Do they really enjoy double penetrations (pussy-ass, 2ass or 2pussy), facial cumshots? In my own experience I've encountered just a few that enjoy anal (the others did just for making me happy!) and maybe a couple who liked to get cum on their faces... I know there are (apparently) women that ADORE cum-parties and gangbangs but ait looks like it's only for the sake of the movies or the web. What's your experience? Girls, I'd love to hear your opinion!
I can only speak for myself .... If a woman is really into her man, she'll want to explore her sexuality. Some she'll like and some she won't and either way, you'll find your rhythm and kink. For most women, emotional connections open up new physical connections. I'm a firm believer that the healthiest way of exploring your sexuality is with one committed partner, at least to start. It creates an automatic comfort level, so you can explore new territory as your chemistry matures. As a porn star, I'll do almost everything, but yes it is a job. Porn is all about fabricating fantasy, so I focus on performing that fantasy, but the reality is that I wouldn't do some of the acts in my personal life. I'm not into cum on the face; I'd prefer to swallow. Being with multiple men is hard work and overwhelming and it's something I don't explore in my relationship, but I do enjoy adding a toy to the mix when I'm with my man. All of my sexual encounters with women outside of porn have never involved a strap-on. Keep in mind, woman prep for porn, but most don't prep for casual sex. In all the times I've done anal in my personal life, I've never bothered to fast the day before and do an enema an hour before, and thus, I've never done ATM in my personal life. I've never been making out with a girl and said, "Hey, let me go get that strap-on!" Being with a woman is exciting cause it doesn't involve a dick, or anything that resembles it. And I wouldn't encourage fucking the ass, then the pussy, then the ass without washing in between; woman can get nasty yeast and BV infections from that. I hope that through my ramble that you find some answers to your questions. Cheers. Mina
My girlfriend enjoys using her favorite vibrator (which is thicker than my own cock) in her pussy while I'm fucking her ass. She enjoys the fullness of both, and the sensation she gets on the lining between my cock and the vibrator... feels good to me, too. She says she'd like to try a real cock in her pussy while I get her ass. It surprised me that she wanted to experience a DP but also made me very happy, knowing that she really wants to fulfill some of her sexual desires. As for cum, she prefers swallowing.
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I'm sure that's true for a lot of bisexual and lesbian women but I had a good friend who used a strap on with her girlfriend in her personal life, so there's all kinds.
Mina, I just want to express my thanks also for your candor while responding to this post. It was incredibly refreshing to read such a forthright and revealing perspective. Thanks, again!
Except perhaps for Siamese Twins, there's actually no such creature as a "women". Each woman has unique likes and dislikes. There may be statistical averages and trends, but there's no uniformity.
I agree that every woman is different. I have friends in the business that love dp's, gang bangs, etc. I was just speaking for myself. I often feel like my sexual interests are more vanilla compared to other woman in the industry, but I think that's because I often feed off of my partner's personality and energy to get off, rather than pushing physical thresholds.
Mina, you speak for me on this. There are a lot of things I would never consider doing, even in fantasy, without my husband at my side. He's given me the confidence to explore my sexuality due to the love, trust and security I feel when I'm with him.
That's a sign of a good relationship, Pagoda. Most of my sexual exploration has been with my husband as well. There are a few things I've done in porn that are completely new to my horizons - like DP's, hardcore fetish and interracial, but none of the experiences compare to being with the one I love. I suppose that's not very "porn-star-slutty" of me to say, but the one thing I promised myself when I got in this business is to be honest with who I am in my interviews and forums. Anyways, cheers to good sex!
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Mina, I'm with you as far as the facials go. I know that men have a huge fixation with facials, both watching and doing but if they think it's a turn-on for their partner...well. I do consider myself a cum-freak but get turned on usually by seeing it shoot (Jacking my partner off) having it shot on my shoes or stockings or, in the occasions that I'm in a FFM threesome, seeing it on the other woman. One on one cum belongs where it was meant to go...that is where I find that it makes me feel the best. While I'm on the topic, tit-fucking! a Yet another thing that guys just don't seem to get. Yeah there is a certain visual stimulation (mental) when I'm being tit-fucked but guys, there is nothing there that you can physically arouse to the same extent that you are. If I had a dime for every guy who asked me to tit-fuck I'd have a million dollars! I've never been a fan of anal and really have to get in the right frame of mind to do it under the best of circumstances. ATM? The next time will be the first. Sorry. The only part Id' disagree with Mina is the second part of the quote. I really do get turned on by prepping for sex. The old Carly Simon song "Anticipation" comes to mind LOL. Truly though I have found that the preparation can serve as a form of foreplay that extends the sex act and makes it that much more intense.
In response to WardqueenJanine... I do agree that many men like cum facials and tit fucking. It's not that I won't do them if my husband asks me, I'm just not crazy about them. I think I'd like the tit fucking more if I had bigger tits, though. I have to admit, it's hot to watch with a big pair of titties - like Mz. Berlin. Oh well. That's cool that the preparation turns you on. Don't get me wrong - I love foreplay and teasing. I just don't get turned on my giving myself anal enema's. But you know, everyone's different.
Really? I don't. The last thing I want to do when I'm cumming is to pull out. And I don't like seeing a pretty face covered with splooge.My wife has great boobs and we've tried tit-fucking, but it isn't on my want list. I think you're over-generalizing.
"I know that men have a huge fixation with facials, both watching and doing" Not this man... I'd much rather be swallowed! "I really do get turned on by prepping for sex." Hear fuckin' hear! Hell, I can take a day or 2 working up to just jerking off!! But even better is the pleasing agony of mutual teasing and denial.... taking time to talk about what's going to happen... how good it's going to be... how great it's going to taste... how tight it's going to feel.... for hours or even days before actually doing it. When you're hungry is when food tastes best, so why wouldn't the same ring true for building an 'appetite' for sex????
(I know... not all roads fit all feet.....) Tit-fucking.... a pretty big *shrug*.... I can't say I'm chuffed one way or the other by it.... I sure don't see the point in double-anything-ing... If I wanted to rub my junk on another dudes junk, I'd be gay....
There was a time when I was 15 and my boyfriend didn't know how to fuck me in my ass correctly so I did not like anal sex... but when I entered the porn world and allowed a porn guy to stick it in my ass (not on camera yet, sorry! hehe) it was AMAZING!!! It then opened my mind to DP... and OMGGG ajsdfklj... When I masturbate I love a toy in my ass, a toy in my snatch, and a vibrator on my clit... haha! I have yet to open my mind to double vaj or double anal just because my holes are pretty tight and I think the pain might outweigh the pleasure... but who knows, maybe one day I'll try it! I love cum on my face, mostly because that means I get to taste it... but I love cum anywhere! A guy could cum anywhere and I'd think it was hot and lick it up. I have yet to be gangbanged on or off camera but I am really excited for the day when it happens... I'm 100% sure I will love it hehe!
If a sexual act exists there's SOMEONE who will like it. Personally I like all of the above, primarily just because the feeling are more acute. With DP you get the feeling of being "stuffed" (you'll just have to trust me that it feels hotter than that probably sounds). I've had some amazing g-spot orgasms that way, because with both p/a and 2P you get an intense amount of pressure against it, and the other nerve endings. I've never done double anal though. I enjoy facials because knowing the person I'm with is cumming makes me cum, and being able to physically feel that cum makes it even better. Obviously feeling that cum anywhere is good, but on my face is probably my favorite. Think about being in the shower, of course you'll feel the water pressure as it hits say, your chest, but as it hits your face you'll feel almost every individual drop, because the nerves there are a lot more sensitive. And if you enjoy the feeling of cum, you'll want to feel it as much as possible.
Sweetie, we travel in different circles. That's the first public post I've seen from you in years. And prior to that you tended to comment most on makeup and clothes. I don't want to hijack the thread, so back on topic: I don't know if they'd truly like it in real life, but I've known women who definitely had the DP fantasy. You'd mention getting them getting double-teamed and it was like watching a Christmas tree light up.
I've known two women that have done it. One said she loved it and the other didn't really care for it. I had a girlfriend who went nuts when I would finger her ass while dong it doggystyle so I'm sure she would have loved it but she would never do it. Not then anyway.
My ex-girlfriend liked having a toy in one orifice while she had my dick in the other, but we never had any threesomes, so there were no real DPs. As for coming on her face, she would have been up for it, but I just can't understand _why_ anyone would want to jerk off on a girls face when they could come inside her mouth, pussy, or ass.
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