Has anyone been approached by a friend, or perhaps not even a a friend, but by any man who wants to either listen or watch you have sex with his wife? Any experiences?
How would you personally feel if a man approached you to have sex with his wife while he would watch (in awe) or listen while you and her go at it? Could you go through with it?
Long before I met my husband, this happened to him. He was approached by a fellow that was recruiting young studs to gangbang his wife. My man participated in this activity on a weekly basis for a couple months. Apparently he was the wife's favorite, so he stuck around longer than other young guys. He finally quit going because he wanted a real girlfriend. I don't know if the woman's husband participated, or if he just watched.
Then later, my man fell in love and got married to his first wife, who had a fantasy about screwing one of his friends, so he arranged that. He tag teamed his wife with one of his buddies a couple times, but the buddy quickly grew to dislike my husband's first wife. Seems he could sense evil.
I'll see if I can get more details out of hubby, and maybe post again. He's been on both sides of the equation. We haven't done anything like this yet in our own marriage, but obviously he's open to me having additional partners if I want them, male or female.
I dated a woman once who had a sugar daddy. Worked out well, he could afford all the toys, I got to play. She mentioned that he would be interested in watching us together & that it could be profitable.
lol... My X is a Domme... I have had sex w/ her in front of her "slaves" while they watch from a denied view... at a sex club and her house. Fun times.
We talked about me watching her in action, and vice versa... but the relationship did not have the strength which can afford such luxuries. When I do find my match... Im buying an HD camera!
I'd know the guy if I "felt" him, meaning that my body would be attracted to the fellow. I just never know whom I'll find sexy. I do have a certain type of male physique I like to look at, but I've also found myself attracted to men that don't fit that mold (like my husband). I could go for a very young man, an older man, a white man, a black man, an Asian man. I could go for a woman of any age or ethnicity.
On men I prefer decent height because I'm a tall woman. I'd want the guy to be buff; strong enough to pick me up and cart me around. Obviously I'd want him to be well groomed. Mick and I are open with each other when we find other people attractive. I think he'd know what to look for if he went scouting for a stud to bring home.
As for women, I prefer women with lush, soft bodies. Hourglass figures. T&A. I prefer a wholesome, innocent look to a vampy, been-there-done-that look. I think, at least at first, I'd be the aggressor with a girl. I'd look for a submissive.
As I said, this is all theory right now. I've got a few self-esteem issues I need to get over before I let somebody else see my body.
As long as I were in on picking the partner, I think I'd really like it. And as long as I could jump in if I wanted.
I didn't. Really, if he is not only a willing participant but one inquiring about a show, he isn't being cuckholded. And though it was not a factor at the time, in ways that mattered I was already cuckholding him.
No, that was fine. I wasn't purposely exercising control and if you think about it, cuckholding is very much about a woman controlling SO. Dating is really overstating our relationship.
When he wanted arm candy for some event or just to make sure she was available on a specific night, she asked/told me about a week before. If I wanted to do something with her that night, it often got changed. Or I might see her later that night anyways. If I wanted to go out or do a booty call, I just had to call or go over. She spent plenty of his money taking me out. Nice sports sedan he had - when we (she & I) went out I drove that a lot. He took her to Paris for the holidays - and she discreetly calls me on Christmas and the New Years. Sent me an antique post card too. Often, when we went out, she would already have what was my favorite drink ready. So, his money, my 30 year old scotch. She would sometimes bring in girlfriends too.
So what exactly was he paying for? (All sugardaddies pay, that is the nature of it all.) I myself didn't ask, force, or otherwise make this situation.
It was a take it or leave it deal. Take what I want to do or leave, period. I really didn't care if she used lube, just that I wasn't going to wait & wasn't going to deal with it myself. If she could lube up before Mr. Happy got there, that was fine.
She caught me when I was rebounding, but she was told the deal going in. At the time I was only looking for a set of holes to pound.
Its entirely possible that everybody got what they wanted.
He obviously had money & no doubt had taken charge of his life and workplace to get there. He might have enjoyed not haveing control of her. Of course it is also possible that he wasn't entirely okay with it and that is where buying a sex show came in. By buying the show (and therefore me) he could rationalize it to himself. Wasn't really a factor, but just a thought.
For her, my indifference to her as a person might have been a turn on. She was hot, she had the typical slavering hanging around willing to do the old step-and-fetch, hoping one day to get a mercy fuck.
Me? I got what I wanted. She brought in girlfriends for threeways, at ass, and consented to everything.
Geez, croy, you sure did take advantage of that situation with the woman and her sugardaddy. Nicely done! Reading what you write only makes me wish you were nearby and could stop by to give my GF what she's really been needing ;-)
When you are ready to learn, the teacher will appear.
To finish answering one of your questions, I'm not the Chinese Mandingo. Given the over 1.2 billion Chinese, there must be though.
I don't know if I really took advantage of anything. I was a year of self-indulgence. I suppose in the sense that the opportunity was there, but I never made demands of anything. I just clearly stated my intent and where the door was.
Yes I finally found a reason I don't need an excuse I got some time on my hands You are the one to use Okay, some paraphrasing.
Sweet dreams are made of these, who am I to disagree?
Good luck in your quest. Remember the difference between fantasy and reality.
Thank you. I expect reality to be far more intense, for good or bad, than fantasy. Believe I'm mentally strong enough to withstand seeing another MAN make her writhe. What's left is finding someone to step up to the plate and try to hit one out while I watch & learn.
Put it this way.....as long as I am able to be around her and the new guy "X" amount of times per week/month, then I am willing to allow her to spend her free time however she chooses.
As long as it works out for you. I didn't mean to be a downer, just want to make sure you thought it through. Every relationship is a different animal.
