Did you ask her first, and then she gave you an honest answer, and then immediately showed you that it doesn't matter to her, that she wants to be with YOU?
If the answer to any of that is no, THEN I agree with evil_rip!

Oh, and the answer to the sex position question is doggy position.

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I'm sorry to hear that she has commented on how her past partners were bigger than you, she had no right to "rub your face in it". In the end, I wouldn't worry about it mate!! As the saying goes, it's what you do with it, that counts,not the size, though I'm sure some ladies will disagree!!

If you are on the smaller side of things, I remember reading in FHM, that the best position to be in is in the missionary position, but with the ladies legs over your shoulders, so that you have maximum penetration.

If this still bothers you, make sure that you are the best cunnilinguist in town!!

That will show her!!

Good luck!!

SQUID

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All positions will work for you; don't rule any out, do everything and see what you both like. Do whatever you'd do if she'd never said that - you are NOT in a remedial situation (although SQUID's last bit of advice is dead-on for absolutely anybody in any situation thanks, SQUID!).
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Edited because it probably wasn't 11". Probably. It was at least half again as long as any other guy's that I had been with.

Edited by - lindi on 2/16/2007 12:37:52 PM

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Thanks!! I try my best!!

SQUID

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Bubba,

Tricia's comments are very valid. Did you ask, or did she just say it without you asking? It makes a difference. And if you did ask, perhaps you should rethink your questions.

DenverDon

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But hearing it still made me feel uneasy about some things. I started to doubt my past relationships, wondering whether my manhood was in question.

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It's been my experience that a well-endowed guy is the exception rather than the rule, and it says nothing about how good he is as a lover. The fact that she is with you and not them says a lot more than this remark, so you must be doing something right.

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I think Sam Kinison answered this one best.

" You think I'm .. . a little small? Honey? Really? Uh huh. Ok. That's great. Just lovely.

I am so happy honey. Cuz you won't mind when I shove it right UP YOUR FUCK-IN ASS WILL YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!

-satanic screaming noises-

-sam mimicking her voice- "ewww!okay! IT'S HUGE! stop grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrwahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!>

I still laugh my ass off every time I hear that tape.

Edited by - Unicorn on 2/16/2007 6:37:33 PM

Edited by - Unicorn on 2/16/2007 6:38:55 PM

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My advice would be to pick up a copy of The Joy of Sex or a book of positions and then go through it and find out what works and what doesn't. Even if you find a lot of things aren't good, you'll have the fun of trying them out.

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