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oldguy
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3/06
Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 2:52PM
Of course we all know of places where horny people can join up to have sex with strangers but are there venues anywhere in the country where one can easily hook up and be in a place where one can simply be with ladies that like to be masturbated and they in turn like to masturbate other guests in the place? Kind of like going to a public dance hall but getting closer physically than merely dancing but not having actual genital relations, simply getting others off by touch. That is where I want to spend my spring vacation so any help in this area would be greatly appreciated.
stinkfist
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Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 3:17PM
You could try looking on this site it caters for all fetishes,you could start your own thread.Link to Fetlife
Todd Gack
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Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 6:06PM
I'd be interested to find out if there's actually a venue to the exact specs you describe. I'm thinking no.
Traditional swing clubs usually have certain nights they'll allow single men or find a female friend to tag along with. In this scenario you could be watching others have sex and stroking from a distance or potentially join in to whatever level of involvement you and the other party is comfortable with.
Way on the other side of the spectrum are "cuddle parties" where the concept is you literally cuddle with other people as a means of becoming intimate without anything sexual.
SexShopGrl
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940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 6:57PM
Um...wrong.
A sex club is a sex club. What you are allowed to do in one depends on the state and local laws as well as venue rules.
This is where I go. When we have fetish events they are held in the VIP room upstairs. And yes, people fuck openly if they want to.
Club Princeton
Singles of all genders are encouraged to join. And on fetish nights it's not hard at all to get some pick up play. Last party I attended I was asked to play the exact same game the OP suggested. I turned the guy down because I watching a very good rigging scene and he rudely interrupted me.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 1/22/2013 7:01:13 PM
Todd Gack
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Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 8:13PM
^ Thanks for correcting me and for the overall education. I really thought a swing club was a swing club for the most part. I live in the suburbs of Philly and the clubs around here had rules like single guys could only come on the 3rd Friday of the month or had to apply online with a picture; that was years ago and not sure if its similar today. Here are the two closest to me:
Pleasure Garden Philly
Saints & Sinners Philly/AC
And the nerve of that guy interrupting you! :) Hopefully you didn't miss any of the action.
Edited by - Todd Gack on 1/22/2013 8:14:27 PM
 
SexShopGrl
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F is for Forty and Fabulous!
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5/11
Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 8:46PM
Whatever the club owners want is what you get as long as they fall in with the laws. For example, I'm going to assume that the laws where those clubs are located make it hard to get a liquor license considering they are both BYOB clubs. Club Princeton serves alcohol (BYOB as well) although it is ALWAYS forbidden at BDSM and kink related events.
Both of the clubs you linked to cater to couples. Both clubs state this on their homepage and if you read the rules it pretty much coincides with that. Whereas Club Princeton is a "lifestyle" club. So with a lifestyle club you might have swingers but the club allows for other lifestyle groups to rent out the club for events. They might have a leather night, a fetish night...whatever. That being said, Club Princeton (the swinger club part of it) is all about the ladies. A single guy can buy a ticket for $50 to get in the event but single ladies are only $5.
However when my BDSM group rents the place out, it's $20 a person at the door up to 200 people. Once they have 200 guests the doors close. When I was there in December it was pretty busy but no where near 200 people.
The club I'm involved with rents out the VIP on a regular basis. It's a pretty laid back group and definately not high protocol. It's meant to bring the Dayton and Columbus and Cincinnati kink communities together but people come out from all over to be there.
Interrupting anyone in a scene will get you thrown out. Interrupting someone intently watching a scene is just bad manners.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 1/22/2013 8:47:48 PM
oldguy
Senior Member

1270 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jan 23 2013 : 9:57AM
^^^
Thanks to all who posted about my initial question, now I for sure know which path to pursue in accomplishing my goal of being pleasured without genital to genital contact, simply masturbating and being masturbated by hot ladies. Plus it is not going to cost a fortune either, a bonus right there. So many choices, so little time, I am excited!



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