Yep I agree..I totally get off on dirty talk in bed... the dirtier the better but its hard sometimes. I tell/ ask my man to talk dirty but I think that since its not in his nature, it puts pressure on him. I mean hes nastier then most BUT to actually speak it.... kind of difficult. If it happens it happens, you cant force it.
I think if you're gonna talk dirty you've got to live it at that moment, believe it and mean it.
I love to talk dirty, say dirty crude derogatory things i'd never usually say, things i don't truly believe in any way but which I find hot and shocking to say, or to make a girl say. You can't turn it on like a switch though. Well, I can't anyway, I have to kind of build up to it, starting off just talking saying how hot she's making me, how much I want to fuck her, how pretty she is etc and then if it seems right I just naturally start a full scale verbal commentarty without really even thinking about it LOL
You're right Pornvalleyprincess, it can be hard to keep up. I love talking dirty, talking period during sex but especially dirty talk. One girlfriend got totally addicted to my dirty talk and she put a lot of pressure on me to "perform," constantly saying "tell me a story." Each time I had to come up with some new and novel story like I'd been watching her walk home from school and just had to have her right now; next night she would want a rape fantasy, etc.
I also like to play "good girl/bad girl" with sexy/dirty talk. That is where I ask her if she has been a good girl or a bad girl today. If she says she's been a good girl I say all sorts of sexy sensual loving things to her, tell her how hot she makes me, how perfect her body is, how much she excites me, how pretty she is, massage her endlessly... If she says she'd been a bad girl then I call her a dirty slut, act dominating with her, spank her, and generally treat her like a fucktoy. She gets to choose.
i LOVE dirty talk, i go in to a whole other world when it gets down to it, sometimes i say things so naughty my boy toy stops and just stares at me like WHOA lol, but he really seems to like it..especially when i talk like daddy's little innocent slut :o) hehe, good times good times.
My fiance loves me to talk dirty to her.. she would rather start out silent but once the juices start flowing she wants me to talk as nasty as I can. She will even ask me dirty questions.. gets me as hot as her...
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Posted - Apr 19 2005 : 7:40PM
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