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Howie Feldersnatch
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69 Posts
8/06
Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 6:39AM
Kinda personal and a little real here, but what is it like dating or living with someone in the Adult Industry???
It can't be easy knowing what your girlfriend does for a living. How do you cope and what sort of things do you do in between scenes?
After a few responses I'll explore my reasons for asking.
Howie
christianx
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1883 Posts
9/04
Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 9:32AM
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Dec 9 2008 : 10:42AM
Check out this thread, as well as the article linked in the OP: What if your wife were a porn star - some interesting thoughts were discussed in this thread, and we even heard from a civilian husband of a porn star.
Howie Feldersnatch
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69 Posts
8/06
Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 5:30AM
Thanks. A very good article. It should give me some insight since I kinda have a "Dear Abby" situation going on that I don't think the newspaper advice matron could answer properly.
I have an old girlfriend who left me a few years ago who has become an active swinger thanks to her new boyfriend. Somehow we met over the holidays and she has stayed in touch because, "Being with me keeps her grounded." She added in a later conversation that she feels sex is easy, but likes being with me because she doesn't have to perform or pretend she's something she's not. I give her the chance to feel that love is "real" not staged or some kinda fantasy.
I know this is some HEAVY shit, but I figured this fourm would provide the best advice on this topic.
Thanks,
Howie
lenscap
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185 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 6:40AM
Being an active "swinger" and being a "sex worker" are two entirely different things. One is a job, the other for fun. Or, in perhaps your girlfriends case, acceptance.
 
Endless Loop
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1129 Posts
8/04
Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 7:11AM
Geez Christian,
Its not like you haven't already explored the roads less traveled, now BBW?
No one should ever accuse you of cherry pickin!
Skyscrapper
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667 Posts
12/08
Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 12:40PM
There are only three reasons any civilian should have a wife or girlfriend who's an adult performer.
1. The idea of that shit drives you wild.
2. You love or enjoy her more than anything. So much so that you are incredibly understanding and accepting.
3. Combine 1 and 2.
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 2:05PM
^You forgot another reason, which in fact is probably the most common in reality:
4. You're too lazy to get a job, and your porn star partner is making bank.
Skyscrapper
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667 Posts
12/08
Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 8:45PM
^^^ Oops. How could I forget that one? LOL.
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Dec 22 2008 : 9:09PM
Howie Feldersnatch
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69 Posts
8/06
Posted - Dec 30 2008 : 2:28PM
Trust me there is a corrolation. There are parts to the story I left out.
I'm just saying that NO ONE is a porn star 24 hours a day. It's like any other profession, you can't take the job home with you. I was just wondering what it's like in the home setting away from the set and in the "civilian" (read "Real") world away from the fantasy and glamour of the industry.

Edited by - howie feldersnatch on 12/30/2008 2:30:38 PM




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