You could watch
the ultimate guide to anal sex.
Its a very good DVD.
Steph wrote a very flattering review for it.
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| Davey New Member 2 Posts 5/00 |  Posted - May 23 2000 : 9:07PMDo you like it? Yes? No? Why? My wife allowed me to have anal sex with her about a year ago, and I found it to be quite amazing. She knows I like it, and has allowed me to do it several more times. She hasn't given me a clear yes/no as to whether she actually likes it or not, whether it hurts her, etc. I'm concerned she's allowing me to do it because she knows I enjoy it, but that during the anal sex she is uncomfortable and just wants to get it over with. We of course use lubrication, but if anyone has any tips out there I'd like to hear them. [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 |  Posted - May 23 2000 : 9:21PMYou could watch the ultimate guide to anal sex. Its a very good DVD. Steph wrote a very flattering review for it. ------------------ [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - May 23 2000 : 9:59PM Yes - it's a different kind of orgasm - feels great. Your wife probably feels very vulnerable - a normal reaction to having a new hole penetrated. Even sexually experienced women can feel like virgins when they first try anal sex. So treat her like one - act like it's her first time having sex (without being patronizing.) Also you may want to reassure her while having anal sex that the coast is clear - maybe she's worried about a mess  And Evil_Rip - I'm not the only one who wrote a flattering review of it Definitely a good movie for this occassion.[This message has been edited by StephDunn (edited May 23, 2000).] [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - May 24 2000 : 8:35PM "O.K body, we're about to have sex. Pussy are you ready? No t.p lint? Your wet? Did we remember to shave that one spot? On no! Do we have stubble? Maybe he won't notice. Ready to stretch? Do we smell nice? O.K, we're ready folks, Let's get off!" lol Now imagine the thoughts womyn must have when your talking about sticking your penis in her ass! I mean what womyn says, "I love my ass, it's perfectly shaped, oh and my spinchter! wow, she's sexy." See my point? Add to all that the insecurities that come with having an asshole. (we all have that society ingrained, "your butt is dirty" conditioning) And who can relax enough to enjoy themselves? lol I am of the opinion that it takes a lot of trust for a womyn (or a man) to allow you to play w/ their butt. Now as far as personaly, yes I will allow my man to have sex in my ass. But, he is the first person I ever had, because I trust him explicitly. As far as orgasms? Hmmm, I think with time that will come. For now though, it turns me on to let him do it. That coupled with his caresses and sexy moans can almost get me off. I also get a very aroused giving anal sex. (a case of penis envy maybe?lol) It is a powerful feeling to have something shoved up your lovers ass, forbidden, bad. I dig it! [This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited May 24, 2000).] [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 6:01PM luna! [Link] |
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| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 6:46PM Seriously, I think it can be a nice enhancement to sex, but if a woman doesn't want to, that should be accepted, too. Myself, I don't plan to make it an everyday practice, mainly 'cause I don't want to be walking around in Depends when I'm forty!! [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Feb 4 2001 : 6:35PM [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Feb 5 2001 : 10:08AM Maybe his wife, tired of getting fucked in the ass but too timid to say so, finally just went off on him. Davey, if you're out there buddy, hope everything came out OK. [Link] |
| sonic Deactivated User 1178 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Feb 5 2001 : 1:08PM That was too funny. heeh heh he... [Link] |
| Lman Member So Cal 20 Posts 2/01 | Posted - Feb 5 2001 : 7:52PM Most of the ladies that have been my lovers or playmates all learned to love anal sex with me. My success I think has been due to my attitude and dick size. It isn’t enough for me to just pork a woman but that she must love it. It must be part of an erotic adventure. If a man can love anal sex why can’t a woman. Take a look at your approach. If you think she is doing it just for you she probability is. You must in your own hart believe that giving her anal sex is best for her and that you are giving her a whole new erotic experience. If you can do this then it will change your whole approach. The question then becomes how do you make love to her ass so that she gets enjoyment. Is she having an orgasm during anal sex? That is the true test to whether or not she likes it. If she is having orgasm and not telling you that she likes it then there is another problem. She may not be giving herself permission to like anal sex. You must give her permission to love it. I am hearing a lot of attitude from women about anal sex. Their bad attitude comes from dealing with men that were ass holes about it. Take a good look at your self before getting into technique. Another problem I see is your woman. As a lover my first duty it to get my woman talking during sex about sex. I need feedback, what where when and how long do you want it. If you haven’t done this and you are just now trying to get her to talk during anal sex or afterwards, then you have very bad timing. I would back away from anal sex and get your sex life straightened out before your try it. With anal sex you need to know if they are relaxed, if they are hot at all stages of it and if any discomfort comes up and how to treat it. DumbeBlonde says it hurts and feels good at the same time. Something is wrong there. It should just feel good. One of the things a guy must consider is dick diameter. If you are between 1.5 and 2 inches then it will be a little painful for her. If you are over 2 inches it is just going to be really painful and it is just not going to work unless she has a really big anus. That is just the physics of it. If your are the right fit then you must make her hot and keep her that way. Keep her clit stimulated at all times, either by you or her. I have never met a woman that can go right into anal sex unless she has started with regular sex. Most women like what their pussy does for them more then ass does and they need to know that that is the way you feel about it. Give us some feedback so we all know if we are on the right track. [Link] |
| 2dvd Senior Member Trading DVDs 1447 Posts 12/00 | Posted - Feb 5 2001 : 9:17PM [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Feb 5 2001 : 9:43PM receive as you are to give, so I'll give you credit there. The problem is most guys won't (or, at least won't admit it). And no one should be pressured into doing something they don't want to, however nicely that pressure is presented, whether it's insinuating women who just plain don't want to as "having a bad attitude" or what. This is a big gripe of mine about all the anal in porn today - perfectly normal, healthy women are being branded as having something 'wrong' with them if they choose not to be butt-fucked. [Link] |
| Anders4371 Member 14 Posts 1/01 | Posted - Feb 6 2001 : 4:20AM We had this discussion for many years and finally tested some 2 years ago. It takes a whole lot of preparation for my wife to enjoy it, but if we do it slow and I open her up with my fingers and a lot of tounge work, she tells me she likes it. What she does not like it when I go to hard and try to mimic the sex scenes form the movies we frequently start out with. The girls in these movies must have a secret trick or be sedated one way or the other ! At least this is my wifes judgement ! MrA [Link] |
| Lman Member So Cal 20 Posts 2/01 | Posted - Feb 6 2001 : 7:05PM Sorry to bate you like that but it did work. A hook like that only works for a honey with attitude and boy do I hear some attitude. Some man must have really bullied you around. I think he must have bullied you with anal porn. No there is nothing wrong with you but I do think that you are reflecting something that has happened to you that was very wrong. I think you have been wronged. I do think the right man could have made anal sex good for you, that is, something you might have like every once in a while and if you haven’t had an orgasm during an anal romp, well, you haven’t had it done right. I don’t want to see another man mess up another woman that way. I see women as really sensitive people and once done wrong that’s it. As for porn, it is fantasy and nothing else. I like to see anal in porn along with everything else but it is just fantasy. Just look at the “man does woman in pussy shots.” Now tell me who has sex that way? It is necessary to shoot the scene that way because you couldn’t see his dick going into her pussy and that is a turn on. That is just one example of my point which is porn is not real (except for the porn stars) but you just told us a lot about your self in your reply, thank you. I do really think you are a wonderful sweet lady but I thought what you have said about anal sex needed to be explored. Sorry I misquoted you about the uncomfortable thing. I still think it should be comfortable for you unless your man has a salami size one and I am not suggesting a steady diet of anal I just think that if you are into pleasing a man like I am into pleasing a woman, well, it would be good. I remember thinking that licking a woman’s anus was disgusting but the minute I found out that my lady might like it I sure tried it and when she did like it I changed my mind about liking it too. There is a reason that men should like anal sex better than a woman but is definitely not the one you stated (what did you mean anyway)and I am not telling what it is. What does LOL mean anyway?
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| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Feb 6 2001 : 9:32PM Quote: "Sorry to bate you like that but it did work. A hook like that only works for a honey with attitude and boy do I hear some attitude." Quote: "Some man must have really bullied you around. I think he must have bullied you with anal porn. No there is nothing wrong with you but I do think that you are reflecting something that has happened to you that was very wrong. I think you have been wronged." Quote:"I do think the right man could have made anal sex good for you, that is, something you might have like every once in a while and if you haven?t had an orgasm during an anal romp, well, you haven?t had it done right." Quote: "I don?t want to see another man mess up another woman that way. I see women as really sensitive people and once done wrong that?s it." Quote: " but you just told us a lot about your self in your reply, thank you." [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Feb 6 2001 : 10:37PM If you are curious about anal sex, or looking for suggestions and opinions... Click here And on that note, this thread is being locked. [Link] |
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