Dude, is this a serious question, or are you just trying to direct traffic to your webpage?
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DenverDon Benevolent
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Posted - Mar 9 2004 : 2:26PM
Let's assume it's a serious question. He is certainly not the first person to put a website link in as a signature.
James, it's like just about anything else. Some like it and some don't. Some of it can depend on how she may have been introduced to it (if at all), and if the first one was hard with not caring then she probably wouldn't want to try it again.
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Posted - Mar 9 2004 : 4:09PM
I see girls in films a lot doing it, I never know if they love it or not.
But that said many gay (and non gay) men seem to like somthing in there bottoms, so I guess some girls must do too.
I doubt that the prevalence of anal in porn indicates enjoyment on the part of the female talent. It's what men want to see. I mean, look at some of the stuff that's out there: would you enjoy having a 12 inch cock rammed up your hole?
There are women who like anal sex, but of course sometimes they're in the mood for it and sometimes they aren't. They're a bit more complex than men, in their likes and dislikes. Question might be, James123, is do you like anal sex?
They might not all enjoy anal, but from my experience a high percentage have a deep desire to do it because it consider a bit nasty and rough sex that many woman likes every now and then. Like swallowing! Ask any female if they swallow and they'll all deny it and act as if it's disgusting. But in reality many will swallow everything including your ball when they're really turned on. It's very easy to get a woman to open up her backdoor for a man to park his sausage if the man knows how to put her in the mood. And once she does get ready for some mind blowing anal sex.
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Posted - Mar 11 2004 : 2:46AM
Yeah reminds me of a survey I read somewhere forgot where that showed more women reached orgasm giving blowjob than vaginal sex. Something like 60% females get orgasm giving head vs like 10% with vaginal sex. Now I'm wondering what the percentage for anal would be?
I had this experience myself once, upon awakening from a dream which aroused me.
I like anal sex. I like it because it stimulates the nerve endings in the sphincter and in the whole pelvic floor in a highly pleasurable way. The sensation of "fullness" itself is an eroticized feeling for me. Also, my husband and I have always used barrier methods for birth control, so anal sex allows me to accept his semen into my rectum in a way that I am unable to accept it into my womb. This is a spiritually bonding experience for me.
There's no element of degredation/roughness in the way that we practice it. Or in any of our lovemaking, for that matter, which is our preference.
I've been wakened from dreams by my orgasm as well.
But, anyway, I found a couple of interesting things in the book Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier. In her chapter on the clitoris, she notes that Marilyn Monroe confided to a friend that despite her three husbands and "parade of lovers" she had never had an orgasm. Jeez!
There's also an interesting section on how the aroused clitoris never gets as rigid as a dick, because it lacks the mechanism that keeps blood from leaving. Of course it is not necessary for it to grow hard, as it isn't necessary for it to penetrate anything. This lack of rigidity allows it to recuperate from orgasm quickly (as it doesn't have to sort of drain and refill) and leads to the possibility of multiple orgasms.
Another interesting speculation is that the unreliability of orgasm in women is adaptive, giving females the incentive to shop around and have multiple partners. Her longer warming-up time may lead her to move on to the next guy, to finish what she started. Her sexuality may be geared to serial encounters with hair-trigger males.
And even if most woman don't like anal because they fear it will hurt them or they think it's not proper just about all of them love a really rimming back there. Hehehe..
Suggestion: Try softly rubbing, in a circular motion, a woman's knee. This is quite effective through clothing, even jeans. It seems to also be very effective in public, perhaps a party, where said woman is relaxed.
Don't expect immediate results and don't look for any. Just keep rubbing. And be aware of any private spaces near by.
I didn't always. I loved it, then it hurt then I was gun shy for like a year terrified to do it again.Now I am back to loving it. but it was a huge build up process to get here
Ask a simple question, get a simple answer: some do.
Done properly, imaginatively, lovingly, it can be the best. I've never orgasmed from anal penetration alone but combine that with the other things that go into making love, and it's superb.
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