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Posted - Jul 3 2005 : 6:41PM
Thanks a lot, Diamond Dog! I didn't know about that site. Just checked it out and saw there are much more girls to find than I could fuck in a year, LOL. I'll go back again when I can take my time, and then I'll decide whether I should sign up or not. I'm still a little disappointed because of that non-existant sweetie but I bookmarked Captain69 now for when I forgot about it.Thank you, too, ShiWarrior. Of course I won't mind if you'll have a look. I'm just not sure now whether I'll really overcome my fears and I wouldn't want you to be disappointed. I'm sorry for being so complicated but it's not that easy for me after all these years. And I really need to find a girl who takes her time and cares about safety so I can eat her pussy and make her cum before I give up my ADT status to her.
Cuntry loads, shake my bone, screw my face, ride my dong, Breast Virginia
Thank you, too, ShiWarrior. Of course I won't mind if you'll have a look. I'm just not sure now whether I'll really overcome my fears and I wouldn't want you to be disappointed. I'm sorry for being so complicated but it's not that easy for me after all these years. And I really need to find a girl who takes her time and cares about safety so I can eat her pussy and make her cum before I give up my ADT status to her.
Cuntry loads, shake my bone, screw my face, ride my dong, Breast Virginia
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Sure i'll help you look, email me where abouts you are located, and i'll look into it honestlly I don't mind mate, i like helping out where i can!
Regards & Thanks, ShiWarrior - - BIG Breast Fan - -
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Posted - Jul 4 2005 : 2:41PM
Oh sorry, I forgot about that. I'm located near Berne, the capital of Switzerland. Thank you, that's really nice.
I made her pussy squirt. She called PETA.
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Posted - Jul 25 2005 : 12:27PM
Dear VincentVanGauge, the most important thing is that you like yourself! In a sexual context this means you have to accept your body with all the flaws you think you have and learn to have a POSITIVE self image. Knowing who you really are and loving that person will also put you in a position where you can give out love to others. However do not allow others to define your worth or sexiness! I do not think that visiting a prostitute will ultimatly help you succeed in finding what you're looking for.I once watched a movie about a male teenager who had cancer and wished so much to sleep with a woman at least once in his life, in the movie he fell in love with a prostitute his friends booked for him (without telling him), somehow your story reminded me of this movie. I know it's just a damn movie, but still, don't you have friends around, you trust enough to tell them about your desire? Don't be such a pessimist, Vincent. Have a little faith the woman you fancy is up to her job. You shouldn't feel ashamed about sexworkers either. I can tell you some of the most renowned stars in the world have nothing else in their heads but telling their tour manager they need fly girls, and the rcompanies even give you seperate credit cards for such services. So why the heck should a young Swiss looking for some sexual pleasure feel ashamed? However I do believe deep in your heart you are looking for something different, maybe you will realize this when you had your first time. Like one other poster said, if you feel uncomfortable about a prostitute at your house and you can travel, just go to another town, maybe you take a train and go to Praha? Maybe together with a good friend? I can tell you exactly where you could go and where the girls take care of you, with no need to talk for you. They will read all your wishes from your eyes. All you need is 200 euro and your travel expenses to get there (there are youth hostels for as cheap as 10 euro a night if you don't have much money, no no Dr.Evil I said youth hostels).
1974, 42nd street NYC. place called 'Smiles', wreaked of witch hazel. 'girl' was an overweight asian, she climbed on top and started sucking. don't remember much as those were Jack Daniels and quaalude times. Do remember she spun and placed her pussy in my face but there wasn't enough Jack in Lynchberg to get me there!
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Posted - Jul 27 2005 : 7:45PM
Dear Chocolate Cougar, thank you for your nice words. I know I should love myself and my body, and I do somehow, but it's not quite enough. When I look at others who spend so much time just for looking "good" I'm afraid that's what you got to do if you want to find someone. As for myself I prefer women, not a wall of make-up and lipstick with a bit of girl sticking to it, but I guess that's just me. You're right, I shouldn't let others define myself, it's just not so easy if others independently define me all the same. But I'll try to ignore people who can't accept how I am (and I'm quite good at it already).Oh well, I have a few friends, and one of them I could tell quite a lot, but he's a virgin, too, and he doesn't exactly like the thought of visiting a prostitute. Don't think he can help me there. I told a few female friends about it, too, and they were honest enough to tell me they'd hate me afterwards. Well, I never treated women disrespectfully, but I'm not willing to make the sacrifice of never having sex just to be able to be PC to women each and every time. If they don't want to have sex with me they better accept that I think about getting it elsewhere instead of comparing me to rapists. If I don't have sex with a sexworker someone else will, and the odds that he would treat her better than I would are not all that big. I'm not ashamed at all about sexworkers. I stand in awe before them, because without them I don't want to think about what the world would look like. Desperate men who have no chance to get any can become dangerous because sex is a human need. I'm glad to know there's still the chance of paying for sex, so I don't have to completely despair. So ashamed I am not, but afraid. I'd like to have such a girl for two hours at least, though I know I'll be done after two minutes. I'm afraid she'll just leave and won't be interested in receiving some orgasms herself and giving me the odd one or two more. And no, I wouldn't be happy after having sex with a prostitute. But I would be relieved to have had sex at least once. Having sex with a prostitute is not what I really want, but it's preventing what I don't want. If I only was not too afraid... Anyway, thank you for your interest and for your nice words.
I read in another thread that you've been here before. I'd like to know what your user name was back then.
I should stop calling well-meaning people provincial.
Edited by - VincentVanGauge on 7/27/2005 7:48:57 PM
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Posted - Jul 30 2005 : 12:33PM
Hey, maybe one of these girls really likes you and you just didn't notice? She maybe be jealous or alienated by your candour, it happens. On the other hand many women talk bad about men visiting prostitutes, sometimes it's competitive thinking, sometimes it's education and all times it is wrong to generalize. Though I think you are already sick and tired of any more tips, I'll add one more. :) Practise talking to women. You said there are girls around you, so talk to them, not just about your sex fantasies! try smalltalk, like what they do, hobbies, music, stuff like that. The more you will talk the more you'll overcome your inhibitions. You should practise this face to face so you don't blush and look at the ground all the time you talk to a woman you fancy. Set yourself a goal of talking to girls whenever you have a chance to. Here on this message board you have all thoses nice ideas and jokes, once you loose your shyness talking to girls actually standing in front of you, you'll be a fun person to talk to, that's for sure. Since my english skills are limited (by my lazyness) I borrow some words I couldnt say any better.
"The most important thing for you is to talk to women everywhere, about anything until they no longer intimidate you. When talking to women no longer intimidates you, something special will happen. You will find yourself having non-threatening conversations with beautiful women all the time, and better yet, those conversations will naturally turn into seduction mode even without a conscious effort on your part. And once you stop thinking about seduction, you will find yourself just doing it. You will begin to see the change in women's behavior towards you."
I think this to be very true. Okay now to something entirely different. the easy way.
No no, if you cum as quick as in two minutes, she will help you relax and then you get a new erection again However if you want to fuck TWO hours you should tell her in advance, most people are done after 30 minutes. hmmmm, what about taking two girls with you. If you are really really worried about your stamina take a viagra one hour before you get into action, it may help you last longer and re-erect your penis quicker, but I don't think this is necessary at your age and Czech girls are the best anyway :)
If you are very nervous have a drink with your girl, it may help to relax, but don't drink too much. In case your friend is not mesmerized by all the beautiful women around just leave him at the bar watching striptease, while you have fun. It's nice to have a travel companion, so don't tell him about your plan, take him by surprise. I know this sounds a little bit evil, but hey, sometimes you have to think about yourself! Take your friend to a disco or restaurant the other day and he'll forgive you
No, I've never personally signed up here before. I have no idea what this Walter guy is talking about (who has, anyway?).
Edited by - chocolate_cougar on 7/31/2005 9:53:22 AM
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Posted - Aug 1 2005 : 8:20PM
Well, these girls really liked me and told me so. They also told me from the start that this is as far as it goes. One of them was the girl of my dreams. I could tell her everything but I had to give up my hopes of getting more. I never talked to her about sex for about two years. When I told her about my problems to find a girl and about my thoughts of visiting a prostitute she said that she likes my honesty. However, later she told me in an e-mail that rapists and people who support prostitution shall burn in hell. The next few months she didn't have time to see me or even e-mail me. Then I got an e-mail that she thought about our friendship and that she decided I still have feelings for her, so it's better to break it up for her and my own good. She probably didn't like my honesty as much as she said...I lost all of them except one. I'm quite easy when I talk with her, almost as easy as I was with the girl of my dreams. That's mainly because these girls did 90% of the talking. I didn't get along with my best internet friend when she visited me because she wanted me to find out how to get through to her (and she had very serious suicidal tendencies). A week in real life destroyed a three year old internet friendship. The one I still have isn't really interested in what I like. She's glad when I participate in something she likes but not only wouldn't she return the favour, she even bitches about it if I do what I like on my own when she happens to need a companion for what she wants to do. (It's not as complicated as it sounds. ) I came to the conclusion that she needs me more than I need her. Guess she thinks I can't afford to think like that because she's my only female friend. She probably forgets I'm used to being alone.Thank you. I hope I can manage that. But what I need is a girl that talks a lot and isn't completely bored by my not so couple-friendly hobbies.That would be great, I hope you're right about that.I read in this thread that there are girls that just leave as soon as the guy cums. Not very nice, I think. I don't think I can fuck for two hours but I want to be sure not to be under pressure of time. I'd like to talk to her first and tell her what I'd like to do, then I want to give her an orgasm or two (if I have to pay I want to learn something), and then she could return the favour. Then I also read in this thread that the time for her to tidy up and prepare for the next customer is included in what I pay for, so I should really make sure I don't have to watch the watch the whole time.Stamina won't be a problem almost for sure, I just know I'll cum very soon, maybe even before she touches me. I mean, when I read (no pics!) about squirting for the first time I had a no-touch orgasm. I guess when I see a woman completely naked for the first time that could happen again. Two girls sounds great, though. I always dreamt of a girl riding me while another one sits on my face. *mmmh* My neighbour visited Praha some years ago and was fascinated (though he talked about cultural, not sexual qualities). Maybe some day he'd like to take me there and show me...Walter is one of the most intelligent and knowledgeable guys here, and that means something. Therefore it's just logical that no one knows what he's talking about. By the way I'm quite sure you would have just earned a quote if you didn't tell Walter not to quote you.
Hey, you're really nice and fun to talk to. Thank you.
If you flirt with a vagina it can squirt as far as China. I can dream.
Vincent, I just spent a long time reading this entire thread. I identify with quite a lot of what you appear to be going through. I have no problem talking to girls or anything...it's just it never goes anywhere.
I know you're writing about just having sex here, but as others have pointed out I'm sure your real "loss" is for something more profound.
I too am considering looking for an escort girl, but I know it's gonna be difficult, if only because I don't believe you can assess whether a girl is sexually attractive until you meet her face to face.
Vincent, I am concerned since you have mentioned your own funeral several times in this thread & have also mentioned "depressed" aswell, that you may be actually clinically depressed and as such may suffer from low self-esteem at times? If so, the process of meeting a girl or just a sex partner is gonna be artificially difficult until you address those issues.
Most girls if you can will let you cum twice or more than twice.
BTW, I'm new here but not new to the experience. My first sexual encounters were with an escort. I'm glad they were cause I couldn't have meet some nicer women. I currently have one lady that I really like and frequent occasionally. She is better than any other woman I've ever meet.
Also, TER is a great site to frequent and get info. I swear by them. They really have helped me out since I have been in this hobby. Some people are well informed in escorts overseas as well (UK, England, etc)
I have never really thought of seeing an escort, but after reading this thread, i think i might have got the courage to go and see one this week.
Can anyone here recommend any girls or agencies in the London area? I have read punternet and have found this girl http://www.agencybarracuda.co.uk/girls/jane_london_escorts.htm
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Posted - Aug 5 2005 : 8:14PM
Hey lazenby, I wish you the best of luck and hope you'll enjoy the experience. And congratulations for your courage. I have started this thread and still didn't get it over. But it's great if this thread full of advice by knowledgeable ADTers helps others. First ShiWarrior, now you. Seems to me UK guys have more balls than me. I have two.
Dreams don't have to be 2257-compliant. Not yet. So let's sleep.
As long as u get a proper escort, then u can cum as many times as u want, just tell her this when u first meet, otherwise you'll be saving up for one big one
you want some in London area ?
hmm, not sure as i am miles away but heres a couple :
www.adultwork.co.uk and http://www.adultsx.co.uk/
and don't worry if she is older than you, becuase she will have a lot of experience under her belt, than like an 18-20 year old. look for one that offeres "GFE"
good luck
Regards & Thanks, ShiWarrior - - BIG Breast Fan - -
Yes i too have paid for 1st time sex. Wish i didn't have to but hey, never going to get to have sex with these great looking girls otherwise Eurosluts and DAP Is Best!!!
Yeah, I did. Problem was, it just didn't do anything for me. I thought 'ok, here's a nice girl, etc' but when it actually came to the sex, I just couldn't get a proper hard-on. I don't know if it was because I was really nervous but it just didn't go anywhere. I definately felt embarrassed afterwards, though
I know this was posted a couple of years ago, ShiWarrior, but at the moment I'm in a very similar position. I'm 25 and have never had a proper girlfriend. Today, I'm going swimming and I'll see what I can find. Thing is, it's very awkward for me at the moment to have sex with anyone (just for fun) because I live at home. When I do move into my own place in the next couple of years, things will be different......
I remeber another thread of this "paid for first sex"? The answer from me is YES i paid £300 if I recal corectly for 3 hours long it was sensational EDIT// oops its been reserected lol If you have't seen over 100 Big Boobs films, where have you been?} Edited by - ShiWarrior on 7/3/2007 5:36:55 PM
Hey mate Don't worry to muchm, im 29 and still live with my parents lol Go and see a girl who offers an "incall" service where you go and see them at their place :) {If you have't seen over 100 Big Boobs films, where have you been?}
I never had to worry about paying for a chick. I don't think any guy has to as long as he's not shy. I've seen some ugly dudes with great looking women before just because of their personality. I personally wouldn't pay a girl to fuck me, but to each is own I guess.
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Posted - Jul 8 2007 : 1:41AM
@Vincent wow man... diz iz a daaamn good topic! i mean in a good way.. its a difficult desicion... (im a victim) im in the same situation... but i have 17 yo i think i'll get desperate if i dont fuck til' 18 anyway.. do u still a virgin? just to know if you are: the best of the lucks if you arent: great job Edited by - CLiCKA on 7/8/2007 1:41:42 AM
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Posted - Jul 10 2007 : 7:38PM
What should I say? Being 25 and never had a girlfiend. I am unkissed. Totally. I am not religious, not fat, not ugly not anything girls could dislike in total. And still I am as virgin as Mary would love to be... And even though I will NEVER ever pay for my first time. If it won't work out out with with a regukar girl, it will never work out. I won't force it, as it won't be the same as normal sex would be. Perhaps my mom is right, and I should be become a catholic priest. Celibacy isn't hard for me ^_'
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Posted - Jul 11 2007 : 10:03AM
Well this is a topic very near and dear to my heart. I don't even know where to begin let me give it a try. I'm 32 soon to be 33 and have never really truly had sex. I'm actaually a pretty good looking guy, always been part of popular crowds and very social person. If fact so social and popular that most people describe as "the life of the party". The problem is this: When I was younger, I never really like pussy. I liked kissing. The only thing that really got me going was being a slave in a bdsm type relationship where I would be forced to give analingus.(how fucked up is that???)I guess the only other thing that tunred me on without the bdsm aspect is giving a female anal sex. Other than that..I just simply wouldn't get hard. I had many cute women who wanted to date me but I couldn't say "sure, but our relationship will only consist of you dominating me forcing me to lick your ass or we can have anal sex. I'm pretty sure she would have ran away not to mention tell other people wich would have srpead like wild fire giving me a pretty fucked up reputation. By the time I was twenty five, I still had this problem and periodically I would get drunk at party or a bar and be kind of horny to the point where I would make out with a women. (cause I love kissing) Then, if she tried to get some sex going, I would pon if off like I was too drunk. Non of my friends new this. Because I'm popular, kind of cute and very socialable, all my friends assumed that I had sex with these women that stayed over at my house. Hell, I even managed to date a few women for a few months and people assumed we were having sex. As for the women that I might be dating at the time "I used say..I need to date a women for like 4 months before I can have sex them because I like to get to know you". That would give me time to some how end the relationship before they would had a chance to get to know my deep dark secret. (What I'm trying to say is I've caefully managed to keep this a seacret my whole life). Then something stranged happened a few years ago. I started to become very attracted to black booty and black women in general. I started watching black porn. After watching certain porn peformers (mainly beauty dior)I was turned on by watching coventional sex. I still have some problems in the bedroom though. For example...they have to have a big round booty or else I won't get an erection. I also no longer fanatize about the bdsm type stuff. Anway..I went to strip club a little while ago and saw this totally hot black stripper and got some lap dances. As the dances were going on...I was thinking "oh my God! if this women were to allow me to fuck her it would work" Now my problem is: I'm trying to find a women like this to date but A)I don't to want feel like and idiot because I won't know what I'm doing b)even though I think It will work, I still have some problems. Like straight missionary style just wont' cut it. I only seemed to get turn on by doggy style and stuff. I have been thinkng about going to a professial escort to see if she can help me with this problem. This way if I meet my dream black booty vixen, I don't have to worry about perfomerance issues as well as the embarresment of having to tell her about my lack of experience. I have found and escort in my city that is quite pricey but I'm willing to pay for it. The only problem is even though she's high end and classy...I'm still very scared that I might catch something because she is a sex worker and I feel that because this in my head...I may once again suffer from erectile dysfunction. How's that for fucked up? Any input would be greatly appriecated. Sickguy.
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Posted - Jul 11 2007 : 1:43PM
Sickguy's story is really sick. I don't get it... This gives me the impression that I am more sane, than I thought I was. Lucky me Edited by - MrMire on 7/11/2007 1:44:59 PM
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Posted - Jul 11 2007 : 5:02PM
Well, as you probably already found out (thank you, Steph, I really like my new member status), I'm not a virgin anymore. And yes, I had to pay to get first sex... but for the airplane, not the vagina. Panties - maybe not the best thing in the world, but next to it.
sickguy, You've got your quirks and your kinks, but so what? They're yours. That's just the way you're wired. I saw several times that you used the term "fucked up" to describe your interests, but I didn't read anything that struck me as particularly fucked up. Your interests are quite specific, but you live in the best time in history to find a sex partner who shares your preferences, thanks to the internet, and also, I agree with lindi that seeing an escort makes sense.
I guess I am late in the topic but to stay on the subject, yeah I paid a escort for my first sex experience and it was the most exciting experience I had thought. Since then I went to two others escorts.... better experience but there still something missing and it was affection... Girlfriend Experience wasn't enough for me I guess. Probably why I didn't enjoyed my first sex that much. Well now I try to not see an escort or pay for sex. I fear that it will be like a addiction and never have a real relationship with a girl...
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Posted - Jul 11 2007 : 9:14PM
Ivory: I feel like such a weenie, I had no idea. Well, then. Vincent: I hope everything went swimmingly. Did this relationship precipitate via ADT? Edited by - conquistador on 7/11/2007 9:15:42 PM
it is an addiction I know becuase.... 1) I got hooked on it since I paid for first sex 2 years ago now and 2) I have a GF, and I still see Escorts, becuase well, we got no sex life at the moment becuase she doesent want it yet, fair enough {If you have't seen over 100 Big Boobs films, where have you been?}
+1 (or 2 or 3) {If you have't seen over 100 Big Boobs films, where have you been?}
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Posted - Jul 12 2007 : 8:17AM
Ivory, I should also mention that I'm to into the bdsm type stuff anymore (or at least not nearly as much..majority of the time just fanatize about black booty) which should make things easier but I've still had a hell of time finding what I'm looking for. I've been on phone dating sites and internet dating. I think the problem most of the women that I would like don't use these kind dating sites. After everyone suggesting I see an escort I've decided to do it. I've contacted her and we're just ironing out the details. I'm praying to God this works. It's to hear that you don't think my situation is "fucke up" but not as many people are as open minded as you. But I must say...It was still really nice to hear. Thanks Edited by - sickguy on 7/12/2007 8:20:52 AM
Good Luck sickguy, I hope it works ok for you Let us know how you get on If you have't seen over 100 Big Boobs films, where have you been?} Edited by - shiwarrior on 7/12/2007 4:03:57 PM
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Posted - Jul 12 2007 : 5:18PM
Thanks for the support.
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Posted - Jul 13 2007 : 6:06PM
Well sorry to say people, but the big plan didn't work out. We have agreed to meet a few more times to see if we can fix me up. I think nerves and stuff might have had something to do with the problem. I'm not giving up though. I'm bringing a porn with Beauty Dior and we have agreed to watch it together before we get on with buisness. (this way she can exactly what I like) If this doesn't work I'm giving up. Edited by - sickguy on 7/13/2007 6:07:09 PM Edited by - sickguy on 7/13/2007 6:08:01 PM
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Posted - Jul 13 2007 : 6:17PM
Don't give up. No guts-no glory, err pussy in this case.
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Posted - Jul 14 2007 : 1:02PM
Thank you so much everyone who congratulated me, and also everyone who supported me on my way to become a Former Fucking Virgin. I wouldn't have made it without your positive reactions to my situation... because otherwise I might have left the forum before my baby registered. But most of all thank you so much, Cursive baby, for being the wonderful girl you are! Ivory, too bad you were so busy at the time we were in L.A. I would have loved to meet you. But then there's always next year, as I hope I'll get a chance to spend next year's vacations in California, too. Sickguy, don't give up... there's always hope, especially when there isn't. Sounds stupid? Maybe. But when you feel like everything sucks, that just means that your life has more potential for improvement than others'... and whenever there's potential, there's always hope. Oh, and I have enough love for pussy to share with others, so please help yourself. Panties - maybe not the best thing in the world, but next to it. Edited by - vincentvangauge on 7/14/2007 1:04:30 PM
well done VVG. I remember reading your original poist a couple of years ago. I used to be under a different name on here. I wish i didn't have to pay for my first time but at least with Escorts you can try things that a "girlfriend" may not want to do. i.e BJ,CIM Anal etc Eurosluts and DAP Is Best!!!
