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SK328
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Posted - Jan 9 2013 : 6:03AM
My wife and I have talked for years about doing a FFM threesome and are looking for the best (safest, most discreet) way to live out this fantasy. I've heard the Nevada brothels are very expensive and not all the great. I've never used an escort, but we would be open to it, just not sure how to find/pick one.
Just looking for advice from anyone with experience in this area.
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Jan 9 2013 : 5:02PM
As crazy as it might sound the best way is through reputation. You need to find a provider who is experienced in not only couples but in first time couples. A provider who is worthwhile will LISTEN and ASK questions to get a fell for what to do to make you both comfortable and make the experience sexually enjoyable.
There are plenty of experienced women out there who are very good at couples. My advice is not to patronize an on-lone call agency but either a private provider of a very small local agency with established employees. I wonder though about your concern f the expense. A couples appointment is a specialty if done right and there are in the business, more expensive by nature. I don't know what you feel is too expensive but don't forget, "You get what you pay for".
SK328
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Posted - Jan 9 2013 : 7:51PM
I'm not as concerned about expense as much as having a good experience. I was thinking somewhere in the neighborhood of 1k or so, give or take. Is that unreasonable?
Not sure what is a good source to start looking. Local backpage websites maybe?
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Jan 9 2013 : 8:39PM
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Idlewild66
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Posted - Jan 9 2013 : 11:17PM
$1,000 is more than enough.
most girls who entertain for the "regular joe" charge much less than that
and oh, a good majority of the girls who do porn and also escort, entertain for the "regular joe."
don't believe anything online, with respect to final price. online is just for the # or the ability to contact.
price is always negotiable.
as for where to look? unless your looking for a specific porn girl; i'd just check around some the more upscale strip clubs in the area, back pages of the local "what is there to do tonight in this town" papers, or (believe it or not) the phone book.
Edited by - Idlewild66 on 1/9/2013 11:20:20 PM
Edited by - Idlewild66 on 1/9/2013 11:21:11 PM
 
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Jan 10 2013 : 5:47PM
^^
1G is probably a top end estimate unless you want to engage the services of a big name pornstar, then figure $2,500 min. As far as strip clubs go avoid them like the plague! First of all strippers who do these kind of services are usually supplementing their income so really are only in it for the money. They might be pretty good on stage but the two jobs are distinclyly different. Of course, most strippers don't hook in the first place and if you want to try to sniff around in a club for one who does, you will either get tossed out if lucky or arrested by an undercover if not.
Idlewild66
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Posted - Jan 11 2013 : 11:17AM
90% of the girls in porn were stripping before they entered the business.
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Jan 11 2013 : 3:18PM
^^
True but 90% of all of those who provide these services are neither strippers nor pornstars. In fact my suggestion was to specifically stay away from pornstars who now escort.
Rod
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Posted - Jan 12 2013 : 7:25AM
That may be true, but probably 90% of strippers don't go into porn. Lots more strippers in the world than porn performers.
Rod
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Posted - Jan 12 2013 : 7:40AM
Nevada brothels have to compete with all the other providers. They do offer a legal way to enjoy a sexual experience and the ladies do get tested regularly. If 'safest, most discrete' includes legal and tested and not leaving a trace, they provide an advantage here. German brothels are legal also and generally have hotter ladies and are much less expensive. You don't say where you're located. Brothels offer the advantage of a broad selection of women to choose from on any particular day.
My suggestion is think about what would make both you and your wife comfortable. Being relaxed and in the moment to be able to just focus on the experience and not worry about getting arrested in the process is worth something. You should consider taking a lady for a test drive first, either having sex with just you or just your wife. If that goes well, then schedule a date to add the third. You will at least have a better idea what to expect. Enjoy
Todd Gack
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Posted - Jan 13 2013 : 11:16AM
If you're budget-conscious and don't necessarily have to have top of the line quality, let me suggest Adult Friend Finder. Plenty of women there open to/looking for threesomes.
SK328
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Posted - Jan 16 2013 : 6:09AM
We are in the mid-west so, I figure why put the expense in to traveling to NV when we could put that money into the experience locally.
The local backpage site has a lot of options - and most seem pretty reasonable.
So here's another question for everyone. Agency or independent? Incall or outcall?
Rod
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Posted - Jan 16 2013 : 9:16AM
^ Incall is usually cheaper
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Jan 16 2013 : 9:46AM
Independent with some refrences or if you go with an agency make sure it's a real agency and not simply a booking service. A huge difference in the type of service usually. As far as incall/outcall goes. Yeah incall is usually only a bit cheaper but if it's in a hotel the provider has to charge to offset the proce of the room. My suggestion is choose based upon where you both might feel more comfortable. It might be in your home or you might want to keep this activity and your home separate.
Rod
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Posted - Jan 18 2013 : 7:43AM
^+1



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