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IdiotWind
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6 Posts
8/06
Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 1:07PM
The best explanation I've heard is from a girlfriend years ago when the subject of penis size came up one time. She said, "Think of it like this. You love ice cream, right? There's good ice cream and there's great ice cream, but there really isn't much ice cream that you don't like. Same with penis size. For a lot of women, bigger is better, but even average or even less is still a treat."
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 3:01PM
absynth, my son, you had your first boner.
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 3:06PM
Seriously though, I hit puberty late too, didn't get pubes until I was about 13 or 14, must have been a result of jacking off. I hope there's some growth left in me!
Ha ha. Then I'd be hung like a donkey.
I'm only on the plus side of average but most women do complain about hurting when I go full throttle.
Makes you wonder how these porn chicks can take a beating with a 9 or 10 incher and show no sign of discomfort, what with the average box being 6" deep.

I had my fun and that's all that matters.

absynth
Member

absynth makes the heart grow fonder
434 Posts
8/06
Posted - Jan 14 2008 : 6:07AM
 
Lala
Member

What a splendid head, yet no brain.
29 Posts
1/08
Posted - Jan 14 2008 : 7:00AM
Fun? More work, you mean.
I'd take a smaller size any day! Easier to play and please.
Lala
Member

What a splendid head, yet no brain.
29 Posts
1/08
Posted - Jan 14 2008 : 7:05AM
Do not agree.
Oral and anal - smaller the better.
But... I can only speak for myself.
Also... just a life observation: guys less equipped will spend more time concentrating on you. And that is always nice.

Cryogenix
Member

84 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jan 17 2008 : 2:09PM
Speaking as a straight male, I can say that my size mattered to me and complicated things when I was a teen. It always seemed the girls I was having sex with were so incredibly tight that it hurt me to fuck them. I soon realized that I had an above-average cock that most girls couldn't take comfortably, so I began focusing more on pleasuring them more through full-body touching and oral play rather than intercourse.
Now speaking as a guy who loves all kinds of sex from gentle to wild to sensual to painful and with things that were meant to be used on women or in the woodshop or in the kitchen (lol), a couple of freaky girlfriends and some dominatrixs loved shoving dildos and dongs where the sun didn't shine (in me, that is), and I gotta say that as they progressed with bigger toys, the sensations were increasingly better and different, and I began to hope that this time they'd use the John Holmes instead of the Peter North, since the smaller one just didn't produce that great feeling of fullness that had me writhing and groaning in pleasure. After being with another girl for awhile and not having any sort of anal play for 2 years, and then going back to it later on with a different girl, I found a small dong was more than enough to please me. I suppose just like what happens to a woman after 6 months of no sex, the muscle snaps back and everything becomes tight and virginesque again.
So, does size matter? I guess it all depends on the size you've had and whether the experience was good or bad. If you've had nothing but big and then went to small, you might not enjoy it as much. Also, the whole mental aspect of "it's so big" does factor in heavily while enjoying the sensations. It does take your mind to a different place during sex. I enjoy imagining myself filling her up as much as she enjoys imagining she can't take it all.
Edited by - Cryogenix on 1/17/2008 2:21:49 PM
RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jan 22 2008 : 3:55PM
I've commented in this thread and I shall do so once more. And I'll probably contradict myself. I haven't read my earlier comments but my opinions are always evolving.
Obviously, size matters to some people. Size even matters to the person who owns the package. I'm a good 7" (at least), which is considered average and I'm not complaining. But I sure wouldn't complain about having another 2 inches or so. Both in length and girth. Let's face it. Big dicks are exciting. Even if you're straight, you probably don't want to watch a hot chick get boned by a dude with a tiny weenie. It's hot to see a hottie stretching her lips around a big dick.
I know when I'm jacking off, the harder I get (and thus, the bigger), the more aroused I get just by seeing how much it grows between being slightly turned on and really fucking horny.
melaniescottxxx
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75 Posts
10/07
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 1:37AM
Size matters to a certain extent but it is very true that a man needs to use it well.It also depends on the internal make-up of every individual women..the hard part. I've been rocked by 5 perfect inches,I've been dissapointed by ten.
katsirk
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Crush on Greg....mmm
812 Posts
7/06
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 7:27AM
Nice RP!!
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 2:50PM
Mmmm, jazz... nice.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 4:22PM
This thread probably should have been entitled, "Does penis size really matter to you?".
Because it matters (or doesn't matter) to different people in differing degrees.
Regardless, you can almost always depend on guys to find a reason to feel badly about themselves -- their penis is too small, their bank account is too small, their hair-follicle count is too small. The list of self-defeating mantras goes on and on.
elgringoviejo58
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1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 4:47PM
Does anyone recall an old tune recorded by Frank Zappa and The Mothers of Invention entitled "Penis Dimension"?
studioline
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303 Posts
8/07
Posted - Jan 23 2008 : 6:42PM
Size didn't matter before but nowadays when almost all females are exposed to porn where almost all performers have very huge cocks, women have become more demanding and judjemental. So yes, in a more psycological sense SIZE DOES MATTER.
A friend of mine who has a large penis got a reputation about his penis size which got him in bed with almost all the girls in the office. I still can't believe how most of the women here shared this guy's cock when they wouldn't even share a cab or a bottle of Coke.
 
JONNYESS
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217 Posts
12/06
Posted - Jan 29 2008 : 6:41PM
Look at Tommy Lee. This guy's proportions are legendary courtesy of homemade porn, and despite his having Hep-C, women can't line up fast enough to have their shot at him.
This exemplifies superficiality in females that rivals any male on the planet, and the fact that there are significant health risks is especially concerning.
studioline
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303 Posts
8/07
Posted - Jan 29 2008 : 8:40PM
+1
redhead
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Not so redhead these days...
718 Posts
1/08
Posted - Feb 27 2008 : 6:54PM
Uh.. what? You're saying that 'fat chix' would love big dicks more than 'average women'? What is that based on? To my knowledge, bigger women do not generally have bigger vaginas.
Kensington Chapp
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Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Feb 28 2008 : 3:17PM
Maybe not butt they love anything they get
stinkfist
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Subterfuge......
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4/07
Posted - Feb 28 2008 : 9:33PM
Talking rubber dolls..much did that set you back.
BigBoy
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3359 Posts
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Posted - Feb 29 2008 : 1:30AM
GD that was funny.
WardqueenJanine
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2/08
Posted - Feb 29 2008 : 2:57PM
Why souldn't a woman express how she feels about the size of a guys's cock? Those who say that they are afraid they would hurt the ego of a guy...what about the constant conversation about the size of our tits? No problems there guys? Actually there can be "Too much of a good thing" but there really is a minimum before there loses a lack of enjoyment for the woman. Sorry guys but that the truth.
funkysmell42
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2 Posts
3/08
Posted - Mar 23 2008 : 8:48PM
I have a question, I understand that Penis size may be somewhat of a factor, but what I want to know, what do people mean when they say "It's not how big, it's how you use it?"
I don't get the "how you use it" part.
elgringoviejo58
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1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Mar 23 2008 : 9:13PM
Wardqueen Janine-what is your opinion on the relative importance of girth versus length?
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Mar 23 2008 : 9:20PM
This seems self explanatory to me but I'll give it a try. "It's not how big, it's how you use it?" means exactly what it says. It doesn't matter if you have a gigantic penis if you are a lazy (etc. insert sexual shortcoming here) sex partner.
 
WardqueenJanine
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914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 6:35AM
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Wardqueen Janine-what is your opinion on the relative importance of girth versus length?
The equipment has to get the job done! Unless you are a freak most guys are somewhat proportionate. If you're asking my preference of a "Needle dick" over a "Tuna can" I'd have to say neither. I've said on other posts that, since my favorite position is to be on top, I enjoy it when I can feel the dick bottom out on me right against my fornix. Of course it has to be large enough in girth to sufficiently stimulate on the way there! I guess the best summary is that if he's long enough the rest should follow along anyway.
Edited by - WardqueenJanine on 3/24/2008 6:37:04 AM
elgringoviejo58
Senior Member

1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Mar 24 2008 : 8:25PM
Interesting. Thanks for your response. Guess I am old school, as I prefer to be on top.
7_and_a_quarter
Member

163 Posts
10/07
Posted - Mar 25 2008 : 2:37PM
Length-wise, I'm good (I've concluded 7 and 1/4 inches but almost 8 if I measure from the side). I guess I wish I was girth-ier. I'm only 4 and 1/2 around the middle...a little more at the base, which is under average from what I've read. Dammit!
Oh well, makes me look even longer, I guess.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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3/03
Posted - Mar 26 2008 : 2:49AM
^^^
Great user-name for this thread!
pussyluvme
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I love conquistador & wana fuck him in his ass
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12/07
Posted - Apr 20 2008 : 12:32AM
mesmeric
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I hope life isnt a joke, because I dont get it
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5/08
Posted - May 21 2008 : 7:56AM
below is a post from another forum that i posted in response to a number of guys calling another woman on the forum loose and slut just because she stated her preference for a rather large sized penis, it may not all be relevant in this forum especially since most people here seem more mature about the subject but it may have a few good points
No such thing as a slut or a slag, if she has had sex with 2000 men plus who cares so long as she is comfortable who the fuck are you to judge, stop directing your insecurities and anger towards her.
For men please listen no matter how much a woman has sex she doesn't get massively loose, yes there maybe a difference from virginity to experience but the vaginal wall muscles are very strong and maintain a good level of basal tone, the only even which really can change the level of the musculatures basal tone is birth and even after that women can do Kegel's to restores strenght to their pelvic floor muscles and consequently their vaginal wall. At the end of the day every woman is different and they enjoy the penis sizes that they do and in any case legitimate surveys have indicated that 85% of women are very satisfied with their partners penis while 45% of men are dissatisfied with their size, so if you think about who does the problem lie with?
For women, you don't tend to be the greatest estimators of size at the end of the day most of you have never really taken a ruler out and measured a partners penis. Ask many women and they'll say that at some point in their lives they have been with a man who has had a penis of monolithic proportions over 8 inches and some cases over 10 inches, the fact remains though various studies show only 5-10% of men have a penis over 7in in length and this falls to less than 1% for men over 8in in length, while when it comes to girth only 7.5% percent of men have a penis of circumference 5.5in or greater and this falls to 0.5% for men with circumference 6in or greater. So it baffles me how all these women are coming across massively well endowed studs all the time? Is their some kind of hidden phone book for women filled with the numbers of every man with a massive penis? The fact is women when they are sexually satisfied tend to exaggerate the size of there partners penis, mainly due to common misconceptions on average penis sizes which they then further add on to, to describe their partner's member.
The studies of average erect penis length conducted on adult men worldwide included France 16 cm, Italy 16 cm, Mexico 15.9 cm, Germany 14.48 cm, Japan 13.0 cm, United States 12.9 cm, Saudi Arabia 12.4 cm, Brazil 12.4 cm, Greece 12.18 cm, India 10.2 cm and South Korea 9.6 cm. Three major scientific surveys (across all races) where researchers measured the length or male erections themselves suggested that the average length of a male erection was 5.08in (12.9cm), 5.35in (13.6cm) and 5.9in (14.9cm) respectively, so overall a rough average of 5.5in. Erect circumference average is 5in +/- 0.5in.
A good journal article to read on the subject can be found here:
http://dfred.bol.ucla.edu/LeverFrederickPeplau-2006PMM-PenisSizeSatisfaction.pdf
EatOut
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38 Posts
5/08
Posted - May 26 2008 : 11:51AM
Unbelievable! That line of thought ranks right up there with "Any person that doesn't like chocolate ice cream is lying."
Or, "Any person that doesn't like rap music is lying."
It's unbelievable to think that there are people out there who make gross generalizations and then try and sell them to the public. Different strokes for different folks is what' I'm sayin'...
smallcock
Deactivated User

131 Posts
8/07
Posted - Jun 3 2008 : 12:11AM
Wrong. Some generalizations are permissible because they're true. Size does matter to most women. They don't care for gerbil sized cocks. They also typically don't like cocks that are too big/long.
Here's another very valid generalization: almost all of us masturbate.
Horn
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Finland
46 Posts
1/03
Posted - Jun 3 2008 : 7:52AM
Generalizations suck because most of the time they can be found to be lacking of any merit and have little if any relevance to anything.
While it is true that most people might masturbate what does it really tell us? How large a percentage is most people, I mean scientifically speaking 51% qualifies? 51% and you have a majority. How often they masturbate? Do you fall into that category if you have masturbated even once? Or if you haven't but plan to? Boggles the mind doesn't it?
Ok, lets chew on smg4ever's opinion for a while. Because that is what it is, an opinion. It is not a proven scientific fact. It is also pretty pointless because it is nothing more than a blatant generalization that assumes a lot.
What are the facts? Ok, I think it is safe to say that some gals prefer bigger penises. The again some gals don't, they prefer something smaller. Some prefer only ordinary sized penises. Then there are gals that like them big, small and everything in between. Hell, then there are gals that don't even like penetrative sex at all so the merit of a man having one*hell*of*a*huge*penis doesn't matter for them at all. Hmm, does the size of a mans penis matter to lesbians? They happen to be women too.
Just my 2 cents and some food for thought.
7_and_a_quarter
Member

163 Posts
10/07
Posted - Jul 3 2008 : 10:55AM
The overview I get from comments by women is that as long as a man knows how to satisfy them sexually with what they got (using foreplay, taking their time, etc), they don't miss a huge penis. But if they have to put up with your standard "wham, bam, thank you maam" variety fuck, many prefer it be with a large penis.
Of course, I'm generalizing a bit.
 
William Hyde
Member

112 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jul 6 2008 : 5:29AM
Goddamn. This question never fails to crack me up. I mean seriously, who gives a shit? Your dick isn't getting any bigger, so be happy with what ya got. And if it's not big enough for the woman you're with... maybe she needs a tighter pussy.

Edited by - william hyde on 7/6/2008 5:29:54 AM
gainsbarre
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You can be crazy or ugly, but not both.
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6/04
Posted - Jul 6 2008 : 9:57PM
Jeff Garlin and Larry David had this discussion in an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm
Those big vagina ladies are getting away with murder!
Algaliarept
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3557 Posts
7/08
Posted - Jul 10 2008 : 2:43AM
shout out to my 5 1/2 inch brothers out there!!
...yeah baby that's right, hung like a squirrel, come and get it!
___AWWdIsGUY-----
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!!! MAJOR LAZER !!!
191 Posts
3/08
Posted - Jul 11 2008 : 6:58PM
what does it matter in size ?? i mean i dont measure my package i use it and might i add put it to good use too!! hey mine might not be hung like a horse but it does the trick
Algaliarept
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3557 Posts
7/08
Posted - Jul 16 2008 : 2:47AM
I put mine to good use too...sometimes when the batteries are dead, I'll use it in place of my laser pointer.
___AWWdIsGUY-----
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!!! MAJOR LAZER !!!
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3/08
Posted - Jul 16 2008 : 3:09AM
{sigh} i wish i had a laser pointer on mine
JohnW
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6/08
Posted - Jul 19 2008 : 1:10PM
Obviously girls have different tastes in cocks. No big surprise there. As for myself, I think I would be a bit more fun to jerk off with a 8" or 9" as long as it is not semi-soft. Many of the big cocks in porn appear not to get really hard tho. I wouldn't want that. But I think I could have a bit more fun if mine was huge and hard. I would never risk anything to enlarge my current member tho, I'm fine at 6"ish and at least it gets rock hard.
10000 days
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Keep on trolling. What a bullshit! Im fucking unstoppable now ...
717 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 1 2008 : 1:01AM
Considering like 70% of women rarely if ever have orgasms from vaginal sex, I'd wager that your clit manipulation skrillz are more important than your junk when it comes to making your girl cum.
kataboom
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ad astra per aspera
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6/03
Posted - Aug 1 2008 : 11:16AM
lol id be careful about what numbers you believe. %70 seems low to me.
Edited by - kataboom on 8/1/2008 11:17:30 AM
lindi
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12345
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Posted - Aug 1 2008 : 10:49PM
I always do.
But it's generally from grinding, not thrusting.
Big still feels good. Not too big. And not for anal. Overall, I'm good with 6"; that works fine.
Edited by - lindi on 8/1/2008 10:50:01 PM
rough_lover
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36 Posts
8/08
Posted - Aug 20 2008 : 7:54PM
I like it HUGE
starrpowerready
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14 Posts
8/08
Posted - Aug 21 2008 : 8:58PM
I agree big cocks are great and all but I prefer a teeny one for anal...Not that I like anal...I hear anal is better on guys anyways because they have a prostate or whatev...
elgringoviejo58
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1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Aug 21 2008 : 9:36PM
What is your opinion on the relative of importance of girdth vs. width?
starrpowerready
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14 Posts
8/08
Posted - Aug 21 2008 : 9:45PM
Isnt that the same thing???
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
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Posted - Aug 21 2008 : 10:04PM
It terms of dicks I think they are the same thing but for the most the part girth measures around something, like circumference. If you wrapped a tape measure around a tree trunk you would be finding it's girth. But if you measured between it's two widest points straight through you've got width.
jayo All-Star Supporter
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