It's OK, but only nominally interesting. More fun with an orally obsessive partner, but ... y'know, it's like salad dressing... I prefer female fluids.
For me, seeing a woman swallowing cum is erotic but seeing a man swallowing cum is a turn-off. Anyone else feel the same way?
"There are three ways to get to the top of the ladder: talent, luck, or being an asshole by stepping on someone's head. Most people on the top of the ladder are neither talented nor lucky." - Unknown
I do it all the time, it's a lot faster than using tissues. Mine has absolutely no taste, so whatever. A lot of female friends have told me though that they absolutely adored the taste of pre-cum (y'know, the wee drop that's supposed to lubricate your penis before the penetration, useful at a time when K-Y Jelly wasn't sold at K-mart). I MUST admit that there's this one very short era where I almost entered into an anorexic cycle where I stopped swallowing my cum because I thought it contained calories ! A blonde moment I guess... Very short-lived, though, eh eh..
My wife's been wanting to kiss me after I cum in her mouth. I'm open to the idea, but every time she goes to kiss me, I just couldn't open my mouth. I can't make my mouth open no matter what. It's like it's got a mind of its own. :)
I wish guys would just stop being afraid of being gay. Homophobia is soooo 90s. Let go of all the privilege of a heterocentric world and you will find sexual peace. If Rocco and Mark Davis can do it, so can you! Cum-swallowing is a sport--drink it up!
Im not sure i see the connection between injesting ones own bodily fluids and homophobia. Not every1 likes every "sport" if thats the analogy you want to use....
The first time I experienced it was when I was 20 years old and a girl I started dating "snowballed" me. It was quit a turn-on. For a young, relatively inexperienced guy, it seem really kinky and really got me going for some more action that night. After that, it became the norm for us.
Since then, I haven't gone out of my way to seek it out, but if my partner brought it up, I let it be known that if she wanted to share, I was up for it. I actually like it most when my partner surprises me with it.
I never really do it when I masturbate. It just doesn't have the same turn-on value when I am alone.
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Something that I have enjoyed on occasion was a man going down on me after having ejaculated internally during intercourse. I almost never orgasm during penetration sex, but it can be very stimulating and arousing - so it's a perfect solution, I almost always get off during (good) oral sex. I've never asked a man to do it, and the first time one did I was sort of freaked out and really concerned that HE was going to be freaked out. He wasn't, I wasn't, it was all good. Not saying he was INTO the semen thing, but it just didn't matter that much to him - and he recognized the whole "you get it in YOUR mouth, what's so special about my mouth" issue.
Applying this double standard logic my girlfriend should have to bury her face in a vagina before I go down orally on her...
Do I have to jam something up my ass before doing anal?
Fascinating...
My girlfriend doesn't like the taste of, heck doesn't really like semen within a foot of her mouth for that matter. She likes to feel me cum inside her. So that's what I do. It is my least favorite place, mostly because I have to pull out eventually, leaving the bed looking like a relief map of the Great Lakes region...
If there is something your partner doesn't enjoy, don't force them or use some sort of barter system. That just sounds like an awful way to love someone.
"Gee honey, you can cum in my mouth but you have to eat your own cum first just to see how icky-sticky-poo awful it is..."
"Oh sweetie, I'll eat your pussy when you come in all frisky after your sweaty, musky, aerobic workout - all you have to do is bury your face in that three-day old dishrag over there..."
The same kind of arguments are being made on an A2M thread started over the last few days.
The suggestion in each case is that there is some sort of equivalence: If I do it to you, you do it to me. On the face of it there does seem to be an equivalence, a certain parity to such a request. Trouble is, this parity is only paper thin.
The reality is that 'A' is asking for something because he/she finds it a turn on, which is a valid reason in most peoples opinion. If 'B' decides to comply it could be because 'B' also finds it a turn on or alternatively as a favour to 'A'. Instead though, 'B' is asking 'A' to perform the same task although not because it turns him/her on but out of revenge or to level some sort of perceived inequity: hardly the same kind of justification as 'A' had is it?
I'm all for doing favours for my girlfriend and I'll happily do things that turn her on but if she wants to do something to me for less positive reasons that's a bit of a different story.
Phil saidI agree, if it's something your partner doesn't enjoy, it's not consensual, don't push it. That goes both ways. But barter can be fun!
And, as I mentioned in one of my earlier posts on this thread, one reason for snowballing is to reassure the guy that it doesn't taste bad. It's nice to stay open minded and try things before deciding that they aren't for you.
Oh yeah and girlfriend just has to lick her own cum just to prove that she has nothing against lesbians !!! that's pure crap. You know what, she should suck the neighbour's dog cock also just to show how friendly she is to animals
Only if it is just for fun. I'll make the general assumption, though, that most time the whole "barter" thing isn't in the spirit of fun but something used to get someone to do something they do not want to do.
Or worse yet, guys and gals that use the "if you really love me you'll do this" ...
I like the taste of my own cum. I don't often eat it, but when I'm reallly horny and there's no one else to do it for me, well... Of course I prefer to see it squirting into the willing mouth of a pretty female.
Personally I love to watch my GF swallow my cum, and she loves it! (she does it soooooo good!), it's a real turn on. I also love watching porn with BJ's and cum swallowing by women. As to weather they are really enjoying it, or it's put on for the camera is anyone's question...
I dig chicks that love to suck cock and swallow cum!
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I love when the girl continues sucking my cock when im cumming,she dont need to swallow but i like when they take it in the mouth anyway
Your use of the term “homophobia” evidences your homosexual political agenda since it is a tactic created by homosexual activists to silence dissent. See the playbook agenda in “The Overhauling of Straight America” by homosexual political extremists Marshall Kirk and Erastes Pill and “The Homosexualization of America” by homosexual political extremist Dennis Altman.
“Phobias” are clinically defined; “irrational fears”. Disliking homosexual behavior is not irrational, in fact the majority of humans reject this behavior. Accordingly, your use of the term “homophobia” is misused.
Now I could not find anyone with the screen name of “breederboy” so I can only surmise you used it as a bigoted, hate filled, narrow minded, homosexist, heterophobic, mean spirited, intolerant epithet used frequently by homosexual extremists.
See, us heterosexuals who are proudly so by choice can co-opt the lefts lexicon too.
Luke, SueR is just responding to the type of comments you see in this thread. I agree that her breeder boy remark is a bit inflammatory, but I still have to chuckle. Just look at the content of most "straight" porn and you can't deny the double standards that exist between the portrayal and acceptance female and male sexuality. Why are strap-on videos listed in the 'bisexual" category when there is only heterosexual activity? It must be that like snowballing, a guy getting his ass fucked is gay.
That must explain why there is so much girl/girl activity in "straight" porn.
call me weird but i get pissed if i cant taste it. i think one of greatest finishes to a night of wild passionate mind blowing sex is to swallow my mans load. i personally enjoy his taste, but in addition to that its the least I can do after he gives me multiple orgasms. food for thought ladies....pleasure your man or he may look elsewhere.
That's right princess. Take care of your man and he will take care of you. I appreciate a girl who will swallow my seed. First off it feels great to cum in a girl's mouth and there is something that is so nasty, raw and appealing about it. I don't mind the snowballing every once in awhile. It's kind of dirty and sexy and naughty at the same time. Kind of a turn on. As for flavor for her, just be sure to have fruit in your diet. Natural sugar enhances the cum. Girls that have tasted me have always enjoyed it due to the fact that I have fruit daily. I tend to have huge loads, so stay away from high sodium foods. Your girl will thank you for it. And she'll keep doing it.
It feels so good when my girlfriend takes care of me!! But its a two way street and im more than happy to spend the night going down on her! she doesnt have to do a thing to me.
I know this topic is old, but I just wanted to add my own personal experience to it. I'm a straight guy with a normal sex drive, and I masturbate at least once a week. Anyway, I've tasted and swallowed my own cum many times, and it doesn't taste bad at all. Not exactly the same as mucus or snot, but a mixture of salty, bitter and tangy. I'm not recommending that every guy should try it, but it certainly won't kill you.
Whether or not I can bring myself to swallow my own cum depends on the intensity of my orgasm. If it's an "incomplete" orgasm, when after ejaculating I am still semi-hard and can go on, I find cum-swallowing a major turn-on. But if it was an intense orgasm where my penis becomes limp after shooting, then I can never make myself swallow my cum. I am no longer aroused and the idea becomes repulsive.
One thing I find both arousing and repulsive is when I accidentally give myself a facial. That's when I'm jerking off on my back, and the first few spurts are so powerful that they actually land on my face. I'm not homophopic, but that does make me feel a little gay.
Personally, I dont get of on my own cum. I love it when my gf swallows though.
Some people mentioned reciprocity, ie. if you expect your girl to swallow it, you should do yourself. Well, I think I consume enough of her bodily fluids when 'down there', and in terms of volume, she should swallow at least 2 of my loads daily to get even :). Allthough I dont go looking for it, I dont mind being close to it if I go down on her after ejac'ing, to make her come.
I was thinking the exact same thing. The Eye for an Eye philosophy doesn't always work. Even things that are seemingly the same are not always equal. A woman swalling cum and a man swallowing cum are not equal deeds. A man to swallow cum is seen as taboo or homoerotic. It is not an open idea for many men. It is more accepting for a woman to swallow.
Although we strive for equality of the sexes, there are gender roles in sex and cum swallowing is one of them. As our culture evolves, then perhaps our future generations will no longer make a distinction in that particular sexual act.
I am more that happy to "chow down" for the night and swallow any of her fluids. Its only fair she does the same by swallowing mine.
Oh and I have tasted my own cum. I was never thrilled with it. I prefer dry Chablis.
Very true when you say it is seen as homoerotic or taboo. Nothing is ever equal when it comes to the sexes or even theoretically sexless people. Scientifically there is nothing wrong with it, just socially.
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I disagree as many women don't swallow, those that do are true gems. Reminds me of a bad joke about what the bride said on her wedding night to her maid of honor, "Thank god I don't have to swallow anymore!!"
Gender roles? Do some women swallow just to please a man? Food for thought.
After having tasted my own cum a couple of times, I have to say that I don't blame girls for not wanting to swallow. Not that I would mind if they did though...