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antlers
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Posted - Nov 25 2016 : 12:38AM
Just interested to see if a lot of guys let their women have sex outside the relationship? Generally interested in this topic.
BlackSix All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Nov 25 2016 : 5:18AM
Neither of us has sex outside our relationship.
Edited by - BlackSix on 11/29/2016 11:12:15 AM
kenny1980
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Posted - Nov 25 2016 : 11:48PM
looks like you are interested in cuckolding
Seriously ,if she really loves the idea, I would even let her bring the man to my place and I watch them fucking around.
I like the idea of being a cuckold
Edited by - kenny1980 on 11/25/2016 11:49:31 PM
kenny1980
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Posted - Nov 25 2016 : 11:49PM
antlers
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Posted - Nov 29 2016 : 3:39AM
I have met a few people like that. Sounds interesting. I would be more interested in double teaming it. I want to see my girl get pummeled. There is something sexy in that.
 
A_Fan
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Posted - Nov 29 2016 : 10:20PM
There is more to that than just "the guy is a cuckhold".....
Some men like the idea of an open relationship. they want to fuck more girls so they let their wife or girlfriend do the same...
Some are swingers and love the idea of swapping partners and watching each other having sex
Some love the idea of watching their wife or girlfriend just be a sexual beast and ravage some guy, or watch her submit to someone's desires.
There are more reasons than this...
Cuckholding is a humiliation thing... the guy wants to be treated like he is worthless, a bad performer, a small penis, etc and that he can not satisfy her.. so he lets his wife fuck other men to feed that degrading feeling........ there are other ways to define cuckholds too
My point is, a lot of guys just love seeing their women fuck..... and it is not a degradation or inferiority thing at all and has nothing to do with cuckholding.
Legal Porno had a scene recently with one of their regular performers.. she brought he boyfriend a long.... he was watching the sex, holding her at times,etc.... it was not a cuckhold scene at all.. it was just a guy watching his girl fuck the hell out of a bunch of guys and it was fun. Yet, a lot of people see that and just default "he is a cuckhold, what a wimp.... "....
Edited by - A_Fan on 11/29/2016 10:22:28 PM
antlers
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Posted - Nov 30 2016 : 12:33AM
I'm more into what you described. I dont want to be humiliated or anything. I just want to see my girl fucked hard. Regular relationship thing, but she can go fuck a guy, bring him home and I'll hold her down.
A_Fan
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Posted - Nov 30 2016 : 5:07AM
I think a lot of men would agree... holding their girl down while she is getting fucked is pretty hot stuff.
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Posted - Nov 30 2016 : 10:24AM
^ I suspect it is much more a minority taste but different strokes for different folks.
Macko69
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Posted - Dec 2 2016 : 6:41PM
A woman I used to work with was married to a guy who was pressuring her to find a guy to seduce so he could watch her getting fucked. The whole idea disgusted her and was causing major problems in her marriage. I'm pretty sure my wife would feel the same way, but you'd never find me pressuring her to do anything like this because I would never want to see my wife having sex with someone else. I certainly wouldn't look down on any couple who were both willing to do this, but this is not something I'd be interested in doing, and neither would my wife.
Shareher70
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Posted - Jan 2 2017 : 8:08AM
I'd love to watch my wife, or know even that she was fucking other men. Not about humiliation just having a sexy wife really. Share her? In a Mfm? Oh yeah
A_Fan
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Posted - Jan 2 2017 : 1:54PM
Yeah, both people have to be into it or it will destroy the relationship. I had a few runs at swingers clubs at different periods in my life and the amount of couples I saw where it was pretty clear it was "man driven" was disappointing. With the boom of porn with"girl with 2 or more guys" the last 15 years, more and more men thought it was awesome and wanted to live that with their significant other. While there were plenty of women at these clubs into it, there were always a few where it would pretty clear she was just doing it to hopefully please her guy and their relationship wasn't going to last. I eventually stopped with clubs and would just pursue personal friendships instead (which actually are much more rewarding than a bunch of strangers in a club).
Edited by - A_Fan on 1/2/2017 1:54:52 PM
Vaitape
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Posted - Feb 20 2017 : 1:53PM
We are swingers, so that technically is not outside our relationship. However, she has a hall pass and can fuck anyone she wants with one rule - she has to tell me beforehand and share details.
She doesn't do it often, maybe once a year.
meatybone
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Posted - Feb 21 2017 : 6:24PM
My gf has said she will suck other guys dicks if they are 11 o12 inches she "won't be able to keep her mouth off of it .her and her gfs share guys and eat each other,she fucks them too but specifies she can't keep from sucking long dick.she doesn't hide anything and it is rare I think that she does anything ,more or less she's telling me about the way she has been.i know she would do anything I wanted but I've never been into kinky shit thought about it though.she takes care of my dick all the time. Maybe she'll have a good time on the side occasionally?
BlastOff1
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Posted - Mar 1 2017 : 5:55PM
Ive had a friend who would let me mess around with his girlfriend. He used to say that he didnt mind because we were close friends. Hes married now and hes changed his tune so it was probably just a youth thing with him back then. lol
 
JackSparrow
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Posted - Mar 3 2017 : 3:38AM
hell no,i do not share
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Mar 3 2017 : 4:19PM
I've been married and divorced twice. My first husband had no problem with it as I had no issues with him fucking other women. My second had no issues with it but didn't want to know about it.
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Posted - Mar 3 2017 : 6:03PM
I could never abide anyone I cared about fucking other people.
And, I wouldn't do it to them, either!
ODriscoll81
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Posted - Mar 6 2017 : 2:35PM
We do have some kind of an 'open' relationship. Not in a way that we fuck around with everyone we meet. But if we like a girl (my girl is also into other girls) we try to set up a threesome.
But a few months ago she told me that she wanted to try a threesome with another man and that she wanted to experience a DP. I had to give it a thought. And we both thought we were comfortable if it would be a friend of us. At the start I was uncomfortable with another man in the room, but when she kept asking for him to join fucking her I let him join and man, she got high on it. We were really slowing down to keep her comfortable, but she completely killed it and begged for more.
Later she asked me if I liked it, and I have to say that I found it really hot to see her enjoy it so much when we were exploring her limits. But if I'm honest.. It doesn't wind me up when I think of her having sex with other men. It is the experience that made it a 'go' for me.
Ashley88
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Posted - Jul 26 2017 : 9:58AM
Yes for sure.
Fred39999
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Posted - Oct 29 2017 : 2:32AM
I m very interested in this topic. DId you have the chance to try it finally?
Edited by - kenny1980 on 11/25/2016 11:49:31 PM
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I have met a few people like that. Sounds interesting. I would be more interested in double teaming it. I want to see my girl get pummeled. There is something sexy in that.
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Horny Jew
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Posted - Nov 15 2017 : 3:13PM
I too could never abide anyone I cared about fucking other people.
And, I too wouldn't do it to them, either !!!
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Nov 16 2017 : 7:04PM
Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Like most thing involving personal preference however, those in a relationship should be free to establish their own rules and standards.
Fred39999
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Posted - Nov 19 2017 : 1:48AM
yeah everybody has a different point of view and i also think it depends on the number of years in couple, the personality of course. Personnally i m totally ok with but i understand people could disagree.
Romuald58
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Posted - Jul 2 2018 : 9:48AM
Hello, personally I had the opportunity to practice debauchery with my darling. She initiated me to this practice and I appreciate it. We are a young libertine couple from France
 
realphatasslover
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Posted - Apr 18 2019 : 10:53PM

Edited by - realphatasslover on 4/26/2019 1:21:59 PM

Roches99
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Posted - Apr 25 2019 : 6:01PM
Yes indeed my neighbor, he's a millionaire loaded guy but completely out of shape and serious health issues and has a gorgeous wife who definitely needs a physical partner so on her birthday this time he called for one of the known well muscled Male pornstar, well sorry can't disclose the name but he loves his wife so he let her
hardrockin
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Posted - Dec 14 2019 : 2:54AM
The term is "hotwife" when it's not about humiliation, but enjoy watching your wife be satisfied by another man.
Alanpornman
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Posted - Jan 27 2020 : 10:59PM
I would if she wanted to and I could watch!
Badguy78
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Posted - Apr 8 2020 : 8:27AM
no way. I personally don't want to share my girlfriend with anyone else, exept threesome with another girl.
Zingerbrook
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Posted - Apr 9 2020 : 9:50AM
Obviously, this will vary from person to person and how they conceive of and do relationships, and their preferences and beliefs. It is interesting to see the range of what people are comfortable with or prefer, which also obviously is all ok.

To add to the mix, for me a partner isn't "mine" to begin with, but in a relationship I'd certainly trust they'd be mindful of me and us. And all that said, nah, I'm totally open to a partner being with other guys. In a way, it doesn't even factor in for me. In one way, it's just like doing stuff or any activity with someone else.

mcs1025
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Posted - Apr 9 2020 : 12:20PM
Yes, I love jacking off to live sex, and watching my girl be so wild and uninhibited is crazy fun for me.
Aimeemoorre
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Posted - Apr 13 2020 : 2:05PM

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johnnyy
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Posted - May 23 2020 : 9:18AM
it is just my fantasy nothing more
sageet
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Posted - Aug 31 2020 : 4:04AM
i dont exactly let her go fuck other guys at random, but my gf and i have a few mutual friends that we play with, me and my mate fucking my gf at the same time has become kind of normal now, im the only one whos allowed to cum inside her though :D
 
Lenny Voyeur
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It´s just me to eat outside.....
bumblaster
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Posted - Oct 16 2020 : 5:55PM
I'm usually in semi-monogamous relationships.

I say semi because I seem to wind up with a lot of bisexual women that want to have threesomes with other women.

I'm not really interested in seeing other guys fuck my girlfriends.

happyhub82
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Posted - Dec 30 2020 : 12:54PM
After months of trying I talked my first wife into doing a foursome with this other couple we knew. I could tell she really liked the guy, and I really liked the guy's wife. The guy suggested it to me and I told him I would ask my wife. After we did the foursome, my wife was racked with guilt, but she enjoyed it! Part of the reason she was racked with guilt was because she enjoyed it so much. She was so upset that I never dared even to think about asking her to try another foursome or go to a swinger club.

My second wife and I did some swinging for a time. We went to a swinger club twice. We used two swinger sites to hook up with other couples for a few foursomes and one "eightsome." My wife told me she'd be willing to fuck a BBC, but we couldn't find one that we felt comfortable with. We haven't done any more swinging in a few years now.

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Bunburry Wilde
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Posted - Sep 25 2025 : 10:46AM

This unwillingness to allow the significant other have encounters with 3rd parties, seems to be based on a notion of ownership or
property in the significant other, which is usually based on an insecurity. My own view is that it is erotic to watch your lover
with other guys, it shows she appeals to other men and is desired by them and that is part of her allure for when she comes
back to you. But the objectors seem to think they have ownership of her body, very trad !
Ujan_2007
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Posted - Mar 26 2026 : 10:58AM
Not to me~~for sure

coxxucka
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Posted - Jul 9 2026 : 7:55PM
My girlfriend is free to do whatever she wants. She doesn't have to tell me about it - though I wouldn't say no if she did share the details or wanted me to be there. She hasn't wanted that yet, though. She has a particularly strong need to have a cock in her mouth, and sometimes I'm just not around. I simply want her to be able to satisfy that need. And yes, she doesn't always want just me; she wants to fuck other men, too. For me, that's not just perfectly fine; above all, I find it deeply fulfilling to know - and vividly imagine - her freely enjoying her life, even when I'm not there. It gives me more zest for life, strength, and self-confidence, too. And when we reunite and she radiates such a vibrant joy for life, there's nothing better for me. She asks, "Why should your partner be the only one to satisfy you sexually?" So, she lets me do whatever I want, too. And the best part about it isn't actually the fucking other people - it's the fact that I'm allowed to: the feeling that she grants me absolute freedom, that I am truly, completely free with her.
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