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lau-tsu
Member


208 Posts
5/02
Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 7:13PM
i wanna get my girl into some gonzo stuff. She likes some porn she told me, but I don't know which. I don't wanna shock her, just stretch her a bit. I'm pretty sure she's gonna like whatever after she gets over the shyness and ickyness of it all...

I like the gonzo-esque stuff (I hope I'm using the term correctly) I like Sineplex (No limits,) Red Light District (Straight to the A, Me Luv you long time, young tight Latinas) Platinum X (Full Anal Access, Euro Girls never say No) New Sensations (ATM Machine, Full anal access)...that's all good to me.

I guess I'm hoping it'll speed the process of getting her to try a few things. Open her up a bit, maybe not to feel so uptight about her "freaky" side. Just looking to share with her the type of shit that makes me crazy...

Does anyone out there share some of this hardcore stuff with their ladies? Is it too strong ? Do women just get turned off by this stuff? Ladies, how do you generally feel about some of these titles? I think it's sexy, so if anyone has some good couples experience with this gonzo stuff, please I'd like to hear about it...


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Kitty-kat
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50 Posts
10/03
Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 8:53PM
You should have a fair idea of the kind of sex your girlfriend is into. If you have never done anal with her or if she has never expressed interest in it then it's unlikely she'll enjoy Full Anal Access. Why don't you be honest with her and say that you'd like to get a more hardcore porno and would she be interested? Talk about the kind of sex acts that really turn her off and those that really turn her on. Then why don't you go to to a porn store and pick out a title together? If you just spring something on her that isn't her cup of she might be turned off and never try watching gonzo again. If people haven't watched much porn it really is wise to start with softcore fratures then move onto harder stuff. Women can enjoy gonzo titles just as much as men, but understand that these kinds of movies are usually just mastubatory aids for males and thus do not incorporate erotic, initimate elements that appeal more to women. However there are some great gonzo titles out there - I'd focus on ones that have good looking males in them and where the girls are treated well and are enjoying themselves. Avoid the sexual endurance ones (e.g. Triple ass penetrations etc)as they are more performance art than erotica.
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Renee
Member

765 Posts
8/03
Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 9:02PM
Why don't you simply ask her to describe what she's seen, or what kind of movie it was (if it was on cable, that will give you a clue that it was a feature, or a soft-core version of something harder)?

I agree with Kitty Kat, don't spring some "Double Everything" title on her out of the blue. You don't want to shock her, no matter how much you crave the stuff.

Things were so much simpler 10-12 years ago, when my (now ex-)husband wanted to watch a porn movie with me. Nearly everything back then was conventional sex, no anal, mainly just boy/girl scenes, so it was easy for him and me to agree on what to watch.

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EagleSpirit
Member

Somewhere Doing Something Stupid
439 Posts
7/03
Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 10:56PM
Well I will give my standard recommendations for a good couples film, Fashionistas by Evil Angel and Dirty Trixxx 1 or 2 by Elegant Angel. All three are hardcore but well made. Fashionistas is totally superior to anything my wife and I have ever watched.
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Steve Holmes
Senior Member

1235 Posts
12/02
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 1:22AM
I'm in one scene of "Mason's Dirty Trixxx 2" and that is definitely not a scene I would show to my wife. It degrades the girls a lot. Mason did a great job with the casting. All the girls in the movie enjoyed what they were doing or what was done to them. Still it is not easy to watch for most women.
"Euro Girls never say No" was the first movie Manuel Ferrara and I did together for Platinum X Pictures. What we always try to show is real passion where all performers have a good time. Even if a woman doesn't like anal in her personal life she might enjoy seeing other girls getting off on it.

Let me know how your wife liked it if you decide to show the movie to her.

Steve

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Mike Quasar
Zero Tolerance

Reluctant pornographer
1765 Posts
7/01
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 2:10AM
One of the last movies that I made for Metro was called "Karma" and it's actually the only feature I've ever shot which I felt was not insulting to the home viewer's intelligence. The scenes are very hardcore and yet the story and scenery are extremely "couples" oriented. It was actually nominated for best video at the 2002 AVN awards. It's the best movie I've ever made (which may or may not be saying much) and I received a great deal of positive feedback from female viewers. It may be just the type of movie you're looking for.

There's a review of the video somewhere on this site. Try the search engine to find it if you are so inclined :)

Quaze

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Mike Quasar
Zero Tolerance

Reluctant pornographer
1765 Posts
7/01
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 2:12AM
duplicate post.Sorry

Quaze

Edited by - Mike Quasar on 11/20/2003 2:25:37 AM

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conquistador
Deactivated User

Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 2:38AM
Hello

For whatever reason, my girl got into "freaky shit" after watching some "Seymore Butts" films.

Though they are not always the best if you ask me, my girl really seems to be fascinated by them.

ack!(I want bloom county back!)

ned

edited for drunken spelling

Edited by - conquistador on 11/20/2003 2:41:09 AM

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EagleSpirit
Member

Somewhere Doing Something Stupid
439 Posts
7/03
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 3:13AM
No insult to Steve Holmes, but why wouldn't you show the film to your wife?

Edited by - Eaglespirit on 11/23/2003 7:15:22 PM

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EagleSpirit
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Somewhere Doing Something Stupid
439 Posts
7/03
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 3:15AM
No insult to Steve Holmes, but why wouldn't you show the film to your wife?

Edited by - Eaglespirit on 11/23/2003 7:16:12 PM

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RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 8:43PM
Sorry EagleSpirit, I have to agree with Steve Holmes about Dirty Trixx and with Kitty-kat about finding out what she wants to watch first. You know the warning at the beginning of the movie - the one that says this should not be shown to anyone not wishing to view it? Well, some people don't wish to view it. Here's a comment I made in an email about rough sex:

The choking and hair pulling are two of the things that disturbs my wife most. She almost turned off Big Cock Seductions 8, with Manual Ferrera's power play throat holding antics. She even finds the ride-em cowboy hair holding offensive. Add skull fucking and gagging blowjobs to a video, and that DVD is getting replaced with something else pretty quick. In lindi's review of Big Cock Seductions 4, the key word is Seductions. But in her review of Big Cock Seductions 7, the male dominant power stuff is starting to overwhelm the action. I thought I'd take a chance on Big Cock Seductions 8. It's more of the same.

Edited by - RobHammer on 11/20/2003 8:45:28 PM

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EagleSpirit
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Somewhere Doing Something Stupid
439 Posts
7/03
Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 11:36PM

Edited by - Eaglespirit on 11/23/2003 7:18:17 PM

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Steve Holmes
Senior Member

1235 Posts
12/02
Posted - Nov 21 2003 : 3:29AM
Maybe she is not normal, but that doesn't mean anything bad. I for instance like when a girl pee on me. That is not normal because most people find it disgusting. I still enjoy it and stay happy.

I think Mason did a tremendous job casting the right people for "Mason's Dirty Trixxx 2". But I also think it is disturbing for many women and not something to start with.

I generally try not to degrade the girls. Many times before I do A2M I lick the girls ass or stick a finger in her ass and lick it myself. So we stay on the same level.

Look my scene in "Mason's Dirty Trixxx 2". I slap Julie Night in the face but I also tell her that she can slap me. And yes she did. Still I know for sure my wife or my sister would not appreciate this scene.

Steve

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SyberScott
Senior Member

1462 Posts
1/03
Posted - Nov 21 2003 : 7:39AM
I agree with Steve, most 'normal' females
will find Mason's movies offending & appalling.

A bit too bizarre & eccentric for my taste!

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RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Nov 21 2003 : 1:27PM
lau-tsu,

For a gonzo loving animal trainer, Joey Silvera has some good stuff in Rogue Adventures 20 . You two are going to love Fabio in the third scene.

If that's too freaky for you, why not start with something tamer from Roy Karch like Mail Order Bride .

Best joke from the German movie Das Experiment:
Why do women watch a porn movie all the way through?
Because they're waiting to see if it will end with a wedding.

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ricwilli46
Private USA

19 Posts
11/03
Posted - Nov 21 2003 : 2:28PM
I would have her watch a strong feature that might catch her interest first rather than plunging into Gonzo. Try "The Gladiator" (which Steve is in!), which has a strong story line and some strong sex. Most all Private movies have anal, but go about it in a non-offending way. Our new release Cleopatra also has a good script which she may get into.

By the way Steve...outstanding job Tuesday on Skeeter's shoot, that was one hot scene...fortunately you carried it for the Spaniard!!

Ric Williams
President/COO
Private USA

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Steve Holmes
Senior Member

1235 Posts
12/02
Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 3:47AM
Thank you Ric,

this movie might also be interesting for couples who like strong but not abusive sex.

Steve

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Myload
Senior Member

A rose is what you are to me
2069 Posts
6/03
Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 11:25AM
That's what my fiancee thought of "Mason's Sexual Disorder" ( I mentioned this in another thread). I don't think she wants to see any more hardcore porn films.
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Janitor
Retired

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6409 Posts
11/99
Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 11:38AM
i don't want to repeat myself too often... but shanes world is the perfect "gonzo" series for introducing your girlfriend to porn.
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Mason
Member

872 Posts
7/02
Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 1:55PM
I totally agree with Steph.

Just be careful though, I started out with the boyfriend bringing home a Shane's World, and look what happened to me. :)

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lau-tsu
Member

208 Posts
5/02
Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 11:45PM
Mason, what was it about Shane's World?

Thanks all.

Steve Holmes, thanks. I'm a fan. Love your appearances. I just want to get her to relax and enjoy her sexy body.

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