Welcome to the darkside....we have cookies. 598 Posts 11/03
Posted - Sep 25 2005 : 7:51PM
Tricia,
Thanks for the post and by the look of the all posts in here I think girls like you and I can bet there are quite a few cool fans out there.
Sometimes though the shit we read and hear just blows my mind. I am sure you know what I mean. I just shake my head.
Kisses, Kylie
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675 Posts 6/05
Posted - Sep 25 2005 : 7:51PM
I think astroknight nailed it with this comment:
As for this remark:
Well, sorry to say this Kylie, but for me you are the final proof that God cannot exist - after all, how could a God who is supposed to care about humanity have been so cruel as to make only one of you.
Kylie, That terrible what this asshole did. Some people just have too much time on their hands to send bunk emails. You're a beautiful woman, both inside and outside. You're one of the few performers that actually takes the time to reply to emails people send you.
Can't wait to see you in January, found an old Swank with a spread you did.
Welcome to the darkside....we have cookies. 598 Posts 11/03
Posted - Sep 25 2005 : 8:12PM
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Well, sorry to say this Kylie, but for me you are the final proof that God cannot exist - after all, how could a God who is supposed to care about humanity have been so cruel as to make only one of you. [/quote]
When I first discovered Kylie's posting of this exchange, I was simply pissed off at this dickwad's not-so-clever attempt to take a literal dump on a beautiful, classy, and sexy woman who attempted to make a respectful and honest response to his "inquiry". Having read this exchange here, I am a bit more heartened and gratified that she has such great fan and friend support. (And yes, he's still a dickwad who needs his head permanently sewed in his ass and then dropkicked into orbit..hopefully with one of Kylie's stilletto heels attached as a tail, if you get me.)
And it is very nice as well to see that Kylie hasn't lost her Irish feistiness, either...and is taking this with all the class and stride that we are accustomed to. It's one of her most endearing characteristics.
If I wasn't already a fan of Kylie before this, I am so much more a fan now...in fact, I will be joining her site soon to show my appreciation for everything she's done.
Finally, props to Ernest Greene for his email of support, which I will enthusiastically second with pleasure.
Well said and said well, sexy Kylie..and everyone else.
This just proves what I like so much about pornstars {besides the obvious.} The fact you take time out of your busy schedules of filming, directing, signing, dancing, appearing, and just plain living to converse one-to-one with a fan. I don't know of any tv or movie stars that will do that! Kylie, please don't let one asshole get in the way of your thousands of fans around the world!
More than anything im just wondering what the hell the guy got out of this? We all know there are losers out there. We all know there are mean people out there. We all know there are conmen out there. But what in the fuck did this guy achieve?
If he got to fuck kylie and brag to his friends then fine. If he got to steal kylies credit card number then fine. But even as assholes go this guy is a fucking retard with way too much time on his hands. Ive seen many a 12yr old come up with funnier pranks than that. Im not by any means condoning such behaviour ... but as creeps/lowlifes/assholes go , this guy is about the lamest/stupidest out there.
I'd be embarressed to tell 'my friends' that story as he says he is going to do. My friends would laugh at me!
Furthermore ... for what its worth ... I wouldve gotten slightly suspicious already seeing an email from david kwong signed off by bobby.
Lets just hope guys like that are in the minority.
Pay no mind to the ramblings of an obviously adolescent minded "fan" (and I use the term very loosely since a real fan would never do what he did). You are, have always been and will always be one of the best things about this business, so if he can't deal with it then that's his problem.
I'm not personally acquainted with any of your films, but can tell from this thread that you are very popular and have a large number of genuine fans out there.
As another Brit I can only apologise for this dickhead's dickheadedness. Don't worry, we're not all like that across the pond
At the end of the day one can only feel sorry for someone who gets off on behaving like such a loser, but as I'm sure you have heard, the internet is a breeding ground for this type of crap.
In a positive sense this is obviously an experience out of which you have come the wiser, and hopefully the stronger. Please don't let it daunt your caring nature.
Best wishes,
Another ADT member
PS I was thinking about suggesting someone emailing this guy a link to this thread, but in reality it's probably not such a good idea as I'm sure that we could all be doing without dickheads such as him around here.
I totally agree with Ramsey. People sending him angry e-mails and stuff will most likely amuse him 'cause it will be an indication of a "job" well done on his behalf. Don't give the punk that satisfaction.
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Posted - Sep 27 2005 : 1:18PM
Please don't send him a link to this thread. I'm dealing with bratty internet children way too much as is. The saddest thing about these internet children is that so many are chronologically adults.
Kylie, I've "fallen" for it too and am probably overly suspicious these days. It's sad how a few jerks can ruin the great communication this medium provides.
Hi Kylie! Those letters are crap, cos you sincerely feel for the person, and actually think you are helping someone, and then you get an answer like that.. trust me i have been there before! You feel like shit, and makes you want to not answer your emails anymore. I still have one who wanted to get in the biz, and i was trying to help a little, but kept mailing and mailing, got mad and angry when i wasnt fast enough to answer, then went around plenty boards to say what a bitch i was, mailing me how evil and bitch i am. Still pops up once in a while in some place calling me a bitch, haha i found you again! Short little, but helpfull answers seem to be working, and cut out the bad from the good. The good ones stop or stay writing, and start talking more about themselves, the bad ones stop mailing, or get obsesive and keep mailing why you dont answer them 5 minutes after they send their mail, those you put on block and end of story.. when you get the mail that you really helped someone its all worth it again!Like i helped a guy trough his surgery from male to female..for 2 years we mailed until i got the end photo. That was cool!
Welcome to the darkside....we have cookies. 598 Posts 11/03
Posted - Sep 27 2005 : 4:13PM
Yeah, it's kinda tough, cause you wanna send him the link so he can see that everyone thinks he is a complete ASS but on the other hand we certainly don't need his kind lurking around here.
Besides, we love Steph, how could we wish such a dickweed on her?
demicomix.com Carnal Comics - True Stories of Adult Film Stars 105 Posts 6/04
Posted - Oct 2 2005 : 3:59PM
In 1998, I had a tempory job doing inventory for Crown Books. Some of the guys were talking about porn videos. One of the guys mentioned Nina Hartley. At some point, someone said that you could say anything negative you wanted to toward x-rated actresses and it wouldn't bother them. His point of view was that if an actress does certain sex acts then it indicates she doesn't care what people think. I don't think he was intending to put down x-rated actresses but I think what he said showed ignorance. Another guy was offended by what he said and criticized his statement. He pointed out that many porn actresses are insecure people and that if you insult them then you will hurt them. When the person (who was offended) walked away, the guy (who made the statement about porn actresses not caring what people say) expressed surprise to the other guys about the emotional response of the guy to what he said. Later on, the guy (who expressed disagreement) told me that he had done hair styling and makeup for x-rated and mainstream movie sets. He expressed the opinion that 99 percent of actresses (mainstream and x-rated) are insecure about themselves.
I think even people who say that they don't care what people think, actually do. The people who deny it probably care more then people who admit it. When I was 11 years old, a girl said I was ugly. What she said caused me years of psychological damage. I was insecure about my looks already and she made me so feel much worse about myself. As a result of the incident with the girl, I feel uncomfortable when guys say a woman is ugly, even if she isn't around. I will say that I don't find a woman to be attractive but I won't use the ugly word. When I have read Patrick Riley's books about x-rated videos, he expressed the belief that he was helping the consumer by criticizing the looks of certain actresses. He believed that he would be sugar coating things if he didn't write about actresses in a blunt way.