Do you agree porn can be Great depression!!!

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lovetoeatgirls2775 Member 112 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:25AM there so many ways it seems that it really brings you so down in real life!!! i mean no doubt whatching porn is exciting for the time being, But seeing all the same male performers with all the female porn stars can sometimes get you in a downer, I be straight I am very shy guy cant talk to girls, but truth is when you whatch these movies it really does harm you in the way you look at girls in real life. for example you whatch ass eaters and you go out somewhere you going to think every girl eats ass you look at, and all you do later is come home think about that girl you saw and get depressed over her and whatch porn!!! anyone else agree or kind of agree with me. Topic Moved by - Flash on Jul 15 2010 [Link]
king acne New Member 5 Posts 7/10	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:44AM how old are you? - seriously... [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 5:12AM my cock usually gets depressed just after I nut. He just hangs there... [Link]
duefuss Member Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:14AM Now that King Acne has finished making a pompous fool of himself (seriously) with that favorite notion of stupid males that belittling others makes him cool, and we've endured Algaliarept's attempted wit, let's move on, shall we? I think it IS a real danger, not just of porn, as anti porners claim, but of ALL media, that people think it represents the real world, and that, since their own lives aren't like that, there is something wrong with THEM. And every one of us makes that mistake sometimes. Porn is FANTASY. It's make believe. Not only that, but porn, like ALL escapist entertainment ignores the complexity of real life. It's beautiful people having sex. There's no mention that the guy's breath stinks or that the girl's nose itches, or that there's five other people and a half ton of cameras and lights in the room with them. None of those details exist in the fantasy. But in reality, there's no way for the details NOT to exist. Real sex is never going to be porn. On the other hand, porn can NEVER even get near the physical pleasure and joy of real affection and arousal for another person. I wonder if you've had that experience yet. I can't believe you would let porn depress you so if you have. Don't forget, also, that a side effect of orgasm is very often a feeling of gloom and depression, particularly after whacking off alone. You are the best judge of how serious a problem this is for you. Consider whether you are blaming porn for something that has nothing to do with it. There are many simple but effective things you can do to rid yourself of such depression and disappointment, not the least of which is simply to turn the porn off for a while. Make your mind up that, shy or not, you're going to get out there and meet some girls and be yourself and have a good time. For example, what you've said here about porn and yourself and your feelings: have you ever tried being that honest and open with a girl? Many of them are flattered, impressed, and even aroused by that kind of simple honesty, just as you would be if a girl were as candid with you. You'll have to find your own way through the maze of relations with women, of course. We all do. But I can tell you that that shyness and self doubt of yours is shared by every mentally healthy hetero male on the planet; that, at some point we've all had to simply go up to a pretty girl and start a conversation even though every nerve in our bodies was telling us to run like Hell. [Link]
spitty Member 730 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:26AM In my opinion, everybody experiences something different with regards to porn.....depends on the person and situation that they're in. To me , porn is strictly for "release" purposes. I don't want any story or romance or anything like that....I don't even want to see males. I just want to see g/g videos. lesbian kissing and spitting is my fantasy scenario and it gets me off. I have a girlfriend and she's aware of my fetishes....so when she's not around, I take care of business with lesbian porn. I don't need to identify with/ nor am i threatened by males in porn. So for me, porn makes me feel great. It always has and it always will. [Link]

mcewan All-Star Member 1294 Posts 8/08	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 10:13AM Porn brings me out of a depression damn I love it. [Link]
gamer316 Deactivated User 12 Posts 7/10	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 11:07AM just have a level head bro and use some common sense "nothing" is wrong with you watching porn "like" with no gf/wife you have to please yourself somehow i look at porn as a boat/ship in the sea of life when you find land... and are ready to come to shore... (thas your choice) "till then" swim in the fantasy :) [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 12:42PM What's porn got to do with it? Young men have been depressed about their chances with women since time immemorial. Have you ever watched ducks on the water? They may look like they are gliding along effortlessly but that is just because you can't see what's going on below the surface. In other words, just because you think women are cool and calm doesn't mean they feel that way. The big difference between young women and men is that while you were running around learning guy things girls were working on their social skills. That doesn't make them goddesses, it just puts them ahead of the social game. So fine, you get to play catch-up; don't tell me you've never had to do that before. Women are still approachable, even if most of them are not going to think you're the greatest guy in the world. Hey, most guys don't think so, why should women feel any different? That's OK, some will think you're a good guy, and a few of them may decide that you might be a good boyfriend. The other good news is that finding them can be easier than you think, particularly if you share an interest in common. The key to success in any endeavor is confidence. It is not necessary to be confident in your ability to woo a woman, it is only necessary to be confident in yourself. When you approach a woman with the knowledge that you can make your own way in the world and the confidence you derive from that knowledge you will be amazed at how much more attractive you've become. [Link]
duefuss Member Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 1:58PM Hardware wrote: What's porn got to do with it? Young men have been depressed about their chances with women since time immemorial. Have you ever watched ducks on the water? They may look like they are gliding along effortlessly but that is just because you can't see what's going on below the surface. In other words, just because you think women are cool and calm doesn't mean they feel that way. The big difference between young women and men is that while you were running around learning guy things girls were working on their social skills. That doesn't make them goddesses, it just puts them ahead of the social game. So fine, you get to play catch-up; don't tell me you've never had to do that before. Women are still approachable, even if most of them are not going to think you're the greatest guy in the world. Hey, most guys don't think so, why should women feel any different? That's OK, some will think you're a good guy, and a few of them may decide that you might be a good boyfriend. The other good news is that finding them can be easier than you think, particularly if you share an interest in common. The key to success in any endeavor is confidence. It is not necessary to be confident in your ability to woo a woman, it is only necessary to be confident in yourself. When you approach a woman with the knowledge that you can make your own way in the world and the confidence you derive from that knowledge you will be amazed at how much more attractive you've become. Click to expand That's wisdom. Listen to it and all will be well. I would only add that NOBODY starts out with self confidence around women. They start out ACTING AS IF THEY WERE self confident. Confidence comes from finding out that girls won't destroy you if you talk to them, that the words "no" or even "fuck you, asshole" do not bring your existence to an end, and that, by and large, what you are is exactly what many girls what a man to be. [Link]
gulhavia Member 30 Posts 6/08	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:03PM Read Perverts are made. Not born [Link]
duefuss Member Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:18PM gulhavia wrote: Read Perverts are made. Not born Click to expand Don't bother. It's the same old crap from the the same poor bastards who blame anything for their own problems but the real cause -- themselves. Turn off the computer, now. Go find a pretty girl, say hello to her, smile, and let things happen. [Link]
saratoga120 Senior Member 1404 Posts 5/05	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:36PM Regardless . . . Riddle me this Batman. How can a topic have ten replies and five reads? [Link]
Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:10PM It's not watching porn that's depressing you, it's not having a gf that is. You are probably watching too much porn too, try cutting in down to once a week, so that it's like a treat for you. As for women, try and forget about them in sexual terms, for now. Approach them and talk to them just in terms of trying to be friends with them, the rest will fellow. As for porn sex, it's done to look good on camera, it's nothing to envy, real sex is more about affection, sensuality and perhaps love, this you will find is much more satisfing than what you see in movies. [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:10PM duefuss wrote: That's wisdom. Listen to it and all will be well. Click to expand Thank you, sir. After reading your post I almost didn't bother, so I'm pleased you found it worthwhile. Let's just hope 'lovetoeatgirls2775' finds some sense in all this. Nevermind, Bobcat's got it covered. ^ Edited by - hardware on 7/15/2010 4:11:45 PM [Link]
lovetoeatgirls2775 Member 112 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 6:55PM Thanks I appreciate what alot of you guys are saying, Very helpful advice. Yeah I guess my problem is your right I whatch porn great for the moment, then when I go out somewhere maybe i see some hideous looking guy with a cute girl, and then see myself who I will say is better then average looking cant get any girl. I admit like alot of you guys were saying its is myself like self confidence cant approach a girl. Or like if i see some hot girls and dont do anything. I come home get like all pist off and whatch porn thinking about that girl. It does not help when you have selfish friend its not fun hearing when he tells you he is meeting all these girls, Like this past weekend he met this girl and she blew him. It just kind of gets you pist off with him. Again then I thank you guys for the time to give me your advice. [Link]

Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:20PM Seeing a good looking woman with a hideous looking guy should prove to you that women do not find looks to be all that important, so stop worrying about how you look. As long as you are neat, clean, and comfortable in your own skin it won't be an issue for most women. Also, I urge you to stop watching porn, unless you can keep the idea foremost in your mind that you are watching a performance, not a live training manual. What people do in porn is acrobatics with penetration; it's a physical performance devoid of the intimate give and take that makes real sex the most beautiful act in the human universe. When you have sex with a real woman what is going to count more than anything else is your ability to be intimate with her, not how many porn moves you can perform. PS - In case you're wondering, giving birth is the most profound act in the human universe and, yes, that leaves us males a little poorer for never experiencing it. That's OK, we get to kill stuff - I kid, ladies, I kid! [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jul 16 2010 : 2:54AM Bobcat wrote: try cutting in down to once a week Click to expand I don't think I could ever get down to this amount. Its as much a habit/ritual as brushing one's teeth before bed. Although I fell asleep with porn on again last night before I had even jerked it...is that depressing enough for ya'll? [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Jul 16 2010 : 5:23AM Hmmm, "Anybody else agree or kinda agree?" I do not find porn depressing at all. Oooops, I kinda agree that it can be depressing but not for the reasons stated. I actually learn from porn, I learn interesting positions, I even like to think I learn the "Art of Fucking." I like to pick up on things, what really turns me on when I watch porn is watching a girl get off, I mean really get off with mind blowing sex. I make mental notes while watching porn and pay a great deal of attention to the female performers reaction to the male performers action. I can watch 10 similar scenes of the same sexual act and out of those 10 only one scene really seems to get the girl off. I ask myself, "What makes that scene different?" I pay attention. What I have discovered is this.... Women DO get off by getting a guy off, they want to turn him on. Women don't particularily like being "degraded" however if the "degradation" is done with respect and enthusiasm it turns them on, which turns me on. "Rough Sex," huge turn on for women IMO, but there is a fine line between rough sex and painful sex. I will elaborate on the "Rough Sex." IMO, women want to be ravished, have their clothes ripped off, bent over and get fucked like there is no tomorrow. But they don't want to go through, ummmm, systematic rough sex. Every woman is different and two people together, the chemistry has to flow. The timing has to be right, the mood has to be right, the desire and passion has to be there. In short she needs to know you want her in the most animalistic way a man can want a woman, but NOT just any woman, you have to want HER. You need to "want" her so badly that you can't even think about wanting another woman in the same way. You need to be in tune to her body as if it were a fine musical instrument. Touch her in places in ways no man has ever touched her before. Let your passion flow, feel her desire with your fingers. Hopefully some of that makes sense. You can't just ram your cock into a girls ass and say "How do you like that bitch," but you can lick it, finger it, and slowly slide yourself inside, hold it there and find her pleasure points, then fuck her harder and faster, making her cum by totally fucking her in the ass while yanking her head back with a handful of hair and biting her neck. Another key point in having "rough sex" is making sure she knows you will stop if you get too rough or do something that she doesn't like. Ooops, Got a little off topic here I think. [Link]
ekarth Deactivated User 211 Posts 1/10	Posted - Jul 17 2010 : 10:31AM You're right, I too get depressed many times, when I think of those lucky men who get to fuck MILFs like Lisa Ann. but that's part of life. But then I masturbate looking at more porn to wade off that depression [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Jul 18 2010 : 9:45PM lovetoeatgirls2775 wrote: there so many ways it seems that it really brings you so down in real life!!! Click to expand I find that real life brings me so down and porn brings me back up. [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jul 18 2010 : 11:48PM RandomPrecision wrote: lovetoeatgirls2775 wrote: there so many ways it seems that it really brings you so down in real life!!! Click to expand I find that real life brings me so down and porn brings me back up. Click to expand Although I hate that post cum depression sometimes. A comedian (whose name escapes me at the moment) talked about how old men were so free, because they didn't have to think about sex anymore. I even thought of having a vasectomy once or twice for the same reasons. There is that moment afterwards where one's thoughts are clear, sometimes I even think in that moment "what the fuck am I doing?" or "damn this is sad", etc. Edited by - algaliarept on 7/18/2010 11:50:22 PM [Link]
duefuss Member Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 12:40PM Algaliarept wrote: [Although I hate that post cum depression sometimes. A comedian (whose name escapes me at the moment) talked about how old men were so free, because they didn't have to think about sex anymore. I even thought of having a vasectomy once or twice for the same reasons. There is that moment afterwards where one's thoughts are clear, sometimes I even think in that moment "what the fuck am I doing?" or "damn this is sad", etc. Edited by - algaliarept on 7/18/2010 11:50:22 PM Click to expand As you say, post orgasm blues are normal in many folks and should go away quickly. If they don't, considered getting a medical opinion. As for the comic who thinks old men don't think about sex, or that having a vasectomy has any more effect on the libido than eating a ham sandwich, listen to this old man: BULLSHIT! [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 4:54PM Algaliarept wrote: Although I hate that post cum depression sometimes. A comedian (whose name escapes me at the moment) talked about how old men were so free, because they didn't have to think about sex anymore. I even thought of having a vasectomy once or twice for the same reasons. There is that moment afterwards where one's thoughts are clear, sometimes I even think in that moment "what the fuck am I doing?" or "damn this is sad", etc. Click to expand Wow. Just goes to show how different people are. I personally bask for a few minutes (As my mind is clear, I'm not thinking anything) and then go about my business. Let me just say that if you actually get depressed after you cum, I feel sorry for you. I don't know what else to say. It's fairly normal to lose interest in sex for a while after you climax but actual depression? No. I've only experienced that when I'm already depressed about something else. Sex is natural and positive and there's nothing to be depressed about WRT sex. Even if you're somewhat depressed about not having an actual partner, having sex is always better than not having sex even if you're doing it with your hand or an old shoe. Edited by - randomprecision on 7/19/2010 5:00:25 PM [Link]
Algaliarept Senior Member 3557 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 9:48PM RandomPrecision wrote: having sex is always better than not having sex even if you're doing it with your hand or an old shoe. Click to expand touche [Link]
JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08	Posted - Jul 23 2010 : 2:54PM I suspect the "downer" after cumming is all in your head. I can only remember having a mild case of it when I just discovered masturbation, and I haven't noticed it in any way since. [Link]

taylor_swift_tasty_feet Member 367 Posts 1/10	Posted - Aug 2 2010 : 1:26PM After I break up with a girl I avoid porn for a few weeks as it is depressing watching it and missing the real thing but after a few weeks I go back to porn I love porn and I always will. [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Aug 7 2010 : 2:46AM Blossom wrote: ... I couldn't finish & ended up crying but that was because I was looking at the hot women in the porn flick & feeling bad that men only want women with porn or stripper bodies. Click to expand That thought drives me crazy, even though there may be some truth in it, but not for all men. Why do people place so much importance on physical looks?? I was telling my friend about my dp experience and he wanted video, LOL. But I told him she isn't into video and he suggested I get a spy cam. I was like wtf??? No way. I really like the girl I am seeing and it would be a total betrayel of our trust if I were to secretly videotape our sex. So is sharing something like that verbally a betrayel of trust??? No, we already do that, she just doesn't want it on video or in her proffessional life. I feel a poll coming on. [Link]
duefuss Member Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09	Posted - Aug 7 2010 : 5:09PM Blossom wrote: Breeze just to explain why I feel or felt men only want stripper body girls, is becuz I had a boyfriend who started going to clubs & strip clubs with his buddies & then started ignoring me & I felt he liked the strippers & I felt like I had competition. Anyway, I 'm not with him anymore & sometimes I think that's how men in general are. Can you blame me for feeling that way. Click to expand You might find this article interesting. I don't believe a man's 'appreciation' of other women's figures necessarily means anything but that we are male, which, God knows, is bad enough. [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Aug 8 2010 : 12:28AM Blossom wrote: I've had to tell myself that porn is a fantasy. Only one time did I feel bad when watching porn & pleasuring myself & I couldn't finish & ended up crying but that was because I was looking at the hot women in the porn flick & feeling bad that men only want women with porn or stripper bodies. Click to expand Oh come now. This isn't always true. I have to admit that it is for a lot of men. Maybe the majority of men but not all of us. I have a taste for what a lot of men would call "average" or even "below average" women. To me, they aren't average at all but hotter than the ones who are supposedly so "hot" according to a lot of men. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 10 2010 : 2:14AM To the OP, hang in there and realize that it's just your mind making you feel down while/after viewing porn. Like others have said, it's not about the porn alone but a variety of factors. You said you are somewhat shy and believe this is a roadblock for you. I come from a similar background until at one point I just said fuck it, and started going by George Costanza's mantra from Seinfeld-that is do the opposite of what you're feeling and it may work out for you. Now this certainly doesn't apply to ALL aspects in life, lol. But in dealing with girls it helps As other posters have said, meeting these girls and realizing they don't bite (in a bad way, lol) will resolve many of your issues. If you have other barriers causing lack of self confidence, just work on eliminating them or bettering whatever it is that is impeding you. I think you'll find that watching porn won't make you nearly as depressed as you think it does. In fact, you'd be surprised how many girls out there would enjoy watching porn with you. God, I love porn! But sharing it with a girl is so cool, it's unbelievable. It can offer entertainment, education, inspiration, conversation, all kinds of things. One thing it will never make me however is depressed. Jealous of the luck of some of these male stars have to work in the industry, maybe, lol. But never depressed. It's like others have said-you will meet a girl to fuck, or a gf, or both, and I think any thoughts of porn causing any depression may begin to fade. One thing I'll add is that don't think porn causes people to look at women in a harmful way in real life. To some, yes it may, but that's them bringing their baggage in. If anything, porn has given me a more liberated view on women and opened my eyes to the fact that many of them are hornier than men, lol. To your first post, you'd be surprised at just how many of those women out there in real life could enjoy eating ass. That's what's so great about life-you never know who you'll meet. As to the post orgasm blues, I'm not a scientist but I think it's just a matter of the chemical high of an orgasm dissapating so it feels like a let down. It's really probably nothing more than that. And the fortunate ones of us rebound quicker. If you're running into it lasting longer, see a Dr. just to be sure nothing's wrong. Blossom wrote: Breeze just to explain why I feel or felt men only want stripper body girls, is becuz I had a boyfriend who started going to clubs & strip clubs with his buddies & then started ignoring me & I felt he liked the strippers & I felt like I had competition. Anyway, I 'm not with him anymore & sometimes I think that's how men in general are. Can you blame me for feeling that way. Just to touch on Blossom's comments, just understand like the other poster said, it's just guys being guys. Guys always appreciate the sexy woman form. And it doesn't always come in a stripper's body-it comes in many different types of glorious forms. Your ex may have been having fun with his buddies at a stripclub but it doesn't mean he wasn't into you. There were probably other factors at play that may have caused issues and if that's the case, then you can be thankful that he's your ex. Edited by - The Edge on 8/10/2010 2:17:11 AM [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 11 2010 : 11:47PM Blossom wrote: [/quote] Let me ask you this. Do you consider getting a lap dance cheating on your girlfriend when going out with your buddies at a club? Do you consider it normal for a guy in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship to go out to strip-clubs 3 or more times every single week. I asked my ex boyfriend not to go to clubs & he said he just went cuz his buddies did. Can male buddies who cheat influence & put peer pressure on their buddies to cheat, in other words if you hang around cheaters you'll become one yourself? If your boyfriend doesn't want to take you out but rather go drinking & to clubs with his friends is that a SIGN he is cheating or HAS cheated, or if your boyfriend has a different ringtone for different person who calls him, or if he locks is cell phone & walks away to answer every call & or is this a for sure sign- if a bf puts a picture of another girl as wallpaper on his phone, I had asked him if out of respect as his girlfriend if he'd take it off & he says, shut the fuck up about it or give me a picture of your crotch, at that point I assumed he had for SURE cheated or is cheating? I mean what are the signs. I guess I assumed that after going to strip clubs & going often causes a guy to cheat , I mean why not your g/f is not there & she'd never know & heck your buddies won't tell. I'm just trying to figure the male mentality when going to a strip club. [/quote] Hi Blossom, where to begin, lol? You bring up a lot here that wasn't alluded to before but let me give you my takes. First, since stripclubs are the main point here, no I don't think going to a stripclub is necessarily a sign a bf is cheating. And especially not at the stripclub as that, I would think, rarely happens. If anything, any cheating would be done with other girls but maybe not strippers. Not ruling it out, just saying odds-wise probably not, because strippers are there to earn money. Now, the other signs you point to may be signs he would be cheating. Not taking you out (guys always need male bonding time, but never at the expense of a gf-just like women need female bonding time too), not discussing your request for him not to go out to the stripclubs, and cursing at you for the cell phone cover are all signs he doesn't/didn't respect you. I don't think the ringtones are an issue-lots of people have different ringtones, BUT add it to your other list of items, and it definitely enhances the case against him. As far as friends who cheat creating peer pressure to make a guy cheat, well yes and no. Peer pressure certainly exists but there is a saying that says that the friends we tend to make in life often mirror ourselves to a degree. So I'd say that maybe peer pressure wouldn't make a cheater cheat, but that all the people were already cheaters who just befriended each other. And in that environment, yes it could increase the liklihood of cheating. I think you're too focused on the stripclub aspect. Like I said in my first post, I think other factors caused him to disrespect you, not needfully the stripclub. Hell many times, bf's and gf's go to stripclubs together. I think ALL of the other signs you just mentioned are your best indication that yes, he probably was cheating, and you're better off without him. Everything you mention here shows he flat out totally didn't respect you! So the male mentality is that we guys always like looking at beautiful naked women. Any guy saying otherwise is lying, pure and simple. And stripclubs are just one place to yes, have fun with the guys, while enjoying the view, so to speak, lol. Obviously, I don't know any of your relationship particulars, nor know you. From what your profile says about you and the very fact that you're a girl posting on a porn forum, tells me that you are probably open-minded. So to not be on the same page with your ex speaks more negatively about him than anything. More than anything, relationships require immense communication and it sounds like he didn't ever want to have that communication with you to make things work. But don't blame the stripclub; if he was cheating, he probably even easier, could have been doing it with a girl he met at a gas station. Hope this helps explain what I was trying to convey to you before. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 12 2010 : 10:28AM Blossom wrote: Thank you for your insight. I understand now completely about why men go to strip clubs & that the girls are there to just make money. I myself just started dancing last night at a Strip club,( I also work as a web cam model) & I can see how it's mainly married men who go there, & that they are there with their buddies just to have a good time. I also saw a lot of women there too & the girls liked me dancing on them as well & that it's just a party environment. Looking back at my relationship I realized that there were other things that caused it & not the strip clubs. Sorry to vent on a porn forum. LOL Thank you for giving me an honest opinion from my many questions. :) Click to expand No problem at all. You're right, stripclubs are often enjoyed for the party atmosphere and comraderie with the guys. I'm not saying some strippers don't do their jobs for the fun, attention, etc., but most of them do it because it's a job and they make money. I'm sure they have fun too-I hope so at least as everyone wants to work at a job they have fun at. I'm not going to say it's mostly married men who go to stripclubs though. Since you are now dancing at one, you'll end up meeting lots of single men and women too-at least they'll tell you they are single, lol. ;-) Once you befriend some of the other dancers, if you haven't already, they'll give you a good idea of what it's going to be like. Don't worry about venting. Many posters do on this board; at least yours was well thought out and written, lol. So you are a stripper and webcam model and during your relationship, sounds like you were web-camming then. I would think your ex would be kicking himself. I mean he had a gf who was an open-minded, porn-forum-visiting, future stripper and web cam model. What a fool to not realize his good fortunes. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 12 2010 : 11:10PM [/quote] Blossom wrote: I have to say I was a little nervous when I first walked out there on stage to dance & took off my top with only a thong & heels on & dancing & going up to guys & girls & putting my boobs in their face & taking my teeth & lips to take money from them on their bodies, also letting them play with my boobs & nipples, & in a standing position grinding my ass up & down their bodies on stage. On a side note I was also a little aroused as I felt a little wet after having given so many lap dances, so after work I went home & slept a little & then am doing web camming right now.:P lol Yep, he did miss out. He actually told me recently that he is sorry for abusing me as a boyfriend & sorry he hurt me so bad & wanted to know if I'd take him back but I said no. I felt a little bad as he looked like he was gonna cry, especially when he asked if we could still have sex & be just friends but I said no. I think him having left me has turned me into a wild , sex crazed girl. I went from sex phone operator, to web cam model, stripper, custom porn movies, & possibly soon to do porn films & on top of that I want to try out my sexual fantasies unless someone "tames" me. I'm a good girl gone bad so to speak but a good bad. [/quote] Lol, a bit nervous starting out huh? But it sounds like you got "into it" pretty quick. [:P)] Wow, from phone sex operator to maybe pornstar and everything in between, nice-you're on quite the journey aren't you? Your descriptions are pretty vivid, wait I'm overheating here, lol. ...let me take a break from typing...ok, I'm back now, roflmao. Your ex sounds like a typical guy. I bet he tried the puppy dog eyes too with those possible tears, lol. Good for you for not taking him back! And of course he still wanted sex even as friends. He's a guy after all, lol. But there's plenty of good guys out there who would love a stripping, webcamming gf, but who would still give you the respect you deserve. Guy sounds like a jerk, so again, good for you for not falling for his charades! I don't know if you breaking up with him has turned you into a sex-crazed girl-from the sounds of it, you might have already been there . Well, if you start down the porn route and explore your fantasies, you definitely are starting out on the right message board, lol. I wish you the best of luck and fortune on your journey. You go good girl, just enjoy the fun bad girl you have in you and enjoy the ride, and don't let anyone tame you unless you're ready to be tamed! [Link]
Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08	Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 4:46AM Blossom wrote: Anyway, I 'm not with him anymore & sometimes I think that's how men in general are. Can you blame me for feeling that way. Click to expand I can't blame anybody for how they feel. I checked out your pics and stuff. I think you are pretty hot. You should smile more!! The whole stripper thing for guys is way overexaggerated and you will soon find out that if that is what you are doing. Guys will tell you anything and make all sorts of promises they can't keep. Sorry dudes, did I lose my mancard here?? I used to frequent strip clubs, they are interesting. But for the most part not satisfying. When I go to a strip club I like to see a show, I want to see a girl work the pole with a smoke machine, I want to see her dance her ass off. Costumes are always cool, lollipops even better. You are talking to a bizarre dude who has been around the block a few times. IMO, you should just give up on guys. Set your goals and go for them. You don't need anybody but yourself. Life is not a two way street. So many times I talk to a girl who wants this and that out of a man but what is it she wants??? Make a list of stuff you want to do and do it. What difference does it make if you "do it" with someone else??? Sure it would be nice, but don't make too many sacrifices. Life is full of sacrifice. What are you willing to give up? IMO you shouldn't give up any of your dreams or goals to make somebody else happy. When you take a job, you have to sacrifice something, that sacrifice is time. When you enter a relationship, you have to sacrifice something, again, your time. Time is irreplacable. Once it is gone, it is simply gone. You either enjoyed it or you didn't. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 10:17AM Breeze wrote: "You are talking to a bizarre dude who has been around the block a few times. IMO, you should just give up on guys. Set your goals and go for them. You don't need anybody but yourself. Life is not a two way street. So many times I talk to a girl who wants this and that out of a man but what is it she wants???" With all due respect Breeze, your points are valid but I think you carry it too far. Yes, a person should always go after their dreams and goals and not let anything get in their way-and often times a relationship does get in the way, especially for women. But to say she should just give up on guys (or the point being, anyone give up on having a relationship in liu of goals,etc.) is way off base. It depends what that person wants/needs out of life for them. There's no reason both scenarios can't exist-that is to be with a significant other who supports and endorses the goals of thier partner. That's the real goal in life, for most people at least. I'm not saying people can't be perfectly happy being single and living the single life, because many, many people do so, but neither of us know Blossom well enough to offer advice of that magnitude one way or the other. It could just be she'll be happier with A guy in her life, but that her ex was the WRONG guy in her life. Take no offense to my comments Breeze, I just think the "give up on guys" pov was a bit extreme. Unless you're trying to nudge Blossom into girl-girl only porn. Note to Blossom-Nooooooo! If you enter the industry eventually, do both guys & girls-that's from a business pov and a probable fan's pov. Also Breeze mentioned seeing your pics but where are they? I'm not seeing them in your profile. Remember, I'm relatively new here, so maybe I'm missing an area? Edited by - The Edge on 8/13/2010 10:20:32 AM Edited by - The Edge on 8/13/2010 10:22:38 AM [Link]

jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04	Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 3:42PM I think it's foolish (I use the term lightly, not hurtfully) to assume that something as wide and diverse as a gender is "typically" one way or another. Some people are very affected by peer pressure. Some are not. Some people desperately want to be part of a group. Some do not. Most people want to fit into some social group of some sort: it's reflected by your dress, what you drive, where you go you, what you do. It's driven largely by your personal values, and influences them back. Most of my friends are family men/women. They go to work. They go home to their families. Things they do revolve mostly around their families. A night out with the girls or boys is usually dinner at a restaurant and a lot of chatting. The guys sometimes like Hooters so they can leer at the waitresses, or they get together and play some poker and watch some vanilla porn; and the bonding experience is more about laughing at cartoonishly fake boobs and saying how inadequate they feel compared to an enormous dildo. Then they go home to their wives and kids and life is good. I had a couple of friends who were carousers, strip club guys, etc. The ones who stayed married/together included their wives in it. The ones whose wives disapproved ended up divorced. The people you meet and what they're like depend on who you hang around. There's a scene in the original ROCKY movie that I like. Rocky is walking home a 13/14 year old girl who was hanging out on the street with some other kids who were obviously going to be rough street kids. "You hang out with nice people, you get nice friends, y'understand? You hang out with smart people, you get smart friends. You hang out with yo-yo people, you get yo-yo friends." That oversimplifies it, but the basis is true. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 11:25PM Blossom wrote: Are you laughing at me? you said you were "roflmao" ^^^^^^^^^^ hmmmmmmm I guess you are right I may have always been sex crazed & now it's triggered it even more. I've really made myself cum doing phone sex sometimes as a job & off work with random guys, to web camming as a job & off work with lots of guys to get off to. From doing full fledge solo sex shows doing what I call solo harcore, comprised of finger fucking all holes, DP ,cumming multiple times, dildo sucking & more. I also watch a lot of porn when not working, I think about men & sex a lot, I sometimes want to go up to some guys & ask to do a three way with them etc.... Sometimes getting off work & watching 4 hours of porn & making myself cum , sometimes cumming 4 or more times. I wonder if that makes me sex crazed or just slutty, extremely horny, or a nympo. I wonder if I had a fuck buddy or BF that fucked me regularly if I wouldn't be so horny all the time & think about sex so much. Dunno? I love flirting & being able to capture so to speak a guy by his balls. I've been told I turn a rock on or even turn gay guys straight. Sorry for being so vivid if it's offensive I'll turn it down a notch IF I can. :P __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Um, no I wasn't laughing at you, just laughing at where I was, um, finding myself. You were really truly getting me hot and bothered. I guess it's ok to lauugh at that, but please take it in the most positive way! [:P)] Yeah, I guess you are a bit sex crazed, from how you describe your sex shows and phone sex...oh by the way, did I forget to say that's RAD?!? I have no doubt you've gotten yourself off more than a few times. I love how you're so open about your sexuality and admit you think about men and sex so much. Not that I'm surprised-like I said, you're a girl on a porn site after all, lol. But you're what I love about the current mindset hopefully gaining traction in America, and abroad. That it's so ok for women to embrace their sexuality. 4 hour porn sessions and MMF threesomes (one of my favorites btw)? Sounds like you might be a bit slutty, horny and are a nympho, all wrapped up in one nice little package. ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with that. I have a feeling that if you have a fuck buddy and/or a bf, your horniness might even increase! Love your sense of humor too! "Turn gay guys straight"- that's priceless, and probably true! Don't worry about offending me-it's nearly impossible, and I LOVE it! As long as nobody tells you to turn down the heat (and I have no idea why they would), I wouldn't worry about it. Edited by - The Edge on 8/14/2010 12:05:14 AM [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 11:59PM Blossom wrote: Click to expand I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links. Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/ http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8 This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/ https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=2/topic_id=152545/forum_id=7/cat_id=3/152545.htm http://www.imagebam.com/image/8a0d2890901396 http://www.imagebam.com/image/3398ba90901461 http://www.imagebam.com/image/247cdd90901559 http://www.imagebam.com/image/13d4ee90901880 http://www.imagebam.com/image/c908cf90901227 http://www.imagebam.com/image/ae9f6190901224 That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc... BTW Do you have a picture on here. :) Click to expand O. M. G.!!! Thank you for the pics/vids! I wish I had seen these before my last reply to your other post as I would've addressed these on that reply. But let me say, wow, you are very sexy and beautiful!! I love women, porn, and women in porn, of all styles, looks, attitudes, etc, but wow, are you just the type I like! [:P)] And I LOVE your dresses, and, umm, barely-there dresses,lol. You have some nice choices here and I think you have a great sense of style! LOVE the red tape style as well! That's totally a lot of pics for now, so again thanks. And I'll be checking out your other posts to see if there's any more I missed. Already have your video saved and a pic of you on my computer's desktop-could...not...resist, lol! You look like an To answer your question, no, I don't have a pic on here yet. Remember, while I'm not, you are quite the exhibitionist, although, damn, that could change here for me, hehe. (Relax and take comfort fellow guy boardmembers, I'm not posting any pics for you, roflmao!). Blossom, you've got to remember, I'm kind of like a virgin on this message board, so I'm "easing" into it, hehe, but maybe in time I'll get a pic up here. Or maybe if we're both on at the sametime, there's a way I can get a pic for you to see, or we come up with an alternative way for me to show you a pic. Oh, and BTW, now, after seeing your pics, my beliefs have been confirmed even more. Your ex was a complete tool and utter fool and didn't know that he had it so good! I hope you do use your freedom from him as a springboard for happiness! Edited by - The Edge on 8/14/2010 12:00:53 AM Edited by - The Edge on 8/14/2010 12:02:08 AM Edited by - The Edge on 8/14/2010 10:59:50 AM [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 14 2010 : 12:15AM jayo wrote: I think it's foolish (I use the term lightly, not hurtfully) to assume that something as wide and diverse as a gender is "typically" one way or another. Some people are very affected by peer pressure. Some are not. Some people desperately want to be part of a group. Some do not. Most people want to fit into some social group of some sort: it's reflected by your dress, what you drive, where you go you, what you do. It's driven largely by your personal values, and influences them back. Most of my friends are family men/women. They go to work. They go home to their families. Things they do revolve mostly around their families. A night out with the girls or boys is usually dinner at a restaurant and a lot of chatting. The guys sometimes like Hooters so they can leer at the waitresses, or they get together and play some poker and watch some vanilla porn; and the bonding experience is more about laughing at cartoonishly fake boobs and saying how inadequate they feel compared to an enormous dildo. Then they go home to their wives and kids and life is good. I had a couple of friends who were carousers, strip club guys, etc. The ones who stayed married/together included their wives in it. The ones whose wives disapproved ended up divorced. The people you meet and what they're like depend on who you hang around. There's a scene in the original ROCKY movie that I like. Rocky is walking home a 13/14 year old girl who was hanging out on the street with some other kids who were obviously going to be rough street kids. "You hang out with nice people, you get nice friends, y'understand? You hang out with smart people, you get smart friends. You hang out with yo-yo people, you get yo-yo friends." That oversimplifies it, but the basis is true. Click to expand You make great points here! Love your Rocky analogy as it's so true! Sounds like you're pretty level-headed and have some level-headed friends. Everyone wants to feel connected to someone, and to feel wanted, cherished, loved, etc, whether by signicant others or close friends. The lucky ones in life are the ones that find and make those lasting relationships and friendships. You speak the truth. [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 16 2010 : 2:16AM [/quote] I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links. Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/ http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8 This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/ https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=2/topic_id=152545/forum_id=7/cat_id=3/152545.htm http://www.imagebam.com/image/8a0d2890901396 http://www.imagebam.com/image/3398ba90901461 http://www.imagebam.com/image/247cdd90901559 http://www.imagebam.com/image/13d4ee90901880 http://www.imagebam.com/image/c908cf90901227 http://www.imagebam.com/image/ae9f6190901224 That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc... BTW Do you have a picture on here. :) [/quote] Hi Blossom, I got your email, but the email address it listed didn't work after I tried to reply. Is that address not working or something? [Link]
The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10	Posted - Aug 16 2010 : 9:58AM Blossom wrote: The Edge wrote: Click to expand I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links. Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/ http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8 This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/ https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=2/topic_id=152545/forum_id=7/cat_id=3/152545.htm http://www.imagebam.com/image/8a0d2890901396 http://www.imagebam.com/image/3398ba90901461 http://www.imagebam.com/image/247cdd90901559 http://www.imagebam.com/image/13d4ee90901880 http://www.imagebam.com/image/c908cf90901227 http://www.imagebam.com/image/ae9f6190901224 That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc... BTW Do you have a picture on here. :) Click to expand Hi Blossom, I got your email, but the email address it listed didn't work after I tried to reply. Is that address not working or something? Click to expand I've gotten emails from here so I dunno why it's not working. Anyway, I sent you another email with my email address. Click to expand Thanks. I see what happened now; it shouldn't fail this time. :-) [Link]
V Venom 80 Deactivated User 49 Posts 8/11	Posted - Jul 20 2012 : 4:53AM ok it seems your issues with woman have been going on for years is asking the same questions and getting the same answers helping u? because it seems not...whether its a porn board or cartoon network board ur still gonna get the same answers. Ever hear of the expression actions speak louder than words...its YOU and YOUR actions which is preventing u from getting girls.Sure maybe u are a nice guy with a great personality but girls arent that simple especially if u have no way of showing them who u are. Your problem seems more serious than it actually is if it has been going on this long...i mean i hate to be an asshole and say stop cluttering up these boards with your personal problems but enough is enough. You have gotten tons of advice from alot of people who been kind enough to try and help or answer u if u dont take it then thats on u so please stop asking the same damn questions. You must be happy with your life alone in order to attract woman they will come along but it seems ur not happy at all...and women arent the key to happiness...once you are secure and happy with yourself so will a woman now please seek professional help or go do what everyone is telling u just stop asking the same things for years on end. [Link]

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:25AM

there so many ways it seems that it really brings you so down in real life!!! i mean no doubt whatching porn is exciting for the time being, But seeing all the same male performers with all the female porn stars can sometimes get you in a downer, I be straight I am very shy guy cant talk to girls, but truth is when you whatch these movies it really does harm you in the way you look at girls in real life. for example you whatch ass eaters and you go out somewhere you going to think every girl eats ass you look at, and all you do later is come home think about that girl you saw and get depressed over her and whatch porn!!! anyone else agree or kind of agree with me.
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king acne
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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:44AM

how old are you? - seriously...

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Algaliarept
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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 5:12AM

my cock usually gets depressed just after I nut. He just hangs there...

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:14AM

Now that King Acne has finished making a pompous fool of himself (seriously) with that favorite notion of stupid males that belittling others makes him cool, and we've endured Algaliarept's attempted wit, let's move on, shall we?
I think it IS a real danger, not just of porn, as anti porners claim, but of ALL media, that people think it represents the real world, and that, since their own lives aren't like that, there is something wrong with THEM. And every one of us makes that mistake sometimes.
Porn is FANTASY. It's make believe. Not only that, but porn, like ALL escapist entertainment ignores the complexity of real life. It's beautiful people having sex. There's no mention that the guy's breath stinks or that the girl's nose itches, or that there's five other people and a half ton of cameras and lights in the room with them. None of those details exist in the fantasy. But in reality, there's no way for the details NOT to exist. Real sex is never going to be porn.
On the other hand, porn can NEVER even get near the physical pleasure and joy of real affection and arousal for another person. I wonder if you've had that experience yet. I can't believe you would let porn depress you so if you have.
Don't forget, also, that a side effect of orgasm is very often a feeling of gloom and depression, particularly after whacking off alone.
You are the best judge of how serious a problem this is for you. Consider whether you are blaming porn for something that has nothing to do with it. There are many simple but effective things you can do to rid yourself of such depression and disappointment, not the least of which is simply to turn the porn off for a while. Make your mind up that, shy or not, you're going to get out there and meet some girls and be yourself and have a good time.
For example, what you've said here about porn and yourself and your feelings: have you ever tried being that honest and open with a girl? Many of them are flattered, impressed, and even aroused by that kind of simple honesty, just as you would be if a girl were as candid with you.
You'll have to find your own way through the maze of relations with women, of course. We all do. But I can tell you that that shyness and self doubt of yours is shared by every mentally healthy hetero male on the planet; that, at some point we've all had to simply go up to a pretty girl and start a conversation even though every nerve in our bodies was telling us to run like Hell.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:26AM

In my opinion, everybody experiences something different with regards to porn.....depends on the person and situation that they're in. To me , porn is strictly for "release" purposes. I don't want any story or romance or anything like that....I don't even want to see males. I just want to see g/g videos. lesbian kissing and spitting is my fantasy scenario and it gets me off. I have a girlfriend and she's aware of my fetishes....so when she's not around, I take care of business with lesbian porn. I don't need to identify with/ nor am i threatened by males in porn.
So for me, porn makes me feel great. It always has and it always will.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 10:13AM

Porn brings me out of a depression damn I love it.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 11:07AM

just have a level head bro and use some common sense
"nothing" is wrong with you watching porn "like" with
no gf/wife you have to please yourself somehow
i look at porn as a boat/ship in the sea of life
when you find land... and are ready to come to shore...
(thas your choice) "till then" swim in the fantasy :)

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 12:42PM

What's porn got to do with it? Young men have been depressed about their chances with women since time immemorial.
Have you ever watched ducks on the water? They may look like they are gliding along effortlessly but that is just because you can't see what's going on below the surface.
In other words, just because you think women are cool and calm doesn't mean they feel that way. The big difference between young women and men is that while you were running around learning guy things girls were working on their social skills. That doesn't make them goddesses, it just puts them ahead of the social game. So fine, you get to play catch-up; don't tell me you've never had to do that before.
Women are still approachable, even if most of them are not going to think you're the greatest guy in the world. Hey, most guys don't think so, why should women feel any different? That's OK, some will think you're a good guy, and a few of them may decide that you might be a good boyfriend. The other good news is that finding them can be easier than you think, particularly if you share an interest in common.
The key to success in any endeavor is confidence. It is not necessary to be confident in your ability to woo a woman, it is only necessary to be confident in yourself. When you approach a woman with the knowledge that you can make your own way in the world and the confidence you derive from that knowledge you will be amazed at how much more attractive you've become.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 1:58PM

Hardware wrote:
What's porn got to do with it? Young men have been depressed about their chances with women since time immemorial.
Have you ever watched ducks on the water? They may look like they are gliding along effortlessly but that is just because you can't see what's going on below the surface.
In other words, just because you think women are cool and calm doesn't mean they feel that way. The big difference between young women and men is that while you were running around learning guy things girls were working on their social skills. That doesn't make them goddesses, it just puts them ahead of the social game. So fine, you get to play catch-up; don't tell me you've never had to do that before.
Women are still approachable, even if most of them are not going to think you're the greatest guy in the world. Hey, most guys don't think so, why should women feel any different? That's OK, some will think you're a good guy, and a few of them may decide that you might be a good boyfriend. The other good news is that finding them can be easier than you think, particularly if you share an interest in common.
The key to success in any endeavor is confidence. It is not necessary to be confident in your ability to woo a woman, it is only necessary to be confident in yourself. When you approach a woman with the knowledge that you can make your own way in the world and the confidence you derive from that knowledge you will be amazed at how much more attractive you've become.
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That's wisdom. Listen to it and all will be well.
I would only add that NOBODY starts out with self confidence around women. They start out ACTING AS IF THEY WERE self confident. Confidence comes from finding out that girls won't destroy you if you talk to them, that the words "no" or even "fuck you, asshole" do not bring your existence to an end, and that, by and large, what you are is exactly what many girls what a man to be.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:03PM

Read
Perverts are made. Not born

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duefuss
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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:18PM

Don't bother. It's the same old crap from the the same poor bastards who blame anything for their own problems but the real cause -- themselves.
Turn off the computer, now. Go find a pretty girl, say hello to her, smile, and let things happen.

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saratoga120
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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 2:36PM

Regardless . . .
Riddle me this Batman. How can a topic have ten replies and five reads?

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:10PM

It's not watching porn that's depressing you, it's not having a gf that is. You are probably watching too much porn too, try cutting in down to once a week, so that it's like a treat for you. As for women, try and forget about them in sexual terms, for now. Approach them and talk to them just in terms of trying to be friends with them, the rest will fellow. As for porn sex, it's done to look good on camera, it's nothing to envy, real sex is more about affection, sensuality and perhaps love, this you will find is much more satisfing than what you see in movies.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 4:10PM

Thank you, sir. After reading your post I almost didn't bother, so I'm pleased you found it worthwhile. Let's just hope 'lovetoeatgirls2775' finds some sense in all this.
Nevermind, Bobcat's got it covered. ^
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lovetoeatgirls2775
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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 6:55PM

Thanks I appreciate what alot of you guys are saying, Very helpful advice. Yeah I guess my problem is your right I whatch porn great for the moment, then when I go out somewhere maybe i see some hideous looking guy with a cute girl, and then see myself who I will say is better then average looking cant get any girl. I admit like alot of you guys were saying its is myself like self confidence cant approach a girl. Or like if i see some hot girls and dont do anything. I come home get like all pist off and whatch porn thinking about that girl. It does not help when you have selfish friend its not fun hearing when he tells you he is meeting all these girls, Like this past weekend he met this girl and she blew him. It just kind of gets you pist off with him. Again then I thank you guys for the time to give me your advice.

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Posted - Jul 15 2010 : 9:20PM

Seeing a good looking woman with a hideous looking guy should prove to you that women do not find looks to be all that important, so stop worrying about how you look. As long as you are neat, clean, and comfortable in your own skin it won't be an issue for most women.
Also, I urge you to stop watching porn, unless you can keep the idea foremost in your mind that you are watching a performance, not a live training manual. What people do in porn is acrobatics with penetration; it's a physical performance devoid of the intimate give and take that makes real sex the most beautiful act in the human universe.
When you have sex with a real woman what is going to count more than anything else is your ability to be intimate with her, not how many porn moves you can perform.
PS - In case you're wondering, giving birth is the most profound act in the human universe and, yes, that leaves us males a little poorer for never experiencing it. That's OK, we get to kill stuff - I kid, ladies, I kid!

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Algaliarept
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Posted - Jul 16 2010 : 2:54AM

I don't think I could ever get down to this amount. Its as much a habit/ritual as brushing one's teeth before bed. Although I fell asleep with porn on again last night before I had even jerked it...is that depressing enough for ya'll?

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Breeze
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Posted - Jul 16 2010 : 5:23AM

Hmmm, "Anybody else agree or kinda agree?"
I do not find porn depressing at all. Oooops, I kinda agree that it can be depressing but not for the reasons stated.
I actually learn from porn, I learn interesting positions, I even like to think I learn the "Art of Fucking."
I like to pick up on things, what really turns me on when I watch porn is watching a girl get off, I mean really get off with mind blowing sex. I make mental notes while watching porn and pay a great deal of attention to the female performers reaction to the male performers action.
I can watch 10 similar scenes of the same sexual act and out of those 10 only one scene really seems to get the girl off. I ask myself, "What makes that scene different?" I pay attention.
What I have discovered is this....
Women DO get off by getting a guy off, they want to turn him on. Women don't particularily like being "degraded" however if the "degradation" is done with respect and enthusiasm it turns them on, which turns me on. "Rough Sex," huge turn on for women IMO, but there is a fine line between rough sex and painful sex.
I will elaborate on the "Rough Sex." IMO, women want to be ravished, have their clothes ripped off, bent over and get fucked like there is no tomorrow. But they don't want to go through, ummmm, systematic rough sex. Every woman is different and two people together, the chemistry has to flow. The timing has to be right, the mood has to be right, the desire and passion has to be there. In short she needs to know you want her in the most animalistic way a man can want a woman, but NOT just any woman, you have to want HER. You need to "want" her so badly that you can't even think about wanting another woman in the same way. You need to be in tune to her body as if it were a fine musical instrument. Touch her in places in ways no man has ever touched her before. Let your passion flow, feel her desire with your fingers.
Hopefully some of that makes sense.
You can't just ram your cock into a girls ass and say "How do you like that bitch," but you can lick it, finger it, and slowly slide yourself inside, hold it there and find her pleasure points, then fuck her harder and faster, making her cum by totally fucking her in the ass while yanking her head back with a handful of hair and biting her neck.
Another key point in having "rough sex" is making sure she knows you will stop if you get too rough or do something that she doesn't like.
Ooops, Got a little off topic here I think.

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ekarth
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Posted - Jul 17 2010 : 10:31AM

You're right, I too get depressed many times, when I think of those lucky men who get to fuck MILFs like Lisa Ann.
but that's part of life. But then I masturbate looking at more porn to wade off that depression

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RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jul 18 2010 : 9:45PM

I find that real life brings me so down and porn brings me back up.

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Algaliarept
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Posted - Jul 18 2010 : 11:48PM

Although I hate that post cum depression sometimes. A comedian (whose name escapes me at the moment) talked about how old men were so free, because they didn't have to think about sex anymore. I even thought of having a vasectomy once or twice for the same reasons. There is that moment afterwards where one's thoughts are clear, sometimes I even think in that moment "what the fuck am I doing?" or "damn this is sad", etc.

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duefuss
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Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 12:40PM

As you say, post orgasm blues are normal in many folks and should go away quickly. If they don't, considered getting a medical opinion.
As for the comic who thinks old men don't think about sex, or that having a vasectomy has any more effect on the libido than eating a ham sandwich, listen to this old man: BULLSHIT!

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RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 4:54PM

Wow. Just goes to show how different people are. I personally bask for a few minutes (As my mind is clear, I'm not thinking anything) and then go about my business.
Let me just say that if you actually get depressed after you cum, I feel sorry for you. I don't know what else to say. It's fairly normal to lose interest in sex for a while after you climax but actual depression? No. I've only experienced that when I'm already depressed about something else. Sex is natural and positive and there's nothing to be depressed about WRT sex. Even if you're somewhat depressed about not having an actual partner, having sex is always better than not having sex even if you're doing it with your hand or an old shoe.
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Algaliarept
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Posted - Jul 19 2010 : 9:48PM

touche

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JohnW
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Posted - Jul 23 2010 : 2:54PM

I suspect the "downer" after cumming is all in your head. I can only remember having a mild case of it when I just discovered masturbation, and I haven't noticed it in any way since.

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Posted - Aug 2 2010 : 1:26PM

After I break up with a girl I avoid porn for a few weeks as it is depressing watching it and missing the real thing but after a few weeks I go back to porn I love porn and I always will.

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Breeze
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Posted - Aug 7 2010 : 2:46AM

That thought drives me crazy, even though there may be some truth in it, but not for all men.
Why do people place so much importance on physical looks?? I was telling my friend about my dp experience and he wanted video, LOL. But I told him she isn't into video and he suggested I get a spy cam.
I was like wtf??? No way. I really like the girl I am seeing and it would be a total betrayel of our trust if I were to secretly videotape our sex. So is sharing something like that verbally a betrayel of trust??? No, we already do that, she just doesn't want it on video or in her proffessional life. I feel a poll coming on.

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duefuss
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Posted - Aug 7 2010 : 5:09PM

You might find this article interesting. I don't believe a man's 'appreciation' of other women's figures necessarily means anything but that we are male, which, God knows, is bad enough.

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RandomPrecision
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Posted - Aug 8 2010 : 12:28AM

Oh come now. This isn't always true. I have to admit that it is for a lot of men. Maybe the majority of men but not all of us. I have a taste for what a lot of men would call "average" or even "below average" women. To me, they aren't average at all but hotter than the ones who are supposedly so "hot" according to a lot of men.

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The Edge
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Posted - Aug 10 2010 : 2:14AM

To the OP, hang in there and realize that it's just your mind making you feel down while/after viewing porn. Like others have said, it's not about the porn alone but a variety of factors. You said you are somewhat shy and believe this is a roadblock for you. I come from a similar background until at one point I just said fuck it, and started going by George Costanza's mantra from Seinfeld-that is do the opposite of what you're feeling and it may work out for you. Now this certainly doesn't apply to ALL aspects in life, lol.
But in dealing with girls it helps As other posters have said, meeting these girls and realizing they don't bite (in a bad way, lol) will resolve many of your issues. If you have other barriers causing lack of self confidence, just work on eliminating them or bettering whatever it is that is impeding you. I think you'll find that watching porn won't make you nearly as depressed as you think it does. In fact, you'd be surprised how many girls out there would enjoy watching porn with you.
God, I love porn! But sharing it with a girl is so cool, it's unbelievable. It can offer entertainment, education, inspiration, conversation, all kinds of things. One thing it will never make me however is depressed. Jealous of the luck of some of these male stars have to work in the industry, maybe, lol. But never depressed. It's like others have said-you will meet a girl to fuck, or a gf, or both, and I think any thoughts of porn causing any depression may begin to fade.
One thing I'll add is that don't think porn causes people to look at women in a harmful way in real life. To some, yes it may, but that's them bringing their baggage in. If anything, porn has given me a more liberated view on women and opened my eyes to the fact that many of them are hornier than men, lol. To your first post, you'd be surprised at just how many of those women out there in real life could enjoy eating ass. That's what's so great about life-you never know who you'll meet.
As to the post orgasm blues, I'm not a scientist but I think it's just a matter of the chemical high of an orgasm dissapating so it feels like a let down. It's really probably nothing more than that. And the fortunate ones of us rebound quicker. If you're running into it lasting longer, see a Dr. just to be sure nothing's wrong.
Blossom wrote:
Breeze just to explain why I feel or felt men only want stripper body girls, is becuz I had a boyfriend who started going to clubs & strip clubs with his buddies & then started ignoring me & I felt he liked the strippers & I felt like I had competition. Anyway, I 'm not with him anymore & sometimes I think that's how men in general are. Can you blame me for feeling that way.
Just to touch on Blossom's comments, just understand like the other poster said, it's just guys being guys. Guys always appreciate the sexy woman form. And it doesn't always come in a stripper's body-it comes in many different types of glorious forms. Your ex may have been having fun with his buddies at a stripclub but it doesn't mean he wasn't into you. There were probably other factors at play that may have caused issues and if that's the case, then you can be thankful that he's your ex.
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Posted - Aug 11 2010 : 11:47PM

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Let me ask you this. Do you consider getting a lap dance cheating on your girlfriend when going out with your buddies at a club? Do you consider it normal for a guy in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship to go out to strip-clubs 3 or more times every single week. I asked my ex boyfriend not to go to clubs & he said he just went cuz his buddies did. Can male buddies who cheat influence & put peer pressure on their buddies to cheat, in other words if you hang around cheaters you'll become one yourself?
If your boyfriend doesn't want to take you out but rather go drinking & to clubs with his friends is that a SIGN he is cheating or HAS cheated, or if your boyfriend has a different ringtone for different person who calls him, or if he locks is cell phone & walks away to answer every call & or is this a for sure sign- if a bf puts a picture of another girl as wallpaper on his phone, I had asked him if out of respect as his girlfriend if he'd take it off & he says, shut the fuck up about it or give me a picture of your crotch, at that point I assumed he had for SURE cheated or is cheating? I mean what are the signs. I guess I assumed that after going to strip clubs & going often causes a guy to cheat , I mean why not your g/f is not there & she'd never know & heck your buddies won't tell. I'm just trying to figure the male mentality when going to a strip club.
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Hi Blossom, where to begin, lol? You bring up a lot here that wasn't alluded to before but let me give you my takes. First, since stripclubs are the main point here, no I don't think going to a stripclub is necessarily a sign a bf is cheating. And especially not at the stripclub as that, I would think, rarely happens. If anything, any cheating would be done with other girls but maybe not strippers. Not ruling it out, just saying odds-wise probably not, because strippers are there to earn money.
Now, the other signs you point to may be signs he would be cheating. Not taking you out (guys always need male bonding time, but never at the expense of a gf-just like women need female bonding time too), not discussing your request for him not to go out to the stripclubs, and cursing at you for the cell phone cover are all signs he doesn't/didn't respect you. I don't think the ringtones are an issue-lots of people have different ringtones, BUT add it to your other list of items, and it definitely enhances the case against him.
As far as friends who cheat creating peer pressure to make a guy cheat, well yes and no. Peer pressure certainly exists but there is a saying that says that the friends we tend to make in life often mirror ourselves to a degree. So I'd say that maybe peer pressure wouldn't make a cheater cheat, but that all the people were already cheaters who just befriended each other. And in that environment, yes it could increase the liklihood of cheating.
I think you're too focused on the stripclub aspect. Like I said in my first post, I think other factors caused him to disrespect you, not needfully the stripclub. Hell many times, bf's and gf's go to stripclubs together. I think ALL of the other signs you just mentioned are your best indication that yes, he probably was cheating, and you're better off without him. Everything you mention here shows he flat out totally didn't respect you! So the male mentality is that we guys always like looking at beautiful naked women. Any guy saying otherwise is lying, pure and simple. And stripclubs are just one place to yes, have fun with the guys, while enjoying the view, so to speak, lol.
Obviously, I don't know any of your relationship particulars, nor know you. From what your profile says about you and the very fact that you're a girl posting on a porn forum, tells me that you are probably open-minded. So to not be on the same page with your ex speaks more negatively about him than anything. More than anything, relationships require immense communication and it sounds like he didn't ever want to have that communication with you to make things work. But don't blame the stripclub; if he was cheating, he probably even easier, could have been doing it with a girl he met at a gas station. Hope this helps explain what I was trying to convey to you before.

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Posted - Aug 12 2010 : 10:28AM

No problem at all. You're right, stripclubs are often enjoyed for the party atmosphere and comraderie with the guys. I'm not saying some strippers don't do their jobs for the fun, attention, etc., but most of them do it because it's a job and they make money. I'm sure they have fun too-I hope so at least as everyone wants to work at a job they have fun at.
I'm not going to say it's mostly married men who go to stripclubs though. Since you are now dancing at one, you'll end up meeting lots of single men and women too-at least they'll tell you they are single, lol. ;-) Once you befriend some of the other dancers, if you haven't already, they'll give you a good idea of what it's going to be like.
Don't worry about venting. Many posters do on this board; at least yours was well thought out and written, lol. So you are a stripper and webcam model and during your relationship, sounds like you were web-camming then. I would think your ex would be kicking himself. I mean he had a gf who was an open-minded, porn-forum-visiting, future stripper and web cam model. What a fool to not realize his good fortunes.

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Posted - Aug 12 2010 : 11:10PM

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Blossom wrote:
I have to say I was a little nervous when I first walked out there on stage to dance & took off my top with only a thong & heels on & dancing & going up to guys & girls & putting my boobs in their face & taking my teeth & lips to take money from them on their bodies, also letting them play with my boobs & nipples, & in a standing position grinding my ass up & down their bodies on stage.
On a side note I was also a little aroused as I felt a little wet after having given so many lap dances, so after work I went home & slept a little & then am doing web camming right now.:P lol
Yep, he did miss out. He actually told me recently that he is sorry for abusing me as a boyfriend & sorry he hurt me so bad & wanted to know if I'd take him back but I said no. I felt a little bad as he looked like he was gonna cry, especially when he asked if we could still have sex & be just friends but I said no.
I think him having left me has turned me into a wild , sex crazed girl. I went from sex phone operator, to web cam model, stripper, custom porn movies, & possibly soon to do porn films & on top of that I want to try out my sexual fantasies unless someone "tames" me. I'm a good girl gone bad so to speak but a good bad.
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Lol, a bit nervous starting out huh? But it sounds like you got "into it" pretty quick. [:P)] Wow, from phone sex operator to maybe pornstar and everything in between, nice-you're on quite the journey aren't you? Your descriptions are pretty vivid, wait I'm overheating here, lol.

...let me take a break from typing...ok, I'm back now, roflmao.
Your ex sounds like a typical guy. I bet he tried the puppy dog eyes too with those possible tears, lol. Good for you for not taking him back! And of course he still wanted sex even as friends. He's a guy after all, lol. But there's plenty of good guys out there who would love a stripping, webcamming gf, but who would still give you the respect you deserve. Guy sounds like a jerk, so again, good for you for not falling for his charades!
I don't know if you breaking up with him has turned you into a sex-crazed girl-from the sounds of it, you might have already been there

. Well, if you start down the porn route and explore your fantasies, you definitely are starting out on the right message board, lol. I wish you the best of luck and fortune on your journey. You go good girl, just enjoy the fun bad girl you have in you and enjoy the ride, and don't let anyone tame you unless you're ready to be tamed!

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Breeze
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Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 4:46AM

I can't blame anybody for how they feel. I checked out your pics and stuff. I think you are pretty hot. You should smile more!! The whole stripper thing for guys is way overexaggerated and you will soon find out that if that is what you are doing. Guys will tell you anything and make all sorts of promises they can't keep. Sorry dudes, did I lose my mancard here??
I used to frequent strip clubs, they are interesting. But for the most part not satisfying. When I go to a strip club I like to see a show, I want to see a girl work the pole with a smoke machine, I want to see her dance her ass off. Costumes are always cool, lollipops even better.
You are talking to a bizarre dude who has been around the block a few times. IMO, you should just give up on guys. Set your goals and go for them. You don't need anybody but yourself. Life is not a two way street. So many times I talk to a girl who wants this and that out of a man but what is it she wants???
Make a list of stuff you want to do and do it. What difference does it make if you "do it" with someone else??? Sure it would be nice, but don't make too many sacrifices.
Life is full of sacrifice. What are you willing to give up? IMO you shouldn't give up any of your dreams or goals to make somebody else happy.
When you take a job, you have to sacrifice something, that sacrifice is time. When you enter a relationship, you have to sacrifice something, again, your time.
Time is irreplacable.
Once it is gone, it is simply gone. You either enjoyed it or you didn't.

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Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 10:17AM

Breeze wrote:
"You are talking to a bizarre dude who has been around the block a few times. IMO, you should just give up on guys. Set your goals and go for them. You don't need anybody but yourself. Life is not a two way street. So many times I talk to a girl who wants this and that out of a man but what is it she wants???"
With all due respect Breeze, your points are valid but I think you carry it too far. Yes, a person should always go after their dreams and goals and not let anything get in their way-and often times a relationship does get in the way, especially for women.
But to say she should just give up on guys (or the point being, anyone give up on having a relationship in liu of goals,etc.) is way off base. It depends what that person wants/needs out of life for them. There's no reason both scenarios can't exist-that is to be with a significant other who supports and endorses the goals of thier partner. That's the real goal in life, for most people at least. I'm not saying people can't be perfectly happy being single and living the single life, because many, many people do so, but neither of us know Blossom well enough to offer advice of that magnitude one way or the other. It could just be she'll be happier with A guy in her life, but that her ex was the WRONG guy in her life.
Take no offense to my comments Breeze, I just think the "give up on guys" pov was a bit extreme. Unless you're trying to nudge Blossom into girl-girl only porn.

Note to Blossom-Nooooooo! If you enter the industry eventually, do both guys & girls-that's from a business pov and a probable fan's pov.

Also Breeze mentioned seeing your pics but where are they? I'm not seeing them in your profile. Remember, I'm relatively new here, so maybe I'm missing an area?
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Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 3:42PM

I think it's foolish (I use the term lightly, not hurtfully) to assume that something as wide and diverse as a gender is "typically" one way or another. Some people are very affected by peer pressure. Some are not. Some people desperately want to be part of a group. Some do not. Most people want to fit into some social group of some sort: it's reflected by your dress, what you drive, where you go you, what you do. It's driven largely by your personal values, and influences them back.
Most of my friends are family men/women. They go to work. They go home to their families. Things they do revolve mostly around their families. A night out with the girls or boys is usually dinner at a restaurant and a lot of chatting. The guys sometimes like Hooters so they can leer at the waitresses, or they get together and play some poker and watch some vanilla porn; and the bonding experience is more about laughing at cartoonishly fake boobs and saying how inadequate they feel compared to an enormous dildo. Then they go home to their wives and kids and life is good.
I had a couple of friends who were carousers, strip club guys, etc. The ones who stayed married/together included their wives in it. The ones whose wives disapproved ended up divorced.
The people you meet and what they're like depend on who you hang around.
There's a scene in the original ROCKY movie that I like. Rocky is walking home a 13/14 year old girl who was hanging out on the street with some other kids who were obviously going to be rough street kids. "You hang out with nice people, you get nice friends, y'understand? You hang out with smart people, you get smart friends. You hang out with yo-yo people, you get yo-yo friends."
That oversimplifies it, but the basis is true.

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Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 11:25PM

Blossom wrote:
Are you laughing at me? you said you were "roflmao" ^^^^^^^^^^
hmmmmmmm
I guess you are right I may have always been sex crazed & now it's triggered it even more. I've really made myself cum doing phone sex sometimes as a job & off work with random guys, to web camming as a job & off work with lots of guys to get off to. From doing full fledge solo sex shows doing what I call solo harcore, comprised of finger fucking all holes, DP ,cumming multiple times, dildo sucking & more. I also watch a lot of porn when not working, I think about men & sex a lot, I sometimes want to go up to some guys & ask to do a three way with them etc.... Sometimes getting off work & watching 4 hours of porn & making myself cum , sometimes cumming 4 or more times. I wonder if that makes me sex crazed or just slutty, extremely horny, or a nympo. I wonder if I had a fuck buddy or BF that fucked me regularly if I wouldn't be so horny all the time & think about sex so much. Dunno? I love flirting & being able to capture so to speak a guy by his balls. I've been told I turn a rock on or even turn gay guys straight.
Sorry for being so vivid if it's offensive I'll turn it down a notch IF I can. :P
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Um, no I wasn't laughing at you, just laughing at where I was, um, finding myself. You were really truly getting me hot and bothered. I guess it's ok to lauugh at that, but please take it in the most positive way! [:P)]
Yeah, I guess you are a bit sex crazed, from how you describe your sex shows and phone sex...oh by the way, did I forget to say that's RAD?!? I have no doubt you've gotten yourself off more than a few times. I love how you're so open about your sexuality and admit you think about men and sex so much. Not that I'm surprised-like I said, you're a girl on a porn site after all, lol. But you're what I love about the current mindset hopefully gaining traction in America, and abroad. That it's so ok for women to embrace their sexuality. 4 hour porn sessions and MMF threesomes (one of my favorites btw)? Sounds like you might be a bit slutty, horny and are a nympho, all wrapped up in one nice little package. ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with that.

I have a feeling that if you have a fuck buddy and/or a bf, your horniness might even increase!
Love your sense of humor too! "Turn gay guys straight"- that's priceless, and probably true! Don't worry about offending me-it's nearly impossible, and I LOVE it! As long as nobody tells you to turn down the heat (and I have no idea why they would), I wouldn't worry about it.

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Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 11:59PM

I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links.
Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/
http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8
This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php
More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/
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That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc...
BTW Do you have a picture on here. :)

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O. M. G.!!! Thank you for the pics/vids! I wish I had seen these before my last reply to your other post as I would've addressed these on that reply. But let me say, wow, you are very sexy and beautiful!! I love women, porn, and women in porn, of all styles, looks, attitudes, etc, but wow, are you just the type I like! [:P)] And I LOVE your dresses, and, umm, barely-there dresses,lol. You have some nice choices here and I think you have a great sense of style! LOVE the red tape style as well! That's totally a lot of pics for now, so again thanks. And I'll be checking out your other posts to see if there's any more I missed. Already have your video saved and a pic of you on my computer's desktop-could...not...resist, lol! You look like an

To answer your question, no, I don't have a pic on here yet. Remember, while I'm not, you are quite the exhibitionist, although, damn, that could change here for me, hehe. (Relax and take comfort fellow guy boardmembers, I'm not posting any pics for you, roflmao!). Blossom, you've got to remember, I'm kind of like a virgin on this message board, so I'm "easing" into it, hehe, but maybe in time I'll get a pic up here. Or maybe if we're both on at the sametime, there's a way I can get a pic for you to see, or we come up with an alternative way for me to show you a pic.

Oh, and BTW, now, after seeing your pics, my beliefs have been confirmed even more. Your ex was a complete tool and utter fool and didn't know that he had it so good! I hope you do use your freedom from him as a springboard for happiness!
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Posted - Aug 14 2010 : 12:15AM

jayo wrote:
I think it's foolish (I use the term lightly, not hurtfully) to assume that something as wide and diverse as a gender is "typically" one way or another. Some people are very affected by peer pressure. Some are not. Some people desperately want to be part of a group. Some do not. Most people want to fit into some social group of some sort: it's reflected by your dress, what you drive, where you go you, what you do. It's driven largely by your personal values, and influences them back.
Most of my friends are family men/women. They go to work. They go home to their families. Things they do revolve mostly around their families. A night out with the girls or boys is usually dinner at a restaurant and a lot of chatting. The guys sometimes like Hooters so they can leer at the waitresses, or they get together and play some poker and watch some vanilla porn; and the bonding experience is more about laughing at cartoonishly fake boobs and saying how inadequate they feel compared to an enormous dildo. Then they go home to their wives and kids and life is good.
I had a couple of friends who were carousers, strip club guys, etc. The ones who stayed married/together included their wives in it. The ones whose wives disapproved ended up divorced.
The people you meet and what they're like depend on who you hang around.
There's a scene in the original ROCKY movie that I like. Rocky is walking home a 13/14 year old girl who was hanging out on the street with some other kids who were obviously going to be rough street kids. "You hang out with nice people, you get nice friends, y'understand? You hang out with smart people, you get smart friends. You hang out with yo-yo people, you get yo-yo friends."
That oversimplifies it, but the basis is true.
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You make great points here! Love your Rocky analogy as it's so true! Sounds like you're pretty level-headed and have some level-headed friends. Everyone wants to feel connected to someone, and to feel wanted, cherished, loved, etc, whether by signicant others or close friends. The lucky ones in life are the ones that find and make those lasting relationships and friendships. You speak the truth.

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Posted - Aug 16 2010 : 2:16AM

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I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links.
Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/
http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8
This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php
More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/
https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=2/topic_id=152545/forum_id=7/cat_id=3/152545.htm
http://www.imagebam.com/image/8a0d2890901396
http://www.imagebam.com/image/3398ba90901461
http://www.imagebam.com/image/247cdd90901559
http://www.imagebam.com/image/13d4ee90901880
http://www.imagebam.com/image/c908cf90901227
http://www.imagebam.com/image/ae9f6190901224
That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc...
BTW Do you have a picture on here. :)
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Hi Blossom,
I got your email, but the email address it listed didn't work after I tried to reply. Is that address not working or something?

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Posted - Aug 16 2010 : 9:58AM

Blossom wrote:
The Edge wrote:
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I have some of my photo's on here , here's some links.
Here are a few free videos to check me out. http://www.bigcamtube.com/models/christi-collins/
http://depositfiles.com/files/p2uu9upx8
This link is some pic's. http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/christi_collins/about.php
More videos (not for free but have pic's )http://www.flirt4free.com/vod/models/73837/
https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/whichpage=2/topic_id=152545/forum_id=7/cat_id=3/152545.htm
http://www.imagebam.com/image/8a0d2890901396
http://www.imagebam.com/image/3398ba90901461
http://www.imagebam.com/image/247cdd90901559
http://www.imagebam.com/image/13d4ee90901880
http://www.imagebam.com/image/c908cf90901227
http://www.imagebam.com/image/ae9f6190901224
That should be more than enough for now. Or you can just go to my profile & look up my crazy forum postings from true sex stories to silly rants & questions, polls etc...
BTW Do you have a picture on here. :)
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Hi Blossom,
I got your email, but the email address it listed didn't work after I tried to reply. Is that address not working or something?

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I've gotten emails from here so I dunno why it's not working. Anyway, I sent you another email with my email address.

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Thanks. I see what happened now; it shouldn't fail this time. :-)

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ok it seems your issues with woman have been going on for years is asking the same questions and getting the same answers helping u? because it seems not...whether its a porn board or cartoon network board ur still gonna get the same answers.
Ever hear of the expression actions speak louder than words...its YOU and YOUR actions which is preventing u from getting girls.Sure maybe u are a nice guy with a great personality but girls arent that simple especially if u have no way of showing them who u are.
Your problem seems more serious than it actually is if it has been going on this long...i mean i hate to be an asshole and say stop cluttering up these boards with your personal problems but enough is enough. You have gotten tons of advice from alot of people who been kind enough to try and help or answer u if u dont take it then thats on u so please stop asking the same damn questions.
You must be happy with your life alone in order to attract woman they will come along but it seems ur not happy at all...and women arent the key to happiness...once you are secure and happy with yourself so will a woman now please seek professional help or go do what everyone is telling u just stop asking the same things for years on end.

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