anyones gf watch porn with them?

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billyboy883 Member 17 Posts 9/07	Posted - Jul 7 2011 : 10:48AM Wouldnt mind asking my gf to watch some but I dont think it would happen. Really want her to see how some women swallow copious amounts of cum. Its a real turn on and havnt had my load swallowed in a while now. Any ideas? Without it being weird? [Link]
iowagonzo Member 272 Posts 9/07	Posted - Jul 7 2011 : 11:37AM The wife and I watch porn. We watch it frequently, we find that it leads to intense sex. She watched it before we met but not the extreme porn we watcch now like Jake Malone's Fuck Slaves series and Fetish Fuckdolls and Bitchcraft series. We like BDSM in our personal lives so rough,consensual porn is our flavor of choice. Prior to meeting she said she was into BDSM with other partners but just watched "couples porn" and very little gonzo or rough porn. I just slowly introduced rough porn and gonzo style to her and she was slightly shocked but quickly began to enjoy it. Slow and easy should worrk for ya! [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 7 2011 : 11:40AM Most women I've been with have been excited by the prospect of getting their man hot and bothered, so I think that maybe you should be telling her this instead of us. You can do your part by avoiding foods that make your semen taste bitter. Search for a thread about that in this forum if you're interested. [Link]
Macko69 Senior Member Gone for a walk. 1985 Posts 5/08	Posted - Jul 7 2011 : 6:00PM Since your girlfriend may not be used to watching much porn, I'd suggest that you ease her into it. X-Art has a nice series of "women-friendly" porn. The people are good-looking and the scenes are well lit. The sex could probably be described as "plain vanilla", which is fine for your purposes. You certainly don't want to show something that might turn her off, such as excessive slapping, spitting, aggressive ass-fucking, ass-to-mouth or gagging. Not to say that women can't be turned on by this kind of stuff, but generally speaking, this kind of behavior doesn't play too well with most women - especially ones who haven't seen a lot of porno. And even though it sounds like you want your girlfriend to swallow your cum, don't show her some of the videos I've seen where a guy cums in a girl's mouth, then she shows it to the camera, gargles it then swallows. If your girlfriend has an aversion to swallowing cum, this will only gross her out. Good luck. [Link]
cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 1:17AM Some girls are totally against it but I think it could be worth bringing it up with her. Like the posters above said you want to be respectful of your girl if she wants to watch some with her. I wouldn't go for the nasty stuff like Jay Sin, Mike Adriano with gapes and creampies, bukkakes and stuff like that. The stuff you watch alone (you know you do). You want to get something that's 'erotic' what ever that means ;) One of my friend's girlfriends prefers girl on girl stuff because, and I quote, "Guys in porn are ugly" Bottom line is if you're going to watch porn with your girlfriend her needs are more important than yours [Link]

seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 1:33AM ^Agree with Macko. Or as Monty Python would say "You can't just go charging straight off to the clitoris" I can watch anything with my wife now without a second thought... but it didn't start that way. One way to ease her in is to "accidentally" leave a few of the softer (no bukkake or gokkun :) movies somewhere slightly conspicuous. That's how my wife originally brought it up-course it wasn't an accident, she actually rifled through my stuff, then I came home and caught her watching a big stack of gang bang movies lol. Anyway, communication is key in sex and that's what this really boils down to-opening up to each other-you'd be surprised how much stuff women hide too-until you let them in on your stuff. [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 2:08AM Well.. Joey must be eating lunch, I'll fill in. So... is it a poll? [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 3:57PM Well, I don't have a girlfriend so I can't answer the OP, but a general overarching nerdy interest in trash culture, especially film, is pretty much a prerequisite when it comes to life partners for me. Lucky I found one that fits the bill. As for the whole "easing her in" thing -- try to think of it as a mutual journey, not a strategy to gradually erode her uptight morals and get her into what you want her to be into. This presumes that all porn is the same, which isn't true. She may really dig stuff that you find repellant, and vice versa. Talk to her, as others have suggested, and then perhaps look at a website together and pick, say, three dvds each of your own personal choice. Be open-minded. That way it's like an exploration in which you're partners. If she doesn't like something, talk about it, and likewise if you don't like something. [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 6:03PM seedfeeder wrote: ... she actually rifled through my stuff, then I came home and caught her watching a big stack of gang bang movies lol. Anyway, communication is key in sex and that's what this really boils down to-opening up to each other-you'd be surprised how much stuff women hide too-until you let them in on your stuff. Click to expand Actually you might be surprised. Gangbang is one of the topics that a large number of women are curiously interested in watching. [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 8:48PM @GGG "strategy" lol okay, I guess I made it sound that way-but it was really a clumsy way of saying what you are saying-exploration can be fun and should be together. My point was how to open the subject, not so much how to break her into porn slowly or something. But leaving them out could allow her to bring it up if she wanted-but from there, absolutely-should be a together thing, learning what she likes and trying to find movies that she might enjoy. Like since my wife is bisexual, I've been buying 2 on 1 style movies (FFM) so if we want to watch something-it's something we both like. It's worked well. [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 8:50PM I agree Janine, women all like to be the center of attention-so I would imagine most like the idea of a gang bang on some level. What guy wouldn't like to be taken by a dozen hot women???? [Link]
fu_q All-Star Member Marv Montag (@PornOfYore) 2506 Posts 2/09	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 11:19PM My wife and I occasionally watch porn together... I have some very good memories of watching "Pirates", "Gangbang 5" (Naomi's scene), and "Operation Stormy" with her... [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Jul 9 2011 : 11:46PM I watch porn all the time with my husband. We both like the parodies. I prefer something where they at least try to be entertaining. I mean some are just hours crazy fucking, but those bore me. I loved Pirates, have both 1 and 2 as well as Batman XXX and This Aint Star Trek (cause I'm a Trek Nerd too). The reason I like them is because they usually have the big name male preformers that I like to watch and the big name girls that hubby prefers. I think the X art ones are stupid. I cant stand the romancey ones that are like Lifetime movies with porn. I HATE THOSE!! My suggestion is to take her to a sex shop, preferably a nice one and shop with her. Let her pick one out. Make a night of it. I go to the Dollar Tree and buy all the boxed candy just like the theater for $1 a box. So he gets his Milk Duds and Swedish Fish and I get my Rasinettes and Sour Patch kids. We pop corn, lock out the kids......you get the picture. [Link]
cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 6:47AM ^^^ We need more input from you :) ^^^ You know what you're talking about [Link]
iowagonzo Member 272 Posts 9/07	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 12:02PM For sure keep it tame at first...my wife and I enjoy rough sex and bdsm so we enjoy it in our porn. Keeping it tame at first will help her get comfortable...depending on how much she likes the porn you two are watching you could then ask her what she would like to see. Tell her her options are endless as far as kink factor goes..she may eventually be more comfortable with stepping it up a notch over time. Watching porn with my wife has allowed to reenact what she sees on the screen sometimes with me. So who knows you may have a closet slut waiting to break the door down and fuck and suck you silly! [Link]

SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 6:15PM cross wrote: ^^^ We need more input from you :) ^^^ You know what you're talking about Click to expand That's why I came here in the first place. I wanted to rant to someone hoping they would listen about how porn can be better marketed towards women. They all pooh poohed me. But I'm telling you women do like their porn even if some of us are a little more particular than others. I have women that come into my shop and just like my male customers they usually have something in mind or start out just curious about what we do carry. The men will come in and just by a handful of titles at a time, usually of a particular genre they prefer. Creampies, cheerleaders are big sellers, some gay, we got one guy that comes in all the time and gets nothing but classics. He has her order certain actors and old classics. I love him he's great to talk to. But then the women will come in and she might pick out this long silk nightgown with lace cutouts down the back and the little slippers with the feather trim and maybe boa or some spa products, candles, whatever. She'll pick out real pretty toy and then she'll slap down Ass Masters Vol 6, Top Guns and Lesbians with Big Toys and I think..............well I just try not to think. The older women usually shop with their men. And lots of young couples do too. They are usually pretty specific about what they want. They seem to go for the romantic type stuff although the other night a couple came in and bought some toys and Someone's in The Kitchen With Vagina. Right on, whatever grandma, more power to ya. Did you say you wanted some Cockstar to go along with that so Daddy can keep it up all night? No problem, will that be cash or charge? Then I get the young single girls that come in. They've gotten into porn because of a male actor they like and will sit on the floor between the isles picking through the movies and trying to find out if Nick Manning is in it because they like his ass. Or me for instance digging through for Evan Stone because I have a thing about blondes with diastemas. What can I say? You can take the girl out of the clinic but you can't take the dental assistant out of the girl. I also like his eybrows although I think he's a bit too Fabio, he's fun to watch. I find that like me, these girls will usually pick up a couple favorite female preformers as well. I have one lady that likes Belladonna like I do and we reccomend movies to each other. Another girl came in and asked for that red head chick named Audrey(cant think of her last name but I know her when I see her). Because of that, this group usually goes for the better quality porn. They will buy every movie they can find with a certain actor. Sound familiar guys? Women aren't really so different than you in this sense. Sometimes we just go about it a different way. And when it comes to couples in the 20-30 set, I sell TONS of bi and fetish porn. [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 8:22PM What's "cockstar" SSG? EDIT: I think it would be superfun to deck Fabio. Edited by - seedfeeder on 7/10/2011 8:23:50 PM [Link]
Clay Member 216 Posts 8/00	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 10:04PM What to watch depends a lot on your girlfriend. My spouse can't stand porn movies with a plot. The bad acting and scripting is a complete turnoff. If she views it as a bad movie she won't watch. My spouse would much rather watch gonzo scenes that stick to the sex. The key is finding what turns her on and watching those types of scenes. Ask her about her fantasies or what turns her on and then go get something with that theme. That being said, she may not say that dp's turn her on but you may find out they do by watching a movie. Also be aware that there is a big difference between what some women find exciting and what they are interested in doing. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Jul 10 2011 : 11:20PM seedfeeder wrote: What's "cockstar" SSG? EDIT: I think it would be superfun to deck Fabio. Edited by - seedfeeder on 7/10/2011 8:23:50 PM Click to expand LOL! You can knock out Fabio as long as you don't knock out his teeth. Cockstar is one of the herbal Viagra's we sell at the shop. It's pretty popular although it's soon to be changed to Bluestar becuase it was recently pirated. I also wanted to add that I do hear complaints about movies with plots or what we call features. I find with my own personal tatse in them that Digital Playground, some from Wicked and the newer parodies that are out now are pretty good. I can appreciate a good cheesey porno though too. I had this one movie(forget what it was caled now) that was made back when Dale Debone first came on the scene. It was bad. I mean real bad. The acting, the story, the whole damn thing. Sex scenes were, meh..Dale is trying to look all brooding. I half expected a boom mike to drop into the picture and at the same time was wishing it would because at least then I might be able to hear the damn dialogue. By the time it was over I was horny, frustrated but laughing my ass off. Edited by - SexShopGrl on 7/11/2011 12:39:39 AM [Link]
jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04	Posted - Jul 11 2011 : 1:19PM SexShopGrl wrote: That's why I came here in the first place. I wanted to rant to someone hoping they would listen about how porn can be better marketed towards women. They all pooh poohed me. Click to expand It's easier to blame the internet for all the industry's troubles. [Link]
Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10	Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 8:40AM I'd suggest asking her on a movie night date. Tell her (remind her??) of your porn interest and suggest having a porn date/film festival/night at the movies date to watch porn together. Not a commitment to do this regularly, just a one-time date. Ease into this without a longterm commitment. Assemble a collection and take turns picking one to watch. Maybe watch a little of several DVDs, something like previews of coming attractions, then watch more of one, take an intermission and then more of another one. Maybe you'll find one you both want to watch and see where that takes you. If that goes well, suggest doing it again sometime. Maybe it will develop into a monthly porn night date together. Best of luck [Link]
Zamboni Member 33 Posts 8/11	Posted - Aug 8 2011 : 11:11PM Well I don't have a GF right now, but I've had 6 GFs in my life and 3 of them liked to watch porn. One of them we use to watch together and we would do whatever the couple was doing in the scene. But this was in the 90's so they did not do anything too crazy. And the scenes were only like 10 minutes long which was not enough time usually. [Link]
blackonidragon7 Member 318 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 13 2011 : 11:55AM My ex-girlfriend did. She watched it with me a month into the relationship. Sex was fun, but she made it clear that sex with her roommates was less fun and destroyed my porn collection. Edited by - blackonidragon7 on 8/13/2011 11:56:17 AM [Link]
seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09	Posted - Aug 15 2011 : 10:37AM ^That's some funny shit lol [Link]
Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10	Posted - Aug 15 2011 : 10:55AM Interesting discussion. Just what is this "girlfriend" thing you speak of? Strange words and customs you Sex Talk Forum people have [Link]