this increase the pleasure for a lot of women, but it helps to get her butt ready to take something larger. :) Also, "spooning" is supposed to be a good position for beginners, since it limits the depth of penetration.

Good luck, I hope you both have a blast!

BigFerret
creampie scientist

Searching for blonde and red bush
1985 Posts
10/02
Posted - Aug 25 2003 : 4:31PM
You should pick up some Wet Platinum.
 
VIP
Member

Germany
32 Posts
9/02
Posted - Aug 30 2003 : 2:08PM
Well, a bit of an odd question here, but I know you take those questions seriously, so I'm not afraid to ask:

I'm a gay guy and still a virgin. So, no anal experience in any way...
When I watch gay porn movies and a guy takes another guy from behind then everything is very clean and proper when he takes his penis out of the other guy's butt.
I wonder how they do that. How "deep" (?) do they clean their ass before an anal scene? Do they have to clean it that proper?

Perhaps not just gay guys but also girls can answer to this too ;) I have absolutley no idea what EXACTLY to do before to do it right (if it gets necessery in the future - you never know :)).
There are also many ass eating scenes which turn me on but sometimes I think this can be very kind of disgusting if it's not 100% clean down there, can't it? What do you do for that (for those of you who do that often).


And another question is: How exactly do you get the things out which you put in when you're doing it without a condom? Does it all come out very easy?

Weird asking all these questions....

Edited by - VIP on 8/30/2003 2:10:47 PM

Edited by - VIP on 8/30/2003 2:12:58 PM

lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Aug 30 2003 : 3:26PM
VIP, start with some of the anal threads on the Sex Talk FAQ. Especially read the incredibly valuable Jack Morin lecture. He wrote the book Anal Pleasure and Health decades ago.

Some people clean out with enemas, some don't clean out at all. We just run a soapy finger or butt plug up first while in the shower or tub, generally.

Don't put anything in your ass that wasn't meant to go there. People wind up in emergency rooms with 'lost' objects. Things designed for butt play have a wide flange at one end so that they can't go in and get lost, and some sort of handle.

Here's another related thread. To each his own!

Sir Noel Plum
Senior Studmuffin

1001 Posts
2/03
Posted - Sep 3 2003 : 12:39PM
If he tells his girlfriend that his plans are finished before they've even started!

SNP.

lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Sep 3 2003 : 12:48PM
I'm pretty sure that a penis comes with a really substantial 'flange' and 'handle' to keep it from 'getting lost' in there!

Analog
Member

Laguna Niguel
12 Posts
8/03
Posted - Sep 4 2003 : 10:11PM
just shove it in and if it hurts her too bad ;)
The Sexpert aka Necro
Deactivated User

Brooklyn, NY
72 Posts
9/03
Posted - Sep 7 2003 : 5:30PM
USE A BAT LIKE NACHO DID ON BELLADONNA
PREFERABLY LOUISVILLE SLUGGER


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