I have some questions about the "behind the scenes" elements of anal scenes. My reason for asking is that my wife and I try anal sex occasionally, but sometimes it doesn't work so well. Its important to me that she has pleasure as well if we are going to continue doing it on occasion. I figure its best to go to the experts for help. Thanks so much for any advice you can give.

1) Cleaning: Is it necessary? Does every single porn starlet have an enema before anal scenes? Or are there some who routinely do anal without enemas? I understand that an enema might be desirable before an ass to mouth scene. Do you need it when its just simple anal?

2) Lubing: We've tried Wet platinum and it has worked pretty well. Maximus stung her. What have you found is the best lube for anal? Thick enough that it sticks but also long lasting.

3) Stretching & Entry: The part where my wife and I often have the most trouble is just getting me inside her. Are there certain stretching exercises that work well? Also, is there a specific position (or angle) of entry that works best for the initial entrance?

4) Endurance: Don't people's asses get sore or hurt after a long shoot? How do people deal with this? Do they put on de-sensitizing cream?

5) Pleasure: What positions do you find are most pleasurable once the guy is inside? Is all the masturbating while someone is in your ass just for show, or is it actualy possible for you to come to an orgasm?

6) Clean-Up: Do you find its good to have an enema after anal as well as before?

7) Reality: This question is for the women on this server and is based mainly on a strong curiosity. It makes sense that you do a lot of anal in your scenes because guys like watching it and it pays more. However, to be totally honest with me, is the "I love anal" routine mainly just part of being a good actress? Or do you really enjoy anal sex? (Did you learn to love it or like it from your first sexual experiences?). I suppose the real test for this is how often you have anal sex in "real" life, when no cameras are rolling and there is no contractual obligation. Do you ever have anal sex for your own pleasure? Or does it still pale beside more traditional alternatives when it comes to your pleasure.

Thanks so much for your truthfulness, I really appreciate it (and my wife does as well)

J

PS. Actually, I have one more question. For those of you who women do honestly like anal, do you think the main source of enjoyment is physical stimulation, or the mental elements surrounding anal sex (really opening yourself to someone, making yourself vulnerable, playing the part of a "sex goddess," being "naughty," etc., etc.)?