I have to add something VERY IMPORTANT: There had been a few times in the past,where for unknown reasons to me ,some women turned me on so bad that I did reach the 8" length size ,(my maximum size)having said that,I am pretty sure that my fellow Males know that sometimes We as a Men can reach "Bigger" erections ,depending on the Woman that is having sex with us. Lorenzo.
Sure it does, but there's such a thing as too big for comfort. Anything over 8'' (which I've never even encountered IRL) is too big if one is active during sex and also does anal.
Now stiffness, that counts. 7''-6'' from a guy who knows what's he's doing is perfection vs. a YUGE one who doesn't really get hard enough cuz of too much mass.
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Posted - Sep 21 2023 : 4:45AM
If you believe my opinion, male penis size may have no real physical impact on female sexual satisfaction. There is a very big myth out there that the bigger it is the better it will be when it comes to sex. But studies suggest that it is not at all like that. It is all in the mind! Your brain is your most active sex organ as it is all upto what you believe and imagine.
Thanks for sharing so openly-and so honestly! It's really valuable to hear different perspectives, and you're right that pleasure isn't just about size, but connection, technique, and comfort too. Everyone's preferences and experiences are unique, and it's great that you're clear about what works for you while still being open-minded.
I'm curious to hear what others think too-it's an interesting and important conversation, especially when it comes to understanding each other's needs without judgment. Appreciate your candor!
So in most cases size doesnt really matter that much as long as you're in the average size range. The G Spot is only about 4 inches in. You can hit it with your fingers :) And advise for the guys, when you're fucking your girl. aim for the belly button, that will aim you at the GSpot :)
So for women, I get the big dick attraction. So when this comes up, I throw this out 1 to stir the pot but it is also true. Its not about the size of the dick, its about the size of the pussy. :) Let me tell you gals, your pussies are NOT all the same. Pussies come in all shapes and sizes like dicks. I'm typical average 6" little thicker than avg. So there are pussies that are bigger/looser and there are some that are smaller/tighter. Some are deeper, some are more shallow. And some are wetter than others and that makes as much difference as anything else. I dated a gal for a while who's pussy was SO tight and I mean tight! It was very difficult for my avg to get in. It took a lot of foreplay, a lot of lube and patience on my part. Partly because it hurt her if ya went to fast and it was that tight. Once we got going everything was good but still lol. When she saw my dick the first time she said it was too big! What! Thats something I had never heard and havent heard since LOL I've also had where I liked the person but because she was much bigger inside AND very wet the sex didnt feel very good. So to get off I always went for the Blowjob :)
Anyways, so another thing is how men and women's approach to sex is. Women its more mental than physical, for men its more physical than mental. So how it actually feels is more important for the man. You can stimulate the females brain, for the guy its all about the dick :) So think about how guys and gals masturbate. Guys its the same motion as fucking, stroking the dick like you're fucking. Women dont fuck themselves like that with a toy or dildo, they usually rub their clit, or vibe and clit. So if the gal has a larger pussy and the guy isnt that big it doesnt feel as good for the guy. The other thing is how wet a gal gets. Some not much, some A LOT, too much wetness can take away from the feeling because its too slippery so you dont get as much sensation. And as a gal if you're a little bigger, you probably need a guy thats a little bigger to match. For me and my experiences, I've been around the block a few times, have had sex with young girls older gals, skinny ones, overweight ones, totally hot pretty ones, others not so much, was that sex was almost always great for both of us, size was never an issue. The few times sex was lame was usually due to we just were not on the same page as to what we liked in our sex, not compatible. For the women who want a guy with a big dick, just remember guys want a hot sexy smokin hot bod chick. We cant change the size of our dicks but you can change how you look :)
Always remember what I call the 70/30 rule. Women 70% hear it, 30% see it... Men are the opposite 70% See it, 30% hear it. Women in general are willing to give up a little in the looks department to have a really great guy. Men are willing to give up a little of the mental part to have a hot gorgeous chick. Example you'll see a guy that has a hot as fuck wife/girlfriend but she's a BITCH and he puts up with it to have the hot wife. This is where guys fail. To me, a HOT chick thats a bitch.... is juuust a bitch.
Men, When it comes to sex women are like freight trains, slow to start, takes a little bit to get it moving but once you get it going its hard to stop.... men are like sports cars. So guys your job is to get that train running down the track and then run back and get in your sports car and catch up :)
Absolutely, it matters a little less than face and height, but its very important to women. Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do and watch their reactions.
As a man who is hung bigger than 99.9% of dudes out there --- YES, it does matter.
If might not get you a relationship, but it will get you sex.
Because of evolutionary biology, it's straight men (roughneck dudes, etc.) are totally into my Big Dick -- more than any other group. They want me to have sex with their women all the time, once they see my big dick online, at the urinal, etc. It's insane. I get comments all the time from blue collar boys, etc.
I'm not interested in gay sex, but I appreciate comments from everyone.
I like MFM, or where I can have sex with a woman while men see how hung I am.
I have strong impregnation fantasies, but that's not on-topic here. LOL
Posted - Aug 27 2008 : 7:50PM
Anything over 8'' (which I've never even encountered IRL) is too big if one is active during sex and also does anal.
cuz of too much mass.