anyone else can't get laid to save your life? (page 2)

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BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Nov 18 2011 : 1:48AM Actually I think the less horny you are the better, women can pick up on the horndog and desperate vibe. I found that when I was younger and was with a steady girlfriend more women seemed interested in me than when I was single, even though they didn't know I had a gf. I think it was because I was more confident and relaxed around women back then if I had a gf, I wasn't always thinking of the women as potential partners but just friends and that puts them at ease and was more attractive. [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - Nov 18 2011 : 4:13PM Studies have shown that women can smell the scent of another woman on a man - and rate "woman scented" men as more desirable. So even if you don't tell a woman you have a gf her brain knows you do. And yes, men that have a woman are more attractive to women, generally. [Link]
Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02	Posted - Nov 18 2011 : 6:39PM Kimi Lixx wrote: Studies have shown that women can smell the scent of another woman on a man - and rate "woman scented" men as more desirable. So even if you don't tell a woman you have a gf her brain knows you do. And yes, men that have a woman are more attractive to women, generally. Click to expand There is a proven principle called "preselection", which is basically what you are referring to. I've noticed it when I'm out on dates that women glance my way more. As for women being able to tell that a guy has a gf even if they aren't together at the time, I suspect that's something that comes out in subcommunications, i.e. body language, tonality, and micro facial expressions for the most part. What women are subconsciously screening for is neediness. A guy that is needy and desperate for love, sex, companionship, etc. radiates that out to the world through a thousand different subtle mannerisms that women pick up on. [Link]
SunShowers Member 333 Posts 4/08	Posted - Nov 18 2011 : 6:45PM Also, if I might venture an idea, I've always noticed in myself that when I'm attracted to a taken guy, I'm operating out of the idea that "There are so many scumbags around and here's an attractive, nice guy with a woman who WANTS to be in a relationship with him. He MUST be a better quality guy if another women is willing and wanting to be with him." I think that might have a hand in why women are attracted to men who are taken. Another woman wants him, so he must not be a scumbag. Of course, that's not always true, but it's an initial reaction to seeing a couple. [Link]

lilacwine Member "Don't let your lava love turn to stone." 489 Posts 5/06	Posted - Nov 22 2011 : 5:36AM Get into dudes. Dudes are sluts. Problem solved. [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Nov 23 2011 : 3:50AM [Link]
jetpacksam Deactivated User Asa Akira Has Peed In My Shower 93 Posts 8/11	Posted - Dec 9 2011 : 11:14PM RandomPrecision wrote: Masturbation is your friend. I'm not Joycelyn Elders either so stop looking at me like that. Click to expand Edit: Edited by - jetpacksam on 12/9/2011 11:15:47 PM [Link]
Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02	Posted - Dec 16 2011 : 5:50AM Preselection isn't just about women fixating on guys that are taken. I mean, sure, that is one form of it, but it's at the extreme end where you find women that are consciously turned on by guys that have girlfriends or are married. More commonly, preselection is a subtle process that works at an unconscious or barely-conscious level to trigger attraction. In pickup, the classic scenario in which one would use preselection would be to go to the club and talk to girls you aren't interested in and get them laughing and touching you before approaching the girl that you ARE interested in. OR, you could approach a group of girls and talk to the friends first, gain their acceptance, and then turn your attention on the girl you really want to talk to. Some would say this is unethical. I don't know about that. I DO know that it's a heck of a lot harder to do in real life than it is to type it out on a keyboard. Clubs are loud and crowded and full of distractions, and when you see these groups of people, they often look these island fortresses of unfriendliness. Lots of times I've approached groups like that and just been brutally shot down. You get this look like "who the fuck is this guy?". It's tough and nowhere near as easy as it sounds reading it on the screen. [Link]
Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02	Posted - Dec 16 2011 : 10:34PM a former member wrote: It's really hard and even questionable "strategically" to approach a group. It's easier to let them approach you. In my experience it works best when one's "minding his own business" engaging in cool things, and then people get interested in you and approach you themselves. (Or not!) Quote Porn Scout: In pickup, the classic scenario in which one would use preselection would be to go to the club and talk to girls you aren't interested in and get them laughing and touching you before approaching the girl that you ARE interested in. {...} Some would say this is unethical. I don't know about that. This is a cheap trick that some guys try. It's one of the (few) things that works as an absolute dealbreaker for me. If a guy's more into trying to make me insecure or jealous instead of having fun with me, I'm outta there. It's a total waste of time. It's also illustrating passive-aggressive hostility. Click to expand Regarding your first comment: approaching a "group" is never the right way to go. What you do is you try to approach a member of that group first and get introduced. It can still be very difficult. Also, minding your own business in the club isn't the way to go either. People notice you if you aren't with a group, especially if you're tall like me. As well, you are writing from the female perspective where the rules are different. Generally, women are not expected to approach. Regarding your second comment: It isn't a trick. If you have the confidence and skills to work a room and build rapport with multiple girls, then 1) why wouldn't you do that? and 2) what's wrong with a girl being attracted to a guy with those qualities? I don't see anything passive-aggressive about this at all. Is it difficult to pull off in real life? Yes, absolutely. But passive-aggressive? No, I don't think so. There are other reasons to do these things as well. Most guys, for instance, live on the logical-analytical sides of their brains. Also, many guys are introverts. For guys like this, it's super important to start talking to people as soon as they enter the venue. It helps you build momentum and get outside your own head. [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - Dec 16 2011 : 11:38PM The studies I was talking about are done "blind" with pads that men have worn on their bodies or t-shirts they've worn that the study women sniff without ever seeing the men they came from. [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Dec 17 2011 : 1:35PM Porn Scout wrote: Most guys, for instance, live on the logical-analytical sides of their brains. Click to expand If I were judging from the last eight years of posts on this message board, I'd have to disagree. (Unless they do live on that side but it just doesn't work, which I suppose is a possibility.) [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Dec 17 2011 : 1:45PM Most men are about as logical as a ferret on speed. [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - Dec 17 2011 : 4:21PM BlackSix wrote: Most men are about as logical as a ferret on speed. Click to expand +1 [Link]
Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02	Posted - Dec 17 2011 : 10:23PM Bob wrote: Porn Scout wrote: Most guys, for instance, live on the logical-analytical sides of their brains. Click to expand If I were judging from the last eight years of posts on this message board, I'd have to disagree. (Unless they do live on that side but it just doesn't work, which I suppose is a possibility.) Click to expand Hah! Maybe not the best group to test the theory on. [Link]

Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Feb 7 2012 : 12:20PM Logic isn't worth much unless it proceed from a valid premise. [Link]
BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09	Posted - Feb 7 2012 : 9:30PM Yes grasshopper. [Link]
charn fubar 2880 Posts 12/09	Posted - Feb 29 2012 : 7:19AM I'm in the upper percentile of unfuckable, by personality and health. Part of that is I don't have a phone. It's not worth the expense for something I would so rarely use. I have heard of internet options to replace phones, but I would still have to buy hardware. I also fart a lot. [Link]
the traveler Deactivated User 309 Posts 8/11	Posted - Mar 5 2012 : 9:44AM I can get laid and have been getting laid on good occasion, but I've recently gotten bored of chasing after girls. I wish they'd come to me instead. I really don't care if a girl turns me down because I think it's her loss. I've got a big dick, am in good shape and I can fuck for hours, so I really don't feel bad when I see a girl with a scrawny dude that prob has a pencil dick. I just laugh inside because I know how much better I could fuck them. [Link]
sexyworkout New Member 1 Posts 3/12	Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 3:40AM I went 8 years, had a bad break up with an ex-girl fell in love, and still haven't gotten over it. 8 years plus did some searching and met some big crazy chick on the web, did freaky things, and that was 2 years ago. Lot's of opportunities, before that and since, but the thing is, I don't think I could ever settle for one woman ever again. That is a problem, because I simply can't get aroused unless I'm in love or watching really good film and they are all so beautiful. If I stopped masturbating I might go have some. If I wasn't so afraid of them now that is. Women, they generally seem to like me a lot. Whenever I'm near one I think about how beautiful they are, and that's simply as far as I go. It's something in my eyes, I know it. But, if one is wearing a low cut top displaying themselves, or something revealing, I look and steal glances, I don't try to hide it, ...too much. I'm recording that for later. Then I hop on the net, months down the road I find a film with an actress who holds that same likeness as that radiant one I've been close enough to touch. They become the same person and it's simply heaven, cuz now I can have her every-time I want her. It's a lot like having a harem, without any of the problems. Some times I even find the radiant ones that seem to step straight out of the films, and they always have that look in their eyes like they know me too. [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Apr 9 2012 : 1:02AM Interesting read this thread has been. [Link]
His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10	Posted - Apr 9 2012 : 10:04AM Listen to Tom Leykis! He's back on the air via the Internet and he will teach you to get more ass than a toilet seat. He has classes called Leykis 101 where guys call in for advice and he lays down the rules to getting a lot of poon! [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Apr 10 2012 : 1:23AM But if you have to call into a talk show for advice on getting laid, you simply don't got it. Look guys, it isn't hard at all, don't "Pretend to be what a girl is looking for", that is fake from the get go. Let them know what you want or don't want from the get go, and don't be afraid of being "nerdy." You don't have to have things in common either, you just have to accept women for who they are, not who you think they want you to be, allow them to accept you also. Be honest and open. Don't be so hellbent possessive of women either, let them be themselves and they will allow you to be yourself too. You guy's who can't get laid to save your life would be amazed at what a little honesty in what you are looking for will do for ya!!! [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Apr 10 2012 : 11:18PM ^ Some people call that maturity. [Link]
BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09	Posted - Apr 11 2012 : 5:22AM I need to get laid, hardcore. [Link]

dnice Member 798 Posts 12/09	Posted - Apr 11 2012 : 8:15AM its called marriage [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - May 24 2012 : 11:37AM Its because we have not had a major war since vietnam. The WW2 and vietnam vets comming home did not have these same problems (maybe other issues if you were unlucky enough to witness carnage) but outside of that there were more women than men. Its also why we are having these extreme unemployment issues. There are simply too many people and when the male female ration is ~ 50/50 women have an extreme advantage and it builds aggression in men and if we dont have a formal war we will VERY slowly decend into a violent society. If you look now the USA has the most draconian, well armed, well trained and well staffed enforcement agencys in the world, even surpassing that of russia. When people get desperate, for women or jobs/money they will do desperate things. This is why prostitution and porn are alive and well and the longer we go without a real war the more things you will see like child porn, sex slavery, prostitution. I have talked to chineese people and they have said its even worse in china to the point that alot of men are leaving to africa or places like the philipines or south america, where the men are shooting each other over drugs and the women are very submissive. For some reason american men are too lazy to get their passport and perhaps learn another language like spanish and save up for a plane ticket and make some contacts, it should not be too hard its not like your going down there to engage in illegal activitys. [Link]
Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09	Posted - May 28 2012 : 7:57AM ^The fuck...?! Dude's too shy/can't talk to women, so he needs to fight and blow shit with a nation's backing up to solve everything? [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - May 28 2012 : 9:29AM ^ The poster is arguing that there are too many men and not enough women. I guess he doesn't know that women outnumber men in the USA. On the other hand, the Chinese have a strong social preference for male children, which means that the one-child policy is creating a huge surplus of males. So, if he sticks around he can apply his argument to China in another fifteen to twenty years. His economic argument ignores the changes to the global economy in the last fifty years so I wouldn't give it any weight. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - May 29 2012 : 1:26AM Even though the male to female ratio is roughly 50/50 I know far too many guys that struggle to find a women yet know no women who have a hard time finding a man. Maybe its just that women are better at playing the game but when the ratio slips to say 60/40 female to male it does not matter how good you are at the game your going to have to compete for a man and not the other way around. Just go on any internet dating site sometime, they heavily favor females. Major wars are the only things that can even the scales for male/female dating. it does not take a radical percentage more of males for the situation to become dire, even say 53/47 male to female can create alot of issues because women are better at the game and if they are in the minority they hold all the cards, which is why chineese men are already leaving (not 15 years from now, 15 years from now is here), I have met them and talked to them and I know guys who have bet at port in china and its messed up. Alot of men are affraid to talk to women because they are picky as hell because they can be because there are too many men. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - May 29 2012 : 1:31AM Why do you think most escorts are female, men are 90% of the time the only ones desperate enough to pay for it. Unless its just after a major war. There are always the men that get escorts for power trips because they are wealthy CEO's and they can but the majority of men paying 50$ for a BJ are because they are desperate. [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - May 29 2012 : 2:15AM ^ Sorry, but your fantasy world is boring. BORING. It is one thing to want to better oneself. It is quite another to complain and blame everybody else just so you don't have to grow up. [Link]
more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12	Posted - May 29 2012 : 4:52AM You just gotta stop caring about being rejected. Make a game out of it. Promise yourself you'll approach every unconventionally attractive women (conventionally attractive women are usually stuck up) and use a funny or unique approach that is endearing rather than creepy. You might get rejected 20 times in a row but eventually you'll learn what works and what doesn't. Of course if you weigh 400 pounds or look really creepy your better off trying to find a women from on-line dating sites where they can learn to like your personality before she can judge your looks. Hopefully she'll like your on-line or over the phone persona and she'll be at least be willing to give you some ass despite your appearance. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - May 29 2012 : 11:20AM Then why are the great majority of escorts female? [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - May 29 2012 : 12:30PM Because most men don't get women off anyway, so why would a woman pay money for sex that won't result in an orgasm? Women learn to care less about sex because men are so freaking bad at it. Random Precision says women don't like sex, and are less kinky, and less horny than men - but I don't think they are naturally. I think they become that way after a few (or many) miserable experiences trying to get off with lame lovers. Men are also controlling douchebags. After a few relationships in her teens/early 20s with self-obsessed, jealousy ridden, shit-for-brains, video game-holics - that are ALSO bad in bed - women get fucking picky beyond belief. She's sick of that crap and she's not going to put out for another one of those guys. [Link]

more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12	Posted - May 29 2012 : 7:48PM Women don't have to be good in bed. All they have to do is bend over. Men are easily pleased. Women are far more demanding and have a long list of requirements to be satsfied. In other words, women have no place to judge us when the role of a woman in the bedroom is far less demanding than a man's. And as far as guys being controlling and obsessed with video games, most guys are not like that. [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - May 29 2012 : 9:10PM This thread isn't promoting the concept that men don't want the women that are available. I certainly agree that plenty of women (especially young women) are self centered morons with more meaningful tattoos than thoughts in their colorfully dyed little heads. Likewise, plenty of women are dead fish in bed and woe to the man who lands one. This thread has been a pity party for the poor male who doesn't understand why a cadre of women aren't beating down his door and clawing off his trousers in an unbridled frenzy of lust. I've raised some kids - boys and a girl. Without exception, all of them were total assholes when they were teens. I say this with all the love in my heart a mother can possibly possess for her children. Each and every one of my darlings was a fucktard asshat for at least a portion of their teens and early twenties. For the most part they've outgrown their asshattery and have settled down into being reasonably mature humans that recognize that the world doesn't stop at the ends of their fingertips. This has translated into my daughter deciding to stop dating miserable losers and my sons to stop being miserable losers. Frankly, it's amazing, and no, it isn't a double standard. I'm not sure how any of the girls that attempted to date my boys survived their stints with a shred of dignity (and the one that stuck with it - she's a freaking saint or something). I can't fathom why it took my daughter three rounds with incredibly obvious duds to wake up and acquire some self respect - of course, I don't think any guy with an ounce of sense would have put up with her drama and bullshit, either. So basically, what I'm saying here is grow the fuck up, deal with your own fucking issues, get your self esteem together, and then go out and find a partner because there are plenty of them out there wondering why they can't find a decent mate. (This is for both genders and all orientations.) [Link]
starbug2 Member 32 Posts 5/12	Posted - May 30 2012 : 12:34AM I see that I'm not going to be the first 24 year old virgin to post on this board. Technically, I'm still 23, I turn 24 on May 31st. I'm honestly not really fretting over my virginity right now, I'm waiting to get an MRI to find out why I'm so tired all the time. Sure, I freaked a little when I heard my doctor mention those three letters, but he said that I'm definitely not in danger of dying suddenly, they just want to see how my brain works to figure out if a particular medicine would actually be effective. I have a very small chance of having a tumor, but they said that it wouldn't be fatal even if I kept the tumor for 40 years, the type I could possibly have can actually be removed completely risk free by taking some pills. They used to have to do surgery for it, but now it's just the pills. So if they fix whatever is affecting me, tumor or not, I may get a huge increase of energy. So I'll probably be looking for things to use the energy on, if you get what I mean. Here's hoping I get more energy. Edit: Wow, didn't see the post above me until now. I know that I've probably got no business entering the current conversation, let alone talking to a former pornstar, which I've never done with any pornstar (past or present), but I just have to risk getting torn apart verbally. I don't mean this in a negative way (example, angry or irritated, etc.), but I suggest taking a breath and calming down. I haven't read the entire thread, but I know a bit about feeling lousy and having low self esteem, and yelling at them isn't going to help them feel any better. I mean, anyone yelling at you and insulting you feels bad enough, but being yelled at by a star that you may have idolized/adored is going to be 100 times worse. It's like that Star Wars fan who met Alec Guinness, told him he was their hero and they've watched Star Wars tons of times, only for Alec to request that the fan never watch it again. That guy must have been devastated. We're not all evil you know. When I was in high school, I used to go to an elementary school for autistic children and be a teacher aid and helped them learn things. This one kid, who will be named "Jeff" for protective purposes, was finger painting with orange paint, I took him to the sink so he could wash the paint off his hands. He tried to wash all of the paint off, but it wouldn't wash out of his cuticles, he started crying silently thinking it was permanent, tears went down his face, I told him that it would go away eventually and that he shouldn't worry about it, he calmed down and felt better and went on with his schoolwork. That was in 2004, eight years ago, it stuck in my mind because it had affected me so much. I can't tell you much of anything that had happened to me back then, but that one memory is etched in my mind because I knew I had done something good that day. Insulting an entire gender because you may have had a good number of bad experiences with them isn't right, I'll admit, I'm no saint these days, but I stopped a child from crying, that means more to me than any bad things I might have done. There may not be a whole lot of decent men out there, but that doesn't mean there aren't any out there. Flame me if you want, I don't care, I've had my say. All I need to know is I spoke only the truth when I replied to your comment. That's all anyone can do these days, it's up to the people who were spoken to whether to listen or not. Woo, woo, woo! You know it! #aZackRyderfan Edited by - starbug2 on 5/30/2012 1:24:57 AM Edited by - starbug2 on 5/30/2012 1:26:38 AM [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 30 2012 : 12:50AM I heart Kimi. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - May 30 2012 : 12:50AM Women in thrid world countries know what hardship is. Get your passport in order and find a good woman in a 3rd world country, they know that you have to have means in order to even travel to where they are. [Link]
abdar nitangae Member 108 Posts 5/12	Posted - May 30 2012 : 8:19AM Escorts and massage parlors can help you get through dry spells. Good luck! [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - May 30 2012 : 11:11AM starbug2 wrote: There may not be a whole lot of decent men out there, but that doesn't mean there aren't any out there. Flame me if you want, I don't care, I've had my say. All I need to know is I spoke only the truth when I replied to your comment. That's all anyone can do these days, it's up to the people who were spoken to whether to listen or not. Click to expand And did I say there wasn't? No, actually I said exactly the opposite. I said there were plenty of people out there (men and women - that's what "both genders and all orientations" means). It's very interesting that you interpret my post as anger - or yelling/screaming at someone. I don't see it that way. Did you read the whole thread? I began my comments in this thread with an encouraging message indicating that in order to have confidence in yourself (and thus present yourself well to others) it is best to find some success in your life, even if that means redefining success. Some people look down on themselves for no reason because they have unrealistic views of success as a standard to live up to. I later commented on the biology of attraction, but that didn't really have anything to do with the given topic. It was neutral chit-chat. Then I agreed with another poster (a male one) that men are not incredibly logical. I suppose that could be considered negative, but only if you have an investment in being a logical male. Eventually, rrpearso asked a question in conjunction with a previous post of his that was simply frustrating to me. "Why are the great majority of escorts female?" The simplest answer to that question is that men aren't selling anything that women are interested in buying. Which is essentially what I answered. I went on after that to state why I think it is that men don't have what women would buy, and also why women lose interest in "shopping" for that particular product. Then more_cowbell and wahine posted and their posts reflected that they think women are demanding and just as immature as men. At that point I replied, since this thread topic is about a guy who doesn't get laid and who seemed to think that all women can get laid, that this thread isn't about men not wanting the women that are out there (the immature demanding women). I went on to give equal treatment to both males and females on their difficulties growing up and becoming the people they want to be, and the people that other people want to be with. Perhaps, this is too frank for you, and my language was too crude. You're probably not a proponent of tough love, either. Oh well. Deal with it. [Link]
SunShowers Member 333 Posts 4/08	Posted - May 30 2012 : 12:04PM Kimi... like a boss! [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jun 1 2012 : 3:15AM The commodity that women are looking for is security, the commodity men are looking for is sex. A escort trades sex for a measure of security. A prude woman is just as useless as a dead beat video game playing guy. A guy is thinking will she rim, suck, swallow and fuck when ever and she is thinking is he motivated and ambitious and will he be able to provide. Maybe women cant get guys to commit because they just dont have what it takes in bed and guys cant get laid because they are not motivated and ambitious with goals and dreams that a woman can find security in. So for guys be ambitious and motivated and be a "get up and dust yourself off" kinda guy when adversity comes. For women, be enthusiastic about rimming, sucking and swallowing a guy, he will forget other women exist. The video games are killer, they just drain time. I like to play zelda once in a while, I think it took me a year to beat the last one and I just got the new one for christmas and still have not beat it lol. [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jun 1 2012 : 3:53AM Tug3005 wrote: You're setting the bar too high in the wrong areas, there is somebody out there for everybody. That's one of the fucked up things about porn, these girls are the cream of the crop and one in a thousand in good looks, but seem attainable because we are in a way intimate with them. Well fuck, we weren't all the high-school star quarterbacks and we aren't going to all land the head cheerleaders, so we have to accept that as fact and go out there and find some what we think is average pussy. Worst I've ever had was wonderful, it just seemed average beforehand. Click to expand very true, porn does tend to put unreal expectations in your head. It is unlikely that we'll all get 10's, so to the OP "May the 4's be with you!" and if that doesn't work, then just be one with the realization that you are an evolutionary dead-end and focus on work, school, etc. In those nature documentaries afterall, there have to be some pronghorn sheep that don't impress the females and pass on the genes you know. Edited by - algaliarept on 6/1/2012 4:06:01 AM [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jun 1 2012 : 4:01AM BYOB_Kenobi wrote: I need to get laid, hardcore. Click to expand me too [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Jun 2 2012 : 1:20AM rppearso wrote: The commodity that women are looking for is security, the commodity men are looking for is sex. Click to expand I totally disagree with your statement, no offense. Most women I know just want to be themselves. As far as men go, well, good luck on that for real. Men seem to try to be what a woman wants rather than just be themself. Many women have security, good jobs and a life, they want a guy who appreciates them for who they are rather than a piece of meat or a meal ticket. I am totally flabbergasted at how many deadbeat guys that are out there. Even if a guy doesn't have a great job he should be at least able to support himself, how hard is that to ask? I see the commodity that women are looking for is to be themself. the commodity that men are looking for? heh, yes they want sex, but hello? There is more to life than sex. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jun 2 2012 : 12:57PM I guess I underestimated the number of guys that are dead beats. I always assumed there was some out there but it seems its becomming more and more. Are there guys that dont want a woman to be herself? As long as "herself" still includes giving and recieving kinky rim jobs sucking and swallowing in the bed room :) Other than that what is a relationship if you cant be yourself. Again assuming "yourself" is not engaging in hard core illegal activity or abusive behavior. A relationship is about more than sex but if the sex is not satisfying then all the other stuff in the relationship is irrelavent ..... at least for some guys. [Link]
rppearso Member 49 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jun 2 2012 : 1:18PM I have come to the conclusion based on my own distant past experiences (am happily married for a long time) that its not just 10's that are impossible to find, I have defined it as 7-10's. The sweet spot for most guys is 5-6's they will rock your world and they are not like trying to catch a ghost. I have a friend that is insisting on landing a 7-9 (at least he realizes that 10's are ghosts lol) and when I told him to go for a 5-6 he laughed and said do I have her around the house with a bag over her head all day, so he is still single and frustrated and I believe will be for years to come. So if it takes him till he is mid 30's to find this women is that really success, that would mean he lost YEARs to nut in a womans mouth and have her swallow it down, instead he was getting off into a paper towel. Maybe he gets lucky and beds a few 8's here and there .... im getting a rim/BJ constantly, thats a steep price to pay for a 7-10. Its easier to find a good job in this economy than a 7-10 woman, and even if you find her, landing her is nearly impossible because she knows she has tons of options so you are going to be doing a significant amount of game playing with her. I guess some guys like that, but when my nut is going in a paper towel instead of a womans mouth more often than not its not a fun game anymore lol. Either that or you have to have the means to travel to places like south america to find women where they are all over american men, but you have to have means to do that and the will. [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jun 2 2012 : 1:31PM Whatever; take it away Joe. [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - Jun 2 2012 : 2:51PM I just told my guy about that post ^^ - he's still chuckling with an occasional guffaw. He did completely without for almost 9 years before we got back together after trying a few women who were (his own words) "fat fucks with pretty much nothing going for them other than that they'd do me" after we broke up way back when. He would disagree that settling for less than you really want is ever worth it. I tried everything I could find to replace him (and yes, I do mean everything) and none of it was worth it. [Link]