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| JrCanon Deactivated User 623 Posts 12/12 |  Posted - Jan 13 2013 : 1:11AM[Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Jan 13 2013 : 9:27AM [Link] |
Gore Gore Girl  Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Jan 13 2013 : 2:18PM And to then add the corollary that "men and women are sexually diverse, and do not always respond to or desire the same things"? It's really as simple as that. If you don't see diversity of sexual behaviour in media, it's because the media rarely represents the diversity of humans. Many people have a lot invested in maintaining strict and "natural" differences between men and women and don't want to see media representations that contradict these beliefs. [Link] |
| joeteen Member 207 Posts 4/12 | Posted - Jan 13 2013 : 3:32PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jan 18 2013 : 2:25AM [Link] |
| joeteen Member 207 Posts 4/12 | Posted - Jan 18 2013 : 8:17PM Anyway,I decided to make a list of specific questions from the OP to make it more clear but one has to read the OP to understand them well,I got the answers to some of them thx to the help of everyone here,here they are: 1.Do women crave men's bodies as men crave theirs ? If so,what body parts do they like to kiss,caress,lick or play with ? 2.1.Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his "manly spell" till she can't resist jumpin all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as "manly spell" in that context ? If so,how is it done in a non gay way ? 2.2.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how? 3.Can a guy "beg" a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ? 4.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how? Looking for graphic answers,lol. And again I'm not talking about relationships,dating,personalities,communication (despite their importance) or bdsm.I'm talking about pure sex,initiation approaches,seduction techniques,dirty talk,moves,teasing..etc..I'm aware that men can tease and dominate/be dominated by women in other ways but I wanna focus on the aspects I've introduced here.I'm also aware that there are no rules cause people preferences vary but that goes for every subject so I'm asking about opinions,thx. Edited by - joeteen on 1/18/2013 9:23:50 PM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Jan 18 2013 : 8:52PM 1.b - That depends upon the individual woman. Some will go for what they like, others want to find what you like, but usually it is a bit of both. 2.1.Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his "manly spell" till she can't resist jumpin all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as "manly spell" in that context ? If so,how is it done in a non gay way ? 2.a - Haven't you ever gone to a dance club? What do you think is going on out there on the dance floor? 2.b - Uh, by not being gay? 2.2.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how? If she's up for that, sure. How? Depends on the woman - you figure it out. 3.Can a guy "beg" a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ? Of course he can, but, like a lot of things in sex, the outcome depends upon the personalities involved. 4.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how? If you're making the demands then you are in charge. If you really want to be dominated then at some point you have to let go of the reins. Really, joeteen, this is all something you are going to have to figure out with your partner. The only master plan is to communicate honestly and listen intently. [Link] |
| joeteen Member 207 Posts 4/12 | Posted - Jan 18 2013 : 9:20PM Edited by - joeteen on 1/18/2013 10:00:57 PM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Jan 19 2013 : 4:01AM At any rate, I would not bet money on men going by the rules, and neither would you had you been hanging with my crowd in high school. You might ask the ladies, though; I'm sure they have a different perspective on the male of the species. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jan 19 2013 : 7:21PM I would say that some women definitely do desire men the same way but I think it seems pretty obvious a lot of women simply don't. As I'm not a woman, I cannot say why this is so. But clearly when you have a situation where probably a good half of the male population feels that a woman is a woman as far as sex is concerned (Meaning if he has a willing woman, he'd good to go) and a good half of the female population appears to think most men are disgusting, there's definitely a difference. Men (generally) just love women (sexually). Women are much more fickle and unpredictable. Then again, this is a society where women have traditionally been ostracized (sometimes severely) if they appeared in any way horny. It's really hard to say what their real feelings might be when they have reason to be guarded and standoffish about it. Edited by - randomprecision on 1/19/2013 7:25:00 PM [Link] |
| BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Jan 20 2013 : 11:20PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jan 21 2013 : 12:03AM With that said, and I did edit your post so it wasn't so long and I wanted to concentrate on your original post. Often times men are fixated on a woman's features such as you so eloquently put it, men feel a need to be playing with boobs, ass and so forth. Women can have those mutual fixations, but society has made women to feel like less of a person for acting on those urges. As fun as those urges are, there is so much more to a person than sexual urges although those urges shouldn't be ignored. It really isn't all about sex in my opinion, how fun would be doing all the stuff you described with somebody who just lied there and gave you no reaction whatsoever? The complexity of human nature and relationships still continue to astonish me. What you describe in your original post are basic human natures that are hardwired into us genetically imo. Men like women and women like men in general. BUT we are a little more complex than that, as we grow and become more comfortable with our likes and dislikes it can open up whole new worlds to sexual pleasure way beyond sucking on nipples and eating pussy or sucking dick. As SSG put her thoughts into this thread, "for every guy who likes getting his toes sucked there is a girl out there who likes to suck toes." Yes I reversed the gender, but aside from sucking toes isn't it more satisfying to be with somebody who gets you mentally? I am not the man you described when you said needing and wanting in your original post so bear with me, it is tough for me to understand, but I am trying very hard. As a man what I need and want is a woman who gets with me on a mental level AND shares a physical attraction to one another. Sexually I am not opposed to much, but I will admit, prostrate stimulated orgasms are pretty darn hardcore and unbeatable!!! [Link] |
| joeteen Member 207 Posts 4/12 | Posted - Jan 21 2013 : 7:05AM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Jan 21 2013 : 8:18AM [Link] |
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